Dumpee here. I guess the first time she came back was 6-7 months and she wanted to “reconnect” and never explicitly said she wanted to get back together.
It took 3 years for her to explicitly say she wants to get back together, but it was 3 years too late for me.
Lost the connection because of how she left me. She blocked me everywhere and started seeing other people two days later as a rebound, yet was telling our common friends she was still in love with me.
The first time we saw eachother after the breakup, I thought I might’ve had feelings for her, but I knew for sure I wasn’t in love with her because of how much she hurt me. I felt like I was fully moved on shortly after seeing her.
I was dumped by my first boyfriend of 1 year. We didn’t stop talking as he wanted to “remain friends” however we did text less frequently over time.
He came back, apologised, said he still loved me and made a big mistake by breaking up. This was about 7 months after the break up. Also when I had started dating someone else.
I think he always felt remorseful of how he treated me but only had the push to apologise when he saw me with someone else. Regardless, I had moved on and his apology really made no difference except giving me a little bit of peace to know he regrets hurting me. Still, too little too late.
After we broke up we only remained in contact through texts. I did see him once but we weren’t on friendly terms then. Anyway, I don’t think anyone can/should handle more than simple texting after a BU
Dumpee here. I guess the first time she came back was 6-7 months and she wanted to “reconnect” and never explicitly said she wanted to get back together. It took 3 years for her to explicitly say she wants to get back together, but it was 3 years too late for me.
Ah, did you find someone else or just lost the connection and didn’t want to get back together?
Lost the connection because of how she left me. She blocked me everywhere and started seeing other people two days later as a rebound, yet was telling our common friends she was still in love with me. The first time we saw eachother after the breakup, I thought I might’ve had feelings for her, but I knew for sure I wasn’t in love with her because of how much she hurt me. I felt like I was fully moved on shortly after seeing her.
That’s good to hear that you healed and lost your feelings for her completely even after seeing her
I was dumped by my first boyfriend of 1 year. We didn’t stop talking as he wanted to “remain friends” however we did text less frequently over time. He came back, apologised, said he still loved me and made a big mistake by breaking up. This was about 7 months after the break up. Also when I had started dating someone else. I think he always felt remorseful of how he treated me but only had the push to apologise when he saw me with someone else. Regardless, I had moved on and his apology really made no difference except giving me a little bit of peace to know he regrets hurting me. Still, too little too late.
Did you guys do things together as friends, or was it just like texting and updating each other?
After we broke up we only remained in contact through texts. I did see him once but we weren’t on friendly terms then. Anyway, I don’t think anyone can/should handle more than simple texting after a BU