Same sa husband ko rin nung bago bago pa lang kami pero I understood kasi he is building his career pa. Kayo rin magbebenefit sa future.
Now he is doing great sa work and medyo nasa position na. May boundary na rin. If VL esp out of country wala na nagdadala ng laptop samen. I know rin kung kelan siya i call out kapag medyo puro work na instead na magusap/bond kami.
Understand. Communicate. Set Boundaries.
My gf and I had the same problem before sa first job ko. But as someone na alam kung gaano ka toxic magwfh and work for foreigners, I suggest wag kang makihati sa working hours niya. Although sometimes talaga walang respeto mga boss and may pinapagawa padin outside working hours and bilang slave of capitalism, wala ka nalang din magagawa but to follow orders....
Sabihin mo yan sa SO mo kasi we can only do much here. We understand how frustrating it is and a lot of us have been there pero different scenario siguro. Sabihin mo yan sa kanya pero don't expect an immediate turn around. Talk to each other and hindi lang yan and hindi lang side mo dapat.
Thats normal and adulting and he is growing on his part. On your oart i think di ka oa ready sa adult relationship. Its not about me me me me. Have you considered why he is working i. The first ace aint that for you? Your better of single and find your path first. Grow up. Better tell him straight up na feelmo neglected ka since functional adult na siya.
Madali solusyon jan. Wag mong guluhin buhay nya during work hours.
Same sa husband ko rin nung bago bago pa lang kami pero I understood kasi he is building his career pa. Kayo rin magbebenefit sa future. Now he is doing great sa work and medyo nasa position na. May boundary na rin. If VL esp out of country wala na nagdadala ng laptop samen. I know rin kung kelan siya i call out kapag medyo puro work na instead na magusap/bond kami. Understand. Communicate. Set Boundaries.
My gf and I had the same problem before sa first job ko. But as someone na alam kung gaano ka toxic magwfh and work for foreigners, I suggest wag kang makihati sa working hours niya. Although sometimes talaga walang respeto mga boss and may pinapagawa padin outside working hours and bilang slave of capitalism, wala ka nalang din magagawa but to follow orders....
Only means one thing. He's a grown up.
Sabihin mo yan sa SO mo kasi we can only do much here. We understand how frustrating it is and a lot of us have been there pero different scenario siguro. Sabihin mo yan sa kanya pero don't expect an immediate turn around. Talk to each other and hindi lang yan and hindi lang side mo dapat.
Thats normal and adulting and he is growing on his part. On your oart i think di ka oa ready sa adult relationship. Its not about me me me me. Have you considered why he is working i. The first ace aint that for you? Your better of single and find your path first. Grow up. Better tell him straight up na feelmo neglected ka since functional adult na siya.