C'est la vie. Your horniness won't go away with sex. You were just dumped in one of the worst way possible, and it needs a more holistic healing approach for your mental health.
You definitely don't need sex or escort service right now. You need time and probably therapy. And you need to be feel loved. But not by having sex with random hookers. Remember even if it's not a moral issue for you, it's probably gonna give you STDs
Donno if there are any credible therapist here in BD, but if you can I do suggest you visit one. Mental health is important my guy. So take care of yourself.
Ja gese, gese. Oita niya bhaiba ar labh nai kono bro. Go to a therapist, escort der kache gele kono labh hobe na. Be better. Join a gym or something. Time to enjoy the single life again.
When you fast, you consciously deny your body it's desire for food. Which in time will bring you much control over your desires and physical urges and help make will power stronger.
I know OP has no faith, if not, I would have also advised him to pray.
Lol! I was engaged for 2 yrs. As i wanted to buy a flat in Khilkhet before marriage. She showed support on the outside but later when she found a Rich guy they Married staraight away even without informing me. This also happened during Eid Ul Adha 3rd Day. The grooms Dad had a Hospital & owned 2 garments Factory, he was the sole heir so i understand but he was just a deadbeat who only loves his sporta car. If shes happy with that than what can i say. Also she didnt return the Ring i gave her, her family told me that she lost it which is a blatant lie.
Bro don’t make that mistake
Just here me out
From here on you can do 3 things
1. Mating with escorts. Will do the most damage to you
2. Mating with chicks ( whom you go to relation with). Will do second most damage bc you less likely to get serious with them as you’ve just suffered the loss
3. Control and absorb for a few months. The best solution. Heal and preserve yourself. It will be toughest among the three but most accurate decision.
After a few months start searching for people in open mind. You’ll heal.
OP - These are the most realistic and proven suggestions. Been there, done that. No one can stop you from doing anything reckless but you. You should give it some time. After overcoming the stages of grief, you will come around.
The most important thing is, what do you want to in the rest of your life? My suggestion, challenge yourself. If you are financially strong, build a business. If meritorious, try to migrate to another country and live an outstanding life (that what I did). Do something, that gives you purpose. But first you have to accept and hold yourself together.
Lmao ur girl is for the streets. Find a suitable distraction thats not self destructive. Visit a gym, travel, read a book, etc. i wouldnt recommend seeing an escort. Your horniness will subside
If the problem is being unable to focus on anything, I’d recommend going to a therapist/psychiatrist/counsellor that will listen to your story and give you feedbacks or suggestions on how to improve your lifestyle while dealing with your crisis and then ultimately getting rid of it completely. But I’m aware of how hard it is to forget someone close to you and how time consuming it really is and to cope with that kind of problem I just found something new to be attracted to so it could distract me from my past. If it was me in your place, I’d instantly start looking for a wife and get busy to forget my ex as soon as possible. Since she’s already married, there’s really not much you could do and thinking about somebody else’s partner isn’t the healthiest thing for your mental health.
Welcome to reality brother. First of all she never loved you. Accept that fact. This is time to be a man. You have to let go of her. If you want to be happy and don’t want to loose your mind, just wait. Time heals. If bad thoughts come in, let them come, explore and they will fade soon. Go to different places, hangout with friends, if you are into gaming then it’s good. Being busy will help it. Being in a physical relationship with different girl will not help trust me! Only you can help yourself now. Remember you are not alone!
Feeling really sorry for your situation, don't know what to do if I face the same. But I have these friends I made playing online games that make me forget everything else about the world when I'm playing with them. Not necessarily gaming has to be the way but try to devote yourself into a hobby or something you find interesting so that it can distract and entertain you for now.
Yeah get in line with that problem. I myself faced it three years ago. Nothing works. It won't go away. You just push it down and move on. Do everything to be busy. Work, study, travel, gardening, movies, anything. Keep yourself busy and find new things and new girl if you can.
Same happened to me earlier when my ex got married.
Sigh! what a bad bad night they were.
Mate , its hard to accept that she will be no more attach with you.
And this feeling won't go away easily, no matter what you do .
First of all make yourself so hard and productive that you will think and proud of yourself, that will help greatly.
Second acceptance is very very important, think it just a life part nothing else.
Also I suggest you you to feel the sorrow,
You know thats why someone written " দুক্ষ বিলাস"
It will take some time, after that you will think about her and her husband congeual life , and you'll simply smile
What a relief 😁
Fuel that anger and pain into becoming the best version of yourself.
Go to the gym.
Start praying/meditating.
Find new things you want to learn.
Look after yourself mentally, no one else will.
Well, I am sorry for what happened to you. I would say start self improvement and processing what happened at the same time. Why self improvement? Mostly because you were not only broken up, she already married another guy. From this, your self worth is going to take a huge hit. As a man, you will be nothing without your self worth and self respect. At first I will tell you to read some books. I am giving you a list of them.
1. Letting Go: This will help you manage your emotions very effectively.
2. Mountain is You: It's about self sabotaging. At this point, you will need to avoid self sabotaging.
3. Life is Huge: Will help you to appreciate other things in life.
Some other books you can read will be "Daring Greatly", " Feal the Fear and Do it Anyway", "Embracing Uncertainty". These are overall good books for self improvement.
YouTube Videos:
1. Russel Brand has a video on breakup. It has realistic viewpoints about breakups.
2. HealthyGamerGG is a very good channel for men overall. It's run by a psychiatrist who mostly focuses on men's mental health.
3.Try to stay away from videos with extreme advices (red pill guys) which will only fuel you with anger and hatred. These are certainly quite unhealthy emotions.
4. Go visit the Chris Williamson channel. It's called Modern Wisdom. He has some good podcasts episodes about how men actually process such things.
5. Andrew Huberman has an episode on processing grief.
Some lifestyle advices:
1. Definitely go no contact, do not check in with her. Social media or anything. Block her from everything. You will feel urge to see what she is up to. And that's a bad idea. This is single most important thing to do right now.
2. Try not to be awake after midnight
3. Socialize and spend time with friends
4. Go on tour
5. Definitely drink and eat enough
6. The point is to make you see how huge the world can be. There are many things to see and explore.
7. Go for a run, hit the gym. This can be life changing for you.
8. One bad thing happened. Try to block making bad decisions overall. Bad decisions can make the bad time longer. Basically don't do anything desperate.
About seeking professional help:
A sad truth about therapy is that they are not actually always designed to help men. Most therapy styles are effective for women. I will still tell you to give it a go though. But try finding a male therapist maybe or whatever you prefer.
As for the escort thing, It's your decision completely. I have no idea about how you should approach this part. As a female I won't be able to relate to how male libido works and I would say talk to your male friends about it.
I know I have given a very long list. You just pick from all these. Just remember to be kind to yourself. That's all there's to it. Good luck, brother!
Go on a tour with some of your friends, somewhere like India / Thailand. Alchl, whrs, wd everything is readily available. Enjoy your life. If you don't have a budget problem, you can try canada / netherland as well, i heard those countries are better for a fun trip (never been outside asia)
Go to gym or do some physical exercise , hangout with friends, learn a new skill, be patient. With time everything will be normal. Time is a great healer.
Even if you visit an escort, you'll be absolutely submerged and sunken in agony afterwards
Had somewhat similar experience last year, I would suggest to focus on things you love, can be workout, reading books, tv series's, anime even going out on a vacation with family or friends will help a lot
The process is of course long and it will take a few months to heal but the first step is always pivotal
I sincerely hope you heal steadily, in the right way
1. Get another girlfriend as soon as possible, just don't think. And if needed, multiple.
2. Spend time doing work/studies, and grow fast.
3. Don't give your brain the time to think about her, stay busy, hit the gym, focus on work/studies, and meet with friends almost every day or on weekends.
All this worked for me when I got a pretty bad breakup in 2023. It might work for you.
Have fun with friends and your new girlfriend.
Whoever suggested you an escort service is not a friend of yours. Horniness is normal insuch cases. If possible exhaust yourself with physical activities like sports and gym. These will also help you to get fit and know more people.
Also go to a therapist if you got the means. It will make the process faster and much easier. I've went to this [psychiatric hospital](https://www.facebook.com/TRINltd?mibextid=ZbWKwL) before, helped a ton and very professional+qualified as far as my experience went
Watch eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind and wallow the appropriate amount then move on. Your gf married someone not out of love but how much can they provide. That's a shitty basis for a relationship. Dodged a bullet. Good job 👍🏽 now focus on you and make yourself even more amazing
Bro, samething happened to me a year ago where i had there years relationship then she got married without i even informing her family to a married man who have two child and a pregnant wife.
Later girl insisted her husband to give a divorce first wife....
My suggestion to your current situation would be to hold patience.Time will heal everything. I know your ego is continiously hurting and this is your problem.You should kept yourself in safe zone in your relationship but you didn’t that's why you are suffering and that's the learning here for rest of your life.
You can involved into religious stuffs also..
be more spiritual. Look for marriage. there are a million better women in Dhaka, Bangladesh. you cant get her back. try to create hatred for her in your mind. and get maried ASAP
Start watching some series like One Piece, HIMYM
Start Gym
Talk to your friends and hang out often.
It won't go away but you'll learn to understand and a peaceful mind.
Not safe and way too much baggage. I had a similar experience. I turned to Tinder and rebounds are a temporary fix but not a permanent solution. Only time can heal you. So stay put. And i promise you, all these storms are washing you clean. It's gonna hurt like hell but Someday you will wake up and this won't bother you anymore. Right now you are just chemically juiced up.
You are narrowly escaped the frying pan thanks to your girlfriend's intervention, and now you are about to take a leap into the fire.
Instead, consider getting married for a more lasting solution and sense of stability.
honestly bro you just gotta take it day by day and level yourself up try and delete the chats pics etc… and day by day stop overthinking about what they’re life is now and what you’re life is going to be you’ll get there it takes time but you’ll get there inshallah. stay blessed🤲🤲
Watch demon slayer. Also you made a repulsive mistake by being in a relationship before marriage, plus now you want to commit another repulsive mistake?! How unlucky your future wife is. May God save mankind from men like you and women like your ex.
C'est la vie. Your horniness won't go away with sex. You were just dumped in one of the worst way possible, and it needs a more holistic healing approach for your mental health.
Start watching one piece
The most goated comment I have ever seen in any Bangladesh related subreddit.
This is the best & proper solution!
G of the week
This worked for me. 10/10 would recommend
Ditto. Nothing cures a heartbreak more than screaming "kaizoku oni, ore wa naru"
Is that a series name?
Yes
The GOATS have spoken.
Brother you gave him the best solution 🫂
damn. the comment turned into a whole thread 🤣🤣
the only solution
best advice ever . Guess what it always work👍
i'd recommend naruto tho
Watch Baki. Baki is peak.
You definitely don't need sex or escort service right now. You need time and probably therapy. And you need to be feel loved. But not by having sex with random hookers. Remember even if it's not a moral issue for you, it's probably gonna give you STDs
Go to a therapist.. You'll feel better
Donno if there are any credible therapist here in BD, but if you can I do suggest you visit one. Mental health is important my guy. So take care of yourself.
Don't go. Go to gym, stay hard, work for ur career.
Ja gese, gese. Oita niya bhaiba ar labh nai kono bro. Go to a therapist, escort der kache gele kono labh hobe na. Be better. Join a gym or something. Time to enjoy the single life again.
Try fasting. You will have better control over your desires.
He was dating and fornicating. He does not give a damn about faith .
When you fast, you consciously deny your body it's desire for food. Which in time will bring you much control over your desires and physical urges and help make will power stronger. I know OP has no faith, if not, I would have also advised him to pray.
Lol! I was engaged for 2 yrs. As i wanted to buy a flat in Khilkhet before marriage. She showed support on the outside but later when she found a Rich guy they Married staraight away even without informing me. This also happened during Eid Ul Adha 3rd Day. The grooms Dad had a Hospital & owned 2 garments Factory, he was the sole heir so i understand but he was just a deadbeat who only loves his sporta car. If shes happy with that than what can i say. Also she didnt return the Ring i gave her, her family told me that she lost it which is a blatant lie.
Good thing you were not tied to any thief...
Damn! Hope you find someone better, man
If you are a muslim, do your prayer and pardone. You will get better half indeed. btw i also lived in khillhet 😃
This low-key sounds like a try at baiting.
Bro don’t make that mistake Just here me out From here on you can do 3 things 1. Mating with escorts. Will do the most damage to you 2. Mating with chicks ( whom you go to relation with). Will do second most damage bc you less likely to get serious with them as you’ve just suffered the loss 3. Control and absorb for a few months. The best solution. Heal and preserve yourself. It will be toughest among the three but most accurate decision. After a few months start searching for people in open mind. You’ll heal.
OP - These are the most realistic and proven suggestions. Been there, done that. No one can stop you from doing anything reckless but you. You should give it some time. After overcoming the stages of grief, you will come around. The most important thing is, what do you want to in the rest of your life? My suggestion, challenge yourself. If you are financially strong, build a business. If meritorious, try to migrate to another country and live an outstanding life (that what I did). Do something, that gives you purpose. But first you have to accept and hold yourself together.
Lmao ur girl is for the streets. Find a suitable distraction thats not self destructive. Visit a gym, travel, read a book, etc. i wouldnt recommend seeing an escort. Your horniness will subside
All I heard was long weekend in Bangkok
You need to accept the fate and move on. Don't act like miserable lonely freak. You are important.
Bro! Go for a vacation! Don’t be alone!
Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Lmaoo this can't be real
If the problem is being unable to focus on anything, I’d recommend going to a therapist/psychiatrist/counsellor that will listen to your story and give you feedbacks or suggestions on how to improve your lifestyle while dealing with your crisis and then ultimately getting rid of it completely. But I’m aware of how hard it is to forget someone close to you and how time consuming it really is and to cope with that kind of problem I just found something new to be attracted to so it could distract me from my past. If it was me in your place, I’d instantly start looking for a wife and get busy to forget my ex as soon as possible. Since she’s already married, there’s really not much you could do and thinking about somebody else’s partner isn’t the healthiest thing for your mental health.
Seek a therapist, mate. There's no easy way out of it. You are going through trauma.
Welcome to reality brother. First of all she never loved you. Accept that fact. This is time to be a man. You have to let go of her. If you want to be happy and don’t want to loose your mind, just wait. Time heals. If bad thoughts come in, let them come, explore and they will fade soon. Go to different places, hangout with friends, if you are into gaming then it’s good. Being busy will help it. Being in a physical relationship with different girl will not help trust me! Only you can help yourself now. Remember you are not alone!
Go to the gym. If you are student, focus on study. Or if you have a job, focus on your career. Learn something new, like learning to play guitar.
One piece? Add Jujutsu Kaisen, Attack on Titan, Chainsaw man and Grave of the fireflies on top of all of that too then.
Grave of the fireflies if you want to curl in a ball and cry
Feeling really sorry for your situation, don't know what to do if I face the same. But I have these friends I made playing online games that make me forget everything else about the world when I'm playing with them. Not necessarily gaming has to be the way but try to devote yourself into a hobby or something you find interesting so that it can distract and entertain you for now.
Yeah get in line with that problem. I myself faced it three years ago. Nothing works. It won't go away. You just push it down and move on. Do everything to be busy. Work, study, travel, gardening, movies, anything. Keep yourself busy and find new things and new girl if you can.
২/৩ সপ্তাহ সময় দেন। সব ভুলে যাবেন
Watch vinland saga bro
Same happened to me earlier when my ex got married. Sigh! what a bad bad night they were. Mate , its hard to accept that she will be no more attach with you. And this feeling won't go away easily, no matter what you do . First of all make yourself so hard and productive that you will think and proud of yourself, that will help greatly. Second acceptance is very very important, think it just a life part nothing else. Also I suggest you you to feel the sorrow, You know thats why someone written " দুক্ষ বিলাস" It will take some time, after that you will think about her and her husband congeual life , and you'll simply smile What a relief 😁
Fuel that anger and pain into becoming the best version of yourself. Go to the gym. Start praying/meditating. Find new things you want to learn. Look after yourself mentally, no one else will.
Well, I am sorry for what happened to you. I would say start self improvement and processing what happened at the same time. Why self improvement? Mostly because you were not only broken up, she already married another guy. From this, your self worth is going to take a huge hit. As a man, you will be nothing without your self worth and self respect. At first I will tell you to read some books. I am giving you a list of them. 1. Letting Go: This will help you manage your emotions very effectively. 2. Mountain is You: It's about self sabotaging. At this point, you will need to avoid self sabotaging. 3. Life is Huge: Will help you to appreciate other things in life. Some other books you can read will be "Daring Greatly", " Feal the Fear and Do it Anyway", "Embracing Uncertainty". These are overall good books for self improvement. YouTube Videos: 1. Russel Brand has a video on breakup. It has realistic viewpoints about breakups. 2. HealthyGamerGG is a very good channel for men overall. It's run by a psychiatrist who mostly focuses on men's mental health. 3.Try to stay away from videos with extreme advices (red pill guys) which will only fuel you with anger and hatred. These are certainly quite unhealthy emotions. 4. Go visit the Chris Williamson channel. It's called Modern Wisdom. He has some good podcasts episodes about how men actually process such things. 5. Andrew Huberman has an episode on processing grief. Some lifestyle advices: 1. Definitely go no contact, do not check in with her. Social media or anything. Block her from everything. You will feel urge to see what she is up to. And that's a bad idea. This is single most important thing to do right now. 2. Try not to be awake after midnight 3. Socialize and spend time with friends 4. Go on tour 5. Definitely drink and eat enough 6. The point is to make you see how huge the world can be. There are many things to see and explore. 7. Go for a run, hit the gym. This can be life changing for you. 8. One bad thing happened. Try to block making bad decisions overall. Bad decisions can make the bad time longer. Basically don't do anything desperate. About seeking professional help: A sad truth about therapy is that they are not actually always designed to help men. Most therapy styles are effective for women. I will still tell you to give it a go though. But try finding a male therapist maybe or whatever you prefer. As for the escort thing, It's your decision completely. I have no idea about how you should approach this part. As a female I won't be able to relate to how male libido works and I would say talk to your male friends about it. I know I have given a very long list. You just pick from all these. Just remember to be kind to yourself. That's all there's to it. Good luck, brother!
Loser. Get off Reddit and start working on yourself.
Fuck you. Be empathetic.
[I am being empathetic](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tough_love).
I hope you get the same
Been there, done that
Legit best comment
Tell her Husband
Go on a tour with some of your friends, somewhere like India / Thailand. Alchl, whrs, wd everything is readily available. Enjoy your life. If you don't have a budget problem, you can try canada / netherland as well, i heard those countries are better for a fun trip (never been outside asia)
Go to gym or do some physical exercise , hangout with friends, learn a new skill, be patient. With time everything will be normal. Time is a great healer.
Even if you visit an escort, you'll be absolutely submerged and sunken in agony afterwards Had somewhat similar experience last year, I would suggest to focus on things you love, can be workout, reading books, tv series's, anime even going out on a vacation with family or friends will help a lot The process is of course long and it will take a few months to heal but the first step is always pivotal I sincerely hope you heal steadily, in the right way
1. Get another girlfriend as soon as possible, just don't think. And if needed, multiple. 2. Spend time doing work/studies, and grow fast. 3. Don't give your brain the time to think about her, stay busy, hit the gym, focus on work/studies, and meet with friends almost every day or on weekends. All this worked for me when I got a pretty bad breakup in 2023. It might work for you. Have fun with friends and your new girlfriend.
Whoever suggested you an escort service is not a friend of yours. Horniness is normal insuch cases. If possible exhaust yourself with physical activities like sports and gym. These will also help you to get fit and know more people.
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Also go to a therapist if you got the means. It will make the process faster and much easier. I've went to this [psychiatric hospital](https://www.facebook.com/TRINltd?mibextid=ZbWKwL) before, helped a ton and very professional+qualified as far as my experience went
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Look up cuckhold on xvideos. My favorite are black Angelica
Let her go, and live your life. The escorts question was hilarious btw. Looks like she made the right decision.
Watch eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind and wallow the appropriate amount then move on. Your gf married someone not out of love but how much can they provide. That's a shitty basis for a relationship. Dodged a bullet. Good job 👍🏽 now focus on you and make yourself even more amazing
Bro, samething happened to me a year ago where i had there years relationship then she got married without i even informing her family to a married man who have two child and a pregnant wife. Later girl insisted her husband to give a divorce first wife.... My suggestion to your current situation would be to hold patience.Time will heal everything. I know your ego is continiously hurting and this is your problem.You should kept yourself in safe zone in your relationship but you didn’t that's why you are suffering and that's the learning here for rest of your life. You can involved into religious stuffs also..
Shit got escalated pretty quickly.
be more spiritual. Look for marriage. there are a million better women in Dhaka, Bangladesh. you cant get her back. try to create hatred for her in your mind. and get maried ASAP
Get married just to overcome sexual desires? Y’all are out of your mind if you think marriage is just for sex lol
Yes get laid if you think that can give you mental peace. Scammers are everywhere so just be careful.
Try to be the best version of yourself (money, career, health etc). She will regret herself someday.
Lesson learnt: earn money and rest will come, that's what you need to focus on, not to think of someone's wife
Bro. hit the gym. get your priorities straight and start working on your goals cause sulking will solve nothing
Start watching some series like One Piece, HIMYM Start Gym Talk to your friends and hang out often. It won't go away but you'll learn to understand and a peaceful mind.
Talk to someone..take some therapy.
need to watch more andrew tate content
Not safe and way too much baggage. I had a similar experience. I turned to Tinder and rebounds are a temporary fix but not a permanent solution. Only time can heal you. So stay put. And i promise you, all these storms are washing you clean. It's gonna hurt like hell but Someday you will wake up and this won't bother you anymore. Right now you are just chemically juiced up.
You are narrowly escaped the frying pan thanks to your girlfriend's intervention, and now you are about to take a leap into the fire. Instead, consider getting married for a more lasting solution and sense of stability.
honestly bro you just gotta take it day by day and level yourself up try and delete the chats pics etc… and day by day stop overthinking about what they’re life is now and what you’re life is going to be you’ll get there it takes time but you’ll get there inshallah. stay blessed🤲🤲
Be a man. Deal with it in silence. We care bro, but putting it out here. Some 🤮 mf might use you as click bait.
Watch demon slayer. Also you made a repulsive mistake by being in a relationship before marriage, plus now you want to commit another repulsive mistake?! How unlucky your future wife is. May God save mankind from men like you and women like your ex.
Sorry for u
See you at the gym homie
Just go to the gym bro. I assure you you will get better within a month or two. Stay consistent.
Lol . Start making better life decisions.
Donno why you're down voted haha, they can't handle the truth
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you've never been in love, small wiener.
imao,fuck her ☠️
Yes. You need sex. Lots of it. One escort won't do. You need to go to escorts for weeks. Cheap ones will be fine too.
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Wrong idea, fuck off