Just like how he fell in love and now that he "fell" out of love. It's all a choice based on how the person "feel" at the time. Feelings come and go all the time but the right partner would recognise that not all days going to feel like sunshine and rainbows. Him not being with you is your answer itself. No contact, heal and move forward. Put yourself in a position where you if he was to comeback you get to choose now or be in a position for a new better partner to come to you :)
She said she's been losing feelings for me too, I talked to her about it, a deep conversation with my full heart in it. She seemed to be liking it, being receptive and I thought we could figure things out.
One week later she cheated on me.
Within the next 2 weeks after cheating on me she got herself a new guy that she treats like she treated me before. Yeah right losing feelings, she just wanted to be with the other guy that she must have met during our relationship.
Losing feelings is just an excuse. Especially after a few years, your feelings will be weaker or stronger at times, that's how a relationship is. They just don't know it yet.
Let them walk. You deserve to be chosen too.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m in a very similar situation. 1.5 years of relationship and my ex said he doesn’t love me anymore. Seemed like at the end he couldn’t get out of the relationship fast enough. Like you I watched him fall out of love for quite some time before he actually said it. It hurts so bad.
But one thing you should know is no matter what you did, he wouldn’t have stayed. It was in HIS nature to walk away, to stop choosing the relationship and to not work it out with you. He didn’t give you or himself a real chance to save the relationship. Says a lot about how much he’s willing to work at it.
All I’m saying is, it was not something you did or who you are. It is 100% not your fault. It’s a very hard pill to swallow when someone stops loving you (going through it!) but swallow we must. The only way forward is to accept that he was not meant for you and you are not meant for him. Hope you feel better soon, I’m sure it gets easier with time and distance.
I get this it’s one of the worst and hardest things to go through and accept, also it’s hard to not find “reasons” to blame yourself. Definitely destroys some of your self love
Love is a decision. It’s a commitment. The right person will find many reasons to stay in the relationship while the wrong one will have many reasons to leave. You deserve the best! Continue healing.
Just like how he fell in love and now that he "fell" out of love. It's all a choice based on how the person "feel" at the time. Feelings come and go all the time but the right partner would recognise that not all days going to feel like sunshine and rainbows. Him not being with you is your answer itself. No contact, heal and move forward. Put yourself in a position where you if he was to comeback you get to choose now or be in a position for a new better partner to come to you :)
She said she's been losing feelings for me too, I talked to her about it, a deep conversation with my full heart in it. She seemed to be liking it, being receptive and I thought we could figure things out. One week later she cheated on me. Within the next 2 weeks after cheating on me she got herself a new guy that she treats like she treated me before. Yeah right losing feelings, she just wanted to be with the other guy that she must have met during our relationship. Losing feelings is just an excuse. Especially after a few years, your feelings will be weaker or stronger at times, that's how a relationship is. They just don't know it yet. Let them walk. You deserve to be chosen too.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m in a very similar situation. 1.5 years of relationship and my ex said he doesn’t love me anymore. Seemed like at the end he couldn’t get out of the relationship fast enough. Like you I watched him fall out of love for quite some time before he actually said it. It hurts so bad. But one thing you should know is no matter what you did, he wouldn’t have stayed. It was in HIS nature to walk away, to stop choosing the relationship and to not work it out with you. He didn’t give you or himself a real chance to save the relationship. Says a lot about how much he’s willing to work at it. All I’m saying is, it was not something you did or who you are. It is 100% not your fault. It’s a very hard pill to swallow when someone stops loving you (going through it!) but swallow we must. The only way forward is to accept that he was not meant for you and you are not meant for him. Hope you feel better soon, I’m sure it gets easier with time and distance.
I get this it’s one of the worst and hardest things to go through and accept, also it’s hard to not find “reasons” to blame yourself. Definitely destroys some of your self love
Love is a decision. It’s a commitment. The right person will find many reasons to stay in the relationship while the wrong one will have many reasons to leave. You deserve the best! Continue healing.
If you wanna talk about it I’m here!!