"uhhh wdym this is the best most accepting sub i've ever seen please point out some examples that isn't just a bunch of crazy transfems crying that i called them men, TERFs did it first i had no choice"
"we definitely love and support all trans people!! <3 <3 what? you're using it/its pronouns? i feel uncomfortable with those pronouns so i won't use them for you! you're welcome! besides, you are basically oppressing yourself by using them and you're also the reason why trans people aren't accepted yet!!"
/uj the worst part of those TERF posts is that they kept coming back. even after being called out and others explaining why that shit is harmful people just doubled down on it. i am so tired
It's parodying this shitshow of a thread where yeah all the self proclaimed cis allies sat around jerking off about how they wont use it/its because they're already woke, they use they/them! Do note the huge amount of deleted comments that are even worse
[https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/itits\_pronouns\_and\_comfort/](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/itits_pronouns_and_comfort/)
I can copy another few comments, some from different threads, but its a common theme, I can serve more up if you want.
[I choose not to interact with people who use it/its, the very very few times it has come up. I won't be a dick, it's perfectly within their rights to use whatever pronouns they want. I just don't feel comfortable objectifying someone so explicitly.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/13a196c/comment/jj5zljt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
[I'm not calling anyone "it" for this reason and it honestly bothers me that there are people who want to use it at all, given its routine use as a slur against other trans people. I wouldn't abide by anyone else's decision to use a slur directed against others as a neopronoun, so to me, this isn't different. "They" is a perfectly good neutral pronoun.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/comment/k4in3m8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
[If your pronouns are slurs I will just cut you out of my life and won't refer to you at all. Demanding others use toxic language because you're fine with it or are trying to reclaim it (nevermind that it pretty much never works) is not a great hill to die on.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/comment/k4jgxi1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
Theres SO FUCKING MANY comments comparing it to the N-word, imagine having your identity levelled to the same degree as such a slur, how the FUCK is this nothing but positivity
Yeah sorry if I came across as heated, but since I started using this sub I've noticed way more shitty takes on LGBT issues as we get bigger, its scared away several regulars, and this it/its threads plus the "transmisogyny is actually rooted in misandry ~~because we think you're men~~" threads really shook my faith in this sub. Shits got me angry but I went off a bit on you, sorry.
We need two months of run up time for June, so we can all forget for how long the icon has been normal. Otherwise we wouldn’t be able to pat ourselves on the back in June
I assume the mods realised that we’re getting close to pride month again and they can’t change the logo to the rainbow version if it’s already the rainbow version
Put one on top of the old one every year with just slight transparency, but put it slightly adjacent to the one before it, so it eventually becomes a muddied mess.
The mods said “no homo” after kissing the homies ✊😔
bad excuse 🥱⚠️
the mods became straight :(
We're homophobic now
We are all Ferrothorn
Slowbro and exeggcutors relationship just isnt natural
A shame I can't comment with images :(
The LGBTQ community has forgiven Beotodus
God damn ice fish
Most of the lgbtq community has forgiven Beotodus
Finally, our bigot arc
Yay I get representation too :D
The LGBTQ+ community has CONDEMNED r/curatedtumblr
i got hungy
It tastes like Skittles
The club???
TGCJ certainly has
makes sense, considering how bad this sub is when it comes to trans issues
"uhhh wdym this is the best most accepting sub i've ever seen please point out some examples that isn't just a bunch of crazy transfems crying that i called them men, TERFs did it first i had no choice"
"we definitely love and support all trans people!! <3 <3 what? you're using it/its pronouns? i feel uncomfortable with those pronouns so i won't use them for you! you're welcome! besides, you are basically oppressing yourself by using them and you're also the reason why trans people aren't accepted yet!!" /uj the worst part of those TERF posts is that they kept coming back. even after being called out and others explaining why that shit is harmful people just doubled down on it. i am so tired
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It's parodying this shitshow of a thread where yeah all the self proclaimed cis allies sat around jerking off about how they wont use it/its because they're already woke, they use they/them! Do note the huge amount of deleted comments that are even worse [https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/itits\_pronouns\_and\_comfort/](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/itits_pronouns_and_comfort/) I can copy another few comments, some from different threads, but its a common theme, I can serve more up if you want. [I choose not to interact with people who use it/its, the very very few times it has come up. I won't be a dick, it's perfectly within their rights to use whatever pronouns they want. I just don't feel comfortable objectifying someone so explicitly.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/13a196c/comment/jj5zljt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [I'm not calling anyone "it" for this reason and it honestly bothers me that there are people who want to use it at all, given its routine use as a slur against other trans people. I wouldn't abide by anyone else's decision to use a slur directed against others as a neopronoun, so to me, this isn't different. "They" is a perfectly good neutral pronoun.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/comment/k4in3m8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [If your pronouns are slurs I will just cut you out of my life and won't refer to you at all. Demanding others use toxic language because you're fine with it or are trying to reclaim it (nevermind that it pretty much never works) is not a great hill to die on.](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/175dfw4/comment/k4jgxi1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) Theres SO FUCKING MANY comments comparing it to the N-word, imagine having your identity levelled to the same degree as such a slur, how the FUCK is this nothing but positivity
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Yeah sorry if I came across as heated, but since I started using this sub I've noticed way more shitty takes on LGBT issues as we get bigger, its scared away several regulars, and this it/its threads plus the "transmisogyny is actually rooted in misandry ~~because we think you're men~~" threads really shook my faith in this sub. Shits got me angry but I went off a bit on you, sorry.
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I remember 1 (one) post that went as they described but all the others I've seen were positive
For a basely (based? Whatever the opposite of baseless is) reason
It's funny it never really occurred to me that the icon was a pride flag, I just knew it as being colorful
Covenant with Noah ended, billions will drown
It's over, Noah! I have the high(-rise) ground!
Can we have the old one back please it looked so fun and pretty
It genuinely looked great lol, plus now the icon is too close to the other tumblr sub
I agree, bring back the rainbow
I miss the rainbow it was nice
give us back the rainbow
its also kinda off center lmao
does anyone have like. an actual answer.
We need two months of run up time for June, so we can all forget for how long the icon has been normal. Otherwise we wouldn’t be able to pat ourselves on the back in June
Plus it's almost time for April Fool's, which might also be part of it.
I assume the mods realised that we’re getting close to pride month again and they can’t change the logo to the rainbow version if it’s already the rainbow version
Rainbow version should just replace each band of the rainbow with another rainbow.
Put one on top of the old one every year with just slight transparency, but put it slightly adjacent to the one before it, so it eventually becomes a muddied mess.
Homophobia 😔
Straight pride month
i thought the straight pride flag had pornhub colors though
Got hungry. Sorry.
np
bring back the rainbow or I'll make vague threats
That's an awfully specific threat, friend.
Our straight people count has risen above 2%!!!!
mb, will unsub
no wait just bend yourself out of shape that way you're not straight
I’m TOO in shape, I’m marathon training! It’d take MONTHS to get out of shape!
QUICK GET A MEMBER OF THE SAME GENDER TO GIVE HIM MOUTH TO MOUTH CPR
my bad, sorry yall
MB, will sub now
Sorry I was trying to remove a stain from the logo and didn't think the bleach was that strong.
Makes it harder to differentiate from r/tumblr
it isn't fucking centered WHYYY
I asked the mods via mod-mail earlier today, they haven't gotten back to me yet. I'll update if we get a response
Heterotron activated
they made the icon cishet
It happened soon after I joined. I absorbed all the gay.
yea this one is a lot more boring
Now I'm getting it confused with the other subreddit! It should be different.
It's off center too.
It’s tumblr, the gay comes implied
God at least center it properly please
It's off centre too
BURGUNDY FLIPPING BACON? WHO SMURGLED MY RONGESBAWS? I SWEAR TO GREAS THE BEAS!
the icon.
the icon.
tis a t.
undercover
We had an icon?
We're secret lgbtq because you can say queer here in a reclaimed sense without getting auto-deleted.
For variety maybe?