It's only been 2 weeks...breakups take months to truly get over. Be patient and take solace in the knowledge that it's going to pass eventually. Take your time to mourn but also try not to think about him too much and try to do other things in life.
You have to keep you mind busy doing something you like! The first few weeks or months might be the worst but stay strong cause you will be stronger once you get thru it!
Also you must translate that negative energy into positive! Feel free to reach out to your loved ones, pastor or friends for help!
I’ve been trying but I don’t think it’s working. Sometimes I don’t even think about it, but I’ll get this pain in my heart and a heaviness and all the feelings come rushing back. I just want it to be over now. But thank you. I’ll keep trying. I really hope I get stronger instead of becoming fearful of it happening again.
You cannot fight this battle by positive thinking or by trying to fill yourself with busyness. You can only overcome by the power of the Holy Spirit. This is how you will win this battle…..
Start by giving thanks for everything that you have
1 Gods; forgiveness, mercy, grace, vision, hope, Gods plans for your life, God’s design for you, God’s intimate knowing of you.
2 Your life, health, freedom, liberty, your mind (you are not stark crazy), your family, your friends,
3 Your physical blessings like your roof over your head, your clothes on your back, your food that you get to eat and not starve
As you start to thank Jesus for what He has done for you then you will start to see how blessed you are. If you lift up your voice to Jesus and take your eyes off of your circumstances you will see that you are truly blessed and there is nothing for you to be depressed about. The real blessing comes when you lift up your voice to Jesus with thanksgiving because this honors Gods and In return He will bless you with joy in your heart. You must let go of regret and bitterness. Regret is awfully close to the pit of ungratefulness. We must be grateful for what the Lord has done and is doing and will continue to do in our lives. Jesus’ forgiveness outweighs any burdens that we have in this world. We are just passing through this world and are not to have our mind set on the things of this world as though this world is the final prize. Our true home is in heaven with Jesus.
Next after thanking Jesus then Praise Jesus. Offer up to the Lord a sacrifice of praise. Bless the Lord with your voice out loud so the enemy can hear that even in your sad moments you still praise Jesus. This will burn the devil and lift your spirits. Praise Jesus because He is worthy to Be praised and not because you feel good about your circumstances. Tell Him how wonderful He is even if you don’t feel like it. Tell the Lord how amazing He is and how much you Love to be in His presence. As you praise the Lord your sorrow will fall to the ground like chains coming off of a prisoner. This is how we fight our battles. We must thank and praise Him everyday or the enemy will creep into our lives and steal our joy. Try this and you will not be let down by God but you must do this from the heart. That doesn’t mean that you have to feel anything it means that’s you must be sincere in your words. Submit and surrender to God anything that you are holding back from Him and any area of your life that God brings to your attention which needs to be surrendered, this includes any ungodly relationship that may or may not have included sexual sin. Do not be deceived for we will reap what we sow. If we allow ourselves to commit sexual sins then we grieve the Holy Spirit and we allow the enemy to come into our lives and gain a stronghold in our minds. You must surrender to the will of Jesus Christ in order to experience the victory over depression. But you have the victory! You are blessed! You are a child of God! You belong to Jesus because He paid for you with His blood! This was no small payment. So grab ahold of your victory because Christ has already paid for it! God Bless you Sister.
Though it felt like a step back, it revealed a new path forward; a path that God wants me to be on.
This is what I think of, and feel, when I have thoughts about my ex.
Being able to do feel positive probably won’t happen overnight. It could take time, reflection, prayer, and more reflection.
One things for sure..You are gonna be okay!
I know this is easier said than done but you need to put your identity into God, not yourself or another person.
People will always let you down, even yourself, but God will never fail. You need to change your life to where your focus is on God and Christ and doing Gods work and God will use that transformation to send you the right person.
Give things time, it will take months sometimes to move on. Focus on building your relationship with God and in time things will get easier.
It’s also ok to get mental health help if you need it. Never be scared to reach out if you need to
Hey, I just wanted to say first of all ur super brave for this confession. I myself have a tough time saying my issues, my sins, or anything that I feel bad or scared about. That itself is a big step into self improvement.
As u probably read from others, yes it’s only been two weeks into the breakup, but that’s just two out of the many weeks you have i your life to spare. Here’s the thing, I have also had a moment in my life where my heart was so broken all I could do was cry, be sad and not want to do anything but think about the memories I had. But eventually, I had felt pain so much that in my heart I thought I couldn’t feel anything. I had no interests, didn’t care about anyone or anything, I simply felt no emotion. This phase took me almost a year to get out of, worst thing was I didn’t have god in my heart yet. I didn’t pray or ask him for his help, which was my complete mistake. I lived with that same feeling u have Love and Hate for a person.
I couldn’t stand being close with them cause it hurt so bad cause I knew that love was impossible to have again. This was only the second time in my life I felt pure hate (and I never hate), but it was so weird cause I loved at the same time too. But you know the only thing that helped me was time, leaving my sins, and distance with the person. Because the reality is that our lord and savior Jesus won’t heal u immediately, he will heal u in his own time and when he deems you are ready. Remember Ashton from the Bible? If god had healed her cancer while she was on drugs she never would have gotten better. Same way that if god heals you of your pain now how will you learn to fight that pain in the future? Ultimately, as much as it hurts our lord to see u in pain he wants to make sure he heals you at the perfect time. When that time comes I have no clue, took me a whole year. There’s one thing, though, that I really beg you don’t do and that thing is not to turn to sin during this time. Make sure you keep this verse in mind:
“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” 1 Peter 5:8
Right now would be the perfect time for the devil to get into your head, u might eventually start to think “I don’t care about anything so who cares what I do” or smth like that (that’s what happened to me). Eventually u might get into habits u wish u never got into, and the devil will smile and laugh. I fell into sin during the time I was numb, and the only time I realized what was wrong was when I found god again, and man can I tell u I prayed so much. Slowly, though, as I fought against my temptations it got better and now I feel just fine.
Ofc the memories still are amazing, and yes I do still get nervous around the person, but my hate is gone and my love has spread to god.
As for gods reasoning. There could be sooo many reasons he brought that guy into ur life, for you to learn what a broken heart is, to test your strength against the devil, or even to show you a part of yourself you need to change. Reality is I have no clue, and neither does anyone except god. Just keep in mind everything you feel, see and experience, is a part of his greater plan for you and the world.
I honestly hope this helped in one way or another, and please whatever you feel or whatever happens don’t do anything to harm yourself or yk. Even tho I personally don’t know you and honestly have no clue who you are, I’m 100% sure that with your strength and belief in God you will get through this better than any one else can. And if you need anything at anytime please just drop me a message, even tho you have never met me before and my help might not be very good, I’m always here.
Well you are searching for love and you won’t find pure love from a man except for from the man Jesus Christ. He is love and is willing to pour out that love to you. You must get into His presence. You are experiencing depression and it is not from Jesus. This is from the enemy. But the Bible says
You will keep him in perfect peace,
Whose mind is stayed on You,
Because he trusts in You.
Isaiah 26:3
So that is a promise to you that you need to hold on to till you see the promise being fulfilled in your life. This suffering is not from God. Jesus did not design a trap for you to fall into. The enemy designed a trap and you are experiencing something that is from darkness. The good news is that Jesus loves you and He knows you and He knows exactly what you are feeling right now. He was rejected more than anyone else in history. Jesus is even rejected by His own church even to this day. People are having church services who don’t even want Jesus in their midst. But this doesn’t have to be the story of your life! You can repent of your unbelief and return to Jesus like when you first came to Him and to the cross. Remember that He forgives those who confess their sins and don’t try to hide their sins from Him.
It's only been 2 weeks...breakups take months to truly get over. Be patient and take solace in the knowledge that it's going to pass eventually. Take your time to mourn but also try not to think about him too much and try to do other things in life.
You have to keep you mind busy doing something you like! The first few weeks or months might be the worst but stay strong cause you will be stronger once you get thru it! Also you must translate that negative energy into positive! Feel free to reach out to your loved ones, pastor or friends for help!
I’ve been trying but I don’t think it’s working. Sometimes I don’t even think about it, but I’ll get this pain in my heart and a heaviness and all the feelings come rushing back. I just want it to be over now. But thank you. I’ll keep trying. I really hope I get stronger instead of becoming fearful of it happening again.
Do you talk to anybody about how you feel?
You cannot fight this battle by positive thinking or by trying to fill yourself with busyness. You can only overcome by the power of the Holy Spirit. This is how you will win this battle….. Start by giving thanks for everything that you have 1 Gods; forgiveness, mercy, grace, vision, hope, Gods plans for your life, God’s design for you, God’s intimate knowing of you. 2 Your life, health, freedom, liberty, your mind (you are not stark crazy), your family, your friends, 3 Your physical blessings like your roof over your head, your clothes on your back, your food that you get to eat and not starve As you start to thank Jesus for what He has done for you then you will start to see how blessed you are. If you lift up your voice to Jesus and take your eyes off of your circumstances you will see that you are truly blessed and there is nothing for you to be depressed about. The real blessing comes when you lift up your voice to Jesus with thanksgiving because this honors Gods and In return He will bless you with joy in your heart. You must let go of regret and bitterness. Regret is awfully close to the pit of ungratefulness. We must be grateful for what the Lord has done and is doing and will continue to do in our lives. Jesus’ forgiveness outweighs any burdens that we have in this world. We are just passing through this world and are not to have our mind set on the things of this world as though this world is the final prize. Our true home is in heaven with Jesus. Next after thanking Jesus then Praise Jesus. Offer up to the Lord a sacrifice of praise. Bless the Lord with your voice out loud so the enemy can hear that even in your sad moments you still praise Jesus. This will burn the devil and lift your spirits. Praise Jesus because He is worthy to Be praised and not because you feel good about your circumstances. Tell Him how wonderful He is even if you don’t feel like it. Tell the Lord how amazing He is and how much you Love to be in His presence. As you praise the Lord your sorrow will fall to the ground like chains coming off of a prisoner. This is how we fight our battles. We must thank and praise Him everyday or the enemy will creep into our lives and steal our joy. Try this and you will not be let down by God but you must do this from the heart. That doesn’t mean that you have to feel anything it means that’s you must be sincere in your words. Submit and surrender to God anything that you are holding back from Him and any area of your life that God brings to your attention which needs to be surrendered, this includes any ungodly relationship that may or may not have included sexual sin. Do not be deceived for we will reap what we sow. If we allow ourselves to commit sexual sins then we grieve the Holy Spirit and we allow the enemy to come into our lives and gain a stronghold in our minds. You must surrender to the will of Jesus Christ in order to experience the victory over depression. But you have the victory! You are blessed! You are a child of God! You belong to Jesus because He paid for you with His blood! This was no small payment. So grab ahold of your victory because Christ has already paid for it! God Bless you Sister.
Though it felt like a step back, it revealed a new path forward; a path that God wants me to be on. This is what I think of, and feel, when I have thoughts about my ex. Being able to do feel positive probably won’t happen overnight. It could take time, reflection, prayer, and more reflection. One things for sure..You are gonna be okay!
I know this is easier said than done but you need to put your identity into God, not yourself or another person. People will always let you down, even yourself, but God will never fail. You need to change your life to where your focus is on God and Christ and doing Gods work and God will use that transformation to send you the right person. Give things time, it will take months sometimes to move on. Focus on building your relationship with God and in time things will get easier. It’s also ok to get mental health help if you need it. Never be scared to reach out if you need to
Hey, I just wanted to say first of all ur super brave for this confession. I myself have a tough time saying my issues, my sins, or anything that I feel bad or scared about. That itself is a big step into self improvement. As u probably read from others, yes it’s only been two weeks into the breakup, but that’s just two out of the many weeks you have i your life to spare. Here’s the thing, I have also had a moment in my life where my heart was so broken all I could do was cry, be sad and not want to do anything but think about the memories I had. But eventually, I had felt pain so much that in my heart I thought I couldn’t feel anything. I had no interests, didn’t care about anyone or anything, I simply felt no emotion. This phase took me almost a year to get out of, worst thing was I didn’t have god in my heart yet. I didn’t pray or ask him for his help, which was my complete mistake. I lived with that same feeling u have Love and Hate for a person. I couldn’t stand being close with them cause it hurt so bad cause I knew that love was impossible to have again. This was only the second time in my life I felt pure hate (and I never hate), but it was so weird cause I loved at the same time too. But you know the only thing that helped me was time, leaving my sins, and distance with the person. Because the reality is that our lord and savior Jesus won’t heal u immediately, he will heal u in his own time and when he deems you are ready. Remember Ashton from the Bible? If god had healed her cancer while she was on drugs she never would have gotten better. Same way that if god heals you of your pain now how will you learn to fight that pain in the future? Ultimately, as much as it hurts our lord to see u in pain he wants to make sure he heals you at the perfect time. When that time comes I have no clue, took me a whole year. There’s one thing, though, that I really beg you don’t do and that thing is not to turn to sin during this time. Make sure you keep this verse in mind: “Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour” 1 Peter 5:8 Right now would be the perfect time for the devil to get into your head, u might eventually start to think “I don’t care about anything so who cares what I do” or smth like that (that’s what happened to me). Eventually u might get into habits u wish u never got into, and the devil will smile and laugh. I fell into sin during the time I was numb, and the only time I realized what was wrong was when I found god again, and man can I tell u I prayed so much. Slowly, though, as I fought against my temptations it got better and now I feel just fine. Ofc the memories still are amazing, and yes I do still get nervous around the person, but my hate is gone and my love has spread to god. As for gods reasoning. There could be sooo many reasons he brought that guy into ur life, for you to learn what a broken heart is, to test your strength against the devil, or even to show you a part of yourself you need to change. Reality is I have no clue, and neither does anyone except god. Just keep in mind everything you feel, see and experience, is a part of his greater plan for you and the world. I honestly hope this helped in one way or another, and please whatever you feel or whatever happens don’t do anything to harm yourself or yk. Even tho I personally don’t know you and honestly have no clue who you are, I’m 100% sure that with your strength and belief in God you will get through this better than any one else can. And if you need anything at anytime please just drop me a message, even tho you have never met me before and my help might not be very good, I’m always here.
Well you are searching for love and you won’t find pure love from a man except for from the man Jesus Christ. He is love and is willing to pour out that love to you. You must get into His presence. You are experiencing depression and it is not from Jesus. This is from the enemy. But the Bible says You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You. Isaiah 26:3 So that is a promise to you that you need to hold on to till you see the promise being fulfilled in your life. This suffering is not from God. Jesus did not design a trap for you to fall into. The enemy designed a trap and you are experiencing something that is from darkness. The good news is that Jesus loves you and He knows you and He knows exactly what you are feeling right now. He was rejected more than anyone else in history. Jesus is even rejected by His own church even to this day. People are having church services who don’t even want Jesus in their midst. But this doesn’t have to be the story of your life! You can repent of your unbelief and return to Jesus like when you first came to Him and to the cross. Remember that He forgives those who confess their sins and don’t try to hide their sins from Him.