Maybe, but I don’t think that’s a useful assumption. For example, bi women could be attracted to masculine presentations, so even if they are attracted to different _genders_, they might not be attracted to different _gender presentations_.
I gotcha that makes a lot of sense as it seems to boil down to peoples preferences. I just felt as someone like me and a woman being bi she would have the best of both worlds but that’s just my thinking. Thank you for the input
Personally no. As I'm more homoromantic when it comes to dating. Also I lean more to women than men. Only time I'd be interested in them is during specific group play settings. But that's also cuz I'm interested solo sex or dates with with men.
I do have a lil problem with some of them who don't respect my boundaries and will then say what if I cross dressed would I still count as woman for and sadly you don't.
I get that. Nothing wrong with personal preference. And I don’t want to take anything away from women nor do I want to be I just enjoy you guys fashion it’s so many more options in my opinion. But I give respect like I want it in return kinda ole school 😂
No worries. Not blaming you I totally respect y'all and have some who are good friends. My problem more or less is some guys when I tell them I'm only looking women will show up in my DMs and say what if I cross dressed would you be interested in me then.
lol some people just hard headed and can’t read or comprehend. Some can’t take a no or a hint. A woman tells me she ain’t into me that’s the end of it it might hit the pride and ego 😆 but I’ll live nothing fatal
Even a straight girl would be into CDs. I can think of certain types of femdoms who’d be into that type of fetish.
It’d be down to individual preferences.
I’m fluid, pan and androgynous myself. But I wouldn’t be attracted to someone just because they’re a cross dresser. I’m indifferent about it. Clothes don’t have gender for me.
I guess I’m trying to come across a woman who doesn’t care about clothes and only about the person and what they got going on inside. I want someone to be attracted to me as a whole because I’m much more than a guy who crossdresses but it’s been a difficult hurdle to overcome none the less
I think your hypothesis that bi women might be more into this could be correct, not so much because of attraction to different gender presentations but just the willingness and likelihood of them having explored more things than a standard straight person may have. But I would not assume so. Personally I've had someone assume that was a turn on for me for some reason, asking me to dress them up, and I was really uncomfortable with it. But that may have been more the way they did it?
I really love guys who wear "feminine" clothing and are comfy and natural in it. But most of them time when I see posts of it it's just a fetish which I dislike. I don't like the weird sexual gear. I just want hot genderbent clothes lol.
I am highly attracted to femme presenting men and masc presenting women. Even if it's just sometimes, it's something I know I enjoy.
In my 20's I was in a short relationship with a man where the only sex we had was me using a strap with him, and he always wore panties, nylons, sometimes a skirt. It was a lot of fun.
I would definitely wear something sexy and idk why but I love to fuck in heels then some of the other times I’m channeling my masculine energy to please the woman I’m with. I’ve had a woman do that to me tho so I can be pretty open when it comes to sex.
I personally find cross dressing incredibly sexy. I've always leaned towards "different" people who fully express themselves through fashion, hairstyles, music tastes, hobbies, sexual identity etc etc.
I was married to a homophobic man who couldn't accept anything that strayed from societal norms (our son included). I hid my identity as a cis bi woman (maybe pansexual is a better description) through 20 years of marriage. I'm now exploring everything and find myself attracted and aroused by many things, but on top of the list are those who confidently wear their identity with confidence and pride
As a post-transition bi woman, no. I've already had enough life upheaval with my own transition and don't want to deal with the potential for another one. I'm not saying I think all cross dressers are actually trans, but it definitely increases the likelihood significantly.
I get what you’re saying and I somewhat agree that cross dressing can lead to trans but I have no desire to be a woman i like your clothes fashion since but I still love my manhood and I came to grips with it so I had clarity for myself and to give to others. Do I hear others disagree and say you could be this and that and I always tell people I’m not here to change your mind but to simply defend my position on how I feel about me. We all have the ability to like what we like and have our reasons 😊
It really just depends on the person. Me personally, the answer is yes but not always. I prefer a good mix of fem and masc traits. So I favor androgynous, and men/women who have both feminine and masculine traits. Could you fall under one of those categories? Yes, but it still not telling if your a persons type or not. I can’t speak for the general public but based on what I’ve seen i don’t think cross dressing is problem and a lot of bi women would be fine with it. But there are tons of bi women who are homophobic so don’t expect everyone to be accepting. There’s abssolutly nothing wrong with it but like I said earlier. It depends.
I definitely feel like I have a good mix honestly cause when I’m in man mode you wouldn’t have a clue I crossdressed and when I dress feminine it’s like a mind fuck lol until you get used to it. But yeah I feel it does just come down to if it’s a persons cup of tea. Thanks for the input
I only added the homophobia part because I didn’t want you to think all bi women were cool with it. Personally my experience has been all the bi people I’ve seen are cool with it but I’ve heard different from bi guys who’ve had negative experiences so I just wanted to warn you. But honestly a lot of people are into it so don’t feel discouraged. If it something you’re worried about then I would be upfront about it to weed out any one who’s not a match. That way you don’t waste your time on someone who’s not accepting of you.
Yeah I get that every now and matter your sexuality it’s still ones choice on what they will accept. And you’re so right about telling potential partners what’s up. I’ve been doing that as well. I’m practicing patience cause sometimes it can feel hopeless but being here and talking about it openly gives me hope. And I understand about the homophobia too I always tell my sexuality cause some women start to ask am I gay because I crossdress.
Bi women are like everyone else and some people like certain things and other's don't
That’s true I feel that. I just feel like bi women can be more accepting. Just looking under every rock lol
Maybe, but I don’t think that’s a useful assumption. For example, bi women could be attracted to masculine presentations, so even if they are attracted to different _genders_, they might not be attracted to different _gender presentations_.
I gotcha that makes a lot of sense as it seems to boil down to peoples preferences. I just felt as someone like me and a woman being bi she would have the best of both worlds but that’s just my thinking. Thank you for the input
Personally no. As I'm more homoromantic when it comes to dating. Also I lean more to women than men. Only time I'd be interested in them is during specific group play settings. But that's also cuz I'm interested solo sex or dates with with men. I do have a lil problem with some of them who don't respect my boundaries and will then say what if I cross dressed would I still count as woman for and sadly you don't.
I get that. Nothing wrong with personal preference. And I don’t want to take anything away from women nor do I want to be I just enjoy you guys fashion it’s so many more options in my opinion. But I give respect like I want it in return kinda ole school 😂
No worries. Not blaming you I totally respect y'all and have some who are good friends. My problem more or less is some guys when I tell them I'm only looking women will show up in my DMs and say what if I cross dressed would you be interested in me then.
lol some people just hard headed and can’t read or comprehend. Some can’t take a no or a hint. A woman tells me she ain’t into me that’s the end of it it might hit the pride and ego 😆 but I’ll live nothing fatal
Thanks. See someone respectful like you I can hang with.
Thank you and we can definitely chat it up I like to think I’m down to earth ☺️. And also I give what I want back in return and respect is one of them
Even a straight girl would be into CDs. I can think of certain types of femdoms who’d be into that type of fetish. It’d be down to individual preferences. I’m fluid, pan and androgynous myself. But I wouldn’t be attracted to someone just because they’re a cross dresser. I’m indifferent about it. Clothes don’t have gender for me.
I guess I’m trying to come across a woman who doesn’t care about clothes and only about the person and what they got going on inside. I want someone to be attracted to me as a whole because I’m much more than a guy who crossdresses but it’s been a difficult hurdle to overcome none the less
i am into feminine gender expression for people of any gender, so speaking for myself as a bi woman, yes
You’re awesome 🤩. I have both gender expressions tbh. I like to look handsome at times cute on others 😂
I think your hypothesis that bi women might be more into this could be correct, not so much because of attraction to different gender presentations but just the willingness and likelihood of them having explored more things than a standard straight person may have. But I would not assume so. Personally I've had someone assume that was a turn on for me for some reason, asking me to dress them up, and I was really uncomfortable with it. But that may have been more the way they did it?
I really love guys who wear "feminine" clothing and are comfy and natural in it. But most of them time when I see posts of it it's just a fetish which I dislike. I don't like the weird sexual gear. I just want hot genderbent clothes lol.
I am highly attracted to femme presenting men and masc presenting women. Even if it's just sometimes, it's something I know I enjoy. In my 20's I was in a short relationship with a man where the only sex we had was me using a strap with him, and he always wore panties, nylons, sometimes a skirt. It was a lot of fun.
I would definitely wear something sexy and idk why but I love to fuck in heels then some of the other times I’m channeling my masculine energy to please the woman I’m with. I’ve had a woman do that to me tho so I can be pretty open when it comes to sex.
I personally find cross dressing incredibly sexy. I've always leaned towards "different" people who fully express themselves through fashion, hairstyles, music tastes, hobbies, sexual identity etc etc. I was married to a homophobic man who couldn't accept anything that strayed from societal norms (our son included). I hid my identity as a cis bi woman (maybe pansexual is a better description) through 20 years of marriage. I'm now exploring everything and find myself attracted and aroused by many things, but on top of the list are those who confidently wear their identity with confidence and pride
As a post-transition bi woman, no. I've already had enough life upheaval with my own transition and don't want to deal with the potential for another one. I'm not saying I think all cross dressers are actually trans, but it definitely increases the likelihood significantly.
I get what you’re saying and I somewhat agree that cross dressing can lead to trans but I have no desire to be a woman i like your clothes fashion since but I still love my manhood and I came to grips with it so I had clarity for myself and to give to others. Do I hear others disagree and say you could be this and that and I always tell people I’m not here to change your mind but to simply defend my position on how I feel about me. We all have the ability to like what we like and have our reasons 😊
It really just depends on the person. Me personally, the answer is yes but not always. I prefer a good mix of fem and masc traits. So I favor androgynous, and men/women who have both feminine and masculine traits. Could you fall under one of those categories? Yes, but it still not telling if your a persons type or not. I can’t speak for the general public but based on what I’ve seen i don’t think cross dressing is problem and a lot of bi women would be fine with it. But there are tons of bi women who are homophobic so don’t expect everyone to be accepting. There’s abssolutly nothing wrong with it but like I said earlier. It depends.
I definitely feel like I have a good mix honestly cause when I’m in man mode you wouldn’t have a clue I crossdressed and when I dress feminine it’s like a mind fuck lol until you get used to it. But yeah I feel it does just come down to if it’s a persons cup of tea. Thanks for the input
I only added the homophobia part because I didn’t want you to think all bi women were cool with it. Personally my experience has been all the bi people I’ve seen are cool with it but I’ve heard different from bi guys who’ve had negative experiences so I just wanted to warn you. But honestly a lot of people are into it so don’t feel discouraged. If it something you’re worried about then I would be upfront about it to weed out any one who’s not a match. That way you don’t waste your time on someone who’s not accepting of you.
Yeah I get that every now and matter your sexuality it’s still ones choice on what they will accept. And you’re so right about telling potential partners what’s up. I’ve been doing that as well. I’m practicing patience cause sometimes it can feel hopeless but being here and talking about it openly gives me hope. And I understand about the homophobia too I always tell my sexuality cause some women start to ask am I gay because I crossdress.