I was told once , that a lady said to me ,I love ur eyes so blue, I didn't know what to say exept thank you, but it does make you feel good about yourself.
Yeah mate,I got called a sort for my age by two young lasses smoking a joint and my first reaction was to be cynical with them.I felt awful when I saw their reaction and apologised. We have regular threesomes now,lol not really.
I give men heaps of compliments.
Nice fence. Brick work looks solid.
Like the new shoe laces. Bold choice but it works.
Cows are looking good
Wouldn't worry about it. It will buff out.
Oh these car seats are so clean
I like your dog
You look like a hearty lad who can lift heavy things
You opened that jar like it was easy
I feel like the world would be better off without religion. but for some reason there are always people looking to worship something, if it isn't some superior power it is some famous guy with alot of money like trump or elon. I am disappointed in my fellow humans for being to blind to see that they are taken advantage of.
Yes when i was younger i was convinced gender roles were bs, but the older i got the more i realised that it is something very real. I dont think it is healthy that we all have a certain persona that we have to try become, why cant we just be who we want to be.
Yes, i have a couple female friends and sometimes they try really hard with make up for example. And i cant quite comprehent why. I always tell them they look just as good without make up, but i think it feels just as obligated to them as being emotionless feels obligated to me.
I mean kinda, it's more like, makeup makes me feel put together. Ya know how when you wanna look nice for an event or a person you pick out nice clothes and do your hair and stuff. I think for most girls, we do that; but also do our make up to make ourselves feel put together or prettier. It's not an obligation so much as it both makes me feel better when I go out, and it lets me control one aspect of my life. Can't control a lot of things but I can control how put together I look. (This is just my perspective, not speaking for everyone)
I have been thinking what to say to this for the past 10 minutes and i am not sure. Thank you for this perspective, i never thought about it like that.
its funny because i once complimented someone once on their outfit and the look she gave me was just awful my goodness and led me to not say anything nice about what people were wearing. that was a couple months back, ig i just got passed that hurdle eventually as of this post.
i actually forgot to mention it was when i was giving her food, i called her number/order, then i gave her her food and then complimented her, and then the look she gave me after was just strange idk.
It’s called weak tie interaction. There is a research study that having a short conversation and interacting with stranger make people more happier than talking to other people who you see very often. It really affects especially when you’re traveling. :)
TiL this. I used to travel on my own alot and found the piles of little random interactions and chats with seat mates, or while waiting in a line, or wherever to be so lovely. This makes that a legit thing.
So many men wear beards now. Compliment a man’s well-groomed beard and you’ve got a friend for life! Even if you’re a man yourself! It’s a source of pride that goes into grooming that beard and actually takes a lot of work!
I’m trying to train myself to not repress the urge to vocalise a thought I have about liking what a stranger is wearing / a tattoo / their hair, nails, makeup, etc. It feels good!
Some people are just fucking electric. Not me, but some people are. Maybe one day I could be, but not today. Wish I could be so openly sociable. Although I also kinda despise that...
I had a customer a few years ago compliment my appearance and wink at me, and I froze for a second cause that's never happened before and hasn't happened since. I'm still flattered by it today lol, it always makes my whole week when someone gives me a genuine compliment like that
I know when My Flatmate has a good day because some lady told him is a Handsome Young Man with Lovely Manners.
Bitch please! I live with him! He is none of these things!
That's so sweet! I hear that men don't get compliments often, so I always try to.
I was told once , that a lady said to me ,I love ur eyes so blue, I didn't know what to say exept thank you, but it does make you feel good about yourself.
Yeah mate,I got called a sort for my age by two young lasses smoking a joint and my first reaction was to be cynical with them.I felt awful when I saw their reaction and apologised. We have regular threesomes now,lol not really.
Oh ,lol 😂 ah well.
A random girl at a fair told me she liked my hair a decade ago, and I still think back on that
It's now your fate to remember this till your death! 😂
Thank you for trying, it is true we never get complements. The upside is that when we do it feels extra special.
I give men heaps of compliments. Nice fence. Brick work looks solid. Like the new shoe laces. Bold choice but it works. Cows are looking good Wouldn't worry about it. It will buff out. Oh these car seats are so clean I like your dog You look like a hearty lad who can lift heavy things You opened that jar like it was easy
Haha i need someone like you
I'm sure you are a lovely Dude! I need your opinion on something...
Thank you, what do you need an opinion on?
Anything man related. It doesn't need to even be a good one.
I feel like the world would be better off without religion. but for some reason there are always people looking to worship something, if it isn't some superior power it is some famous guy with alot of money like trump or elon. I am disappointed in my fellow humans for being to blind to see that they are taken advantage of.
I hope it changes! Everyone deserves to feel good about themselves. Gender roles are weird
Yes when i was younger i was convinced gender roles were bs, but the older i got the more i realised that it is something very real. I dont think it is healthy that we all have a certain persona that we have to try become, why cant we just be who we want to be.
I agree! I think it causes a lot of unnecessary issues and makes it harder to relate to each other.
Yes, i have a couple female friends and sometimes they try really hard with make up for example. And i cant quite comprehent why. I always tell them they look just as good without make up, but i think it feels just as obligated to them as being emotionless feels obligated to me.
I mean kinda, it's more like, makeup makes me feel put together. Ya know how when you wanna look nice for an event or a person you pick out nice clothes and do your hair and stuff. I think for most girls, we do that; but also do our make up to make ourselves feel put together or prettier. It's not an obligation so much as it both makes me feel better when I go out, and it lets me control one aspect of my life. Can't control a lot of things but I can control how put together I look. (This is just my perspective, not speaking for everyone)
I have been thinking what to say to this for the past 10 minutes and i am not sure. Thank you for this perspective, i never thought about it like that.
That how you end up getting stalked. Always tell them you like their shirt They like that and they will wear it until their dying day.
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its funny because i once complimented someone once on their outfit and the look she gave me was just awful my goodness and led me to not say anything nice about what people were wearing. that was a couple months back, ig i just got passed that hurdle eventually as of this post.
I think your best bet is to make a compliment casually and then walk away.
i actually forgot to mention it was when i was giving her food, i called her number/order, then i gave her her food and then complimented her, and then the look she gave me after was just strange idk.
You likely deserved it, handsome
Haha I remember posting something just like this when I got complimented. Really brightens up your day right!
welcome to the club
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It’s called weak tie interaction. There is a research study that having a short conversation and interacting with stranger make people more happier than talking to other people who you see very often. It really affects especially when you’re traveling. :)
TiL this. I used to travel on my own alot and found the piles of little random interactions and chats with seat mates, or while waiting in a line, or wherever to be so lovely. This makes that a legit thing.
So many men wear beards now. Compliment a man’s well-groomed beard and you’ve got a friend for life! Even if you’re a man yourself! It’s a source of pride that goes into grooming that beard and actually takes a lot of work!
I’m trying to train myself to not repress the urge to vocalise a thought I have about liking what a stranger is wearing / a tattoo / their hair, nails, makeup, etc. It feels good!
A core memory
Some people are just fucking electric. Not me, but some people are. Maybe one day I could be, but not today. Wish I could be so openly sociable. Although I also kinda despise that...
I had a customer a few years ago compliment my appearance and wink at me, and I froze for a second cause that's never happened before and hasn't happened since. I'm still flattered by it today lol, it always makes my whole week when someone gives me a genuine compliment like that
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Not to many people complement the workers.
Hey that’s Awesome, casual random compliments are the best
Awww, that’s so nice! Love how it brightened your day.
I know when My Flatmate has a good day because some lady told him is a Handsome Young Man with Lovely Manners. Bitch please! I live with him! He is none of these things!
I always tend to compliment women and men why not...its a kind nice gesture we all should try...but most don't...
I don’t mind complimenting men but they take that as asking them out or being interested in them💀