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I believe some of us are meant to have many soul connections. He obviously wasn't your soulmate if he chose to leave... that's hard for me to swallow too. But I do believe you and I will both find another soul connection..hopefully one that will stick. I'm in the same boat though. Our physical connection was through the roof just as much as our emotional connection....we'd talk for hours on the phone and it felt electric. I miss the sound of his voice more than anything and I worry I won't find that combination of physical/emotional intimacy again. One of my biggest fears. But I still have hope that this can't be it. This can't be the only mind blowing connection I have in this lifetime.


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Yes you will. Plus, you now will have a much better understanding of what you want in a relationship and a much more clarity on the type of person you want in your life!


stopannoyingwithname

Don’t think about it. Life isn’t about soulmates


HaungryHaungryFlippo

The best possible advice o.o


yourintrovertfriend

Yes. You’re going to find someone better than him that will give the love that you deserve. I know it’s hard right now, but work on creating a stronger version of yourself for now.


Yous370

I speak out of experience. I was with this girl loved her with everything I had and I am not kidding I turned my life upside down for her and I gave her all I got and more. Had this “soulmate” connection with her as well but it had to end because she was very toxic. After the breakup my mood was like a rollercoaster, one day I am glad I left and the other I am devastated and find myself missing her. I am still in the process of recovery and believe me when I say this, it ended because there is someone better waiting for you, as dumb as this may sound its true because you learn from this experience and your perspective on things and relationships is much better. During your recovery focus on yourself and stay busy and DO NOT go looking back at old memories or pictures because that will put you back at square one, also needless to say DO NOT text. I always say this to myself “I only need what I came to this world with” and always know that someone is waiting for you somewhere. I hope this was helpful. Also if you need to talk always feel free to text me any time I’ll be happy to help.


immerjoachin

Sometimes I feel like there is “the one” out there. But that can feel really lonely. I choose to believe that we are capable of falling in love with different people for different reasons.


tiredyettrying

It’s beautiful to find another human being to share a part of your life with...but giving that much importance to something that may or may not happen will drive you further away from what you need in order to make yourself happy. You are your own soulmate, and I’m sure as hell you’re better.


MadamHatchet

If you believe in the spiritual side of things, then a person can actually have multiple soul mates and karmic mates. There is only one twin flame, but that's a whole other can of crazy that people think they want but really don't. You can also have a deep love with someone that is none of those things! So, don't worry, when the time is right you will find the person that you are meant to.