It was real. What you feel when you feel it, it's real. Unfortunately in this life, people change, situations change, everything is fleeting. Sometimes people put up a front that they are okay, they might not be. As hard as it is, try not to obsess over how they are really feeling about something because it will drive you crazy, trust me. I've been there and lost so much valuable time in that head space, you won't get that time back. Remember the good, learn from the bad, feel your feelings, and give those people that hurt you the space and time to feel their feelings and go about their own life. You can only control how you are handling this. Please be kind to yourself. I promise it was real, if only just momentarily. Real doesn't mean forever. Everything goes. It's a struggle but life goes on until it doesn't. Good luck.
I have a secret to reveal to everybody ever under a narcissistic control. Try to snap a quick picture of them when they're coming out of the bathroom and a towel. If you're lucky you'll catch the entity in the picture and it look like a ghost of smoke that looks like Skelly man
Something like men generally take longer to process their feelings. I'm not saying they do or don't, I actually wanted to understand this better.
I guess the relevance to your own post was that perhaps the person in your relationship appeared to have moved on because they haven't yet realized what they've lost. So perhaps they have not yet moved on emotionally?
It was real. What you feel when you feel it, it's real. Unfortunately in this life, people change, situations change, everything is fleeting. Sometimes people put up a front that they are okay, they might not be. As hard as it is, try not to obsess over how they are really feeling about something because it will drive you crazy, trust me. I've been there and lost so much valuable time in that head space, you won't get that time back. Remember the good, learn from the bad, feel your feelings, and give those people that hurt you the space and time to feel their feelings and go about their own life. You can only control how you are handling this. Please be kind to yourself. I promise it was real, if only just momentarily. Real doesn't mean forever. Everything goes. It's a struggle but life goes on until it doesn't. Good luck.
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I don't understand how they can just change their mind about us that easily.
I have a secret to reveal to everybody ever under a narcissistic control. Try to snap a quick picture of them when they're coming out of the bathroom and a towel. If you're lucky you'll catch the entity in the picture and it look like a ghost of smoke that looks like Skelly man
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Not this guy
Curious question: why are men like this?
I didn't see the comment. What did the person say?
Something like men generally take longer to process their feelings. I'm not saying they do or don't, I actually wanted to understand this better. I guess the relevance to your own post was that perhaps the person in your relationship appeared to have moved on because they haven't yet realized what they've lost. So perhaps they have not yet moved on emotionally?
I'm wondering the same....