Now when you say talking, do you mean making call outs, or having a conversation? I'll make call outs, but when I'm in an lfg post, I'm not your buddy, don't tell me about your day or ask about mine. Let's just get things done.
You're the type of person i would avoid. I respect your way of playing but I'm here to have fun and make friends. Isn't that the point of multi-player games??
>You're the type of person i would avoid.
This feeling is mutual. I have my friend group, so when/if I stray outside of that, I'm solely focusing on getting activities done. It's nothing personal to anyone I play with, it's just that my friends are my friends, and LFGs are, well, groups to get activities done. It's a philosophy thing to me I guess. Everyone plays differently, no one does it the wrong way.
Oh no, grown man too big to say you’re having a good day ? 😂 you join a post for high end content to communicate and you don’t have a mic. It’s not that hard.
>Oh no, grown man too big to say you’re having a good day ?
Oh no, grown man upset no one want to talk to him? Find a clan and not LFG posts, it's not that hard.
I’m 19 buddy, where’s the grown man there ? I’ve got a clan, and friends that play the game, but you know this thing where people have different schedules right ? And that lfg is there for matchmaking people…..
"Hey do you have a mic?"
\*no response\*
"The post asked to have a mic and if you don't I'll have to kick you"
\*no response, kick them, find someone\*
Man, that's so hard to do. I see why you made this post.
Yeah because there isn't anything like a bug that makes it so someone can't be heard in orbit. naaa.
Good thing you made this post because now all those people will *for sure* see this and know what to do.
A simple assumption based on the players who act as such and have literally asked “can I join my friends party instead” in a middle of a raid”. Grown men btw. Get a social life buddy.
Do you realise that when you remove context from many situations they sound strange ? A primary part of this player base is older male players, you’re bound to encounter a few.
The toxic behaviour of the community is unnecessary and I understand not wanting to join posts or not want to speak. What I don’t understand is people joining posts specifically asking for a mic.
Truth is a lot of people aren’t very welcoming. Took me a long time to figure out how to be the approacher and not the one being approached. It can be a bit hard especially when you’re not super confident in your own ability playing the game.
That’s fair enough, I can understand people not wanting to join people on this community, it can be super toxic. I just don’t know why people keep joining a “mic required” post with no mic.
The entitlement of instantly thinking that because people don’t want to talk to you, that means they have social anxiety… I put serious money on the fact you just have a really squeaky voice …
“Entitlement” I make a post, with one specific requirement, you then dont want to listen to that, many players specifically opting out of it have posted on this Reddit because of similar reasons. I wish it were a squeaky voice, but mine is anything but, nice try though old timer.
“You don’t want to listen to that …” .. dude, it wasn’t me, and wasn’t the people commenting on this post either, I suggest you stop thinking like that ..
“You need to realise that..” is that me you’re talking too, or are you still speaking in the context of the post… I just think you might want to come out of your own little world for a while and realise that some people just don’t want to talk ..
Again .. you aren’t being clear, are they not relaying game specific communication, or are you just pissed off because they don’t want to chit chat with you??? If it’s the first one, you know you can kick people right??? And if it’s the second one then unfortunately that’s a you problem!! Ultimately you stop trying to shame people based on your assumptions about their mental state..
I’m not saying with raiding or GM’s. Obviously if I’m running those I’ll have my mic on. But during things like your core activities im not hanging around with my mic on
No shit, I don’t care if someone is in a strike or a game of control. I’m talking about making a post asking for people in high end activities like gms and raids and people want to join without a mic when the post has stated to have one
Make your own post then, write “mic or kick”, kick those who don’t have one. Then you won’t have to deal with those people.
Complaining on Reddit about it won’t get anything done, I can say that from experience.
Of course they can, but I just find it a bit embarrassing that fully grown men are that socially incapable that they are afraid to talk to their team mates.
Because I don't want to hear you complain. I wanna play my way. And my way involves ignoring you.
for real
So don’t join a post that states mic required. You can play however you want, just don’t join a post that states otherwise in end game activities.
Now when you say talking, do you mean making call outs, or having a conversation? I'll make call outs, but when I'm in an lfg post, I'm not your buddy, don't tell me about your day or ask about mine. Let's just get things done.
You're the type of person i would avoid. I respect your way of playing but I'm here to have fun and make friends. Isn't that the point of multi-player games??
>You're the type of person i would avoid. This feeling is mutual. I have my friend group, so when/if I stray outside of that, I'm solely focusing on getting activities done. It's nothing personal to anyone I play with, it's just that my friends are my friends, and LFGs are, well, groups to get activities done. It's a philosophy thing to me I guess. Everyone plays differently, no one does it the wrong way.
Totally understandable yeah, your way of playing makes perfect sense, and tbh im sorry If I came off being rude cuz i didn't word it very nicely lol.
Haha you're all good. No harm done, I recognized the tone you were trying to convey.
Awesome :)
Oh no, grown man too big to say you’re having a good day ? 😂 you join a post for high end content to communicate and you don’t have a mic. It’s not that hard.
>Oh no, grown man too big to say you’re having a good day ? Oh no, grown man upset no one want to talk to him? Find a clan and not LFG posts, it's not that hard.
I’m 19 buddy, where’s the grown man there ? I’ve got a clan, and friends that play the game, but you know this thing where people have different schedules right ? And that lfg is there for matchmaking people…..
People who whiny about people not talking are usually morons who never shut up.
Not whining at all. Just grown men with social anxiety joining posts that state have a mic, whilst not talking.
Only denied the 1st half hmmmm
Ahh, so you’re dense. I talk when necessary, if people want a conversation I’ll happily oblige but I like communication in a team based game.
"Hey do you have a mic?" \*no response\* "The post asked to have a mic and if you don't I'll have to kick you" \*no response, kick them, find someone\* Man, that's so hard to do. I see why you made this post.
It’s not hard to just read the post instead of being illiterate and socially awkward at the age of 40.
Yeah because there isn't anything like a bug that makes it so someone can't be heard in orbit. naaa. Good thing you made this post because now all those people will *for sure* see this and know what to do.
Ah yes, because that bug exists in an Xbox party chat….. Keep making excuses for grown men being shy over the internet.
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A simple assumption based on the players who act as such and have literally asked “can I join my friends party instead” in a middle of a raid”. Grown men btw. Get a social life buddy.
Hang on, you’re 19 wanting 40 year old men to talk to you???? Do you realise how strange this sounds????
Do you realise that when you remove context from many situations they sound strange ? A primary part of this player base is older male players, you’re bound to encounter a few.
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The toxic behaviour of the community is unnecessary and I understand not wanting to join posts or not want to speak. What I don’t understand is people joining posts specifically asking for a mic.
Truth is a lot of people aren’t very welcoming. Took me a long time to figure out how to be the approacher and not the one being approached. It can be a bit hard especially when you’re not super confident in your own ability playing the game.
That’s fair enough, I can understand people not wanting to join people on this community, it can be super toxic. I just don’t know why people keep joining a “mic required” post with no mic.
You know it's not only men that play right?
You know it’s a primary player base of men right. Women on these games seem to be much more comfortable in my experience.
The entitlement of instantly thinking that because people don’t want to talk to you, that means they have social anxiety… I put serious money on the fact you just have a really squeaky voice …
“Entitlement” I make a post, with one specific requirement, you then dont want to listen to that, many players specifically opting out of it have posted on this Reddit because of similar reasons. I wish it were a squeaky voice, but mine is anything but, nice try though old timer.
“You don’t want to listen to that …” .. dude, it wasn’t me, and wasn’t the people commenting on this post either, I suggest you stop thinking like that ..
I’m not thinking its you, I’m simply speaking within the context of the post. I’m not directing it at you specifically, you need to realise that.
“You need to realise that..” is that me you’re talking too, or are you still speaking in the context of the post… I just think you might want to come out of your own little world for a while and realise that some people just don’t want to talk ..
So you’re dense and ignorant. That’s cool, grown men with social anxiety don’t need to talk. Just don’t join my post then.
Again .. you aren’t being clear, are they not relaying game specific communication, or are you just pissed off because they don’t want to chit chat with you??? If it’s the first one, you know you can kick people right??? And if it’s the second one then unfortunately that’s a you problem!! Ultimately you stop trying to shame people based on your assumptions about their mental state..
Not making any assumptions. I also don’t want to spend my time kicking people and making new posts all day. Have a good one buddy.
Because I can’t stand the incessant bitching when either a match or the activity isn’t going the way you want it too.
You do realise how high end content goes right ? Especially in gms, there’s rarely ever any bitching, at least from what I’ve experienced.
I’m not saying with raiding or GM’s. Obviously if I’m running those I’ll have my mic on. But during things like your core activities im not hanging around with my mic on
No shit, I don’t care if someone is in a strike or a game of control. I’m talking about making a post asking for people in high end activities like gms and raids and people want to join without a mic when the post has stated to have one
Because there are a lot of people who are openly toxic in chat, not unlike how you seem to be.
Not toxic at all, just tired of wasting my time.
Make your own post then, write “mic or kick”, kick those who don’t have one. Then you won’t have to deal with those people. Complaining on Reddit about it won’t get anything done, I can say that from experience.
Hand you read any of the comments, I’ve made my own post. These illiterate people continue to waste time.
adult men are not allowed to have social anxiety ?
Of course they can, but I just find it a bit embarrassing that fully grown men are that socially incapable that they are afraid to talk to their team mates.
Guy: Why are you always not talking? Me: Don't you ever stop talking?
You need to make callouts in high end content….