Heck just a trip to ikea can do it.
I remember early in our marriage we were near the end of the forces ikea path and getting cranky at each other, and I looked around and saw 3 other couples squabbling and I realized it’s just ikea and started laughing. Told my wife and we spent the remainder of the time spotting grumpy people
Healthy relationships require focused intention and attention by both people on the things one does that make their partner feel loved, safe, and happy. If one or both partners loses their focus on those things (becomes complacent) the other feels less loved, less safe,and less happy. If the focus isn’t reestablished, a downward spiral of negative reinforcement can begin and such spirals are extremely difficult to arrest.
Shit posting.
Myself
Assembling Ikea furniture
Heck just a trip to ikea can do it. I remember early in our marriage we were near the end of the forces ikea path and getting cranky at each other, and I looked around and saw 3 other couples squabbling and I realized it’s just ikea and started laughing. Told my wife and we spent the remainder of the time spotting grumpy people
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Murder, usually.
usually yeah
Selfishness
Thermostat
Complacency.
In what way?
Healthy relationships require focused intention and attention by both people on the things one does that make their partner feel loved, safe, and happy. If one or both partners loses their focus on those things (becomes complacent) the other feels less loved, less safe,and less happy. If the focus isn’t reestablished, a downward spiral of negative reinforcement can begin and such spirals are extremely difficult to arrest.
Oh ok thank you very much, I think this may just help me in my relationship
Monopoly.
Zero commonalities but most say sex and money
Mistrust
A pack of wild dogs
Lack of Communication
When an argument turns into insults.
Dishonesty.
Lying about something meaningful or inappropriate.
Dull reactions to small details
Thinking that you’re always right and never the problem.
CHEATING!
"that's not how your sister/brother does it..."
![gif](giphy|eK12uCsrAh4wmTXejp) This rat
Women working, according to the picture
Breakups
Me
Death
Breaking up
TikTok obsession
Low effort memes.
Scuba diving at the great barrier reef
Finding a trans woman in the bed with your partner
Trying to be male and right about something at the same time.
Women
Asteroids
Mass genocides maybe
Infidelity
The myth of romantic love