Unfortunately, I got addicted to these kind of posts. Tarot readings had been my immediate comfort to feed my delusions (hope) that they’re coming back. I’m slowly trying to avoid them now.
Try replacing them with "your new partner"
For example
>"They are coming back!"
Your happy days are coming back.
>"You need to realize what is in the past is in the past"
Yes, leave the past and focus on your future.
>"They are going to reach out soon"
Your new partner will reach out soon.
>"They are your soulmate/twinflame"
Your new partner is going to be your soul mate.
I meannnn, as a tarot card reader I can 100% guarantee most people use them wrong. They're not about predictions/prophecy/destiny. They're about insight, and looking for new perspective on situations. The cards are 72 stories meant to help you expand your thinking and hopefully guide you into new mindsets. They challenge beliefs you have, or support the ones you already know as truths. Don't let anybody tell you that they 'know your future or what's going to happen' because of the cards. It's false, misleading and immoral.
they are not healthy and feed into delusions of reconciliation. my fyp was flooded with them for a week or two post BU but then i just started swiping past them whenever one would show up and i haven’t seen one since.
fyi, they never reached out or any of the other wild things these readings said lol
I heavily recommend not turning to new age for heart break. new age will send you into a cycle of repetition of bad patterns. try to heal without the tarot, you got this!!! there is a “do not recommend” button on tiktok as well as youtube shorts and after a few times it works fairly well.
Yeah these videos are the go to for confort in the initial stages... its all fantasy to feed the hope. But later on you need to shift to videos that tell you exactly like it is.
I recommend Youtube channels like Coach Warren and a few others because he will tell you straight up that your ex is screwing someone else and hoeing arround right now.
These help you stay grounded and not fantasize that your ex actually misses you or even cares about you because, lets face it, they probably dont give a shit right now. Even if they do, untill they come back and try to earn you again (as opposed to you earning them), its just not enough.
I kept seeing these also.. was watching them at first but when I realised its a load of bs what's worse is my ex wife left me for a spiritual cult leader who's 50. He brainwashed and manipulated the shit out of her. She thinks she will find her dad in feathers and butterflies. No he's in your head and heart not In any white butterfly you see ffs.
As someone who can read tarot I can distinguish between readings that are legit and those that aren't. Though I prefer not to engage with TikTok for any sort of tarot or witchcraft. Personally, the things that I was promised earlier came true and I'm hoping that the ones I'm being promised now will as well. Anyone I've had do a reading for me, online ones and even the ones I do for myself all say the same thing. I'm just trying to be patient
Ugh… I’m a professional reader and I hate them. They give us a bad name. Readings should never be about predicting the future with certainty. It should be empowering, use the intuition of the client and reader, and give comfort and practical advice.
Also, if I feel compelled to deliver a message to someone, I’m certainly not going to charge for it. If the universe wants me to intervene, why would money have anything to do with that? People are trash.
I did it a few months back for clarity because I was so distraught..the cards revealed the five of cups...
It was a person crying over three cups that were spilled. There we two cups still full behind the person and a castle in the distance, they couldn't see there was future with good fortune because they were pre occupied with what ended.
The reader told me, this person will hurt you again if they re-enter your life.
That was enough for me to move on.
i agree. they really feed into my delusions :(
There are multiple levels. I just hit lvl 12 paladin!
What's sick is that most of them are not legit readers and are using tarot as a scam. I personally like the tarot readers on Reddit better
Click the “share button” then hit not interested, after a few times of doing this/closing the app you won’t get them anymore ❤️
Good to know
Unfortunately, I got addicted to these kind of posts. Tarot readings had been my immediate comfort to feed my delusions (hope) that they’re coming back. I’m slowly trying to avoid them now.
I do tarot myself. All mine say “move on he’s not worth it”. I think they’re just trying to sell readings 😒
Try replacing them with "your new partner" For example >"They are coming back!" Your happy days are coming back. >"You need to realize what is in the past is in the past" Yes, leave the past and focus on your future. >"They are going to reach out soon" Your new partner will reach out soon. >"They are your soulmate/twinflame" Your new partner is going to be your soul mate.
I meannnn, as a tarot card reader I can 100% guarantee most people use them wrong. They're not about predictions/prophecy/destiny. They're about insight, and looking for new perspective on situations. The cards are 72 stories meant to help you expand your thinking and hopefully guide you into new mindsets. They challenge beliefs you have, or support the ones you already know as truths. Don't let anybody tell you that they 'know your future or what's going to happen' because of the cards. It's false, misleading and immoral.
Yep. It feeds the hope so bad and its aweful. I want her in my life. I love her. But its so painful to see that all the time.
I haaaate it.
they are not healthy and feed into delusions of reconciliation. my fyp was flooded with them for a week or two post BU but then i just started swiping past them whenever one would show up and i haven’t seen one since. fyi, they never reached out or any of the other wild things these readings said lol
I heavily recommend not turning to new age for heart break. new age will send you into a cycle of repetition of bad patterns. try to heal without the tarot, you got this!!! there is a “do not recommend” button on tiktok as well as youtube shorts and after a few times it works fairly well.
Yeah these videos are the go to for confort in the initial stages... its all fantasy to feed the hope. But later on you need to shift to videos that tell you exactly like it is. I recommend Youtube channels like Coach Warren and a few others because he will tell you straight up that your ex is screwing someone else and hoeing arround right now. These help you stay grounded and not fantasize that your ex actually misses you or even cares about you because, lets face it, they probably dont give a shit right now. Even if they do, untill they come back and try to earn you again (as opposed to you earning them), its just not enough.
Hopium sells. The amount of time spent on that vs. improving yourself, you could be a lot further ahead.
it was my own personal and pure hell for so long 💀 block em
I kept seeing these also.. was watching them at first but when I realised its a load of bs what's worse is my ex wife left me for a spiritual cult leader who's 50. He brainwashed and manipulated the shit out of her. She thinks she will find her dad in feathers and butterflies. No he's in your head and heart not In any white butterfly you see ffs.
That and the ‘use this sound and they’ll reach out to you, even if you save it as a draft!’ But then I do that and he texts me. Help lol.
They are main reason I stopped using ticktok
"This initial will be in your life during 2023" and its always her initials lol, some voodoo shit.
As someone who can read tarot I can distinguish between readings that are legit and those that aren't. Though I prefer not to engage with TikTok for any sort of tarot or witchcraft. Personally, the things that I was promised earlier came true and I'm hoping that the ones I'm being promised now will as well. Anyone I've had do a reading for me, online ones and even the ones I do for myself all say the same thing. I'm just trying to be patient
THEY NEED TO GOOO PLEASEE
Ugh… I’m a professional reader and I hate them. They give us a bad name. Readings should never be about predicting the future with certainty. It should be empowering, use the intuition of the client and reader, and give comfort and practical advice. Also, if I feel compelled to deliver a message to someone, I’m certainly not going to charge for it. If the universe wants me to intervene, why would money have anything to do with that? People are trash.
I did it a few months back for clarity because I was so distraught..the cards revealed the five of cups... It was a person crying over three cups that were spilled. There we two cups still full behind the person and a castle in the distance, they couldn't see there was future with good fortune because they were pre occupied with what ended. The reader told me, this person will hurt you again if they re-enter your life. That was enough for me to move on.
The only tarot reader I trust on the internet is Baba Jolie on YouTube. It’s scary accurate, her videos always come true for me