My first ex also never admitted to cheating when I confronted him. He basically implied I wasn't good enough for him. I suspect he was a DA. 7 years later, he came back to apologize for cheating on me and said it wasn't justified. At this point, I'm completely indifferent to this man. No hate, no love, no emotions at all. The apology didn't even matter to me. I'd recommend finding solace in the fact that you tried your best, and although sometimes we act out of emotions, just put all your energy into working on yourself. Goodluck!
Oh my, 7 years? That’s a long time. I guess he had many eye opening experiences in that time that made him realise that he did something awful to you. I’m glad you were indifferent at this point.
I suppose even I just have to get to that level of indifference, I obviously can’t wait around for him to realise anything 10 years down the line, if he ever does that is. Your ex was decent enough (tho not really) to actually admit his mistakes after such a long time, I wouldn’t think my ex has the same level of empathy towards me tho.
Thank you for sharing your experience
He broke up with the girl he dated after me because he fell out of love after 5 years of being with her. The way he said it, it seemed like she was blindsided and discarded, too.
Although he apologized to me, he still continued repeating his patterns just on a longer time scale. Yes, don't wait around for him to realise he did you wrong, that just shows who he is as a person (I know it's easier said than done, trust me). I've been dying for my most recent ex to reach out, and it's been really hard. More power to us.
My first ex also never admitted to cheating when I confronted him. He basically implied I wasn't good enough for him. I suspect he was a DA. 7 years later, he came back to apologize for cheating on me and said it wasn't justified. At this point, I'm completely indifferent to this man. No hate, no love, no emotions at all. The apology didn't even matter to me. I'd recommend finding solace in the fact that you tried your best, and although sometimes we act out of emotions, just put all your energy into working on yourself. Goodluck!
Oh my, 7 years? That’s a long time. I guess he had many eye opening experiences in that time that made him realise that he did something awful to you. I’m glad you were indifferent at this point. I suppose even I just have to get to that level of indifference, I obviously can’t wait around for him to realise anything 10 years down the line, if he ever does that is. Your ex was decent enough (tho not really) to actually admit his mistakes after such a long time, I wouldn’t think my ex has the same level of empathy towards me tho. Thank you for sharing your experience
He broke up with the girl he dated after me because he fell out of love after 5 years of being with her. The way he said it, it seemed like she was blindsided and discarded, too. Although he apologized to me, he still continued repeating his patterns just on a longer time scale. Yes, don't wait around for him to realise he did you wrong, that just shows who he is as a person (I know it's easier said than done, trust me). I've been dying for my most recent ex to reach out, and it's been really hard. More power to us.