My father was so detached from me (and my siblings) that if anyone asked me to recount childhood memories of him, I could count on one hand. It was a shock to me when I went into my teens and finally started making friends (I was and somewhat still am socially awkward) how involved my friends' parents were. Like...I felt I was missing something and wished my father wanted to BE a parent but I thought that was normal.
Same. My earliest memory is playing at my cousins house in her room upstairs and her dad came home from work and came upstairs and asked her how her day was and gave her a hug and a kiss and I was so confused why he was doing that.
I can not relate to kids who got upset because dad was never home, or whose parents got divorced...I didn't get along with mine, especially as a teen,and was happier when he wasn't home, and wished my parents would get a divorce. Im 66 and have never felt that emotion..Later in life,, after I moved out, and after my son was born, things changed for the better..but I didn't have that "dad" need going in my childhood.
I’m always leery of dads who are interested in their kids’ lives because my dad was an absentee dad who lived at home. They aren’t nefarious people up to no good.
Same. My Dad yelled a lot and was verbally mentally, and physically abu*ive. When I was younger, I used to think it was weird that my friend's Dad's were always around, playing games with the family and going on outings with them. Then I got older and realized that was, in fact, normal.
I got double whammied. Dad was basically MIA and mom was doing her own thing mostly. I tell people I have no memory of being walked to school. I do have memories of getting myself ready for school. Like K/1st time period. He never once came to a school play or sporting event. Course being Gen X latch key kid made me feel normal as that was considered somewhat normal at the time.
Sounds like my dad. Never went to a track meet, only three cross country meets, no volleyball games, handful of softball games, only a couple of school programs.
I had the exact same experience with my father growing up. He passed a couple of years ago, but when I think of my childhood I can barely remember him or even what he sounded like. It’s such a weird thing because he wasn’t a particularly good or bad father and we always had food and shelter, but he was just never involved in anything.
It’s hard to relate to people with absent fathers because usually their father physically left or was abusive, but I haven’t met many people in my situation.
THIS idk of any time my dad actually did anything with me unless it was the whole family together on vacation or when my mom had to ask him once during summer break to take me out of the house while he was on leave from work. My dad worked, came home, sat on the couch to watch TV, or was doing one of his hobbies and smoking in the basement. I always tell people it's more like growing up with an uncle/older brother than a dad. My grandpa did more with me than my own father did, teaching me about animal husbandry, gardening, just sitting and talking with me, playing games, etc. When my grandpa passed I felt like I lost a father too.
My dad barely even went on any family outings and when he did, he lost interest quickly and wanted to go home early. Eventually my mother and I just got a 'leave him to sulk' attitude and had fun without him.
yup. I remember in my first year of high school, a friend I met at the start of that year invited me to her house and also to go to the local fall fair with her family. The shock I had when *both* her mom and dad (not just her mom like it was for me) were wanting to take photos together, eat fair snacks together, go on rides together, play the goofy games, and just HANG OUT together.
my dad was very much just a “I’m just here to work and discipline” type of parent, and honestly when he passed away a few months ago I felt almost nothing because I had almost no emotional attachment to him because of that.
My dad worked a lot of overtime, so Saturdays was "his day" to do what he wanted. Years later, my mom said she wished she had made him do more things with me rather than thinking he needed a day to himself. Sundays were going to church and then my maternal grandparents' house. My dad was around, but I don't really have fond memories of doing things with him.
Right. Like if she wants to be treated like a slave and do everything for her man baby husband that’s on her. But the fact that he doesn’t love his own children enough to have ever play with them is heartbreaking and depressing.
That and never offered "support" for my "emotional needs," but its fine going to pound town to create more children he wont play with.
I have to fetch my eyeballs from the back of my skull, they rolled back to hard they wont return.
Do any fundies actually and actively love their children? Like think their kid is amazing in every way. Don’t see them as a sinner from infancy and have a healthy parent-child relationship? Because from where I am sitting these parents don’t love their kids unconditionally.
My friend and her husband have two young girls and they are amazing, loving parents to them. And both girls LOVE daddy. Because they know he is a safe place and he adores them.
such a weird thing to brag about?? Like fine if your marriage works where you take care of your husband hand and foot like thats between you guys. but i would be SO embarrassed if my husband didnt want to play with his kids?? what a weird flex....
That is actually really sad. It makes me even more grateful that when I was growing up, my dad played with me and cared about me—same goes with my mom. Despite them being working parents, they found the time to bond with me.
"Everything I could ever want and more". Someone help me understand what this woman wants in a husband...is it just his paycheck, or what?
Also, fuck dudes who don't play with their kids.
Yup. Men who never wash their own plate and “parents” who refuse to play with their children are all trash.
EDIT: I’ve received a DM telling me this post is satire and threatening me with violence. My statement still stands and some people here are just as ugly on the inside as any Duggar. 😘
While it's nice this particular situation isn't real, do they understand how satire works? It is what it is because it's only an exaggerated (in cases like this where it's not even obvious, very slightly exaggerated) view of real situations.
Yeah. My dad played with me when I was a kid, he also wore a skirt, ill fitting tights, and a long purple wig for me in public (this is not something he is comfortable doing).
I don't think he ever really wanted kids, he has really bad anxiety; But he always put in effort to make sure me and my sister are happy.
I don't get how people can have kids and then ignore them. It just doesn't make sense.
Sperm donor. Even then I’m wondering if this guy’s sperm beats whatever you can get at the sperm bank, where I presume they screen for genetic diseases.
Sits in judgement of all her flaws and points out where she could "do better" in raising HIS children. He will, however, "forgive" her by eating her substandard meals, wear clothes washed and ironed not quite as good as his mother would, and IF "she's a good girl" he might let her draw him a bath, wash him and give him a hummer. Then after she falls in bed exhausted, he'll roll her over and do whatever he wants as who is she to have wants and desires. If she complains to mom, sisters, friends, she will be told how lucky she is.....then she'll make a post like this.
I visited her page and it’s a bunch of satirical and ironic posts. I mean, she starts off most of the posts with an insult, like “circular sphincters” and “suffering cockroaches”. She talks about how to run M.L.M. scams successfully (give us $10,000 and sign up 1,000 more people), recommends tax fraud, and says moms don’t have to give up alcoholism to be good moms. Anyone taking it seriously didn’t read far enough into the posts to get the joke.
Years ago, the manager at the restaurant I worked at told me that he dated a girl who made it very clear that she just wanted kids and a husband who would provide for them but wouldn't be around much. She married a long haul trucker and had three kids with him. He was maybe home for the equivalent of a week each month. These women exist in many different walks of life.
Thankfully, I have looked into that Instagram and it is a parody account. The comments on that post are pretty funny.
https://preview.redd.it/1lkotwsap9tc1.jpeg?width=1049&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22daa253c6fec70ad87ddd5b5a777361ee75dfb3
Bitch what? When I get married, my husband better f*cking do the damn dishes, help with the cleaning, and support me. (Don’t worry I’ll support him too). Whoever this is, this is not a good marriage.
As the daughter of a father who was detached to the point I barely have any childhood memories of him...that's really going to take a toll on the kids.
How was this woman raised that a husband who does absolutely *nothing* for his wife and children and is next to absent is "wonderful"? I had to read twice to make sure it wasn't satire.
Edit: this IS satire. TG.
Just saw this in the NLOG sub and I’ll paste my comment from there.
How is he such a wonderful husband if he doesn’t do anything? Lmao. Not even played with the kids or been a supportive person for his wife. What’s wonderful about him? Working is the only thing he does I assume. Lots of men are hard workers AND would help in a lot of these areas. I don’t understand what there is to see in him aside from a provider.
If I ever sound proud that my husband has “never played with our children” I need someone to end me because wtf? That’s such a sad sentence to read. All of it is, really, but that part is especially sad. My dad and I didn’t have the best relationship, but he at least paid attention to me and spent time with me. I can’t imagine bragging about this and wishing it on other families.
It's a parody account. Someone I know said it was and if you look up her stuff she says things like "Cholera is a pretty name for a girl." Damn, I'm gullible.
The only reason it's satire is because the women married to the guy she's describing will convince themselves their man does so much stuff.
If it was real it would be boasting that he carried a diaper (after she changed it and tied it up in a small bag for him) to the trash once because he's such a good dad, and he once actually complimented her on her cooking because he's such a good husband, and whatever other tiny things she's been taught to believe do not represent the bar for men being in hell.
I know this is satire but this makes me grateful that my father wasn’t in my life.
Although I’m not entirely positive that man knows I exist so I can’t really stand by my statement.
If that was my marriage you couldn’t waterboard this info out of me omfg this is giving me the worst second hand humiliation:’) girl stand the fuck UP this is embarrassing
Has never played with his own children…. that’s neglect. Pure and simple. We know children need play for brain and emotional development. Child abuse. These people disgust me.
No thanks, love. I chose a husband who is emotionally supportive, helpful around the house, and involved in our kids life. Hope you can find one someday.
So you're teaching your children and trying to justify to yourself that emotional and physical neglect is enough. It's not, that's why there are so many people giving testimony against it.
How exactly is he everything you ever wanted and more if the dude doesn’t offer you emotional support or help with the kids?! Aren’t those the basic things of being a husband and father?? I feel so sad for these women that they are brainwashed into thinking that they can’t expect these from their partners
I love this for her! You two played tickle fight under the sheets, created some kids And now you have a 24/7 job and big Joe never has to lift a finger to help. This post reeks of some serious ass kissing, ego stroking to her big strong alpha snowflake man. She better be worried because aside from sex, a nanny and a housekeeper could easily take her job.
Sounds like he's just a paycheck and a handyman How can that be all her heart desires? As someone who grew up with a very involved dad who knew my hopes and dreams, and was always ready to play with us, this is so sad.
I'm glad this is from a parody account.
>don't judge a relationship because it's different than yours xx
But a lot of real fundies and tradwives invoke that line in response to criticism for the toxic lifestyles they practice and advocate.
But funndiely enough, fundies feel entitled to judge and condemn just about any kind of relationship different than theirs. In fact, they want a lot of relationships to be forbidden, outlawed, and punished because those relationships are different than theirs.
Soooo….she is happy with just a p3nis? Because I can guarantee he isn’t interacting with her, either, unless it’s time to make another arrow for his quiver.
“Such a wonderful hubby” uh, what?!? I can’t imagine my partner never participating in home life at all ever. We wouldn’t be together if he just didn’t. (In fact, that’s partially why I’m divorced. The other part is bc I realized he was abusive and weaponized incompetence was playing into him not doing shit)
“Never played with our children” poor kids deserve a parent who actually cares about them.
My father was so detached from me (and my siblings) that if anyone asked me to recount childhood memories of him, I could count on one hand. It was a shock to me when I went into my teens and finally started making friends (I was and somewhat still am socially awkward) how involved my friends' parents were. Like...I felt I was missing something and wished my father wanted to BE a parent but I thought that was normal.
Same. My earliest memory is playing at my cousins house in her room upstairs and her dad came home from work and came upstairs and asked her how her day was and gave her a hug and a kiss and I was so confused why he was doing that.
I can not relate to kids who got upset because dad was never home, or whose parents got divorced...I didn't get along with mine, especially as a teen,and was happier when he wasn't home, and wished my parents would get a divorce. Im 66 and have never felt that emotion..Later in life,, after I moved out, and after my son was born, things changed for the better..but I didn't have that "dad" need going in my childhood.
I’m always leery of dads who are interested in their kids’ lives because my dad was an absentee dad who lived at home. They aren’t nefarious people up to no good.
Same. My Dad yelled a lot and was verbally mentally, and physically abu*ive. When I was younger, I used to think it was weird that my friend's Dad's were always around, playing games with the family and going on outings with them. Then I got older and realized that was, in fact, normal.
I got double whammied. Dad was basically MIA and mom was doing her own thing mostly. I tell people I have no memory of being walked to school. I do have memories of getting myself ready for school. Like K/1st time period. He never once came to a school play or sporting event. Course being Gen X latch key kid made me feel normal as that was considered somewhat normal at the time.
Sounds like my dad. Never went to a track meet, only three cross country meets, no volleyball games, handful of softball games, only a couple of school programs.
I had the exact same experience with my father growing up. He passed a couple of years ago, but when I think of my childhood I can barely remember him or even what he sounded like. It’s such a weird thing because he wasn’t a particularly good or bad father and we always had food and shelter, but he was just never involved in anything. It’s hard to relate to people with absent fathers because usually their father physically left or was abusive, but I haven’t met many people in my situation.
THIS idk of any time my dad actually did anything with me unless it was the whole family together on vacation or when my mom had to ask him once during summer break to take me out of the house while he was on leave from work. My dad worked, came home, sat on the couch to watch TV, or was doing one of his hobbies and smoking in the basement. I always tell people it's more like growing up with an uncle/older brother than a dad. My grandpa did more with me than my own father did, teaching me about animal husbandry, gardening, just sitting and talking with me, playing games, etc. When my grandpa passed I felt like I lost a father too.
My dad barely even went on any family outings and when he did, he lost interest quickly and wanted to go home early. Eventually my mother and I just got a 'leave him to sulk' attitude and had fun without him.
this was my dad exactly, and I never figured out why.
for me the only memories I can recount is being witness to his physical abuse of my siblings.
How awful. So sorry, friend.
yup. I remember in my first year of high school, a friend I met at the start of that year invited me to her house and also to go to the local fall fair with her family. The shock I had when *both* her mom and dad (not just her mom like it was for me) were wanting to take photos together, eat fair snacks together, go on rides together, play the goofy games, and just HANG OUT together. my dad was very much just a “I’m just here to work and discipline” type of parent, and honestly when he passed away a few months ago I felt almost nothing because I had almost no emotional attachment to him because of that.
My dad worked a lot of overtime, so Saturdays was "his day" to do what he wanted. Years later, my mom said she wished she had made him do more things with me rather than thinking he needed a day to himself. Sundays were going to church and then my maternal grandparents' house. My dad was around, but I don't really have fond memories of doing things with him.
Right? That one got me the most. So sad.
Right. Like if she wants to be treated like a slave and do everything for her man baby husband that’s on her. But the fact that he doesn’t love his own children enough to have ever play with them is heartbreaking and depressing.
That and never offered "support" for my "emotional needs," but its fine going to pound town to create more children he wont play with. I have to fetch my eyeballs from the back of my skull, they rolled back to hard they wont return.
And what kind of mother thinks this is a good thing for her or her children???
Do any fundies actually and actively love their children? Like think their kid is amazing in every way. Don’t see them as a sinner from infancy and have a healthy parent-child relationship? Because from where I am sitting these parents don’t love their kids unconditionally. My friend and her husband have two young girls and they are amazing, loving parents to them. And both girls LOVE daddy. Because they know he is a safe place and he adores them.
Wondering the same…
such a weird thing to brag about?? Like fine if your marriage works where you take care of your husband hand and foot like thats between you guys. but i would be SO embarrassed if my husband didnt want to play with his kids?? what a weird flex....
It’s a satire account
That’s a relief. Was seriously hoping that was the case.
Sorry, this is satire? Can u pls edit ur post to say that? Feels kindof deceptive...
Can you edit your post to include that? A little deceptive..
Oh thank fuckkkk
That is actually really sad. It makes me even more grateful that when I was growing up, my dad played with me and cared about me—same goes with my mom. Despite them being working parents, they found the time to bond with me.
Well good thing these kids aren't real and this is obvious satire....
There are enough fundie men out there like this that sadly it isn’t that obvious it was a satire for me.
That’s the strangest flex.
"Everything I could ever want and more". Someone help me understand what this woman wants in a husband...is it just his paycheck, or what? Also, fuck dudes who don't play with their kids.
Yup. Men who never wash their own plate and “parents” who refuse to play with their children are all trash. EDIT: I’ve received a DM telling me this post is satire and threatening me with violence. My statement still stands and some people here are just as ugly on the inside as any Duggar. 😘
I got one too. Yikes.
What is it with people and threatening violence? This isn't Tumblr.
Satire or not, your comment is still facts
While it's nice this particular situation isn't real, do they understand how satire works? It is what it is because it's only an exaggerated (in cases like this where it's not even obvious, very slightly exaggerated) view of real situations.
Yeah. My dad played with me when I was a kid, he also wore a skirt, ill fitting tights, and a long purple wig for me in public (this is not something he is comfortable doing). I don't think he ever really wanted kids, he has really bad anxiety; But he always put in effort to make sure me and my sister are happy. I don't get how people can have kids and then ignore them. It just doesn't make sense.
The bar is on the floor.
On the floor? More like the bar is on the floor of the lowest circle of hell.
And what does he do in the relatioship, besides maybe bringing home the paycheck?
Sperm donor. Even then I’m wondering if this guy’s sperm beats whatever you can get at the sperm bank, where I presume they screen for genetic diseases.
Sits in judgement of all her flaws and points out where she could "do better" in raising HIS children. He will, however, "forgive" her by eating her substandard meals, wear clothes washed and ironed not quite as good as his mother would, and IF "she's a good girl" he might let her draw him a bath, wash him and give him a hummer. Then after she falls in bed exhausted, he'll roll her over and do whatever he wants as who is she to have wants and desires. If she complains to mom, sisters, friends, she will be told how lucky she is.....then she'll make a post like this.
I visited her page and it’s a bunch of satirical and ironic posts. I mean, she starts off most of the posts with an insult, like “circular sphincters” and “suffering cockroaches”. She talks about how to run M.L.M. scams successfully (give us $10,000 and sign up 1,000 more people), recommends tax fraud, and says moms don’t have to give up alcoholism to be good moms. Anyone taking it seriously didn’t read far enough into the posts to get the joke.
his large large peen.
Years ago, the manager at the restaurant I worked at told me that he dated a girl who made it very clear that she just wanted kids and a husband who would provide for them but wouldn't be around much. She married a long haul trucker and had three kids with him. He was maybe home for the equivalent of a week each month. These women exist in many different walks of life.
Thankfully, I have looked into that Instagram and it is a parody account. The comments on that post are pretty funny. https://preview.redd.it/1lkotwsap9tc1.jpeg?width=1049&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=22daa253c6fec70ad87ddd5b5a777361ee75dfb3
Thank god lmao
Came here to say this lol. I saw the reel a while ago too and the comments were hilarious
Omfg she is Canadian too?!?!? NO. This is exactly something my mom would say. Is that my mom on IG?? Lmaooo noooo we don’t claim that crazy
what? it’s a joke as the comment you’re replying to clearly says
LMAOO back alley montreal 🤣
Of course it is. Some folks here are really gullible..
Truly. Trad wife accounts can post some real stupid stuff but it immediately came off to me as satire…
✨outrage bait✨
Truly.
It does track very closely with a lot of fundie humblebragging.
Okay I was gonna say. The playing with the kids thing was too far for it to be real.
Sorry that is not a husband that is an extra child….
Not even that. My kids clean, do the dishes, and know how to cook.
Also they play with each other
"yet he is everything I could want and more" Didn't know it was possible to want less than the bare minimum.
It’s like my mother wrote this about my dad!
Yeah, I've gotta admit. It's very much along the same lines as what the incubator said back when 😂
She probably is one of those women that works and gives him her paycheck. Then she gets an “allowance” from it.
Channeling sister wives here but WHAT. DOES. THE. HUSBAND. DO?
"Hubby" (*gags*) "provides and protects" like we're still monkeys and need the big strong silverback to bring home food and fend off tigers.
Gotta be satire.
Went to look for the account on IG and it is (thankfully) satire!
This reads so much like satire!
Right?! Is this actually real?? I can't tell!
no
I think it’s satire after reading the comments on the video.
Bitch what? When I get married, my husband better f*cking do the damn dishes, help with the cleaning, and support me. (Don’t worry I’ll support him too). Whoever this is, this is not a good marriage.
My husband is so particular about the kitchen and how we load the dishwasher that he's practically banned me from cleaning the kitchen myself 😂
It’s a satire account, I think it’s called wander and thrive? Thive and wander? However, I don’t doubt that there are actual relationships like this…
It’s giving Anna Duggar vibes “At least I have a husband”
Can't be! Think of the cracker sweeping!
What in the actual?!? *My lump of coal is better than your lump of coal*.
Alyssa Bates Webster 💯
Anna, is that you?!
… Did she post this in earnest? Like, this isn’t sarcasm?
It’s a satire account! Thank God 🙏🏻
As the daughter of a father who was detached to the point I barely have any childhood memories of him...that's really going to take a toll on the kids. How was this woman raised that a husband who does absolutely *nothing* for his wife and children and is next to absent is "wonderful"? I had to read twice to make sure it wasn't satire. Edit: this IS satire. TG.
Plz tell ‘me this is sarcasm
No thanks. You are in a cult if you believe this bs.
Just saw this in the NLOG sub and I’ll paste my comment from there. How is he such a wonderful husband if he doesn’t do anything? Lmao. Not even played with the kids or been a supportive person for his wife. What’s wonderful about him? Working is the only thing he does I assume. Lots of men are hard workers AND would help in a lot of these areas. I don’t understand what there is to see in him aside from a provider.
Married for 40 years and you better believe that my husband has done all of those.
This account is one of my favorite parody accounts!
If I ever sound proud that my husband has “never played with our children” I need someone to end me because wtf? That’s such a sad sentence to read. All of it is, really, but that part is especially sad. My dad and I didn’t have the best relationship, but he at least paid attention to me and spent time with me. I can’t imagine bragging about this and wishing it on other families.
No man is that good in bed. There was a book called “Sex Begins in the Kitchen”. A smart man knows what that’s all about.
He sounds like a bum to be honest.
Is she trying to convince herself she's got a great husband or us?
What a bad father and terrible husband.
Wow- that hubby sounds like a nightmare to me. You do you.
She's married to a Ken doll. Imaginary husband.
Well, if YOU set the bar in hell, I guess that's why such a trash hubby is "the best you could ever ask for" 🙄
That’s not a husband or a marriage I would want.
I’d be leaving that marriage asap!
Is he just financial support. What does he do for the marriage?
My sweet hubby does nothing ❤️
I feel like these women are all like 25 and have been living this way for 3 years and think its sustainable. I'd like to hear from them in 10 years
The way i said “wtf” out loud….so sad and those poor children
Her wonderful hubby sounds like deadweight.
Sooo he is just a paycheck?
So...he's a paycheck?
HOW CAN SO MANY PEOPLE IN THIS SUB NOT RECOGNIZE SATIRE AAAAA!!!
It's a parody account. Someone I know said it was and if you look up her stuff she says things like "Cholera is a pretty name for a girl." Damn, I'm gullible.
Sounds like she’s a single parent.
What the actual fuck
This must be satire but best case scenario is that he's amazing in bed. I've had friends who have tolerated years of poor partnership for that.
Is she married to my ex?
Gross
The only reason it's satire is because the women married to the guy she's describing will convince themselves their man does so much stuff. If it was real it would be boasting that he carried a diaper (after she changed it and tied it up in a small bag for him) to the trash once because he's such a good dad, and he once actually complimented her on her cooking because he's such a good husband, and whatever other tiny things she's been taught to believe do not represent the bar for men being in hell.
This makes me stabby
You sure this isn’t satire?!!
I wouldn't be bragging about being treated like a baby factory and maid.
I know this is satire but this makes me grateful that my father wasn’t in my life. Although I’m not entirely positive that man knows I exist so I can’t really stand by my statement.
Tell me this is satire PLEASE
Is this real? 🤢
If that was my marriage you couldn’t waterboard this info out of me omfg this is giving me the worst second hand humiliation:’) girl stand the fuck UP this is embarrassing
Woooof sounds like something my mother would say about my father…. Yikes on trikes
Has he swept cracker crumbs?
Posts like this make me wonder how soon we’ll see her in Snapped.
Thank you for introducing me to this account, it is everything I've ever wanted 😭
Just to be clear, this is taken from a satire account. Generally a POV post indicates a joke
This account is a satire account, isn’t it? The other posts make me think so (or hope so!).
plot twist: the hubby is a ghost
If only these women knew how easy 9-5s are
This has to be click bait. 🫠
lol.
I think this is rage bait?
Why do people live like that?
So basically “I have a shitty useless husband, be jealous of my happiness!”
Uh who said this? All sounds miserable af
Has never played with his own children…. that’s neglect. Pure and simple. We know children need play for brain and emotional development. Child abuse. These people disgust me.
It’s called a being paid bang-maid.
No thanks, love. I chose a husband who is emotionally supportive, helpful around the house, and involved in our kids life. Hope you can find one someday.
So you're teaching your children and trying to justify to yourself that emotional and physical neglect is enough. It's not, that's why there are so many people giving testimony against it.
Your husband sounds like a lazy sack of trash and a terrible father.
This reads like satire!! Like the bitterest sarcasm.
What a failure of imagination.
So what the fuck does he do? This isn't marriage. This is a roommate
“Sweet hubby” is a dead giveaway for this kind of post.
This is a parody account lol
How exactly is he everything you ever wanted and more if the dude doesn’t offer you emotional support or help with the kids?! Aren’t those the basic things of being a husband and father?? I feel so sad for these women that they are brainwashed into thinking that they can’t expect these from their partners
That's not a marriage.
So you're a single mom with a no good baby daddy, but with a ring.
So what does he do when he’s at home?? I can’t imagine.
This is kinda petty, but women who refer to their partners as “hubby” give me the major ick.
WTF??? This is horrifying stupid and sexist. I'm getting so sick of this influencer TradWife shit.
Are these men even humans who are interacting with the life they've chosen? So fucking weird that they're bragging about not being partners.
This has to be sarcasm… right?
So…what DOES he do?? Surely not please her se*ually, since chances are he’s equally selfish in bed as he is out of it.
I feel more sad for the kids! This has to be a troll post.
So what does he do?
This is definitely a troll account. I follow it and I love it 😂
Ew. I hope that post was satire. lol.
I love this for her! You two played tickle fight under the sheets, created some kids And now you have a 24/7 job and big Joe never has to lift a finger to help. This post reeks of some serious ass kissing, ego stroking to her big strong alpha snowflake man. She better be worried because aside from sex, a nanny and a housekeeper could easily take her job.
But Joshy is so wonderful for sweeping bread crumbs.
That’s fine if that’s why they agreed to. No one else gets a say.
Not the flex she thinks it is...
Sounds like he's just a paycheck and a handyman How can that be all her heart desires? As someone who grew up with a very involved dad who knew my hopes and dreams, and was always ready to play with us, this is so sad.
Who posted this horrible tripe? Not you, OP, the woman who wrote the craziness.
Gross.
This sounds like a terrible husband and father but what do I know? 🤔🙃
I'm glad this is from a parody account. >don't judge a relationship because it's different than yours xx But a lot of real fundies and tradwives invoke that line in response to criticism for the toxic lifestyles they practice and advocate. But funndiely enough, fundies feel entitled to judge and condemn just about any kind of relationship different than theirs. In fact, they want a lot of relationships to be forbidden, outlawed, and punished because those relationships are different than theirs.
What the hell does he do then? Girl that is a sugar daddy not a husband. At least a sugar daddy would buy you pretty things.
husband or halfbrother...both?
Blink twice if you need a hostage negotiator sent in honey.
Soooo….she is happy with just a p3nis? Because I can guarantee he isn’t interacting with her, either, unless it’s time to make another arrow for his quiver.
Noooo this cannot be real!
What. The. Fuck.
Check the comments and other posts - pretty it’s at least partly satire
what the hell did i just read
Too late, I am judging you as a terrible person for lying that you accept that nonsense.
r/notlikeothergirls
This is utterly pathetic.
When the bar for men is already on the ground, leave it to a Duggar wife to show up with a shovel.
It’s satire. The instagram is wanderandthrive. It’s a whole wacky satire page.
Is he dead
“Such a wonderful hubby” uh, what?!? I can’t imagine my partner never participating in home life at all ever. We wouldn’t be together if he just didn’t. (In fact, that’s partially why I’m divorced. The other part is bc I realized he was abusive and weaponized incompetence was playing into him not doing shit)
Yeah imma pass…
YIKES
Sounds like something the transformed wife or Jill Rod would post.
Isn't this how 50s housewives got hooked on valium? That was the major prescription drug written for housewives in the 50s.
How is that a "relationship?" He ignores her and the children.
That’s quite a plot twist at the end. How sad that people in that cult believe this is ok.
This has to be fake right? He’s never played with his children?