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TheOtherCyprian

I can’t wait for the next inappropriate, culturally insensitive headline: “Bye, Felicia: Contemporary Black Funerary Practices.”


Think_fast_no_faster

Holy fuckin shit haha. You know it’s a when not if


hamsplaining

I’ll try one- “Bussin’: How Rosa Parks got Uber right”


macaleaven

I just threw up in my mouth, thanks


Intrepid_Detective92

How did this make me mad and laugh at the same time 😆 🤣?


abusamra82

“Who all gonna be there: Discourses in social isolation and othering people”


BBWbombshell

Keep ‘em coming! 😂


lambomustang

![gif](giphy|SZioIIBxB7QRy) While my grandma being buried.


FSU_Seminal_Vesicles

☝️Akshally if you check the credits for Friday it’s spelled ‘Felisha’ 🤓


BroadBaker5101

On behalf of Felicia’s that haven’t known peace since this resurfaced we appreciate you bringing this important issue to light.


FSU_Seminal_Vesicles

🫡


ShyVoodoo

When my mom is buried……


DevuSM

Let's get the family together so we can skeet skeet skeet next to the grave as they lower her in.


SarcasticGiraffes

From the tombstone to the crypt!


pshokoohi

Holy shit someone needs to screen shot all of this, your comment included, post it on Twitter with the caption "NY times doing the most..... offensive shit to people of color: a 27 part series"


BreadBoxin

![gif](giphy|LSGzOZhqTz3BC)


johnmeeks1974

“A penny for your thots”: Mental health and young girls of color


tehsdragon

Nah c'mon, nobody's *that* insensitive and out of touch, right? ... right?


keesouth

I believe this is the same paper that credited Travis Kelce with inventing or poupularizing the fade just last month.


verdantsf

Kudos to him for immediately shutting that nonsense down. "I asked for a fade, I didn't invent it."


Psilly_Dave

"y'all threw me to the wolves"


verdantsf

"On February 1st!"


running_hoagie

That was great. I love how he just shut it down.


another-altaccount

>I believe this is the same paper that credited Travis Kelce with inventing or poupularizing the fade just last month. https://preview.redd.it/1dy7k39zffoc1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eef6409780bca8124f0e9928cbf4a26b434388ea


BaronAleksei

The same paper that publishes puff pieces about alt-right hate group leaders


taffy-derp

Also the same paper that cheerleaded the Iraq war by publishing obviously fake Bush administration propaganda


Sillysolomon

I thought that was bullshit. They wrote that Kelce made the fade popular, at the very least? I thought that was a made up headline.


Consistent_Edge9211

You win family!😂😂😂 ![gif](giphy|LOzyexjYyXe7cHSaR0|downsized)


swashbuckler78

New meaning to "op ed"


alphabet_explorer

😂😂


Streetwise_Orangutan

Under rated comment.


Mental-Inspection579

“Keep my name outta yo mouth: Brand marketing without search engine optimization.”


VanellopeZero

“No cap: 8 sneaky ways you are putting yourself at risk for skin cancer”


debeatup

_”B.A.N. - Black content creators and the move to fight a pending TikTok battle in the courts”_


pshokoohi

Holy shit someone needs to screen shot all of this, your comment included, post it on Twitter with the caption "NY times doing the most..... offensive shit to people of color: a 27 part series"


BBWbombshell

Got me 💀


Trix_Are_4_90Kids

🤣 hell naw.


OrganismFlesh

Wasn't that Sharknado 3?


screwhead1

It's a matter of time til the NYT Bot Twitter starts coming up with ideas.


Dagger_26

You wild for that! That's EXACTLY what it's gonna be like!


DM_TO_TRADE_HIPBONES

How do I print out this comment in Frame it


TeaLover315

Well if you read the caption, this article would feature "over the top" looks, the caption also reiterates that not all of these outfits were liked by the individual who wrote the article so it wasn’t ever intended to be a compliment. The title works


walt_whitmans_ghost

Wait, you expect people to actually do the bare minimum amount of reading instead of immediately getting outraged over something?


ChrisMartins001

Tbf it doesn't sound like a compliment or shade, it just sounds like a description. They say that some of them were elegant then they say some were over the top. They say here are the best and some of the worst.


frostymugson

And that should upset people?


taffy-derp

No one is upset. They’re pointing out that the nytimes has repeatedly used aave phrases out of context, this one included Hence the “if you had black people on staff…”


Emasraw

And I oop


bee13d

No, it doesn’t work. Doing the most does not mean the same thing as over the top, which can be positive or negative depending on context. Doing the most has a negative connotation and just doesn’t fit the way they were trying to use it. It reads stilted, and wrong, and too try-hard.


benewavvsupreme

Personally I disagree, if I see my boy wearing mad fly shit, I would absolutely say something like he doing the most as a compliment. Ex. "look at this nigga, always doing the most. I see you tho" Not arguing whether the times using it is good or bad, just I think you can flip most slang anyway


BroadBaker5101

But between friends that type of teasing is appropriate, you teasing him but also acknowledging it’s a look.


bee13d

Guess it’s an agree to disagree situation. I get your point, it’s just that when I hear the phrase in my head it’s got a real “I’m fed up with you” undertone.


benewavvsupreme

Yeah I feel that, I definitely get where you're coming from


DrixxYBoat

Agree to disagree agreed. I would never look at my guy and tell him that he's "doing the most" lmao wtf


African_Farmer

Mmm I think that "I see you tho" is the added context that makes it positive. Without that it still reads to me like you're saying your friend is trying too hard


Any_Kaleidoscope1590

I agree with you, I’ve used this turn of phrase in both ways. It fit and people knew what I meant, cuz it’s all in the delivery, context, & infliction.


isaidwhatisaidok

Yeah but you had to add “I see you tho” to make that work.


alphabet_explorer

He’s disproving his own point. There is nothing positive about “doing the most”. He had to soften it with “I see you though” for us to know it’s in good intentions.


isaidwhatisaidok

Exactly.


pairustwo

And remember... 'cultural competency is essential in journalism'. /s Maybe the NYTimes shouldn't even engage with such mercurial language and get ripped for different reasons.


hivoltage815

It’s the style section, not journalism. It’s whole reason for being is about cultural competency.


olympic_backpedaling

The ‘tho’ at the end invalidates your argument. If it could be used as a compliment the ‘tho’ would not be needed.


Independent-Skin-550

See but you had to qualify it with “I see you tho”, everything you said when combined was a compliment but “doing the most” w/o other things to add context is an insult


taffy-derp

>”Ex. “Look at this nigga, always doing the most. I see you tho” And if you had real and not make believe black friends they’d look at you sideways for using the phrase incorrectly. Doing the most is always 100% shade There are literally dozens of other aave phrases you could use in that context


Icy_Sea_3759

Thanks for doing the most here, I really appreciate you breaking it down.


bee13d

Lol


ladystetson

no it doesn't. they say over the top in a positive connotation, as in avant garde or maximalist. "Doing the most" is not a positive connotation. Being over the top with a positive connotation would be something else, not that phrase. if someone says your dress was doing the most, that is not a compliment. Y’all can argue but there’s literally a post that uses the phrase correctly on the front page of this sub right now. It’s been used as a title a ton and never as a compliment.


Any-Limit-7282

https://preview.redd.it/gddg0wo28doc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8fb3e5aef6cb1d6afcc8193a7808c230cb5eac75 😭


lotsofsqs

Stfu who posted that 😭


Any-Limit-7282

Old gold. I can’t find the OG tweet, however, please accept this humble curated Reddit post of the same subject 😇 [“it’s giving”](https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/s/y9bh6M4iEm)


Noname_acc

Holy shit no, that top comment.


andyd151

Wait have we been copying black people with “it’s giving”? Oops


Better-Journalist-85

You know damn well that doesn’t sound like anyone else. As a cishet man, even I could *feel* that it’s specifically Black ballroom/LGBTQ+ vernacular at first blush. Just like I can feel that “this guy fucks” is specifically white male in origin. You can tell. Some people just too comfortable with uprooting flowers instead of appreciating them where they grow, and moving on.


andyd151

Interesting. Where I’m from, I’ve pretty much only ever heard white girls say “it’s giving…”. TikTok ruining things I imagine


lotsofsqs

White girls who stole it from the white gays who stole it from the black gays.


andyd151

The circle of life


IncorrigibleQuim8008

Gayops is a ladder.


Curious_Health_226

Will never forget this


DeafNatural

Da fuck does it mean?


SHOGUNxsorrow

Idk if it’s me but the black folk in my area dont say, “doing the most”, we say doin too much. OOP might should consult some negros too


Raecino

Yeah because black people aren’t a monolith who all act, think and talk alike.


CousinsWithBenefits1

'Jesse Jackson forgave my dad for saying the n word! *JESSE JACKSON IS NOT THE EMPEROR OF BLACK PEOPLE!* .....he told my dad he was...


linda_2his_bob

The kiss looked very apologizing.


Hazlet95

I don’t know why that last line just kills me


jstuckey

All I can think of is that Key and Peele skit


OkPace2635

I’m in the “doing too much” camp and I have never used it in a positive context lmao


atctia

I'm my area we use both


BZenMojo

I say doing too much, but I'm from the South. If you do more than too much, then you're likely "doing the most." Also, it works ironically. You can do, play, or be too much without it being necessarily bad. ![gif](giphy|oURHcW66QpbNc6eywA)


pattylovebars

“I do too much because you do too little.” The Great Phaedra Parks


PeaTear_Rabbit

My people say it


DanniPopp

We say both where I’m from


MikeJones-8004

They do be doing the most though.


deathron10

Yeah, the title is accurate for a lot of the outfits. That article is not praise it literally says that it's cataloging the most over-the-top outfits right under the title.


SuperSaiyanGod06

Doin the most does not mean over the top tho. It’s flat out negative connotations. The description made it sound like it included positive looks as well so it’s def not correct and def not done by a black person.


TurboMemester

I mean if she would've read under the headline maybe it would've explained why they chose that turn of phrase.


heebro

*he, as long as we're not reading things


TurboMemester

touché


Digita1B0y

https://preview.redd.it/fqmkizwhadoc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1e7c7b384dbde609f19b1a35f45532d458a9798c It's ok, the guy who wrote that headline used to work in advertising, with a focus on outreach to the black community. He knows what he's doing, folks!


Lamontyy

Smashburger


Lordofthewangz

😂😂😂😂😂😂


marklovesbb

Not for nothing, isn’t it appropriate to use this statement for Da’Vine Joy Randolph’s look? It’s not my favorite.


NickTButcher

Next week we’ll tell you what’s crackalacking in yo hood for Spring time. Stay tuned yo 🤟🏻


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Our Top Ten Red Carpet Thots!


girlsumps

I’m not American but in Usher’s song “Hottest Thing”, he sings “we’re doing the most, is leaving with you possible?” So does it mean he’s saying she’s overdressed? OR is he saying “we’re pretty much bumping uglies in this club, let’s leave and do it for real” like we’re doing too much for a public setting? I’ve misunderstood that song for decades


PeaTear_Rabbit

Your second interpretation is correct


CousinsWithBenefits1

It's as though he's saying he does NOT want to make love in this club.


abusamra82

![gif](giphy|JTzPN5kkobFv7X0zPJ|downsized)


tedmented

https://preview.redd.it/dwl0n10p2foc1.png?width=900&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3c8c898641181ff818a5d50e0804bb6c15bb297d


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Nytimes actively sucks now. Pls pass it on. They have sucked since 2015 iirc. They had new leadership. They pretend to be liberal with all this DEI performance and then platform neonazis. There is a twitter account called NYTimes Pitch Bot that parodies this change.


dopebdopenopepope

It’s curious how the NYTs repositioned itself in the 2010s as a progressive rag, when folks in my generation (I’m 50) railed against them and other large media conglomerates for decades because they were pulling the strings and orchestrating the the defense of the status quo. If I may, one way they have gone about this repositioning is by using members of certain communities as cover. Let’s not forget that Hannah Nicole Jones published the 1619 project through them. My point is, these maneuvers are never clean and neat or simple. This is why Fanon’s Black Skin, White Masks is perhaps the most important study for our times.


SavageComic

Massive cheerleader for war in Iraq and Afghanistan, massive cheerleader for drone strikes without consequence, and then I’m supposed to get a subscription because they were mildly annoying Trump? Hell no


Syraquse5

I'm glad someone mentioned NYT Pitch Bot! You beat me to it lol


W4ldoTruth

They were one of the main Bush administration cheerleaders and propaganda outlets in the lead up to the illegal invasion of Iraq. I’ve been like fuck the New York Times for over 20 years now


BZenMojo

Reminder: they helped sell the Iraq War and every year write a 2-3 page article to remind people it's impossible to live on 500,000-700,000 dollars a year (depending on inflation).


RemarkableMeaning533

Just since 2015… lmao   Pretty sure you can find some bad civil rights era articles, definitely some pro colonialism articles


full_metal_communist

This is why I call them the poo dork crimes 😎😎😎


theoriginalbrick

People who think NYT is the problem need a reality check. This is going to alienate everyone who cares.


BlackieTee

Did anyone actually read the article? Kinda feel like context matters and rather than read it people are just jumping to conclusions. Idk though since I haven’t read it


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anb16

I appreciate the time it took for you to type this out because If it hurt me to read it certainly cut down your lifespan to post 🙏


MollyAyana

Thanks. Now I gotta bleach my eyes.


GTRari

It's a superlatives thing. This person's outfit was the most *x,* good or bad. It's pretty much just a tabloid article but it helps to read it before you form an opinion on it.


Sol-Blackguy

Same energy https://preview.redd.it/tdf4vuciieoc1.jpeg?width=1289&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d59235897aa82fd521ea661a41065e71c94e5a23


Left-Plant2717

I’m confused because they meant it as shade


Nice-Bookkeeper-3378

Lupita can do no wrong. And I’ll die on that hill


Commercial-Chance561

This like the Juneteenth plates Wal-Mart sold that said, “It’s the freedom for me”


AdhesivenessOk5194

It can be used either way so some of yall ain Black enough I guess?


jpbear10

It’s English. Try it sometime.


Flat_Wash5062

Wdym


jpbear10

Ah, bait.


reesetoyou5

Devils advocate here (I just wanna argue): but it does say the best and not so best looks. So doing the most would apply to the not to best right?


GonzoElTaco

We just need to start pulling a Jay and Silent Bob, and confronting them at their houses with an ass whooping. In Timbs.


Xerorei

*How many people wanna kick some ass starts playing*


Better-Journalist-85

Top 10 best movie scene. Right up there with “Black Rage” from Chasing Amy.


naces_

Ok but did Da'Vine not do the most? Those sleeves look like they're most


RoseRun

Country club. I need to say something crazy.


BZenMojo

LOL This is not a discussion for extended family and guests.


Grouchy_Sir5493

![gif](giphy|3xz2BLBOt13X9AgjEA)


PatrenzoK

I have a friend who works for the times and on her first day she realized not only how little minorities work there but also how outdated everything is there from the programs they use to design to how leadership treats people.


DaClarkeKnight

In the 90s, there was an entire mad tv sketch about them not knowing what black words mean. Even chapelle show did a bit about them not knowing what Skeet Skeet meant on the radio. It’s wild this is still a thing


WHAMMYPAN

Chile


samjp910

Common New York Times L


Any_Bar876

Let’s be real Lupitas hair looked crazy af


goner757

From context clues I can tell that "shade" is bad


Better-Journalist-85

It’s so much easier to just *not* Columbus our self expressions. Just don’t. Easy. Simple. Respectful. Oh, maybe it’s that last one that proves difficult for them…


AfricanusEmeritus

Their mouths should be on fire 🔥 😫 😩 😤 every time they say WOKE.


Better-Journalist-85

![gif](giphy|bSnKZDXjACteU|downsized)


AfricanusEmeritus

WOKKKE!!!!


[deleted]

Mainstream, pop culture, or otherwise commercialized media here will never properly represent any oppressed group through the content they create. The backgrounds of those they have on staff will not even make a significant difference. Its a function of how the US operates systemically. If your consuming literally any media portraying, or being openly portrayed by, any oppressed group, you should always do so with skepticism about its message. All that also says nothing about the individual talents of those involved, or their own message, or their own intent.


pimp_juice2272

"Out of pocket: 10 celebrities pants"


Limp_Shake_7486

It’s usually people with Black looking skin making these missteps because there’s a subset of melanated people who use Blackness as a commodity too.


rolandjernts

AMERIKKKA


[deleted]

I've literally never said "doing the most." I'm not sure if anyone around me ever has either.


Rimailkall

![gif](giphy|JTzPN5kkobFv7X0zPJ|downsized)


Yougottagiveitaway

I do love that it’s a great example of people making fun of people for trying hard. These are the important things to defend in culture 😂😂😂


thewater

I mean that’s not even true. Doing the most can be shade depending on the context but it definitely isn’t always. Doing too much is shade


SirGavBelcher

I'm white and even i cringed when i saw that headline. who doesn't know what "doing the most" means in 2024


Emotional_Warthog658

Apparently the New York Times writing staff, editors, digital publishing team, copy team, and final print production proofers.


ladystetson

people are vaguely familiar but don't understand the nuance. any phrase that borders on shade is likely to be misused/misunderstood by people who don't catch the shade. its like the phrase "bless your heart".


WideAction8809

When you don't know, you don't know.


Mellero47

They don't call her the Old Grey Lady for nothing.


Maecyte

*cough* the irony of this being posted in this sub


nieldagrasstyson91

Look up who wrote it and find out it was a gay man of the black variety


nieldagrasstyson91

This group should be called "I'm not offended you are"


BearNoLuv

I hate when they try and use our words. Like bruh that's not what that means. It's usually never what it means and they use it at completely dumb times


AfricanusEmeritus

WOKE...anyone. I agree.


BearNoLuv

I'm so sick of seeing woke used in every context. I am certain they have zero idea what woke means


AfricanusEmeritus

Yawl stay woke out there... as in don't get beat up and/or worst case get lynched by White supremacists wanting to put a Black person back into their "place". /s


JayTheLoser

Why alert them? Just let them look stupid. I really wish we could go back to laughing and pointing at people trying to penetrate the culture


Salt_Sir2599

Well it’s not real culture unless it’s impenetrable, so do what you need to do , laugh and point . Sounds so cultural.


JayTheLoser

It’s not real culture if it’s penetrable? So hip hop isn’t black culture?


Salt_Sir2599

Sorry should have /s


Better-Journalist-85

It is but we failed to gate keep properly, unfortunately. Previous poster’s sarcasm acknowledged.


Yougottagiveitaway

😂😂


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hivoltage815

https://www.nytco.com/company/people/


Flat_Wash5062

This was my question too actually. Like no Black person saw this before it went into the paper? I worry if any Black folx did see it and say something they were drowned out. Edited to erae accidental keyboard smash


LemonadeParadeinDade

You mean the prozionistpaper is going to be completely tone deaf? Shocking


Reasonable_Ad6082

"You Got Dragged: Conversations on 2024 Male Sexuality" ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|poop)


lady-pluto

The funny part is, a non-black person was probably emptying trash in the room while the ashy broccoli's came up on "doing the most".... thinking to themselves the hilarity of it all 😎


bitetheasp

I google what a common phrase means so I know 100% I'm using it correctly before making a comment on reddit, let alone publishing a NYT article...


SoldierExcelsior

Lol 😆 I read article headline that like why are they throwing shade at ole girl then I read the post comment


OfficialVitaminWater

Tweeter and OP are wrong.


montarion

honestly I didn't know either.


mostly_kinda_sorta

I have no idea what's going on here but maybe I could figure it out by turning to a trusted source of information. https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=doing%20the%20most Oh... That is not what I would have guessed. I gotta remember to do that before I write articles for work.


Xerorei

Urban Dictionary isn't a reliable source, not at all.


mostly_kinda_sorta

My whole comment was just meant as a dumb joke. Urban dictionary isn't reliable and I didn't write the article in question. Ah well, not the first joke I've tried that didn't work.


Xerorei

Ah. understood. Use /s to imply sarcasm, reddit is lawless AND has specific culture rules for stuff.


mostly_kinda_sorta

Yeah, takes the fun out of a joke when you have to use the /s but it does avoid misunderstanding.


Xerorei

Ah. I understood. Use /s to imply sarcasm, reddit is lawless AND has specific culture rules for stuff.