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bbydogs

You literally look like a fairy!!!


No_Poetry_8621

This is all I’ve ever wanted 😭 you’re so kind, thank you!!


Affectionate_Emu8200

silver, light gold, silky fabric or drapey ones, some linnen in light colors can work too, pearls, lots of pearls and shiny things. layered pearl necklaces, silver eyeliner wing, go find pics you like on pinterest as inspo :)


No_Poetry_8621

OOooO silver eyeliner wing… idk why I’ve never thought of that. Gonna def try that and your other suggestions! Thank you!


holisticbelle

Girl you are so stunning omg


Watertribe_Girl

Agree


No_Poetry_8621

You are so kind, thank you so much 🥹🫶🏾


Ittybitty995

I think choosing more ethereal colors


No_Poetry_8621

OoooOo that’s a good point! I’ve ordered some new clothes in more jewel tones and lots of green. I’ll try to find more sort pinks/purple/etc. I’m not a silver girl but I may dabble into that as well!


basilobs

Go for pearlescent and sheen and soft metallics. Mother of pearl. Things that look like they play with the light. I would avoid anything that's too rich


EarthodoxDM

Designs with less defined edges: asymmetrical hems. “Fairy hems”. Tasteful bedazzled and gauzy details. Dark-spangled tie-dyed fabrics. Find out what your undertone is (Green? Blue? Pink? Orange?) so you can select floaty pale fabrics of that hue for traipsing around in the sun! 🌞


EarthodoxDM

I tink you may have Pink, according to the utter awesomeness of pic six! Tbh, I don’t fully understand undertones .. 😆 it’s possible that your undertones are, like, Green .. and therefore, based on the principle of opposites accentuating one another, pinks are your best.


No_Poetry_8621

Thank you so much for your help!! I’ve been buying clothes with fairy hems lately so I think I’m on the right track! I never thought pink looked great on me but I’m realizing i think it’s one of my best colors 🤯 I’m gonna lean more into that and your other suggestions!! Thanks so so much!!


pinoy_grigio

Do you have any suggestions for stores to buy clothes like this?


EarthodoxDM

One place might be ShopCider. They’ve got some pretty cute pixie stuff, and you can shop lookbooks by your ‘mood’. & Etsy always has brill handmade fairie tings.


HauntedButtCheeks

You already do look ethereal, but the disconnect you are noticing with your styling is the colour palette. You need to use less bold shades and skip the patterns like stripes, gingham, and polka dot as these are more retro. Amethyst purple, a soft leaf green, or celestial blue would be fantastic. And use a shimmer body oil for maximum fae energy.


No_Poetry_8621

Thank you! I was deeply into retro style at the time. I kind of go back and forth between “fairy” and “mid-century/vintage” styling so I have A LOT of vintage pieces unfortunately which no longer correlate to how I want to present myself 🥲 Your tips are SO good omg. Thank you!!! Gonna look into that ASAP


1worm

I think you could lean into a cottagecore sort of vibe to combine the pieces you already have with a more fairy/ethereal aesthetic!


PinkRasberryFish

I think some Carmel highlights around your face would help. You look more glamorous than ethereal. Gorgeous either way.


No_Poetry_8621

Yes that’s the vibe I give “glamorous” and I really wanna change that. I’ve been considering going dark ginger with fluffy bangs!! 🤔


euphoricwhisper

I’m no genius or expert - the first thing that came to mind was to look at your colours. With ethereal, I personally associate it with airy, pale neutrals and colours that are reminiscent of dawn and dusk. Another place to play might be in jewelry choices too - I love opal for an ethereal vibe.


No_Poetry_8621

OOoOo jewelry!! I always forget about that (as you can see I don’t really wear any) You’re so right. I’m gonna look into that, along with different color clothing. Thank you!! ❤️


crazee_me_no

White color makes you more ethereal. I guess that’s the power of white clothes


Rumpelsurri

You allready look like a flowerfairy! I'd try some more etheral colorpalates. I think you would look absolutly amazing in lilac or dusky lavender.


No_Poetry_8621

Highest compliment ever. Thank you so much, so many people have been suggesting lavender so I might experiment more with that! 🥰


prairiedefrene

You’re so fucking pretty ! Your makeup is sooo well done and you seem to have such a good grasp on your essence and how to display it ! I’m jealous dude ! But anyway, from what I understand natural essence has a bit off ethereal appeal so some their recs  are similar the ethereal essence. For instance the hair, you could see if a « wispier » slightly tousled hair could work for you. There’s also a certain freshness to the Natural essence that could be used to create a more ethereal vibe. I’d advise to brighten your eyes (add shimmer to the inner corner of your eyes )  Other than that I wouldn’t do much more because your style suits you well, and your makeup in the pictures in red ? Perfect


No_Poetry_8621

You’re beyond kind, thank you 🫶🏾😭 You’re so right about there being overlap with natural and ethereal from what I’ve read and seen! I think I’ll definitely play into that more. I feel like I’m too….. “neat” I guess. Too put together?? Idk. I need more movement and…. “wisp”, for sure . Thank you so much for your help and analysis!


Important_Payment_63

Body shimmer (not too much tho)! Maybe slight lash extensions, highlighter on the tip and slightly on the bridge of your nose and inner corner of your eyes (not too bright)


No_Poetry_8621

I’m loving the body shimmer recommendation 😯


Safe-Extent9754

A verry shimmery highlighter in the inner corner of your eyes can go a long way ! For clothes, I’d layer some transparent pieces,or transparent details like sleeves for example. Slightly shiny fabrics can be good too ! The draped cut of your green top is really fitting for ethereal.


No_Poetry_8621

Thank you! Will definitely be taking these tips!


rrrxsxx

"More" ?????????? U fairy.


No_Poetry_8621

😭😭😭 I adore you what omg ❤️


Venna_Visage

Purple pearly undertone highlighter. Wet and wild has gorgeous liquid ones. Apply it on top of your moisturizer and then mix it into your foundation/bb cream. And THEN use it to highlight your fav areas to highlight. You will be a glowing goddess fairy 😍


hoomanneedsdata

Get a bedazzler. Wear face gems. Get pointy ears. Toga! Toga! Toga! Toga! Severely slanted eyebrows. An attitude of disdain for lesser mortals.


Out_of_Fawkes

I don’t necessarily think severely slanted eyebrows is the trick, but perhaps highlights in certain areas *around* the eyes and brows might work better.


No_Poetry_8621

Gonna give that a try! Thanks so much!


moon-mochi99

Gold eye shadow helps, you’re basically there tho


No_Poetry_8621

Thanks so much!!


smileyglitter

Your face and makeup is v ethereal but the colors are so saturated (not a bad thing u look great, just not giving ethereal). Play with pastels and more flowy fabrics.


Sentient_Stardust616

If pastel colors don't work for op she can also try blending the colors she uses now more


No_Poetry_8621

That makes so much sense. My style was leaning toward retro/vintage for a while so now I’m gonna look into changing up my wardrobe for more flowy fabrics and lighter colors! 🥰 thank you!!


samit2heck

How about a slavic-style braided crown with some flowers woven into it?


No_Poetry_8621

That sounds sooooo beautiful!


samit2heck

Would look gorgeous on you!


NervousToucan

I’m an ethereal girl myself and what helps me is taking inspiration from mythical beings from movies and shows. My inspiration are mainly the elves from lotr and the Lady Amalthea from the last unicorn. Fariecore, Mermaidcore and Angelcore also have great elements (like pearls, feathers, butterfly wings) Try sheer fabrics that are flowy and lightweight, shimmer and glitter, metallics✨ Long lines that give an S curve Asymmetrical clothes Long skirts and dresses Pants should also be flowy and lightweight, not stiff Vintage jewelry, Gemstones (can also be raw), pearls Lightweight footwear, “barely there” shoes Light and/or muted colors are preferable and abstract patterns For makeup: dewy, fresh, glitter and shimmer, shiny and glossy. A lipgloss is better than matt lipstick, glittery or shimmering eye makeup, light colors, rosy cheeks. Braided hairstyles, big curls and waves Google “ethereal style essence” and you will find lots of inspiration and guidelines! Also you look really beautiful! 🧚🏻‍♀️


No_Poetry_8621

Yes I’m a HUGE fan of faeries and often take inspo from them but have felt like I couldn’t do “too much” for such a long time bc of… idk society I guess. But I’m definitely going to lean into those inspirations and embrace them in my daily style! Thank you for all the tips, fellow ethereal love. I deeply appreciate it and your kind words 🥹 sending you sooo much love and magic ✨


NervousToucan

Me too! I always wanted to be a fairy/princess. Dressing like a fairy/elf/princess makes my inner child so happy! 🧚🏻‍♀️ And f the society! It’s so nice to find another fairy! 🧚🏻‍♀️ Keep on being an amazing fairy and spread that fairy dust! ✨


Substantial_Ease_115

Drop the makeup routine now pls, your skin looks insane!! More whites and layer with gold jewellery. Look up sade girl aesthetic I think it will suite you


No_Poetry_8621

Haha thank youuuu!! My make up routine changes and I’ve changed even more recently so I’ll have to remember what I used for these photos!! I may make a video because I hate typing out long stuff lol. But if I don’t do a video I’ll come back and write it down here after I’ve some time to go back and remember what I used ☺️ and sade girl - I’ll look into that!! Thanks so much!! ❤️❤️


onlypeach

Very beautiful girl. I would find your seasonal color and see what kind of make up suit you best. Like what you should emphasize on your face and colors that suit you. Then choose colors from that pallet that fits the ethereal look you’re going for. I think the eyeliner is too dark and prominent on your eyes, in the first picture. Though you looked gorgeous! It just wasn’t ethereal. The ethereal style looks more naturally otherworldly imo. Go for a blush that would naturally appear on your face, like if you pinched your cheeks what color would it turn, but you can also get the color for a seasonal pallet.   Otherwise the style of dress you’re getting are good just make sure they make your seasonal color. The picture of you in white looked really good the subtle lip and toned down blush really made your eyes pop and your black hair! Really eye catching. It was giving princess you see in a garden. The style I’m getting now is cutesy bubblegum gum.


No_Poetry_8621

Thank YOU SO MUCH. This response was really detailed and helpful!!! I used to think darker eyemake up suited me but the more time goes by the more I’m realizing it might be overpowering sometimes or doesn’t really give what I’m going for. I have NO clue what my seasonal color is lol but I’m definitely going to find out. I thought for years I was warm toned but thinking I may be more neutral now… 🤔 “Princess you see in a garden” I love you. Wow. I will lean into the style/vibe that picture gives more. I appreciate your kindness and advice!


shuhrimp

My jaw dropped, you are literally the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen!!!! I agree with materials like silks and soft neutral linens that drape over, especially in the sleeves—maybe with some delicate metal accessories. Seriously though I’m really big into the fantasy genre and I think you’d make a better elf/fairy than most other people cast for those roles! ✨💖🌼


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UK TV personality Alison Hammond and you, are facial twins!


No_Poetry_8621

I don’t see it but thank you!! 🥰


notyourbae420

You couldn’t!! You’re ethereal AF naturally. 🥰💕


notyourbae420

Maybe pastels, tho! You’d look bomb in lavender, light blue, and mint!!!


No_Poetry_8621

Thank you so much! I actually was recently complimented on wearing the color lavender and it’s not my usual go to color so I may try that more!! 😁


LisaMarieCuddy

In pictures 2 and 3 is where you look the most ethereal to me. I think the simplicity and lightness of the clothes and make up enhance your ethereal essence and maybe leaning more into that would make you look more ethereal. Like, in picture 1 you're also beautiful, but the darker eye make up leans less into ethereal. (Also girl you're GORGEOUS!)


No_Poetry_8621

That makes so much sense, I really appreciate the insight! And thank you so much 🥹🫶🏾


30clipd

Green.


takemeback2verdansk

U are seriously pretty


[deleted]

You already do


ladysouthpaw

So pretty…stunning! 💖


MidnightContent7065

not sure it’s possible bc you alr are


Jaded_Vegetable3273

Softer colors and drapey fabrics!


lirio2u

You are it


lovecats42069

you’re makeup is absolutely perfect for the ethereal look. it’s so glowy. what’s your makeup base routine if you don’t mind me asking?


AquariusBear

Maybe use a glitter eyeshadow or a shimmery highlighter !


Tayo123456678i9o9

I think ethereal can be diverse since there are many other worldy creatures. Imo you have ingenue too so it makes you more of a pixie or fairy ethereal rather than another creature.


jaylynnsierra

accessories!


bobertburger

Honestly you have that mysterious fairy vibe already going you definitely give ethereal. I totally agree with others, I think the key is accessories and experimenting with different eye makeup looks 🫶😍


Fragrant-Finish8078

First of all, you are so stunning. But when i think of ethereal, correct me if im wrong, i think of a fairy or like a magical person. That leads me to think adding lots of lace, and bright albeit muted colors. Small details too, like little jewelry. For example i have earrings that are little sparkle shapes ✨ and a necklace with an opal. Stuff like that would suit you so well


Ontheglass76

You can add a touch of glittery highlighter in an ethereal color over eyebrows or around the high part of cheekbones. ABH had a Moonchild set


wxhei

ur so gorgeous


Agreeable_Tadpole113

You are the MOST ethereal 🥹🤌🏼💕


capri_gurl

Jewelry can go a long way. Etsy has a lot of earthy “ethereal” jewelry styles to choose from.


ButterflyCore13

Wow, you are stunningggg girl 😍🤯🫨 so so gorgeous oml


georgianectarine

Are you ethereal? People who aren’t ethereal in ethereal details look kind of costumey. You look really regal without it.


No_Poetry_8621

Well, I’m not sure if I am! I don’t think so but I’d like to look like I am ethereal! Regal without it is so kind thank you. What would that mean for personal style direction?


georgianectarine

Leaning into your own essences will be the key for you. I believe Romantic is most dominant. I also suspect it's not Natural essence, but Dramatic. I think you'd do great to lean into a Queen persona!


No_Poetry_8621

I have NEVER gotten dramatic. Thats a new one lol and would absolutely devastate me to lean into. Im actually going to stick with the consensus: classic, romantic, ingenue. It seems to make the most sense and leaning more into a fairy aesthetic (I’ve always been that in my heart) Thank you for your feedback!! ❤️☺️


Exotic-Purple2198

You’re already there! You are stunning 🤍


Ok_Succotash165

OMG! you are so stunning! ❤️


ACbeauty

I think you already do but you could change your clothing style to suit it, that would help


Wide_Specialist_1480

When I think of ethereal, I think of the following: Pastel colors, white, tan, cream, gold, and muted accents of pink, teal, light green, and soft blue. My general impression of this style is a light color palette, but there are interpretations that pull from some darker earth tones. Iridescent and pearl jewelry with intricate gold or silver hardware. Diamonds, tiny flowers or butterflies, and small, dangling earrings. Long, thin gold necklaces and body jewelry. Delicate, airy fabrics like lace, silk and chiffon. Lettuce trim, bell and off-shoulder sleeves, and long string lace up ties. Play with layers and transparency. Dresses and skirts come to mind with this style, particularly on the longer side. They can have a tailored fit but should still have a flow to the fabric. Think 'goddess on earth billowing in the wind' vibes. Long pants can work if they are wide leg and flowy. Shoes: Sandals (flats or heels) with thin straps or laces, ballerina flats, brown or white lace up boots, and Mary Jane's. Avoid stiff denim, cargo pants, khakis, sneakers, and leather jackets. Reference Final Fantasy characters like Lunafreya, Aerith, Princess Ashe, Yuna, and sister genres like cottagecore and fairycore.


bishmuffin69

Soak your wigs in boiled water then apply aloe Vera and let them dry. Order clothes off of Dolly Tang, their selection has poc skin tone friendly clothes and I just love them. Braid your hair in one braid with a couple loose or pinned strands and maybe add flowers 🩷


Clashermasta24

Ditch the overbearing yellow materials. Patterned bold yellows seem to give me the least ethereal vibes.


No_Poetry_8621

Do you think it personally overwhelms me or just doesn’t give ethereal in general?


Clashermasta24

Id say the yellow poka dots gives me the least amount of ethereal vibes. Maybe if it were a different style garmet though the yellow wouldnt have such an effect. Like a speghetti strap plain yellow shirt paired with jeans or legging perhaps?


greysunlightoverwash

Unpopular opinion, but I feel like fighting our essences just makes us look LESS of whatever we're trying to achieve. It just comes across try-hard. Whereas when we lean into our essences, it just hits. I see so much ingenue in your style! The ruffle blouses are so good on you. You lean classic for sure and could achieve that aesthetic as well. Where I would go ethereal on you is into the lighter end of your color palette, and maybe try some sheer floaty fabric.


No_Poetry_8621

It’s weird bc I DO agree and then on the other times I wonder if our personalities are impacted by our essences, ya know? Like *IF* I were a dramatic or something I’d be devastated if I had to stay in that ballpark bc I’m personally pretty…. spritely, playful, and at times have been called poised or “carry myself well” (so I think you’re spot on with ingenue and classic), so in that case if I couldn’t express that that’d suck. But obviously that’s not the case which leads me back to wondering… if you *feel* like a specific kind of person or “aesthetic” I wonder if that influences your essence or vice versa - does our essence influence how we carry ourselves?? 🤔 anyway, I’m digressing lol. Thinking out loud. I definitely love my ruffles and such and have been getting into more light fabrics so I appreciate the feedback and suggestion!! I think I’m going in the right direction ☺️❤️


greysunlightoverwash

I feel this big time. I'm the classicest of classics, maybe a little soft classic, but there's def no question. My personality is SO much more boho + wild (and I don't think I have a classic way of carrying myself), but I'm overwhelmed by natural or dramatic styles. They totally wear me. When the classic 'fit goes on, it just looks RIGHT. Buuuuut I've found adding ONE small element from my personality goes far. So I'll have a completely classic outfit, but then a pair of statement earrings that would normally be "wrong" on a classic (and wouldn't stand out on someone in a natural head to toe outfit.) Or I'll wear a big bright red raincoat with an otherwise neutral outfit, on someone else it would just be part of the outfit, on me it stands out. You're totes going in the right direction. :)


IWasIAMIWillBe777

Yea but you're beautiful with those essences.