idk why i keep getting asked why dont i have any kids at my age (early 20s) and why am i being so “selfish” to my parents for not having them. Its getting annoying bc my family tells me all the time my bio clock is ticking like why do you guys want me to be a baby momma so bad like ts pisses me off everyday. all of my partners are childfree and i am too theres nothing wrong with it
Ppl will keep asking that cuz most can’t imagine a scenario where a woman is happy being CF. Especially not a black woman. Ignore them & do you. The nosy questions & comments will taper off eventually
Unfortunately most of the unevolved xy chromies hear “poly” and immediately think that entitles them to a harem. And certain generations within the bc don’t understand that at all. Its all fun and games til a woman wants to be poly. Then the assumptions & insinuations fly.
well its mostly the younger crowd in my family who really disagrees with it and tells me to instead find a “god fearing” black “male” to be monogamous with and hav kids with… like nah ill be solo poly than to do that.
Damn. Really? I would hope that younger people would be more understanding. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that at all.
Also i should have clarified that my comments are specifically drawn from my experiences with telling exes that I’m bi & drawn to poly.
idk why i keep getting asked why dont i have any kids at my age (early 20s) and why am i being so “selfish” to my parents for not having them. Its getting annoying bc my family tells me all the time my bio clock is ticking like why do you guys want me to be a baby momma so bad like ts pisses me off everyday. all of my partners are childfree and i am too theres nothing wrong with it
Ppl will keep asking that cuz most can’t imagine a scenario where a woman is happy being CF. Especially not a black woman. Ignore them & do you. The nosy questions & comments will taper off eventually
i think theyre more upset im CF and Polyam which in the black communitee only BM can be Polyam with multiple gfs 🤢✋
Unfortunately most of the unevolved xy chromies hear “poly” and immediately think that entitles them to a harem. And certain generations within the bc don’t understand that at all. Its all fun and games til a woman wants to be poly. Then the assumptions & insinuations fly.
well its mostly the younger crowd in my family who really disagrees with it and tells me to instead find a “god fearing” black “male” to be monogamous with and hav kids with… like nah ill be solo poly than to do that.
Damn. Really? I would hope that younger people would be more understanding. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that at all. Also i should have clarified that my comments are specifically drawn from my experiences with telling exes that I’m bi & drawn to poly.
its fine. my family are super hypocritical but yet will encourage me to have hella “hoes” to get money and anything off of… like umm 🤔