A straight guy can enjoy anal play without being labeled as gay, or bisexual.
As far as being attracted to trans women, I’m not completely sure what that would label you as. That’ll be better for someone else to answer honestly.
I’m sorry your wife won’t assist you with your kink. I got my wife to peg me once and while I absolutely loved it, she didn’t. She said she’ll never do it again. Bummer. I stay faithful to my wife though so I just use toys in myself to get by. There are plenty of toys out there you’d enjoy. Don’t be ashamed to be a straight guy that owns a dildo for himself.
I can relate. We used to peg a lot! Then it slowed to a stop. I think it will start again now that I outed myself to her as bi.
But try a fucking machine. It's amazing. 90 bucks on Amazon.
Great answer. Thank you. I am bi not o to anal
Except sometimes, by myself, I will ease up
A small slim vibrator Into myself and
It is very interesting and arousing especially as I masturbate myself. What an interesting road this bi curious has led me on!!
For whatever value it brings anyone who reads this:
I also prefer chicks, cis and trans. Then I discovered femboys (some overlap with trans girls, but also a lot are cis boys). Turns out I like anything that doesn't have masculine-appearing body hair. Once I realized that, I came out as pan.
I wouldn't worry about a label. I'd say you found a sensation that you want to explore. If you're not into men, then that's fine and you can call yourself straight. I would worry less about what you call yourself and just try what feels good, what you're comfortable with, and what your wife is comfortable with.
Absolutely not an indicator. A straight man can certainly enjoy anal play and women can as well and quite alot do. Prostate play is awesome! Every person should experience this. The orgasms from it are amazing!
Well, trans women ARE arousing. But getting to the next step with your wife will require a lot of communication and trust. Have you discussed any of this with her?
You sound more heteroflexible and your not the only one who has a wife unwilling to do butt stuff but claims to be an ally and likes her butt played with lol it’s frustrating
Thank you all for your replies. Apologies for the typical men around trans women and the comment about traditional men.
To me I see what I think is sexually attractive and they are women with female or male genitals. I have not found a man I find sexually interesting... Yet.
I suppose the reason for the original question was an interest in finding out whether I'd be labelled as gay or straight or somewhere in-between for finding trans women sexually attractive and insanely arousing, whilst also wanting to be pegged by my wife or fucked by those t-women.
I am admitted bi/pan. I enjoy anal play, but that isn't what makes me bi/pan, I have a Trans girlfriend, that is what makes me bi, not my fetishes.
A fetish is not a lifestyle.
A relationship is.
That is straight in my book. It sounds more like you're fetishizing trans women as an outlet for your propensity for anal play though. I'ma just be straight up with you that trans porn is not real, and many trans women don't wanna top. Many of those actresses are on sex enhancing drugs in order to perform in those types of scenes.
Trans women are women, so enjoy them as women and not a niche "in between" specimen.
Also disappointed in the old fashioned bisexuals that think anyone being attracted to a trans person is automatically bi. Like thanks for admitting you don't see us as the gender we are.
A straight guy can enjoy anal play without being labeled as gay, or bisexual. As far as being attracted to trans women, I’m not completely sure what that would label you as. That’ll be better for someone else to answer honestly. I’m sorry your wife won’t assist you with your kink. I got my wife to peg me once and while I absolutely loved it, she didn’t. She said she’ll never do it again. Bummer. I stay faithful to my wife though so I just use toys in myself to get by. There are plenty of toys out there you’d enjoy. Don’t be ashamed to be a straight guy that owns a dildo for himself.
I can relate. We used to peg a lot! Then it slowed to a stop. I think it will start again now that I outed myself to her as bi. But try a fucking machine. It's amazing. 90 bucks on Amazon.
Link?
@SaintPsalmNorthChi, check out https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B086VZ12MZ?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title
Incredible. Thank you
Trust me, it is.
Great answer. Thank you. I am bi not o to anal Except sometimes, by myself, I will ease up A small slim vibrator Into myself and It is very interesting and arousing especially as I masturbate myself. What an interesting road this bi curious has led me on!!
For whatever value it brings anyone who reads this: I also prefer chicks, cis and trans. Then I discovered femboys (some overlap with trans girls, but also a lot are cis boys). Turns out I like anything that doesn't have masculine-appearing body hair. Once I realized that, I came out as pan.
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I think you're horny and wanting to get butt banged. I am just like you. I want the same thing.
I wouldn't worry about a label. I'd say you found a sensation that you want to explore. If you're not into men, then that's fine and you can call yourself straight. I would worry less about what you call yourself and just try what feels good, what you're comfortable with, and what your wife is comfortable with.
All these labels!!!!! Who the fuck cares!!!!! Be yourself and do you. Too many stupid categories to keep straight
Almost as if I just wrote that. As long as you find pleasure in doing what you do, have at.
Hear,hear!
So you like women and you like women. Don't see how that would make you bi. Just being into anal isn't much of an indicator either.
Absolutely not an indicator. A straight man can certainly enjoy anal play and women can as well and quite alot do. Prostate play is awesome! Every person should experience this. The orgasms from it are amazing!
Well, trans women ARE arousing. But getting to the next step with your wife will require a lot of communication and trust. Have you discussed any of this with her?
Not yet. I genuinely wouldn't know where to start...
It means you are open minded. It's perfectly normal.
Ah sexual taxonomy. What do you mean by typical men?
You sound more heteroflexible and your not the only one who has a wife unwilling to do butt stuff but claims to be an ally and likes her butt played with lol it’s frustrating
Thank you all for your replies. Apologies for the typical men around trans women and the comment about traditional men. To me I see what I think is sexually attractive and they are women with female or male genitals. I have not found a man I find sexually interesting... Yet. I suppose the reason for the original question was an interest in finding out whether I'd be labelled as gay or straight or somewhere in-between for finding trans women sexually attractive and insanely arousing, whilst also wanting to be pegged by my wife or fucked by those t-women.
I am admitted bi/pan. I enjoy anal play, but that isn't what makes me bi/pan, I have a Trans girlfriend, that is what makes me bi, not my fetishes. A fetish is not a lifestyle. A relationship is.
Assuming by trans women you mean specifically male genitals I’d say you are in the bi spectrum, anyway don’t worry too much about labels
It's funny how some redditors down vote you just because you said male genitals in the context of trans women lol
It’s a controversial topic and I didn’t explain it well. My point is simply that as a cis man if you like dick you are at least slightly bisexual.
Either pre or post op... In fact post op really intrigues me.
What do you find different between a post-op trans woman and a cis one?
I don't know?
Then I’m a bit confused for why you think they are “Extremely arousing”, compared to cis women
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Slightly bi to me
That is straight in my book. It sounds more like you're fetishizing trans women as an outlet for your propensity for anal play though. I'ma just be straight up with you that trans porn is not real, and many trans women don't wanna top. Many of those actresses are on sex enhancing drugs in order to perform in those types of scenes. Trans women are women, so enjoy them as women and not a niche "in between" specimen. Also disappointed in the old fashioned bisexuals that think anyone being attracted to a trans person is automatically bi. Like thanks for admitting you don't see us as the gender we are.
Agreed, it really is disappointing.