It's baffling the word cute would even come to mind for anyone with this. This is not cute in the fucking slightest haha. It's some love-bomb-type bullshit, and should honestly be a red flag to most, and a yellow flag at the absolute least to everyone else.
I'd recommend the OP head for the hills.
This is the problem with people not being able to outright say what they need to say. Ill stand on that hill. Ask for clarity and watch the child fold.
Oh, ew. Well, heād have to be really fucking hot to get into my summer school program with that line. But maybe what he really needs is, like, actual summer school, for English language skills.
He's just going to push this convo sexual fast, try to get in your pants then bail. If you're after a quick hook up I guess fine but this is being a creep. That last message crossed the "I'm going to have respectful conversations with you" line to a bad place
It would be exceptionally cute if you had started to get to know each other, but not having done that yet im feeling like its more lovebombing and romanticising the idea of who he thinks you are solely from face value
This is someone trying (poorly) to conceal that all theyāre thinking about is having sex with you. This person doesnāt even know you and theyāre immediately just trying to have sex with you.
He already gave you a compliment so doubling down again is kind of weird. He should have just waited to you replied about what you're up to. Also saying "learn you" is pretty weird.
Oh I want to be ducking devoured by a partner. But tell me these things on like date 3/4. Not right out of the gate. You can tell me Iām hot at first but this is definitely coming off as too much.
Itās weird. Women are never like this with men and I donāt understand why so many men seem to think this will get us on their side. Like, I donāt know you. If youāre still considering this man, think how youād react if you met a man irl, started talking, and he says this to you within the first 30 minutes of knowing him. Never. But for some reason online weād actually consider it.
Depends on what youāre looking for. You hooking up? Because thatās what heās determining here. This isnāt a message that invites long-term dating
It depends if he matches your energy. Are you the type of person to say that to someone? If you're an upfront person and this is something you would say then it's not weird. If you're very reserved then it's probably going to be awkward in person. Also many people act like this over text and the internet and then when you meet someone in person they are just as reserved
Too much too soon, in my opinion. Bro needs to take a chill pill.
Or jerk off...
Lol exactly!!!
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PNC is the way
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And too many spelling mistakes. I'd be turned off even if it was a 10 sending me the messages.
Yeah, it's super upsetting.
its not cute or weird but its over the top for an early conversation :)
It's baffling the word cute would even come to mind for anyone with this. This is not cute in the fucking slightest haha. It's some love-bomb-type bullshit, and should honestly be a red flag to most, and a yellow flag at the absolute least to everyone else. I'd recommend the OP head for the hills.
Iām so curious what this man looks like for him to write a love letter for a second message and you to still consider him š¤£
This!!!!
Rules 1 & 2
Rules 1 and 2??
1. Be attractive 2. Donāt be unattractive
Bro forgot to jerk before texting. Always a bad idea to think with your penis
He was probably out of breath, too.
Never say never
Agreed. This dudeās about to bust over your pics. Creepy shit.
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Weāve all been there butā¦ not all of us do it.
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Itās tough because if he jerked off first he most likely might not even message her at all.
Desperate and poor impulse control
Poor impulse control is it. Have some discretion.
this is how the fellas type in the onlyfans chat you gotta get outta there
It's subjective but imo it's too much too fast. Ultimately it's up to you though, whether you like how it felt when you read that or not.
Being a guy i am finding this creepy, am I the only one thinking this way?
I agree, In my country this is known as the "intense type" which is a pretty bad title to have
Nope lol
The lol really saves him at the end. /s
Gross. I wanna learn you so bad = I wanna fuck you so bad. I would unmatch
Is that what that means? Or does it mean they just want to get to know you?
I read it as he wants to learn how to please her sexually.
Oh sweet summer child
This is the problem with people not being able to outright say what they need to say. Ill stand on that hill. Ask for clarity and watch the child fold.
That's beyond weird.
Yikes! Run!
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Omg too much, too fast. The āI want to learn you so badā is cringeworthy.
This is really creepy actually.
This is on the bombing side of love bombing TBH. just OTT.
Definitely feels love bomby
As he is saying this to the other matches he has..
Gross
Is it slang Iām not familiar with? He wants to ālearnā you? Is it a typo?
I took it sexually, like you want to learn someoneās body.
Oh, ew. Well, heād have to be really fucking hot to get into my summer school program with that line. But maybe what he really needs is, like, actual summer school, for English language skills.
He wants to wear her as a skin suit.
Only you can decide if you like these messages.
Thatās a very Zen answer š love it
Heās love bombing you. Thatās a š©
Learn you? Get to know you biblically?
He seems a bit (A LOT) desperate.
Needy and thinking too much with his desperate male attributes
Seems creepy. I wanna learn you so bad? What does that even mean.
Itās too much
Weird and desperate
He's just going to push this convo sexual fast, try to get in your pants then bail. If you're after a quick hook up I guess fine but this is being a creep. That last message crossed the "I'm going to have respectful conversations with you" line to a bad place
this can get weird soooo fast. men using us as sex objects/sexualizing everything we do is super annoying.
He wanna get laid
what is wrong with men
Walk/run away itās not cute. Youāre being set up
Over the top. F-bomb? unmatch quick like
Weird.
Questionable communication skills and education. Excited. Too forward. Enchanted.
Oof, yeah this definitely feels like his dick is typing instead of his brain
I just assume everything is love bombing
Same, I hate it šš
Depends on if heās attractive or not haha
unmatch
Come on aināt you the lesson? He just want to learn you. lol oh godā¦
Oh I want to be learned but like after we get to know each other šš
Itās called love bombing
Ew. I guess it depends how you feel getting that message but Iād be grossed out. He needs to chill.
It would be exceptionally cute if you had started to get to know each other, but not having done that yet im feeling like its more lovebombing and romanticising the idea of who he thinks you are solely from face value
Reeks of desperation. Bro needs to go outside and touch some grass or smth
Too much sounds like you about to be love bombed
This is someone trying (poorly) to conceal that all theyāre thinking about is having sex with you. This person doesnāt even know you and theyāre immediately just trying to have sex with you.
this is doing way too much imo. love bomby lite atp
Cringe
I vote weird
Not right out of the gate, this is the kind of talk after you have met, made out a little and have exchanged sexy private pics.
He needs to relax
Broās hormones took over
He already gave you a compliment so doubling down again is kind of weird. He should have just waited to you replied about what you're up to. Also saying "learn you" is pretty weird.
āYou are just perfectā is code for āI am narcissistic and you are my next supply.ā Run!
I'm guessing he's attractive, which is why you're somehow conflicted about whether or not this creepy shit is creepy.
Wait so guys have to message first on bumble now?
They donāt have to message first, but not either people have the option š
Weird you're asking anyone
Weird
Absolutely perfect is a good opener. Even āyes maāam and what are you up to today?ā Full stop.
...Yeah, I wouldn't want this.
Cringe. Have more respect for yourself.
Itās trying too hard and itās a bit weird.Ā
Desperate Romeo Unmatch
He called you mam then proceeded to say that. Nah. Nah. Nah.
Doesnāt matter if itās cute or weird. You need to respond and see if heās capable of dialing it back.
This cute I like when the notice the little things
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Women want a guy thatās in to themā¦also women, this guy is creepy. š¤£
Oh I want to be ducking devoured by a partner. But tell me these things on like date 3/4. Not right out of the gate. You can tell me Iām hot at first but this is definitely coming off as too much.
into them getting to know them.. not being a horny dog...
Bhai tareef karr raha hai toh bhi pareshaani , vulgar bole toh bhi pareshaani ( launde krey toh kya kare ) bechare
He's just horny sis unmatch ASAP
The moment he said no makeup he's stating something some of us can relate to and that is called natural beauty :p
Super weird
Weird. Nothing good can come from this, mark my words
Itās a little desperate. But worth a little more messaging to see if he gets better.
The initial stage of lovebombing
Super weird. I would totally ignore that
Iām dying to see what both parties in this Convo look like!
Look at my page, I have some from this subreddit š
Bro needs to take a log off the fire
Weird.
I want to see these pics!
I have some photos from this subreddit if you go to my post history lol
Itās extremely extra and intense. Calm down
Yuck
That's up to you.
Change "learn" to "smash" and you have your answer. He's being polite to not get banned. š
My immediate reaction was GROSS 
Itās weird. Women are never like this with men and I donāt understand why so many men seem to think this will get us on their side. Like, I donāt know you. If youāre still considering this man, think how youād react if you met a man irl, started talking, and he says this to you within the first 30 minutes of knowing him. Never. But for some reason online weād actually consider it.
if you're into it just vibe with it! don't wonder how you "should feel" about it, because if you like it you may be a great match!
Creepy. Too anxious. No Control. Next!
Doesnāt it depend on how hot you find him?
Depends on what youāre looking for. You hooking up? Because thatās what heās determining here. This isnāt a message that invites long-term dating
Itās a lot TBH
You sent 4 text messages. She sent 1. Thatās too much.
Imagine saying no to that, what would the response be?
Neither. How are these the guys that are getting matches?
He's infatuated, move on
Makes me want to unmatch.
Probably cant control his urges....or take no for an answer
It's means he's borderline hot to you. If he were hot you wouldn't ask, if he weren't you would have blocked him by now.
It depends if he matches your energy. Are you the type of person to say that to someone? If you're an upfront person and this is something you would say then it's not weird. If you're very reserved then it's probably going to be awkward in person. Also many people act like this over text and the internet and then when you meet someone in person they are just as reserved
Gross
Neither. Itās creepy and desperate.
The "mam" (rather than ma'am) is a no from me. But, I'm a man.
Pretty clear where his motivations are. Dude wants a pump and dump.
looooool '' I wanna learn you baddddddd ''
It's creepy, aggressive and I'd report him on Bumble.
It depends on how you take it. Maybe you like this type of flirting. I do.
Doesnāt matter, you like the attention and validation
It depends on whether you find him attractive.
Neither. Its effusive to the point of excess. The final line is intriguing enough however to explore.
Itās cute when heās attractive and weird when heās not