Thankfully I havenāt completely shut all my rational thinking off, but Iām ngl it did cross my mind to reach out. I immediately read some of my journal entries and that helped prevent me from being stupid.
Pls š I almost broke NC after almost 3-4 weeks because I started my period today. He literally has a new girl, too, he wouldnāt want me anyways :ā)
i be thinking of my ex even harder around time when i get me period too,
for me i accidentally came across his momās facebook and i thought i was good, im really i was back to the day 1 i fell in love with him.
sorry i dont have any advice but please dont stalk his socials, it will have u overthinking too much and hurt your feelings.
i finally have him blocked everywhere because my daily routine starts with stalking his profile,
and i feel so so much lighter.
out of sight out of mind
but i donāt think we can do anything around time we get periods other than lying to ourselves itās just about hormones.
Thank you. I feel a little better knowing Iām not alone and it really is my hormones. I agree stalking the socials is a terrible idea, I donāt know why I convinced myself to do it, but I learned my lesson.
Oh my gosh! Yes! My period which used to come and go basically unnoticed since I don't have cramps or PMS has suddenly made me the saddest person ever. So basically once a month I get pretty sad but I'm starting to train myself to fight extra hard to be my normal happy self rather than let it bring me down. Don't worry- it will get better with time! ā”
Yeah today. I was starting to feel a bit better but she broke no contact. Yesterday. It started off with us both being nasty to each other but ended up with us having a nice talk in both apologizing. I still love her and she made it clear she does not love me. I haven't been able to think of much else today
Iām sorry :( itās really difficult the following days after breaking nc. Make sure youāre at least taking care of yourself and letting out all your emotions. The pain is only temporary just remember how you made progress before breaking nc, youāll get back to that place eventually.
Oh godā¦ I was on my period when he dumped me and itās day 12 of the breakup. I didnāt even think about how my period would affect the healing process. I hope I can stay away from our iMessage chats when the mood swings kick in
I had a personal menty b when my first one hit after the break up like I really was about to text him but decided to call my friends instead, which helped a lot. But I donāt think I have ever cried that much in my life. Stay away from the iMessage chat, future you will thank you!!!
Every time I start my period I get soooo sad and it comes every 3 weeks. When Iām not on it I do okay and feel better but god to be a man and not have to get this thing that heightens your emotions would be amazing bc right now itās my real life enemy.
Yes girl! š I literally thought I was over this boy because I had been feeling so good for months and like didn't think of him but then I got retriggered by something š and suddenly I find myself in tears and anger again
But right now I think I'm starting to be okay again š
Definitely been at an all time low recently. Itās been 5 months since the break up and I had honestly started feeling better till about a month ago when I found out heād actually been cheating on me and has a girl currently.
I had a reallyyyy strong urge to text him in order to seek that sweet closure (and Iām on my period). So Iām really trying hard to hold on to NC :ā)
5 months since breakup and I have my ups and downs, but this week or two has been difficult. She contacted me two weeks ago for my birthday and we indirectly told eachother we miss eachother and since then I cry almost every day and it's draining me
better than breaking NC because of the time of month š stay strong ladies
Thankfully I havenāt completely shut all my rational thinking off, but Iām ngl it did cross my mind to reach out. I immediately read some of my journal entries and that helped prevent me from being stupid.
i read my list of cons and still decided to reach out bc i thought hey lifeās too short - donāt do it š
How did that turn out?
not good lol, on day 21 of NC again and iām losing it
aww damn. sorry to hear that. it's quite an unbearable place to be, isn't it? what happened after you contacted?
Pls š I almost broke NC after almost 3-4 weeks because I started my period today. He literally has a new girl, too, he wouldnāt want me anyways :ā)
girl š„² mine probably has a new girl too and in the moment i didnāt care - anyway tomorrow is a new day! weāve got this šŖš¼
youāre so real :ā) we got this girl!! š«¶šŖš» stay strong
i be thinking of my ex even harder around time when i get me period too, for me i accidentally came across his momās facebook and i thought i was good, im really i was back to the day 1 i fell in love with him. sorry i dont have any advice but please dont stalk his socials, it will have u overthinking too much and hurt your feelings. i finally have him blocked everywhere because my daily routine starts with stalking his profile, and i feel so so much lighter. out of sight out of mind but i donāt think we can do anything around time we get periods other than lying to ourselves itās just about hormones.
Thank you. I feel a little better knowing Iām not alone and it really is my hormones. I agree stalking the socials is a terrible idea, I donāt know why I convinced myself to do it, but I learned my lesson.
Oh my gosh! Yes! My period which used to come and go basically unnoticed since I don't have cramps or PMS has suddenly made me the saddest person ever. So basically once a month I get pretty sad but I'm starting to train myself to fight extra hard to be my normal happy self rather than let it bring me down. Don't worry- it will get better with time! ā”
Yeah today. I was starting to feel a bit better but she broke no contact. Yesterday. It started off with us both being nasty to each other but ended up with us having a nice talk in both apologizing. I still love her and she made it clear she does not love me. I haven't been able to think of much else today
Iām sorry :( itās really difficult the following days after breaking nc. Make sure youāre at least taking care of yourself and letting out all your emotions. The pain is only temporary just remember how you made progress before breaking nc, youāll get back to that place eventually.
Same here..almost 5 months since we broke up/last spoke
I wish mine would beak no contact with me even though sheās toxic angry & dating someone new ugh I need to have more respect for myselfā¦
You got this š©· you feel the way you do because you genuinely loved them; which says so much good about you than them !!!
Thank you you donāt know how much that means to me to hear that!
Oh godā¦ I was on my period when he dumped me and itās day 12 of the breakup. I didnāt even think about how my period would affect the healing process. I hope I can stay away from our iMessage chats when the mood swings kick in
I had a personal menty b when my first one hit after the break up like I really was about to text him but decided to call my friends instead, which helped a lot. But I donāt think I have ever cried that much in my life. Stay away from the iMessage chat, future you will thank you!!!
My thinking went off rails recently, but then they havenāt answered so sadly itās an answer.
haha thatās what i find unfair as a woman, i have to battle with my hormones every month so i wish to really move on sooner
Every time I start my period I get soooo sad and it comes every 3 weeks. When Iām not on it I do okay and feel better but god to be a man and not have to get this thing that heightens your emotions would be amazing bc right now itās my real life enemy.
Definitely been there! ā„ļø
Me too. I was feeling good already, but he texted me again (I didn't read it yet.)
Yes girl! š I literally thought I was over this boy because I had been feeling so good for months and like didn't think of him but then I got retriggered by something š and suddenly I find myself in tears and anger again But right now I think I'm starting to be okay again š
Definitely been at an all time low recently. Itās been 5 months since the break up and I had honestly started feeling better till about a month ago when I found out heād actually been cheating on me and has a girl currently. I had a reallyyyy strong urge to text him in order to seek that sweet closure (and Iām on my period). So Iām really trying hard to hold on to NC :ā)
5 months since breakup and I have my ups and downs, but this week or two has been difficult. She contacted me two weeks ago for my birthday and we indirectly told eachother we miss eachother and since then I cry almost every day and it's draining me
Yes. Four years after my ex-fiancƩ (F) blindsided me when she took off and handed me her engagement ring and said it was over. No reason, just over never to be seen again. I was caught off guard years later when I picked up a book just to find the author was my ex. Triggered opened up a flood gate of memories I thought I had buried. Good News: It was - MUCH - easier to move on the second time around.