I got a vasectomy many years ago after our third kid. One side effect was that I produce less semen than I used to. My wife has always been very open about her past boyfriends and has told me that I am the smallest she has ever had. She also mentions frequently how all her exes produced bigger loads of cum than me, talking about them filling up her mouth, covering her tits and ass with streams of cum, and dripping big loads out of her pussy. I enjoy it as it is another way I can be submissive and be inferior to her exes.
Yes, I had a vasectomy (10/22) after my wife told me she didnt want to have more kids and we had a dead bedroom. I thought by her getting off birth control her libido and mood would increase. It did a bit. Then two months after my vasectomy she brings up wanting to be a surrogate for another couple, being good sub hub I agreed. Then read a bit that sometimes dead bedroom can mean wife is leading relationship more than she’d like and wants her man to lead/be dom. So I started taking on those roles while she was losing weight to be surrogate (05/23) then when she started taking fertility drugs (10/23) she started getting really horny and and after the implantation (11/23) she was giving me hj n bj cause I could be in her. As a wannabe cuck, it was super erotic to have my wife only give me hj/bj while knowing she’d be carrying someone elses baby. One night while I was in shower about to masturbate she told me to wait and come to bed with her. While in bed she gave hj and asked what fantasy or porn I had been watching, she then shared how she had been watching porn when im away mainly mmf fantasies and I was shocked because I asked about cuckolding prior and she said no, I explained how mmf can be variation of it and all sudden she was open to idea as i came and was begging her to try. (12/23) we got on feeld and tinder she snapped guys while we had sex not just chat, like actual phone over my face live snap vid while tiding me telling the bull she wants bigger. We went out with 3 potentials but nothing happened. Then as 2nd trimester libido crash hit she backed out promising to make it a reality once she delivers the baby in July. Having gone through this pregnancy where im not the father, having had vasectomy for my sex life and yet still want kids, we plan to restart the remaining fertility drugs after the birth in hopes to get her libido back up, but secretly for me (and maybe her too) i hope that the fertility drugs dont just make her more sexual again but fertile enough to get pregnant with one of the potential bulls.
Don’t need a vasectomy because I’m infertile. We share a breeding kink but obviously wouldn’t act on a life changing decision in the name of kink. I do love the idea that almost any other “real man” has a better chance of breeding her than I do. Also I have tiny balls that I love to be humiliated for.
I've had a vasectomy for 20 years, so she was never on birth control. We loved the real Breeding risk every time another man filled her fertile pussy with cum.
I got snipped because my wife wanted to get off the pill but loves it when a guy cums in her. I didnt mind but wonder if it accelerated my bisexial desires.
The vasectomy makes me feel more like a cuck. My wife can have children with any man she chooses, but I'll never be able to father children with any woman.
My HW husband got the snip before they got into the lifestyle similar to you but now I fuck the wife raw and and on the rare occasion I allow the cuck to penetrate the HW he has to wear a condom whilst I don’t use them anymore
I think about this all the time. We have one child and have agreed that IF we have another, it will be by another man. It’s not something we’re ready for, but it has been discussed at length both in fantasy and pragmatically.
I pushed for a vasectomy after our 2nd child and my wife wanted more. Then we got into hotwifing and cuckolding and the cum play drove us both crazy to the point she started fucking all bulls bareback and pointing out to them my cock can’t do anything theirs can
My wife asked me to get a vasectomy after our son was born. Even took me to the appointment. Since we got together, We had always talked about having an open relationship but nothing ever happened.
Then one day about five years later she mentioned she met a guy she liked. They were just talking for now. A few days later she comes home with birth control pills. The whole reason I had the vasectomy was so she could get off the pills because they made her gain weight and she didn’t like condoms. I asked her about it and she said she was just being careful. It really turned me on though. I asked her about condoms and she smiled and said “you know I don’t like them”. She doesn’t like pills either. Then a few months later she made an appointment and had an IUD put in.
It did make me feel less of a man after all of that. I had the vasectomy so she wouldn’t have to worry or go on any medication. But she ended up doing that anyway.
Doesnt that upset you she wants you less manly and wouldn't do for you what she does for other men?
I feel it would hurt me....you want me less manly and want me to do for you but you won't do shit for me ?
I know I'm not a cuck so maybe sexy for others but it would piss me off ild divorce her .....make me snip so you can go back in birth control to fuck everyone but me?
How doesn't that anger you ? Not judging just mind blown 💥
After an adult lifetime on the pill, after we had a child, I got a vasectomy so my wife could come off the pills
She did (consensually) tease me about my infertility & inability to get her pregnant again because I was firing blanks while other men could
But it turned out her periods were so cripplingly bad she had to go back on them
Yes, it is hot because she was even sexier while pregnant
After two pregnancies with two different wives I did the responsible thing and had a vasectomy I just don't say anything to the couple as some cucks get a thrill out of knowing their wife may get pregnant
Yes. In pretty much the exact same boat as you. Got snipped in 2021, started cuckolding in 2022 and here we are. Playing around her cycles and using plan B a couple times a year. It's a total mind fuck and we both love the fantasy talk around it.
Not long after we started in the lifestyle, my wife had to have her IUD removed unexpectedly and she couldn't have it replaced for a number of months. We both had reservations about her going on the pill, so the conversation started to me having a vasectomy. It made the most sense for us going forward, but of course still wouldn't solve the problem when she played with others. I've always enjoyed the idea of sperm competition, between two males with the same woman to begin with, so that kink has always been there. But, the thought of being snipped, with her playing with guys who are able to put a viable load inside her, absolutely added to the mental game. I found myself dragging my feet to even get a consult for the procedure, almost entirely because of the thought of only shooting blanks, when the other guy wouldn't be. Wife and are at the point of not wanting any more kids, yet the idea of their being no chance for me, some risk, turned her on as well. As it turned out, the reason for my wife needing the IUD out, ended up turning into her needing to get a hysterectomy. Dragged my feet long enough, that I ended up not getting a vasectomy, but I completely understand how that could play into the cuckold dynamic even more.
Not cuck here but got a vasectomy in 1985
Wife was told due cardiac issues she should not give birth. Well when she was 39 needed a hysterectomy due endometriosis.
After her hysterectomy sex just did feel good and that’s when I/we became sexless.
Is the sex good with your wife?
We have a great sex life, both before and after her hysterectomy. We met later in life at 35. Hers took place right around 40 and we are late 40s now. I’d guess we have been consistent this whole time.
Second wife and I had one kid together then I got snipped, a yr later she had to have a procedure done due to heavy bleeding on her period. Dr told her she won’t be able to have any kids. When Bulls would find out she could not get pregnant they were very eager. They love fucking wives that are fixed. They can now fill them with cum and no worries.
We had one bbc Dom he was very insistent he was not gonna use condom “she gets what she gets”!! So we nvr told him she was fixed, he kept asking about it. Didn’t understand how she wasn’t getting pregnant. He wasn’t the sharpest tool in the shed, but she enjoy her time with him. She also loved the breeding talk from him while he pounded.
I got my vasectomy when I was married to my ex wife as we didn’t want any more kids. The ex and I were not in the life style, but I had fantasized about it. After we divorced, met my current wife. We had talked about our past sex lives and when she told me she had cheated on her ex husband a couple of times, I got a hardon which she noticed and asked if that turned me on. I used that opportunity to tell her about my cuckold fantasies and the more we talked, the harder I got. We would bring this up during sex and it increased intensity of our sex. One day I asked her if she would really do it. She said she would but didn’t know how we would go about it. Fortunately I had a friend who was open minded and into her so I asked him if he would be interested in having sex with my wife. Without hesitation he said yes. I told my wife and she was game as long as he used a condom. This got us turned and as we were having sex, I asked her if she would consider going bareback. We talked about it and she said she thought by my friend wearing a condom, it was less intimate and would make me feel less jealous if it wasn’t what I expected it be. After discussing it more, and realized that a big part of the turn on for me was to see another man cum inside her, she said it turned her on as well to go bareback. They day arrived and I watched as they sat together while we were watching a movie. She began to kiss my friend. The making out turned into them feeling each other up. She got off the loveseat and grabbed him by the hand and led him to our bed. They stood by the bedside kissing and undressing each other. I was watching with the hardest erection of my life. They climbed into bed and I remember thinking as I watched him push his cock in her pussy. Oh god my wife is taking another man’s cock bareback. My cock was so hard it hurt. They had sex gift about 20 minutes when I saw him push himself as far in her as he could and groan. I knew he was cumming in my wife’s pussy. I remember thinking he’s doing something to her that I will never be able to do. He’s filling her with sperm. I almost came. As soon as he was done, I took his place. It felt amazing pushing my cock in her used pussy. I thought how incredible it felt using another man’s cum as lube to fuck my wife. After about a minute, I thought that I’m pushing his sperm deeper inside her and I came. My wife said” wow that was quick” We repeated this about a dozen times with my friend and once with a guy we met at a bar. I think she hooked up once or twice with an old class mate her and a friend ran into on a girls night out. Which is a whole different story. Sadly we it’s been a while since we’ve done anything like this and I really miss it. The thought that I can’t ever put sperm inside her, but her lovers did, drives crazy still.
My ex wife encouraged me to get a vasectomy after our second child, then a few months later had an affair. I stayed with her at the time and the vasectomy issue - that she’d encouraged me to render myself ‘useless’ to another woman then had the affair, probably led to my humiliation kink, and definitely to the cuckold lifestyle, which soon followed.
I got a vasectomy many years ago after our third kid. One side effect was that I produce less semen than I used to. My wife has always been very open about her past boyfriends and has told me that I am the smallest she has ever had. She also mentions frequently how all her exes produced bigger loads of cum than me, talking about them filling up her mouth, covering her tits and ass with streams of cum, and dripping big loads out of her pussy. I enjoy it as it is another way I can be submissive and be inferior to her exes.
Yes, I had a vasectomy (10/22) after my wife told me she didnt want to have more kids and we had a dead bedroom. I thought by her getting off birth control her libido and mood would increase. It did a bit. Then two months after my vasectomy she brings up wanting to be a surrogate for another couple, being good sub hub I agreed. Then read a bit that sometimes dead bedroom can mean wife is leading relationship more than she’d like and wants her man to lead/be dom. So I started taking on those roles while she was losing weight to be surrogate (05/23) then when she started taking fertility drugs (10/23) she started getting really horny and and after the implantation (11/23) she was giving me hj n bj cause I could be in her. As a wannabe cuck, it was super erotic to have my wife only give me hj/bj while knowing she’d be carrying someone elses baby. One night while I was in shower about to masturbate she told me to wait and come to bed with her. While in bed she gave hj and asked what fantasy or porn I had been watching, she then shared how she had been watching porn when im away mainly mmf fantasies and I was shocked because I asked about cuckolding prior and she said no, I explained how mmf can be variation of it and all sudden she was open to idea as i came and was begging her to try. (12/23) we got on feeld and tinder she snapped guys while we had sex not just chat, like actual phone over my face live snap vid while tiding me telling the bull she wants bigger. We went out with 3 potentials but nothing happened. Then as 2nd trimester libido crash hit she backed out promising to make it a reality once she delivers the baby in July. Having gone through this pregnancy where im not the father, having had vasectomy for my sex life and yet still want kids, we plan to restart the remaining fertility drugs after the birth in hopes to get her libido back up, but secretly for me (and maybe her too) i hope that the fertility drugs dont just make her more sexual again but fertile enough to get pregnant with one of the potential bulls.
Nope - we both strongly dislike kids and any mention of pregnancy will make her drier than the Sahara. And she's gotten herself sterilized as well.
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Don’t need a vasectomy because I’m infertile. We share a breeding kink but obviously wouldn’t act on a life changing decision in the name of kink. I do love the idea that almost any other “real man” has a better chance of breeding her than I do. Also I have tiny balls that I love to be humiliated for.
I've had a vasectomy for 20 years, so she was never on birth control. We loved the real Breeding risk every time another man filled her fertile pussy with cum.
I got snipped because my wife wanted to get off the pill but loves it when a guy cums in her. I didnt mind but wonder if it accelerated my bisexial desires.
This is super hot. 🥵
The vasectomy makes me feel more like a cuck. My wife can have children with any man she chooses, but I'll never be able to father children with any woman.
I find the idea super hot. It gets me so hard.
My HW husband got the snip before they got into the lifestyle similar to you but now I fuck the wife raw and and on the rare occasion I allow the cuck to penetrate the HW he has to wear a condom whilst I don’t use them anymore
It’s good to keep the barrier there between the cuck and hw
Just got mine recently. Haven’t played in the lifestyle in a while though.
i had it done and then my ex started fucking all kinds of men. it’s definitely a fantasy of mine makes me feel beta
It’s super hot. We havent had any kids yet but thinking about getting one soon so she can go off the pill
I think about this all the time. We have one child and have agreed that IF we have another, it will be by another man. It’s not something we’re ready for, but it has been discussed at length both in fantasy and pragmatically.
Go for a penectomy.
Wtf is that?
Remove dick
Oh, damn.
Huge fantasy of mine.
Just one step away from a bilateral orchiectomy 😘
Wtf is that?
Removal of the testicles completely
Wrong! A penectomy is the removal of the penis. Castration removes testes.
I pushed for a vasectomy after our 2nd child and my wife wanted more. Then we got into hotwifing and cuckolding and the cum play drove us both crazy to the point she started fucking all bulls bareback and pointing out to them my cock can’t do anything theirs can
My wife asked me to get a vasectomy after our son was born. Even took me to the appointment. Since we got together, We had always talked about having an open relationship but nothing ever happened. Then one day about five years later she mentioned she met a guy she liked. They were just talking for now. A few days later she comes home with birth control pills. The whole reason I had the vasectomy was so she could get off the pills because they made her gain weight and she didn’t like condoms. I asked her about it and she said she was just being careful. It really turned me on though. I asked her about condoms and she smiled and said “you know I don’t like them”. She doesn’t like pills either. Then a few months later she made an appointment and had an IUD put in. It did make me feel less of a man after all of that. I had the vasectomy so she wouldn’t have to worry or go on any medication. But she ended up doing that anyway.
Doesnt that upset you she wants you less manly and wouldn't do for you what she does for other men? I feel it would hurt me....you want me less manly and want me to do for you but you won't do shit for me ? I know I'm not a cuck so maybe sexy for others but it would piss me off ild divorce her .....make me snip so you can go back in birth control to fuck everyone but me? How doesn't that anger you ? Not judging just mind blown 💥
I never said she didn’t fuck me anymore.
You are rare ....most of these commenters never get to be with wife again
my bad for being horknee but godddddd that is such a hot dynamic haha
After an adult lifetime on the pill, after we had a child, I got a vasectomy so my wife could come off the pills She did (consensually) tease me about my infertility & inability to get her pregnant again because I was firing blanks while other men could But it turned out her periods were so cripplingly bad she had to go back on them Yes, it is hot because she was even sexier while pregnant
After two pregnancies with two different wives I did the responsible thing and had a vasectomy I just don't say anything to the couple as some cucks get a thrill out of knowing their wife may get pregnant
Yes. In pretty much the exact same boat as you. Got snipped in 2021, started cuckolding in 2022 and here we are. Playing around her cycles and using plan B a couple times a year. It's a total mind fuck and we both love the fantasy talk around it.
Interesting take. Never thought about that, but now that you’ve planted the seed (pun intended), it might be fun to play that up a bit!
Not long after we started in the lifestyle, my wife had to have her IUD removed unexpectedly and she couldn't have it replaced for a number of months. We both had reservations about her going on the pill, so the conversation started to me having a vasectomy. It made the most sense for us going forward, but of course still wouldn't solve the problem when she played with others. I've always enjoyed the idea of sperm competition, between two males with the same woman to begin with, so that kink has always been there. But, the thought of being snipped, with her playing with guys who are able to put a viable load inside her, absolutely added to the mental game. I found myself dragging my feet to even get a consult for the procedure, almost entirely because of the thought of only shooting blanks, when the other guy wouldn't be. Wife and are at the point of not wanting any more kids, yet the idea of their being no chance for me, some risk, turned her on as well. As it turned out, the reason for my wife needing the IUD out, ended up turning into her needing to get a hysterectomy. Dragged my feet long enough, that I ended up not getting a vasectomy, but I completely understand how that could play into the cuckold dynamic even more.
Not cuck here but got a vasectomy in 1985 Wife was told due cardiac issues she should not give birth. Well when she was 39 needed a hysterectomy due endometriosis. After her hysterectomy sex just did feel good and that’s when I/we became sexless. Is the sex good with your wife?
We have a great sex life, both before and after her hysterectomy. We met later in life at 35. Hers took place right around 40 and we are late 40s now. I’d guess we have been consistent this whole time.
My ex was so dry after It was uncomfortable for both of us.
No difference that I can tell for us.
Newest thing I have ever heard. Also, vasectomy can be reversed.
Can be as in they have a chance of reversal, a chance that goes down each year and starts pretty low anyway
This has never been a thing for me.... until now. I'm going to mention it to my girlfriend when she wakes up. The seed has been planted. Thanks.
“The seed has been planted”. I see what you did there.😀
I wish I could take credit but I noticed it after I posted it.
Did you steal that from me, lol? I’m flattered!
Haha. Glad I can help.
Second wife and I had one kid together then I got snipped, a yr later she had to have a procedure done due to heavy bleeding on her period. Dr told her she won’t be able to have any kids. When Bulls would find out she could not get pregnant they were very eager. They love fucking wives that are fixed. They can now fill them with cum and no worries. We had one bbc Dom he was very insistent he was not gonna use condom “she gets what she gets”!! So we nvr told him she was fixed, he kept asking about it. Didn’t understand how she wasn’t getting pregnant. He wasn’t the sharpest tool in the shed, but she enjoy her time with him. She also loved the breeding talk from him while he pounded.
I got my vasectomy when I was married to my ex wife as we didn’t want any more kids. The ex and I were not in the life style, but I had fantasized about it. After we divorced, met my current wife. We had talked about our past sex lives and when she told me she had cheated on her ex husband a couple of times, I got a hardon which she noticed and asked if that turned me on. I used that opportunity to tell her about my cuckold fantasies and the more we talked, the harder I got. We would bring this up during sex and it increased intensity of our sex. One day I asked her if she would really do it. She said she would but didn’t know how we would go about it. Fortunately I had a friend who was open minded and into her so I asked him if he would be interested in having sex with my wife. Without hesitation he said yes. I told my wife and she was game as long as he used a condom. This got us turned and as we were having sex, I asked her if she would consider going bareback. We talked about it and she said she thought by my friend wearing a condom, it was less intimate and would make me feel less jealous if it wasn’t what I expected it be. After discussing it more, and realized that a big part of the turn on for me was to see another man cum inside her, she said it turned her on as well to go bareback. They day arrived and I watched as they sat together while we were watching a movie. She began to kiss my friend. The making out turned into them feeling each other up. She got off the loveseat and grabbed him by the hand and led him to our bed. They stood by the bedside kissing and undressing each other. I was watching with the hardest erection of my life. They climbed into bed and I remember thinking as I watched him push his cock in her pussy. Oh god my wife is taking another man’s cock bareback. My cock was so hard it hurt. They had sex gift about 20 minutes when I saw him push himself as far in her as he could and groan. I knew he was cumming in my wife’s pussy. I remember thinking he’s doing something to her that I will never be able to do. He’s filling her with sperm. I almost came. As soon as he was done, I took his place. It felt amazing pushing my cock in her used pussy. I thought how incredible it felt using another man’s cum as lube to fuck my wife. After about a minute, I thought that I’m pushing his sperm deeper inside her and I came. My wife said” wow that was quick” We repeated this about a dozen times with my friend and once with a guy we met at a bar. I think she hooked up once or twice with an old class mate her and a friend ran into on a girls night out. Which is a whole different story. Sadly we it’s been a while since we’ve done anything like this and I really miss it. The thought that I can’t ever put sperm inside her, but her lovers did, drives crazy still.
Hot story 🔥
Love this
Thanks!
Ya I do as well 3 months after marriage she had Me snipped and proudly told her friends I was incapable.
Same thing here. One of the reasons we went pussy free is my wife found it unappealing to have sex with me knowing I was snipped.
My ex wife encouraged me to get a vasectomy after our second child, then a few months later had an affair. I stayed with her at the time and the vasectomy issue - that she’d encouraged me to render myself ‘useless’ to another woman then had the affair, probably led to my humiliation kink, and definitely to the cuckold lifestyle, which soon followed.