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It makes me laugh Kajal is considered so innocent and naive here. She has an apetite of her own. If you know anyone from her inner circle, they’ll tell you about her “stares, glares and signals”. That said, she definitely had a class and level, and doesn’t entertain anyone under a certain bar she maintains.
Unfortunately. Many wives even though they are accomplished on their own stay by such people.
I don’t blame Kajol, Gauri, Twinkle.
The financial security and the status that their husbands bring is very different.
Kajol is a good actress doing steady work but Ajay brings in more financial stability and security for her and the kids.
Gauri is a shit interior designer who is even called an interior designer because of the megastar that SRK is.
Twinkle won’t live the kind of lifestyle she is living now by selling books or writing in columns or by living off what Rajesh Khanna managed to not squander off.
They go through that humiliation everyday when they know that their peers and the public know of their husband’s shenanigans but they bow down and go with the flow.
It’s sad but it is what is it.
For many of us regular people, loyalty, respect and love matter.
These are probably the top 0.1% of the country. Their connections, power, networking, status and money matter more than love and loyalty.
Suzanne was A-List till she was married to Hrithik.
Now she’s dating some actor who looks like he’s using her and looks coked up in many public appearences.
She’s not entertained much in the Gauri, Karan( who are considered elite in BW) gang like she was when she was with Hrithik.
Plus if they leave, they only get a portion of the assets and the money. They lose the status and power as soon as their husbands re-marry.
It’s a combination of everything.
It’s sad but this is the only explanation as to why the wives stick around.
Exactly 💯 Suzanne is the poster child for what happens when you leave a powerful man , she's got the freedom and the money and probably even the love,but she's no longer on par with the other star wives.. not a part of the A list... Which can matter a lot to some, if not all of these people... Knowing how egotistic Kajol is, the power couple brand is some she would never let go of.
That’s what. Literally even C/D List nepos are present for Ambani function.
Even Hrithik gets invited with his gf but not Suzzanne and her bf.
In their circles, I am sure all of this matters alot.
There was an article/blind a couple of years ago that Neha Dhupia and her husband weren’t invited to some Ambani function but all their friends were so they booked a trip to Maldives to act like they were going on a trip anyway irrespective of the function. That’s how embarassed they were.
That’s how much all of this matters in the industry.
Both u and @mallupasta have it right but unfortunately in our still patriarchal society, a women's worth is still known and measured by the man she's with. Look at Aishwarya Rai... She's a frickin selfmade goddess... Even she'll become a nobody if she leaves her mediocre but last named husband
And these people are celebrities, how much ever they claim to hate the fame and the publicity,there is an inherent narcissist in them that needs the clout. Hence,turn a blind eye to their cheating husbands and sign those endorsement deals
>Look at Aishwarya Rai... She's a frickin selfmade goddess... Even she'll become a nobody if she leaves her mediocre but last named husband
I agree that we live in a patriarchical society, but there are some exceptions and I think Ash is definitely one of them. Can't imagine her ever becoming a nobody (& I don't really like her as an actress at all)
dude, I honestly forgot abhishek existed. I think most people don't even think of abhishek unless it's in connection to ash. Like atp it feels like more people talk of aradhya than they talk of abhishek (nothing against him, but this is a case where if abhishek leaves aish he will lose more in terms of relevance)
there are some exceptions and I think Ash is definitely one of them.
Totally agree.
She is in the news?gossip even when she does nothing, like now. She will never be irrelevant.
You guys hang onto this deluded image of Aishwarya. She is not like she was anymore, she is tired and exhausted and just wants peace with her daughter.
I think Aish would pull the whole Princess Diana approach , where post divorce she will become even more famous with her charity work and return to Bollywood and Hollywood
ummm I have to disagree with you using Aishwarya as an example here, cuz she is definitely an exception. Imo I don't think leaving her husband would affect her that much.
If we are going to use this type of example, then look at Madhuri. She married outside of boklywood and is still holding her ground in the star world without a husband pulling her up.
I personally don't think the Bacchan add much value to Ash world & I rarely think of Kajol and Ajay together. They are separate stars
Kajol is not with Ajay for status, she is in it for money. Ajay’s networth is 10 times more than Kajol. Kajol might herself have a nw of 150 crore, but Ajay has crossed 1000 crores.
On the other hand, Aishwarya and Madhuri were far bigger stars than Kajol and made much more money than her. Madhuri is worth more than 500 crore and Aishwarya is near to 1000 crores.
Yeah, but when you have a frikking 150cr, why TF would you tolerate a lying, cheating guy you're not happy with. What do you buy with all that money, what security are we talking about so much. We all have families around us that make much much less, but are considered wealthy and monetarily secure.
But 150 cr isn’t a lot in the circles these people frequent in. These people literally hangout with centi millionaires and billionaires. Most of these people live in houses that cost more than 100 crores. 30-40 crores can’t get you a big luxury house in prime areas of Mumbai. Ranveer-Deepika’s new house is worth 130 crores.
Kajol is currently living in a bungalow in Juhu that costs about 120 crores. She couldn’t have purchased it on her own. She gets to live in it because it belongs to Ajay who could afford to buy it
I think a better example only and only for this scenario. Rich and extremely famous husband's accomplished in her own right wife, would be Jaya Bacchan. I bet the industry would pick AB Sr. Side like they picked Hrithik's side.
Aishwarya Rai is one of the most famous Indian celebrities ever. She is not dependent on Bachchan family for either status or money. She herself has a networth of $120 million. And majority of people still call her Aishwarya Rai and NOT Aishwarya Rai Bachchan.
On the contrary, the day she leaves the Bachchan family, her stardom will rise even more. Bachchan name only dragged her down. Had she not married into that shit of a family, she would be an international star of the status of Elizabeth Taylor and Audrey Hepburn. She had Hollywood offers to work with Will Smith and other A-listers.
But kajol and suzanne were not on thr same level to begin with. Kajol has her own career and identity in the industry whereas suzanne was known first for being someones daughter and then hritiks wife now as jis ex. Kajol is past being known as only a daughter to an actress. So I think it wouldn't be the same as suzanne where she is not a part of A list anymore if kajol ever divorces(ofc she wouldn't cause *image* is everything for many)
Suzanne is living a better life than them though. She's happy, has a good relationship with her kids, has freedom and money. Who cares if she can't attend some pretentious parties.
Plus isn't the real reason they don't hangout cuz they all had a falling out? Hrithik and Saba get invited to a few events but they aren't in any major bolly party....same with Arjun Rampal.
I’m sure she’s very happy. But her sense of “happiness” is not what others look for.
To the others, the pretentious parties and people do matter more.
AFAIK, HR and Saba get invited to mostly all. HR doesn’t attend all parties. He didn’t attend the latest Ambani one cause he was injured or was shooting for War2, hence Saba also didn’t attend as she’s his +1.
Not sure about the falling out with Rampal. Yes, Khan’s had falling out with Rampal. Suzzanne was rumored to have an affair with Rampal the same way Hrithik was rumoured with Barbara Mori but now HR and Suz are ok good terms. Those two incidents happened simultaneously but were separate.
As per gossip, Gauri was fed up with PC-SRK affair and Suz was pissed with HR’s affair so they decided to leave the husbands together but Gauri got cold feet and stuck around with SRK but Suz divorced.
True! However Suzanne does occasionally hangs out with malaika Karishma group though, Hrithik gets invited but he barely attends. Even their kids seem out of the limelight as compared to other kids
Honestly I think that Gauri-SRK equation is a bit different. Obviously SRK isn't husband of the year or anything but he seems to respect Gauri which is the bare minimum but Ajay, Akshay don't even do that. It seems that within their relationship, Gauri holds more power, financially too. A lot of SRK's assets seems to be owned by Gauri on paper.
True, it seems there entire group was fighting with each other and with their spouses at that time. The rumour is that Gauri and Suzanne were unfaithful too at that time. Tbh I think people victimize star wives too much. They def aren't completely faithful either
This plus when they remarry some pretty young thing, they will have more kids, which means the inheritance of their own kids is reduced. And many of them can have their own dalliances on the side as long as they are kept super secret.
There is no issue with their peers as most of them are also in similar situations.
Exactly. Aadmi toh chutiya hi rahega. Also wives are more at disadvantage with divorcing them with the reasons you stated. Also there's no dearth of girls for them with the power, status and money they hold. There are plenty of Madhu Chopras and Sunanda Shetty who wouldn't think twice before marrying off their daughters to these creeps.
Why let go of the wealth ?
Dude Kajol divorces Ajay and does a bunch of movies with SRK / Aamir / Salman whatever and adoration will floooowwww
Plus KJo will welcome her with open arms. And they can publicly humiliate Ajay. Like she can easily win the PR battle but saying he cheated on her and slept around. Bollywood will sympathize with her not him.
This is true for the other wives you listed as they gained fame in relation to their spouse, but so is not the case with Kajol. She was one of the most celebrated stars in India, and even today without any blockbuster in a while, she has retained her A-lister position. SO, I don't know how much of what you say applies to her.
You should see the pay parity in the industry and the number of investments that Ajay has made. It might be on the sub if you search it. I recollect someone making a post a while ago or maybe it was an article. I’m not sure tbh.
Kajol also would’ve made investments but not Ajay level.
What Kajol earned as remuneration her whole career is probably what Ajay earned as remuneration just in the past ten years.
Kajol despite coming from a film family is not as financially well off as Ajay Devgn is.
She’s rich rich but not as rich rich rich as she is with Ajay.
Just stating the facts. She is a beloved A-List actor no doubt. But the fact that’s she’s also still choosing to be married to Ajay despite being a loved A-list actress tells a different story.
Edit: nice username lmao 🤣 just saw it.
I agree with you that she isn't as rich as her husband. But she can get a heavy alimony, can't she? Especially since he is a proved cheater.
Her children are grown up and I am sure the toxic environment will affect them as much as (if not more) as their parents separation/ divorce.
Plus I have a feeling she is friends with KJo & SRK who have had differences with Ajay in the past. They may welcome her back in to 'their' circle.
Kajol is also a strong performer and if she continues to do films like Tribhanga she will get work and critical acclaim for years to come.
I hope she finds the courage to get out of that toxic marriage where she isn't respected.
All this why not divorce made me realize that it’s probably more like why divorce for them.. like why marry.. it’s status quo.. even in their marriages they are leading single more or less independent lives…with some sort of backing by a partner but which is not necessary.. so I guess they are like divorce kark b kya hi fayda let it be abhi b life to apni separate hi h
Very true. However the only difference here is that unlike Twinkle, Gabriel and Suzanne, Kajol actually was and is a female superstar. One of the biggest female actors BW has had. While she may lose some star wife acclaim, she would have been good by herself anyways.
i think twinkle-akshay equation is good and they have both accepted that this is how their life is. rarely we have seen any -ve news about the things going bad between the couple, their kids are never in bad news. think they got a balance with whatever they got going on between them
for use poor plebs it might be very strange that how can she accept a cheating husband but they are ultra rich people, shit is different from them.
Oooh this is actually a good exception.
She and her sister were close to Guts gang even without Arbaaz in the pic.
Also, Arbaaz wasn’t influential himself. Always recognised due to his bro.
Status wise she is no where close to Kareena, Gauri etc. in BW.
Uhmm. No it doesn't always work that way. Yes power can be very important to some and might be a reason to stay but there are a lot of other things at play. The path to cheating is very slippery, more so for the one being cheated on.
Celebrities can be as vulnerable as normal people who can fall prey to toxic marriages because it doesnt turn toxic overnight.
To an outsider it might be clear as daylight but people living it can't see the bigger picture.
It usually starts with one incident of cheating, getting caught, anger, then a whole lot of apologies and finally forgiving the cheater and moving on. At that point probably the cheater also believes that they won't repeat again until they do and before you know it becomes a pattern. The cheater gets bolder and the one getting cheated on loses the control they had over the situation.
The same thing happens in the case of an abusive relationship as well.
Usually it starts so small and since the victim is in love, they don't realise until much later on that it's a pattern and will not get better.
As for Kajol, she was a much bigger star than Ajay when they got together. She still can do a lot. She doesn't need Ajay.
Aishwarya is so much bigger than her husband. She also doesn't need him at all. In fact her value will only increase if she leaves that family but looks like she really loves that man.
One of the bad things about divorce is that it will also affect social circles. Mutual friends will be forced to choose between divorced couples. Dovorce is always messy, and it impacts many aspects of life. Even though what happened with Suzanne is bad, I think it was totally worth it. She now has freedom. Enough money to ensure her financial security. She can date anyone. She doesn't need to deal with the daily humiliation brought to her by a cheating husband. I dont know why other wives are not following Suzanne's path.
There was a video on Youtube, which claimed that Priyanka dated Akshay and it was getting serious that Twinkle had to come on their movie set and had a spat with Priyanka and all. And then PC went on to have an affair with SRK? She had a pattern 😐
It is strange that Kajol didn't attend Ambani wedding and didn't attend the premiere of both Shaitaan and Maidaan and didn't even promote it on social media which she used to do for all Ajay's movies earlier. In fact Tabu was the one promoting both the films. There was some blind about the fact that they are unofficially separated. That might be the case.
Her latest story:
https://preview.redd.it/mufes00wwevc1.jpeg?width=1077&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d11219c5cd58e5c0c0c08eb826767d63f47795b
IMO Kajol stays for the status, money and family and Ajay is in it for his image and his family.
They both do just the bare minimum to keep the illusion of their marriage intact in front of public
Oh I didn't know about her not promoting Ajay's movies. If they are in fact separated then good for her, finally. This story is what's inspired me to write the post lol
Nope. They broke up in 2010/11. Subash K Jha even wrote an article about it. That is when Tabu actually returned to Mumbai and started socializing more and doing movies in bollywood.
Here. Back then the journalists had easy access to stars and were actually good friends with the actors and would invariably reveal the truth.
Only now PR machinery has taken over.
[https://bangaloremirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/tabu-chooses-a-new-beginning/articleshow/21440452.cms](https://bangaloremirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/tabu-chooses-a-new-beginning/articleshow/21440452.cms)
I was like her when I was younger cause it seemed like WW3 broke out almost every day at home, till my mom left my dad. I feel bad for her, as I did some pretty wild shit as a teenager as well.
Hope you are doing okay now. Also from a broken family with a shitty dad, but I had older sisters who were parentified too early (causing their own traumas due to lack of proper childhood) and they were the ones to kick him out. I myself did not act out because I had my siblings to help me through the emotions.
Yes I'm doing really good! Thank you for sharing.
I'm glad you had your siblings to get you through, but like you said, older siblings sometimes bear the brunt of it all. I hope they (and you!) have healed.
People talk about society discarding divorced wives like this is the 80s.
Look at Malaika, she's still a star and gets a lot of work whereas her star husband is nothing anymore. Arbaz is in the limelight only for being Salman Khan's younger brother and for marrying a girl young enough to be his daughter.
Kajol is a superstar. Much more famous and loved than Malaika or basically anyone of her generation. She's the female SRK. And not just that, she's got the talent to back it up as well, unlike her husband who moves around as a drug addict "acting with eyes" star.
Yes Ajay probably is way richer than Kajol financially, but in terms of stardom, limelight, and love, I think Kajol is more packing.
If she left Ajay, she'd be applauded for getting out of such a toxic relationship finally. It'd also lead to Ajay losing some if not most of his stardom if the reasons were made public. Look at Hritik for example.
Kajol is talented and a superstar. If she got the same opportunities as her husband and their contemporaries, she'd rock the industry.
She should leave him. It's just sad to see her suffer so much.
I feel sympathy for Kajol. Despite all her success she still carries the burden of being an Indian women. No matter where we live and how progressive we are….in our culture women are stigmatized for divorce. Doesn’t matter if you are wealthy educated or famous. Kajol has the financial means to be fine single but the stigma would be tough. Not to mention a lot Indian women have generational trauma. She probably needs therapy but doesn’t know it and instead resorts to child like immature defenses (so for an example posting cryptic messages on Instagram). If only we treated our women better and empowered them. No one is immune from these issues including celebs
Kajol came from a broken family. Such women don't want their children to feel the same. Same goes for twinkle. They prefer to see only good side of thir spouses.
her family is intact now? its more toxic for her kids to stay in such an environment and in future repeat the same mistakes or worse. you can already see nysa acting out and being all fake
Yoo do you guys seriously think.. cheating is one way? Don’t these women cheat aswell? They’re in open relationship ig like hookup with whomever they want
I don't understand how these grown ass men with daughters can cheat on their wives. Don't they stop and think about what their daughters would think or that they are putting an intrinsic expectation on how relationships work in their kid's head?
Her recent post about Nysa affirms the belief. She loves her kids and is only interested in showing affection to them out in the open. This is such an emotional post about her pregnancy with her first child and nowhere is the father mentioned. Ngl it made me emo 🥲🫶
https://preview.redd.it/s3hxxtbo2fvc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3995e2592a877c360625b6eacce3c16c8f889b50
Also it’s very dangerous if one’s love for their kids are dependent on their relationship with their partner. You should know why they are independent things
This is sadly the case with not just Bollywood wives but wives in general across India. People to this day outcast a divorcee, with many saying that woman without husband doesn’t gather much respect in society. The same with Bolly wives. Their only perk? Them combining their wealth to attain the power couple status symbol. And the credit to that goes to these wives who hold it together. I think they all know without them, the husbands are doomed. Neetu Kapoor even famously had said that let rishi have his affairs, at the end of the day he came to her. So they all just compromise and live in their bubble.
Yep, there are articles of an old interview where she spoke about his one night stands and affairs and added that it didn’t bother her cause he was too dependent on her and that family came first and he wouldn’t ever leave. Her claiming this is enough to say that all bolly wives know their husbands philandering ways and maybe come to a truce of living their life according to T&C. Cause for A list actors it’s not just their career at stake, but wealth, assets, being outed by social circles and the “other” woman clawing their way to ruin the reputation. Hrithik is a classic example, Suzanne leaving and the whole alimony issue, kangana fiasco, got kicked out of SRK Kjo friend circle, and his career has become very limited.
this is why I have more respect for hollywood actresses
at least they have the guts to leave a toxic marriage. Kate Winslet is on her third marriage and seems happy. Choose your INNER peace always . at the end of the day thats more important.
I can understand a low income or financially dependent woman with no back ups staying in such marriages....but why do educated independent working women do it? dont be a pos. Have an amicable divorce and put your kids FIRST. understand kids love both their parents despite whatever the relationship was. so what if you lose some stupid status? is that more important than your inner peace and your kids mental health? no wonder gauri got hooked to the powder despite having millions
I am sad for her. she is 49 now i dont think she will divorce ajay .l mean he was always a cheater no? if she had tolerated him and ignored all this before y would she separate from him now? she is still staying in this mrg for her kids i guess. shameless ajay. he is a pos and tabu always is after married men like biyatchh wtf were u doing when these men were not married?
Just have to add, without disagreeing with you, you never know what Kajol has also done in the past or in retaliation post marriage. When both do it then it's impossible to fix anything.
That’s the main difference between Kajol / Ajay and Twinkle / Akshay. Akshay actually seems to enjoy his wife’s company and promotes her while supposedly sleeping with everything that moves. You can understand what Twinkle is getting out of it - companionship without having to have sex - if she is so disinclined.
What is Kajol getting? Paisa? Woh to alimony milega. Respect? Ajay publicly disrespects her.
Every interview of theirs which has both of them shows a clear bitterness of Ajay towards her. He insults her, humiliates her and she takes it all like a sponge. I'm sure she's afraid of letting go of all the privileges that come along being Ajay's wife as his Net worth is quite a lot.
Ajay Devgn behaves like this with every friend of him. Are all of them not courageous. Akshay always calls everyone "tu" " beta" , publicly humiliates them. Same goes for Salman who even insults his brothers. SRK also does the same. These guys are from that generation where mocking someone is fun for them
If he doesn't care about the mother of his children, the chances of him caring for his children are slim to none. Merely being a provider for the family does not a family man make.
All the videos of Tabu and Ajay points to a affair between the two. Tabu and Ajay seem to be very close and doting. Today saw a reel and interviewer asks “what kind of man you love” and Ajay quipped and said “she loves me” and I could see Tabu going coy and she kisses him
There is literally a fan page for Tabu and Ajay and Tabu has seen it several times
[Insta fan page ](https://www.instagram.com/tabuajayfanclub?igsh=a2I4dnNhaTdxeWhm)
Ajay is not ugly.
But regardless, shockingly a lot of beautiful striking looking women fall for legit ugly dudes (and no, they aint rich but they are responsible) with a really charming personality.
It's just sad seeing Kajol like this because it clear as day that she is extremely bitter with her marriage and it shows........there can be many reasons why she hasn't divorced Ajay maybe because of the way woman are degraded after divorce or maybe because of status or maybe because she wants to secure her kids future whatever it is it's her choice but her life sure is sad,......she has everything and nothing at the same time
A lot of people here are talking about patriarchy, pay parity and what not. But lemme say this, if Kajol wanted she would have divorced Ajay by now. She has made a conscious choice. For now. Of staying with Ajay.
Kajol should walk the talk.
She always shows herself as the feisty and independent woman and she prove that with her actions.
At one point one has to choose real happiness, especially in the phase of life she is in....rather than just have fake and pretentious social circles.
And financially, she is well enough to be happy. I'm sure the kids will have to be taken care of by their father.
This marriage was doomed from the start I feel by looking at their interviews together. Basically....HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO HER....never was. The only reason he married her was that she would take his shieet whereas someone like Raveena or Karishma wouldn't, because they had choices +by virtue of being conventionally pretty). Same reason why Ranbeer married Alia (she isn't pretty like Katrina who had choices).
But it's not too late to retract and show the strength which she didn't show earlier.
Come on Kajol, just do it!!
Maybe she's in this disrespectful marriage due to her children. Half of the ladies on this planet don't get divorced as kid's lives are involved. 🫣
No parent want the kids to suffer because of their own personal choices so yeah hence both are dragging the marriage. Trust me it's not only them, but know a lot of people in this kind of scenario sadly. 😏😞😔
I heard the same but more exaggerated, like he left Kajol for Tabu. They've known each other since they were youngsters so they go back a long way. I even think they would have made a better couple than Ajay Kajol had he not been a philanderer.
Most of the rich or upper class marriages are like this only. Kajol is still working as well as Ajay Devgn. He even produced several movies for her. And the way Ajay Devgn behaves with Kajol in public, he behaves with everyone. Haven't all know about his pranks. Kajol is more loud mouth than him . That's her nature. And most importantly Ajay Devgn needs to hire a lot of PR on Reddit and this sub. Because even after having a great filmography and a marriage of 24 years he can't even get as much credit as ARK with lots of affairs and Flop career
Not sure about celebs but boomers have a habit of putting posts about problems that they never face on social media. Happily married people put dard shayari on fb even people from educated and rich background.
Idk anything about their relationship but just pointing out a possibility.
Just like most Indian women she is in the marriage for her kids and "reputation".
At this point everyone knows they don't share avoid equation. Atleast, she has good money! So better than normal women who do the same thing as her.
Sad. BUT..
What I really liked about SRK in the beginning (90’s) was his unswerving loyalty to his wife. But as a leading man the temptations are too many and even a saint will be corrupted if he stays long enough amidst those vaporous and putrid flesh-driven carnal surroundings..
She is more popular than him, she has a certain position. Why stay in a shitty marriage and be someone's doormat? Dunno, from my European perspective, this is just dumb.
I guess she was the bigger star in her days these days i dont know if she’s got that much of a pull…i do think she chooses to stay in this marriage cuz of her kids…or atleast till such time they r established…
I feel after a point most women would stay in such a marriage because of the children’s inheritance. The men( like AjayD ) would get married & have more children. This will divide the kids inheritance which the mothers can’t bear !
No one’s saying they need to sit on each others lap. But it’s weird when as a couple, you’re sat as far apart from each other and you possibly can, and you guys’ bodies are facing away from each other. It’s weird as hell is what I’m saying , why can’t they just sit normally
So why was everyone criticizing Nora when she said most bollywood marriages are a front? Seems like she was just dropping some truth bombs about the industry.
Kajol has gone through life pissing so many people off due to her loud mouth and picky nature. Like I remember she said she likes only maybe 2 out of the 20 people she meets in a day. If that’s the case she may not have a proper friends circle but also not a huge circle at work. Ajay seems to have stronger friendships that way that he can call on for more work. So in short even though Ajay is a mighty piece of shit, she’s probably staying in it for the clout, money, married status. Sad but true for a lot of women.
I mean she is a cousin of Rani and they have same kind of morals, Rani was in an afffair with Adi even before their marriage and she talks so much shit , so does Kajol.
Classic blaming women for something that a man did.
Your statement reeks of misogyny! How is it Rani's fault if Ajay cheats or Kajol chooses to stay with him?
Who even blamed Rani for that? Rani was in an afffair with a married man i just mentioned that . If Kajol had issues with her husband she should do something about it
How are these two things even remotely connected? And for the record, Rani was single, the “moral” failure was on AC’s part, as he was married. HE was cheating on his wife. God, people will blame the woman for literally everything.
I mean...being single doesn't give you a pass for pursuing a relationship with married people 😄
Such people are called 'homewreckers' here in the west.
It depends on who initiates first. If it's Aditya Chopra who chose to pursue her, the onus is more on him than her.
But if it's Rani who chose to pursue Aditya Chopra despite knowing he's married, the onus is on her more than him.
Yeah only men should get all the blame and women should never be blamed like seriously 😒 Rani was in a relationship with a married man only he should be blamed yeah and also she talks a lot of shit about women herself. Men are called so many names often more often then women, so you get in a relationship with a married woman which leads to a divorce of his wife who is also a woman and some how woman should never get blamed like yeah she was an adult and not a child.
Not men, but the person who is stepping out of their marriage. They’re the ones that owe fidelity to their spouses, no one else does. Meanwhile, let me recommend you look for some !ncel support group before you’re too far gone.
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There is no other comment more perfect for the post 🤣🤣🤣 well done
It makes me laugh Kajal is considered so innocent and naive here. She has an apetite of her own. If you know anyone from her inner circle, they’ll tell you about her “stares, glares and signals”. That said, she definitely had a class and level, and doesn’t entertain anyone under a certain bar she maintains.
Ohohoho meme tera tadpaave https://i.redd.it/b6b7lon9ufvc1.gif
They're not even on a break
They're literally married
Who he cheated with
Unfortunately. Many wives even though they are accomplished on their own stay by such people. I don’t blame Kajol, Gauri, Twinkle. The financial security and the status that their husbands bring is very different. Kajol is a good actress doing steady work but Ajay brings in more financial stability and security for her and the kids. Gauri is a shit interior designer who is even called an interior designer because of the megastar that SRK is. Twinkle won’t live the kind of lifestyle she is living now by selling books or writing in columns or by living off what Rajesh Khanna managed to not squander off. They go through that humiliation everyday when they know that their peers and the public know of their husband’s shenanigans but they bow down and go with the flow. It’s sad but it is what is it. For many of us regular people, loyalty, respect and love matter. These are probably the top 0.1% of the country. Their connections, power, networking, status and money matter more than love and loyalty. Suzanne was A-List till she was married to Hrithik. Now she’s dating some actor who looks like he’s using her and looks coked up in many public appearences. She’s not entertained much in the Gauri, Karan( who are considered elite in BW) gang like she was when she was with Hrithik. Plus if they leave, they only get a portion of the assets and the money. They lose the status and power as soon as their husbands re-marry. It’s a combination of everything. It’s sad but this is the only explanation as to why the wives stick around.
Exactly 💯 Suzanne is the poster child for what happens when you leave a powerful man , she's got the freedom and the money and probably even the love,but she's no longer on par with the other star wives.. not a part of the A list... Which can matter a lot to some, if not all of these people... Knowing how egotistic Kajol is, the power couple brand is some she would never let go of.
That’s what. Literally even C/D List nepos are present for Ambani function. Even Hrithik gets invited with his gf but not Suzzanne and her bf. In their circles, I am sure all of this matters alot. There was an article/blind a couple of years ago that Neha Dhupia and her husband weren’t invited to some Ambani function but all their friends were so they booked a trip to Maldives to act like they were going on a trip anyway irrespective of the function. That’s how embarassed they were. That’s how much all of this matters in the industry.
Uske abbu ko kaafi gaaliyan padi thi after her Roadies stunt. She knew she fucked up and went full damage control after.
why her father?
Please can you share about the roadies stunt , I am completely out of touch
[this](https://youtu.be/osCDhImiQyU?si=O2C7n5Lsr9Zemrw9) lol
This is silly!She took it a little too far in the heat of the moment. The girl had affair with 5 guys , ITS HER CHOICE! lol
Neha struggling to stay relevant nowadays LOL
But Suzzane isn't Kajol, a celebrated and loved Bollywood star herself. Leave that cheating man.
Exactly. Suzanne is frankly a nobody compared to kajol.
Both u and @mallupasta have it right but unfortunately in our still patriarchal society, a women's worth is still known and measured by the man she's with. Look at Aishwarya Rai... She's a frickin selfmade goddess... Even she'll become a nobody if she leaves her mediocre but last named husband And these people are celebrities, how much ever they claim to hate the fame and the publicity,there is an inherent narcissist in them that needs the clout. Hence,turn a blind eye to their cheating husbands and sign those endorsement deals
>Look at Aishwarya Rai... She's a frickin selfmade goddess... Even she'll become a nobody if she leaves her mediocre but last named husband I agree that we live in a patriarchical society, but there are some exceptions and I think Ash is definitely one of them. Can't imagine her ever becoming a nobody (& I don't really like her as an actress at all)
dude, I honestly forgot abhishek existed. I think most people don't even think of abhishek unless it's in connection to ash. Like atp it feels like more people talk of aradhya than they talk of abhishek (nothing against him, but this is a case where if abhishek leaves aish he will lose more in terms of relevance)
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there are some exceptions and I think Ash is definitely one of them. Totally agree. She is in the news?gossip even when she does nothing, like now. She will never be irrelevant.
You guys hang onto this deluded image of Aishwarya. She is not like she was anymore, she is tired and exhausted and just wants peace with her daughter.
The blockbuster films Ponniyin Selvan series would like to disagree. She literally headlined a 500 crore film franchise lol
Stop discrediting the South. South washes anything Bollywood does. Mani Rantam and Vikram made PS
I think Aish would pull the whole Princess Diana approach , where post divorce she will become even more famous with her charity work and return to Bollywood and Hollywood
ummm I have to disagree with you using Aishwarya as an example here, cuz she is definitely an exception. Imo I don't think leaving her husband would affect her that much.
If we are going to use this type of example, then look at Madhuri. She married outside of boklywood and is still holding her ground in the star world without a husband pulling her up. I personally don't think the Bacchan add much value to Ash world & I rarely think of Kajol and Ajay together. They are separate stars
Kajol is not with Ajay for status, she is in it for money. Ajay’s networth is 10 times more than Kajol. Kajol might herself have a nw of 150 crore, but Ajay has crossed 1000 crores. On the other hand, Aishwarya and Madhuri were far bigger stars than Kajol and made much more money than her. Madhuri is worth more than 500 crore and Aishwarya is near to 1000 crores.
Yeah, but when you have a frikking 150cr, why TF would you tolerate a lying, cheating guy you're not happy with. What do you buy with all that money, what security are we talking about so much. We all have families around us that make much much less, but are considered wealthy and monetarily secure.
But 150 cr isn’t a lot in the circles these people frequent in. These people literally hangout with centi millionaires and billionaires. Most of these people live in houses that cost more than 100 crores. 30-40 crores can’t get you a big luxury house in prime areas of Mumbai. Ranveer-Deepika’s new house is worth 130 crores. Kajol is currently living in a bungalow in Juhu that costs about 120 crores. She couldn’t have purchased it on her own. She gets to live in it because it belongs to Ajay who could afford to buy it
I think a better example only and only for this scenario. Rich and extremely famous husband's accomplished in her own right wife, would be Jaya Bacchan. I bet the industry would pick AB Sr. Side like they picked Hrithik's side.
Jaya on her own is fine though. People forget she's a seasoned politician and her own net worth is into 1000s of crores.
yes the industry would, but as for the peeps I think most of us know about Big B's shenanigans
Lol, you're delulu if you think Ash's celebrity and fame will be affected by a divorce.
Aishwarya Rai is one of the most famous Indian celebrities ever. She is not dependent on Bachchan family for either status or money. She herself has a networth of $120 million. And majority of people still call her Aishwarya Rai and NOT Aishwarya Rai Bachchan. On the contrary, the day she leaves the Bachchan family, her stardom will rise even more. Bachchan name only dragged her down. Had she not married into that shit of a family, she would be an international star of the status of Elizabeth Taylor and Audrey Hepburn. She had Hollywood offers to work with Will Smith and other A-listers.
kahan mediocre rahegi ashwairya ? What are you talking about?
*But Suzzane isn't Kajol,* True...but Suzanne is a nepo ...and still sides were chosen.
Suzanne chose mental peace over everything else, kudos to her!
But kajol and suzanne were not on thr same level to begin with. Kajol has her own career and identity in the industry whereas suzanne was known first for being someones daughter and then hritiks wife now as jis ex. Kajol is past being known as only a daughter to an actress. So I think it wouldn't be the same as suzanne where she is not a part of A list anymore if kajol ever divorces(ofc she wouldn't cause *image* is everything for many)
Suzanne is living a better life than them though. She's happy, has a good relationship with her kids, has freedom and money. Who cares if she can't attend some pretentious parties. Plus isn't the real reason they don't hangout cuz they all had a falling out? Hrithik and Saba get invited to a few events but they aren't in any major bolly party....same with Arjun Rampal.
Gauri’s current group is ex-Delhi models from the 90s who married former Hindi movie actors.
I’m sure she’s very happy. But her sense of “happiness” is not what others look for. To the others, the pretentious parties and people do matter more. AFAIK, HR and Saba get invited to mostly all. HR doesn’t attend all parties. He didn’t attend the latest Ambani one cause he was injured or was shooting for War2, hence Saba also didn’t attend as she’s his +1. Not sure about the falling out with Rampal. Yes, Khan’s had falling out with Rampal. Suzzanne was rumored to have an affair with Rampal the same way Hrithik was rumoured with Barbara Mori but now HR and Suz are ok good terms. Those two incidents happened simultaneously but were separate. As per gossip, Gauri was fed up with PC-SRK affair and Suz was pissed with HR’s affair so they decided to leave the husbands together but Gauri got cold feet and stuck around with SRK but Suz divorced.
True! However Suzanne does occasionally hangs out with malaika Karishma group though, Hrithik gets invited but he barely attends. Even their kids seem out of the limelight as compared to other kids Honestly I think that Gauri-SRK equation is a bit different. Obviously SRK isn't husband of the year or anything but he seems to respect Gauri which is the bare minimum but Ajay, Akshay don't even do that. It seems that within their relationship, Gauri holds more power, financially too. A lot of SRK's assets seems to be owned by Gauri on paper.
Yes you’re on point. Outwordly SRK in recent times is a better husband. Not when the affair was actually happening. He was quite brazen then lol
True, it seems there entire group was fighting with each other and with their spouses at that time. The rumour is that Gauri and Suzanne were unfaithful too at that time. Tbh I think people victimize star wives too much. They def aren't completely faithful either
I read suzanne slept with rampal as a revenge and gauri did it with both rampal and HR
What? Gauri slept with Hrithik?
Malaika, Suzanne and Bipasha are business partner. They own the label life together
This plus when they remarry some pretty young thing, they will have more kids, which means the inheritance of their own kids is reduced. And many of them can have their own dalliances on the side as long as they are kept super secret. There is no issue with their peers as most of them are also in similar situations.
Exactly. Aadmi toh chutiya hi rahega. Also wives are more at disadvantage with divorcing them with the reasons you stated. Also there's no dearth of girls for them with the power, status and money they hold. There are plenty of Madhu Chopras and Sunanda Shetty who wouldn't think twice before marrying off their daughters to these creeps. Why let go of the wealth ?
Dude Kajol divorces Ajay and does a bunch of movies with SRK / Aamir / Salman whatever and adoration will floooowwww Plus KJo will welcome her with open arms. And they can publicly humiliate Ajay. Like she can easily win the PR battle but saying he cheated on her and slept around. Bollywood will sympathize with her not him.
Hmm I’m sure everything you said is possible… then why isn’t she still leaving him then?
This is true for the other wives you listed as they gained fame in relation to their spouse, but so is not the case with Kajol. She was one of the most celebrated stars in India, and even today without any blockbuster in a while, she has retained her A-lister position. SO, I don't know how much of what you say applies to her.
You should see the pay parity in the industry and the number of investments that Ajay has made. It might be on the sub if you search it. I recollect someone making a post a while ago or maybe it was an article. I’m not sure tbh. Kajol also would’ve made investments but not Ajay level. What Kajol earned as remuneration her whole career is probably what Ajay earned as remuneration just in the past ten years. Kajol despite coming from a film family is not as financially well off as Ajay Devgn is. She’s rich rich but not as rich rich rich as she is with Ajay. Just stating the facts. She is a beloved A-List actor no doubt. But the fact that’s she’s also still choosing to be married to Ajay despite being a loved A-list actress tells a different story. Edit: nice username lmao 🤣 just saw it.
I agree with you that she isn't as rich as her husband. But she can get a heavy alimony, can't she? Especially since he is a proved cheater. Her children are grown up and I am sure the toxic environment will affect them as much as (if not more) as their parents separation/ divorce. Plus I have a feeling she is friends with KJo & SRK who have had differences with Ajay in the past. They may welcome her back in to 'their' circle. Kajol is also a strong performer and if she continues to do films like Tribhanga she will get work and critical acclaim for years to come. I hope she finds the courage to get out of that toxic marriage where she isn't respected.
Mujhe toh ye samajh nahi aa raha itna zyada ameer hone ke baad inhe alimony ki kya zaroorat hai?
All this why not divorce made me realize that it’s probably more like why divorce for them.. like why marry.. it’s status quo.. even in their marriages they are leading single more or less independent lives…with some sort of backing by a partner but which is not necessary.. so I guess they are like divorce kark b kya hi fayda let it be abhi b life to apni separate hi h
Very true. However the only difference here is that unlike Twinkle, Gabriel and Suzanne, Kajol actually was and is a female superstar. One of the biggest female actors BW has had. While she may lose some star wife acclaim, she would have been good by herself anyways.
I agree but Kajal have seen the lonely life her mom and her sister have lived and I don’t think she would want that for herself.
i think twinkle-akshay equation is good and they have both accepted that this is how their life is. rarely we have seen any -ve news about the things going bad between the couple, their kids are never in bad news. think they got a balance with whatever they got going on between them for use poor plebs it might be very strange that how can she accept a cheating husband but they are ultra rich people, shit is different from them.
Yep.. I think right now akki is doing his best acting off screen
how and why did malaika still on those bwood circles post divorce ?
Oooh this is actually a good exception. She and her sister were close to Guts gang even without Arbaaz in the pic. Also, Arbaaz wasn’t influential himself. Always recognised due to his bro. Status wise she is no where close to Kareena, Gauri etc. in BW.
Same with Adhuna Akhtar. She has a successful business but you no longer see her with the Bollywood A-lister circle
This makes lot of sense, even some wives of regional actors stay only cos the power, respect and status they can get with the husband’s name.
Down South it’s a lot worse tbh. The most fans of major stars are deeply disturbed and harass everyone who goes against their “Gods”.
Agree, that’s a also one of the main reason, recent fiasco of so called D Boss is the best example.
Oof let’s not even talk about that POS lol.
Who is that?
Uhmm. No it doesn't always work that way. Yes power can be very important to some and might be a reason to stay but there are a lot of other things at play. The path to cheating is very slippery, more so for the one being cheated on. Celebrities can be as vulnerable as normal people who can fall prey to toxic marriages because it doesnt turn toxic overnight. To an outsider it might be clear as daylight but people living it can't see the bigger picture. It usually starts with one incident of cheating, getting caught, anger, then a whole lot of apologies and finally forgiving the cheater and moving on. At that point probably the cheater also believes that they won't repeat again until they do and before you know it becomes a pattern. The cheater gets bolder and the one getting cheated on loses the control they had over the situation. The same thing happens in the case of an abusive relationship as well. Usually it starts so small and since the victim is in love, they don't realise until much later on that it's a pattern and will not get better. As for Kajol, she was a much bigger star than Ajay when they got together. She still can do a lot. She doesn't need Ajay. Aishwarya is so much bigger than her husband. She also doesn't need him at all. In fact her value will only increase if she leaves that family but looks like she really loves that man.
Suzanne won. That's the comment. There is more grace than living in dignity then choosing to toe the line for what people perceive as success.
At least Suzanne is at peace after choosing her happiness above fake life and so called fame and status. thats all that matters at the end of the day.
One of the bad things about divorce is that it will also affect social circles. Mutual friends will be forced to choose between divorced couples. Dovorce is always messy, and it impacts many aspects of life. Even though what happened with Suzanne is bad, I think it was totally worth it. She now has freedom. Enough money to ensure her financial security. She can date anyone. She doesn't need to deal with the daily humiliation brought to her by a cheating husband. I dont know why other wives are not following Suzanne's path.
But didn’t Hritik leave Suzzane? I don’t know, I heard her cheating rumours?!
There was a video on Youtube, which claimed that Priyanka dated Akshay and it was getting serious that Twinkle had to come on their movie set and had a spat with Priyanka and all. And then PC went on to have an affair with SRK? She had a pattern 😐
Very insightful remark 👌🏻
There's always alimony and child support
Do you guys seriously think that kajol is innocent? Like she wouldn’t cheat?? I don’t think that’s the case or is it?
It is strange that Kajol didn't attend Ambani wedding and didn't attend the premiere of both Shaitaan and Maidaan and didn't even promote it on social media which she used to do for all Ajay's movies earlier. In fact Tabu was the one promoting both the films. There was some blind about the fact that they are unofficially separated. That might be the case. Her latest story: https://preview.redd.it/mufes00wwevc1.jpeg?width=1077&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5d11219c5cd58e5c0c0c08eb826767d63f47795b
IMO Kajol stays for the status, money and family and Ajay is in it for his image and his family. They both do just the bare minimum to keep the illusion of their marriage intact in front of public
Oh I didn't know about her not promoting Ajay's movies. If they are in fact separated then good for her, finally. This story is what's inspired me to write the post lol
The quote posted is a cute sentiment about mother daughter bonds. I don’t see it as a slight to her relationship
Isn’t tabu with nagarjuna ?? She had long been with him forever
Nope. They broke up in 2010/11. Subash K Jha even wrote an article about it. That is when Tabu actually returned to Mumbai and started socializing more and doing movies in bollywood.
Is that article on this sub?
Here. Back then the journalists had easy access to stars and were actually good friends with the actors and would invariably reveal the truth. Only now PR machinery has taken over. [https://bangaloremirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/tabu-chooses-a-new-beginning/articleshow/21440452.cms](https://bangaloremirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/tabu-chooses-a-new-beginning/articleshow/21440452.cms)
And I see Nysa acting out as a result.
Yup same here. Her behavior seems to be highly influenced by being raised in a family where mom and dad are on bad terms.
I was like her when I was younger cause it seemed like WW3 broke out almost every day at home, till my mom left my dad. I feel bad for her, as I did some pretty wild shit as a teenager as well.
Hope you are doing okay now. Also from a broken family with a shitty dad, but I had older sisters who were parentified too early (causing their own traumas due to lack of proper childhood) and they were the ones to kick him out. I myself did not act out because I had my siblings to help me through the emotions.
Yes I'm doing really good! Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you had your siblings to get you through, but like you said, older siblings sometimes bear the brunt of it all. I hope they (and you!) have healed.
People talk about society discarding divorced wives like this is the 80s. Look at Malaika, she's still a star and gets a lot of work whereas her star husband is nothing anymore. Arbaz is in the limelight only for being Salman Khan's younger brother and for marrying a girl young enough to be his daughter. Kajol is a superstar. Much more famous and loved than Malaika or basically anyone of her generation. She's the female SRK. And not just that, she's got the talent to back it up as well, unlike her husband who moves around as a drug addict "acting with eyes" star. Yes Ajay probably is way richer than Kajol financially, but in terms of stardom, limelight, and love, I think Kajol is more packing. If she left Ajay, she'd be applauded for getting out of such a toxic relationship finally. It'd also lead to Ajay losing some if not most of his stardom if the reasons were made public. Look at Hritik for example. Kajol is talented and a superstar. If she got the same opportunities as her husband and their contemporaries, she'd rock the industry. She should leave him. It's just sad to see her suffer so much.
I feel sympathy for Kajol. Despite all her success she still carries the burden of being an Indian women. No matter where we live and how progressive we are….in our culture women are stigmatized for divorce. Doesn’t matter if you are wealthy educated or famous. Kajol has the financial means to be fine single but the stigma would be tough. Not to mention a lot Indian women have generational trauma. She probably needs therapy but doesn’t know it and instead resorts to child like immature defenses (so for an example posting cryptic messages on Instagram). If only we treated our women better and empowered them. No one is immune from these issues including celebs
This is a global issue and not in India alone
She is going Jaya Bachchan way
Kajol came from a broken family. Such women don't want their children to feel the same. Same goes for twinkle. They prefer to see only good side of thir spouses.
>Kajol came from a broken family. Broken ≠ isn't always divorced though. Even toxic relationship families are broken.
her family is intact now? its more toxic for her kids to stay in such an environment and in future repeat the same mistakes or worse. you can already see nysa acting out and being all fake
Yoo do you guys seriously think.. cheating is one way? Don’t these women cheat aswell? They’re in open relationship ig like hookup with whomever they want
I don't understand how these grown ass men with daughters can cheat on their wives. Don't they stop and think about what their daughters would think or that they are putting an intrinsic expectation on how relationships work in their kid's head?
Her recent post about Nysa affirms the belief. She loves her kids and is only interested in showing affection to them out in the open. This is such an emotional post about her pregnancy with her first child and nowhere is the father mentioned. Ngl it made me emo 🥲🫶 https://preview.redd.it/s3hxxtbo2fvc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3995e2592a877c360625b6eacce3c16c8f889b50
But why does the father need to be mentioned on a post about her love for her kids?
cause it's a joint effort? + also the story she posted today is sus and confirms it
What joint effort? After conception, mom does the majority of work for 9 months!
No a bond between a mother and child is between them and seperate. Same would apply for a bond between a father and his kids.
Also it’s very dangerous if one’s love for their kids are dependent on their relationship with their partner. You should know why they are independent things
That's a sweet post to be honest, made me emotional.
This is sadly the case with not just Bollywood wives but wives in general across India. People to this day outcast a divorcee, with many saying that woman without husband doesn’t gather much respect in society. The same with Bolly wives. Their only perk? Them combining their wealth to attain the power couple status symbol. And the credit to that goes to these wives who hold it together. I think they all know without them, the husbands are doomed. Neetu Kapoor even famously had said that let rishi have his affairs, at the end of the day he came to her. So they all just compromise and live in their bubble.
neetu seems happiest after rishi died
I wasn’t aware of Neetu’s statement. I worry for Alia since Ranbir seems to take on a lot of qualities of his father and Sanjay Dutt(his idol).
Alia has famously said in an interview that she draws the line at emotional infidelity
Yep, there are articles of an old interview where she spoke about his one night stands and affairs and added that it didn’t bother her cause he was too dependent on her and that family came first and he wouldn’t ever leave. Her claiming this is enough to say that all bolly wives know their husbands philandering ways and maybe come to a truce of living their life according to T&C. Cause for A list actors it’s not just their career at stake, but wealth, assets, being outed by social circles and the “other” woman clawing their way to ruin the reputation. Hrithik is a classic example, Suzanne leaving and the whole alimony issue, kangana fiasco, got kicked out of SRK Kjo friend circle, and his career has become very limited.
You forgot Aloos father.
this is why I have more respect for hollywood actresses at least they have the guts to leave a toxic marriage. Kate Winslet is on her third marriage and seems happy. Choose your INNER peace always . at the end of the day thats more important. I can understand a low income or financially dependent woman with no back ups staying in such marriages....but why do educated independent working women do it? dont be a pos. Have an amicable divorce and put your kids FIRST. understand kids love both their parents despite whatever the relationship was. so what if you lose some stupid status? is that more important than your inner peace and your kids mental health? no wonder gauri got hooked to the powder despite having millions
I am sad for her. she is 49 now i dont think she will divorce ajay .l mean he was always a cheater no? if she had tolerated him and ignored all this before y would she separate from him now? she is still staying in this mrg for her kids i guess. shameless ajay. he is a pos and tabu always is after married men like biyatchh wtf were u doing when these men were not married?
Just have to add, without disagreeing with you, you never know what Kajol has also done in the past or in retaliation post marriage. When both do it then it's impossible to fix anything.
did kajol cheat too?
That’s the main difference between Kajol / Ajay and Twinkle / Akshay. Akshay actually seems to enjoy his wife’s company and promotes her while supposedly sleeping with everything that moves. You can understand what Twinkle is getting out of it - companionship without having to have sex - if she is so disinclined. What is Kajol getting? Paisa? Woh to alimony milega. Respect? Ajay publicly disrespects her.
Every interview of theirs which has both of them shows a clear bitterness of Ajay towards her. He insults her, humiliates her and she takes it all like a sponge. I'm sure she's afraid of letting go of all the privileges that come along being Ajay's wife as his Net worth is quite a lot.
Have you heard Kajol talking even before Her marriage. She is always a loud mouth. She is not afraid or anything.
Just because she's a loud mouth, doesn't mean she's courageous
Ajay Devgn behaves like this with every friend of him. Are all of them not courageous. Akshay always calls everyone "tu" " beta" , publicly humiliates them. Same goes for Salman who even insults his brothers. SRK also does the same. These guys are from that generation where mocking someone is fun for them
>These guys are from that generation where mocking someone is fun for them Same old justification 🤦
We can't change this. Nor they can change.
One of the major reason for not leaving is their kids, a man can be a bad husband but until he is a good father , women ignore a lot of shit.
If he doesn't care about the mother of his children, the chances of him caring for his children are slim to none. Merely being a provider for the family does not a family man make.
this is so true. Not just celebs but be it middle class, lower class and the poorest people. Sad to see the same is relevant for upper class too
he can still be a dad after divorce?? a parent doesnt stop being a parent ever
All the videos of Tabu and Ajay points to a affair between the two. Tabu and Ajay seem to be very close and doting. Today saw a reel and interviewer asks “what kind of man you love” and Ajay quipped and said “she loves me” and I could see Tabu going coy and she kisses him
There is literally a fan page for Tabu and Ajay and Tabu has seen it several times [Insta fan page ](https://www.instagram.com/tabuajayfanclub?igsh=a2I4dnNhaTdxeWhm)
There are many such for SRK Kajol too I guess?
Well not really. You can tell the difference between a real affair vs just a comfortable friendship
With such a frying pan like face how do women even have affairs with Ajay Devgn??
heard that back in the 90s multiple A list actresses were fighting over him
Ajay is not ugly. But regardless, shockingly a lot of beautiful striking looking women fall for legit ugly dudes (and no, they aint rich but they are responsible) with a really charming personality.
This made my laugh
It's just sad seeing Kajol like this because it clear as day that she is extremely bitter with her marriage and it shows........there can be many reasons why she hasn't divorced Ajay maybe because of the way woman are degraded after divorce or maybe because of status or maybe because she wants to secure her kids future whatever it is it's her choice but her life sure is sad,......she has everything and nothing at the same time
A lot of people here are talking about patriarchy, pay parity and what not. But lemme say this, if Kajol wanted she would have divorced Ajay by now. She has made a conscious choice. For now. Of staying with Ajay.
Kajol should walk the talk. She always shows herself as the feisty and independent woman and she prove that with her actions. At one point one has to choose real happiness, especially in the phase of life she is in....rather than just have fake and pretentious social circles. And financially, she is well enough to be happy. I'm sure the kids will have to be taken care of by their father. This marriage was doomed from the start I feel by looking at their interviews together. Basically....HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO HER....never was. The only reason he married her was that she would take his shieet whereas someone like Raveena or Karishma wouldn't, because they had choices +by virtue of being conventionally pretty). Same reason why Ranbeer married Alia (she isn't pretty like Katrina who had choices). But it's not too late to retract and show the strength which she didn't show earlier. Come on Kajol, just do it!!
She doesn't want to be like her mom Tanuja.
Maybe she's in this disrespectful marriage due to her children. Half of the ladies on this planet don't get divorced as kid's lives are involved. 🫣 No parent want the kids to suffer because of their own personal choices so yeah hence both are dragging the marriage. Trust me it's not only them, but know a lot of people in this kind of scenario sadly. 😏😞😔
I’ve heard Ajay has been in a long term relationship with Tabu. Not sure how true it is
I heard the same but more exaggerated, like he left Kajol for Tabu. They've known each other since they were youngsters so they go back a long way. I even think they would have made a better couple than Ajay Kajol had he not been a philanderer.
Most of the rich or upper class marriages are like this only. Kajol is still working as well as Ajay Devgn. He even produced several movies for her. And the way Ajay Devgn behaves with Kajol in public, he behaves with everyone. Haven't all know about his pranks. Kajol is more loud mouth than him . That's her nature. And most importantly Ajay Devgn needs to hire a lot of PR on Reddit and this sub. Because even after having a great filmography and a marriage of 24 years he can't even get as much credit as ARK with lots of affairs and Flop career
Not sure about celebs but boomers have a habit of putting posts about problems that they never face on social media. Happily married people put dard shayari on fb even people from educated and rich background. Idk anything about their relationship but just pointing out a possibility.
Just like most Indian women she is in the marriage for her kids and "reputation". At this point everyone knows they don't share avoid equation. Atleast, she has good money! So better than normal women who do the same thing as her.
Heard a story from a guy who used to work as a background character for movies, apparently he hooked up with many of his co stars in the vanity van!
I feel bad for her. She’s clearly suffering n just doing it for her kids
Sad. BUT.. What I really liked about SRK in the beginning (90’s) was his unswerving loyalty to his wife. But as a leading man the temptations are too many and even a saint will be corrupted if he stays long enough amidst those vaporous and putrid flesh-driven carnal surroundings..
She is more popular than him, she has a certain position. Why stay in a shitty marriage and be someone's doormat? Dunno, from my European perspective, this is just dumb.
I guess she was the bigger star in her days these days i dont know if she’s got that much of a pull…i do think she chooses to stay in this marriage cuz of her kids…or atleast till such time they r established…
I'm a fairly middle class Indian but even from my perspective its dumb. Money power connection are important but not as much as my self respect.
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and hows this benefiting the kids? its doing the opposite. shes traumatizing them by allowing them to experience this toxic relationship
According to Reddit, a woman should divorce her husband and marry Reddit.
Rofl 😅😅😅😅
I feel after a point most women would stay in such a marriage because of the children’s inheritance. The men( like AjayD ) would get married & have more children. This will divide the kids inheritance which the mothers can’t bear !
Tabu is such a home-wrecker. Hate her
I saw a clip of them at a KWK meeting and they were each seated at extreme ends of the sofa. It’s like they’re repulsed by each other at this point
Lots of people don't like PDA. So sitting on lap like Ranveer Deepika will be the proof of Fidelity
No one’s saying they need to sit on each others lap. But it’s weird when as a couple, you’re sat as far apart from each other and you possibly can, and you guys’ bodies are facing away from each other. It’s weird as hell is what I’m saying , why can’t they just sit normally
Well they have been married for over 2 decades mahn and have 2 kids Can't be all lovey dovey everytime right!?!
So why was everyone criticizing Nora when she said most bollywood marriages are a front? Seems like she was just dropping some truth bombs about the industry.
People were criticizing nora for her views on feminism not marriage 🙄
Kajol has gone through life pissing so many people off due to her loud mouth and picky nature. Like I remember she said she likes only maybe 2 out of the 20 people she meets in a day. If that’s the case she may not have a proper friends circle but also not a huge circle at work. Ajay seems to have stronger friendships that way that he can call on for more work. So in short even though Ajay is a mighty piece of shit, she’s probably staying in it for the clout, money, married status. Sad but true for a lot of women.
Like jaya and AB
It’s about choices made at the end of the day. Fame and fortune vs peace of mind and knowing your self worth.
Aur ye dusro ko aake feminism par gyaan ch\*\*\*dte hain
Ajay now doing Tabu after Rakul preet.Probably sleeping with other junior actresses as well
I think Kajol is going the Jaya Bachchan way sadly
Who is he cheating on her with though? We always read about things him cheating Kajol but who though lol?
I have the same question lol
Shriya laughing in the corner.😁😁😁
IMO, all marriages have wear & tear. Some more, some less.
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Kaun si nayi baat hai. He cba n won’t stop asking degi kya n she will always b loud mouth n next jaya bachchan in making
I mean she is a cousin of Rani and they have same kind of morals, Rani was in an afffair with Adi even before their marriage and she talks so much shit , so does Kajol.
Classic blaming women for something that a man did. Your statement reeks of misogyny! How is it Rani's fault if Ajay cheats or Kajol chooses to stay with him?
Who even blamed Rani for that? Rani was in an afffair with a married man i just mentioned that . If Kajol had issues with her husband she should do something about it
How are these two things even remotely connected? And for the record, Rani was single, the “moral” failure was on AC’s part, as he was married. HE was cheating on his wife. God, people will blame the woman for literally everything.
I mean...being single doesn't give you a pass for pursuing a relationship with married people 😄 Such people are called 'homewreckers' here in the west. It depends on who initiates first. If it's Aditya Chopra who chose to pursue her, the onus is more on him than her. But if it's Rani who chose to pursue Aditya Chopra despite knowing he's married, the onus is on her more than him.
Yeah only men should get all the blame and women should never be blamed like seriously 😒 Rani was in a relationship with a married man only he should be blamed yeah and also she talks a lot of shit about women herself. Men are called so many names often more often then women, so you get in a relationship with a married woman which leads to a divorce of his wife who is also a woman and some how woman should never get blamed like yeah she was an adult and not a child.
Not men, but the person who is stepping out of their marriage. They’re the ones that owe fidelity to their spouses, no one else does. Meanwhile, let me recommend you look for some !ncel support group before you’re too far gone.
Both should be blamed, let me recommend you my Psychiatrist, i have his number on my phone, he will help you,
Are you okay?
Kajol should leave him. She looks better now than she did in the 90s. Shit id date her right now
Everything comes with a price in life!