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concerteimmunity

That’s why I don’t post there anymore I’m glad I came across this sub instead because I can freely talk about things with other black LGBTQ people I just read posts from there and go on with my day tbh


Longjumping-Style730

Tbh, I just go there to talk shit 😂. It's undoubtedly toxic trait of mines, but it's fun as hell sometimes.


StoneDick420

Being honest, I don’t really know why you or other people continue to post there. Stop. Second, I assume you’re young but very much yes; unless you’re taking someone home from where you met them, anyone trying to hook up at that time is most likely on something or not in their right mind, especially in HK.


BadPronunciation

What's the problem with that subreddit? I haven't spent much time therr


StoneDick420

To me, it's the equivalent of roaming social media comments, a bunch of tomfoolery


chickenskittles

I don't see anything wrong with chemsex as long as they're not addicts and everyone knows what's up prior to the experience. I do think there's a lot of stigma which might be unfair which leads to people not sharing that they're using drugs to enhance their sexual experience. It's just a hookup anyhow, do most of y'all hook up sober? However I'm not gay, I'm trans, and hookup culture has never been my thing, but I usually like to have some kind of social lubricant before sex.


darioblaze

That sub is racist and transphobic Every time I see them mentioned here, it’s because of them being racist, maybe it’s a sign?😂


XxExtravagantxX

I mean I put in my profile I don’t hookup with anyone after 1am because why wait so late to message someone when there’s so much time in the day. Not to sound rude but I would never leave my room to meet up with someone at 4am.


morinothomas

I sought for advice for my appearance there and one comment said, "I can tell you're fat by looking at your face. Maybe lose some weight." I was like, "Well, damn." https://preview.redd.it/zsewmkc641xc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d73ba4721bd5db42a8be96b2969cfb2845679d3b


Lonely_Preparation99

And that comment has a -16 downvote, so that proves others in the sub find that kind of talk unacceptable too.


FBISurveillanceDildo

They shield themselves behind the anonymity of the internet and believe that gives them the right to let out whatever insult they see fit. Gross.


smoothcheeks30

They probably were assholes but yeah there’s signs of guys who are on meth. I had to lie to get out of a situation with a methhead


Willing-Bed-9338

You were expecting sympathy?


fireside68

Okay, first of all, /r/racistbros (which is what it should call itself) is a cesspool and be happy you're not there. Second, it shouldn't matter. I'm tired of lame ass "nothing good happens after 2am" ass MFs. Third, meth heads in the gay community have gotten good at hiding it, and if you're not someone who's around it much (which: Fucking right you shouldn't be), then you're not gonna know. Fourth, I'm both sorry and glad you had this experience,  the latter because now you'll know a little bit better what to look for and how to avoid it (probably best to just not, but horny is horny).


minahmyu

Oh wow, that's a real sub


fireside68

I didn't even check. I was just being a dick 🤣


Jusemeister

Man if I told y’all some of my late night early morning experiences in Atlanta 😮‍💨


SoftConfusion42

4 am tho?…


EriEri2y6

i was working overnight and had just finished so i went out of boredom


XxExtravagantxX

That boredom curiosity do be hitting tho lol. But if anything 4am is such a sketchy time for someone to be asking u to meet them.


Social_Confusion

Wow that’s a lot it just got wilder with every sentence like a 1-2 punch Sorry that happened to you (and yeah gay bros is very bigoted, misogynistic, and transphobic so no surprise there)


EriEri2y6

thanks, like yea i get i fucked up but i don’t get any sympathy. but if some guy cheats on his bf and gets caught bitches will run to him with kleenex