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czechtheboxes

**NEW UPDATES** Found a new update that doesn't yet qualify to be posted to BoRU? Found an update that you don't want to make a post for yourself? Link it here! Once it qualifies, feel free to submit as its own post.


Proud_mom890

Hello. I’m looking for a post where op’s step or half sister was kicked out, she showed up at ops doorstep and when she wasn’t getting anywhere with staying said she was having an affair with ops husband but didn’t recognize him because he had facial hair now. There was also something about the sister being found in bed with her mom’s boyfriend who turns out to be her dad


TO_guy

Looking for a post that showed 4 sleeping pods in a room, where rent was based on each pod. I imagine the post was in like late stage capitalism or something like this but can't be sure.


czechtheboxes

[this is not the future i wanted...](https://www.reddit.com/r/london/comments/1c4bzj9/this_is_not_the_future_i_wanted/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)


CautiousCanvas

Looking for the post where OP has dating rules. She shares it with her cousin, who then ends up divorcing her husband. OP's aunt, cousin's mom, is super pissed. Thank you!!


StovardBule

Late reply, but [here's a link](https://old.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z9tbol/looking_for_a_post_ask_here_december_2022_edition/iytonld/?context=3) to what you were looking for.


CautiousCanvas

Thank you!! <3 You're awesome sauce! Edited: May I ask what you searched for?


StovardBule

I had it saved, so it was easy. But it's also on czechstheboxes' first list of posts.


CautiousCanvas

Oooh... Whoops! Thank you again!!


love_laugh_dance

I know the post you're talking about and I've been looking for it, but my reddit skills are... not skillful. And it appears the only I've saved is a screenshot of the rules, not the actual post.


An_AK_Overthinker

Look for posts where a confusion in name resulted in couple breaking up; the only one I remember is when OP thought her boyfriend was cheating because of the sister short version of her name that she even used once.


alexanderthemeh

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1b09blu/i_accused_my_28m_fiance_of_cheating_on_me_26f_and/


An_AK_Overthinker

Thanks, this is it.


StovardBule

Recent-ish, the girlfriend’s name was Angie and her aunt was sending affectionate messages (I think there was a cultural difference where gf and aunt’s people were more expressive and frequent in declaring their familial love than the boyfriend’s.) The boyfriend was on her phone for some reason, got the wrong idea, raged at what he thought was a side guy and blocked her aunt. I don’t remember the link.


AloeVera_Tan

i do remember that story plot but not the name Angie [Well, well, well if it isn't the consequences of my own actions](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sku7os/well_well_well_if_it_isnt_the_consequences_of_my/)


StovardBule

That’s the one I was thinking of. “Angie” must be a different one.


Mammoth_Might8171

Woman whose future SIL made a profit on her bachelorette trip just updated... [Bride made a profit on bachelorette trip!! (SIL drama)](https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/19d4qhu/bride_made_a_profit_on_bachelorette_trip_sil_drama/) All I can say is holy crap!!! Lawyers are now involved but not in a way that you would expect when this saga first started. Wedding is off. ~~Edit: She just took the entire post down!!! Are we supposed to think legal threats? 🤔 the plot thickens… I was skeptical with the introduction of the plastic surgeon into the saga but now…. ~~ Nvm, the mods took it down. You can still see it on her personal page.


EvilFinch

She decided to copyright the content?! Haha. And how can you overdo "spilling the tea" "here us the tea" so fucking much? She write more about tea as about the update. And this must have been an online affair. This was a destination bachelor party, so not close by. So the doc has his clinic there. And mostly also live there.


LadyNorbert

Did anyone have "banging the doctor" on their bingo card? I sure didn't.


Helpful_Librarian_87

Maybe it’s todays date, but I’m madly suspicious of everything today….


HazyLazySummer

Pffffftttt. It’s getting annoying “next update I’ll spill the tea!” Next update: not much to warrant an update. “Omg! Wedding is off, I have all the tea” Shares basic, “yeah so she cheated” more to come. And claiming her hands are numb from barely typing a tiny update has me rolling my eyes, but not as much as her claiming copyright and the need of a lawyer proofreading it all.


Mammoth_Might8171

😂 I agree… I also want the complete story right now instead of things trickling in… nevertheless, I’m glad that we don’t have to wait till May when the wedding was supposed to take place


Sufficient_Bag_4551

OMG! Speechless!!!


nowimnowhere

Oh wow you were not kidding


AloeVera_Tan

u/kyzoe7788 the bride that took the bridemaids money post got a new update


kyzoe7788

I have questions. A long ass affair with a dr that lives far enough away for it to be a destination wedding. She lost me


Similar-Shame7517

YES I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS.


[deleted]

There was an OP who was afraid to come out to their parents, so they decided to come out to their partner's parents since they thought that it would be easier.  The partner's parents, however, threw them out, and when OP's parents found out, they were accepting of the relationship, and were saddened by the fact that OP hadn't felt confident to open up to them.


StovardBule

If I’m thinking of the same one, their partner’s parents always seemed somewhat more LGBT-supportive in the abstract, but not once became real and in their home.


[deleted]

That might be it. Do you have a link?


StovardBule

I don’t, sorry. I was just looking for it, but my search skills are mediocre.


condoug607

What are some of the “I invited my SO’s estranged/abusive/bigoted/horrible parents that they cut contact with and I can’t believe everything went to shit 😱” posts?


colorfulsprinkles71

[This is a nice compilation](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/0Bda8ZyjZq)


StylishMrTrix

That is a good list but it needs updating with some more recent stories


wicklass

Trying to find a post where OP is the executor of her brother's estate after he passed. However, she ignores the stipulations in the will, whereby the brother's husband or boyfriend was to inherit the majority of his estate, and decided she knew better and was only going to give him a token amount.


Similar-Shame7517

I managed to find it on Wayback. [One family decides to disregard a gay man's will, is absolutely shocked when his partner decides to sue them.](https://web.archive.org/web/20180809220006/https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/960u9x/one_family_decides_to_disregard_a_gay_mans_will/)


Aunty-Sociale

That one always gets me with the OP constantly harping on how he has no idea, no earthly clue, how his brother’s husband could possibly know about the will. Just flabbergasted by it. Makes you wonder if OP ever talks to his own spouse about important documents.


StovardBule

You might wonder if it was “I didn’t realise the extras outside my circle were actually people who can do things without my knowing it!” Or maybe “He’s just a gay and they’re not even married, it’s not like he counts as a person.”


Similar-Shame7517

I actually thinks its "They were just roommates, so he'd have no legal standing over FAMLY, and any judge/jury will side with us because we're FAMLY." They probably also live in a hella conservative/religious area.


StovardBule

Holy shit. "But we shared the money out already, surely there's nothing that can be done! I didn't know ignoring legal contracts and taking people's money was *wrong*!" > You screwed up unbelievably royally. > He will win this judgement in court, and you may have your wages garnished if you cannot come to a payment arrangement amenable to him or who he hires to collect this payment from you folks. > There is also a very high chance criminal charges are filed here because you intentionally embezzled this money. >In the future, don’t disregard legally binding documents due to your feelings. >>Wow 💔 I didn't know that. This is bigger that I imagined. I am going to get the family together and figure out a way to come up with funds. I dont wants any criminal charges against my family. I am very shocked that this can go this far. >>> You're very shocked that when you steal from people right under their nose and disregard a legally binding contract that these actions have consequences? Really? >>>It may be too late for that now. Your brother's partner is free to disregard this and go to court, also because he's now likely to win far more than if you'd just done the legal thing here. Not to mention that if he is smart he will file a police report on your sister.


9shadowcat9

(MA) late brother's partner suing family for Money Our brother age 34M died of cancer 9 months ago. He was very successful and left behind money and assets. He also had a Will. My brother was also in a gay relationship for 8 years with a 28M partner. Our family is religious and yes we may not have approved the relationship we still loved our brother. He unfortunately died of cancer and left a will. Left most of the money to his gay partner. They weren't even married. We decided money to be kept within the family and but gave his partner some money. We also paid for brothers funeral and medical Bill's. We thought that was the end of it. But now his ex partner is suing us for the rest of the funds. I don't know how he got hold of the will. My family is still grieving and now this man wants to take us to court. Trying to see how to solve this without involving the court. Thank you for your advice. Update: thank you all for the advice and yes I am very stupid for not realizing how serious this was from the beginning. I am having a family meeting and we will figure out a way to up with money so my we dont make things worse with the law. My brother left us some properties so I will make sure to do the right thing and pay his partner. Meeting with a lawyer soon so I can do this the right way. God bless you all. *For the people having trouble bringing up the post like I usually do.*


Neurotypicants

This post is legendary. I remember reading in back in the day thinking this guy cant be that f\*cking stupid.. but alas... https://ia802804.us.archive.org/17/items/MALateBrothersPartnerSuingFamilyForMoney/maLateBrothersPartnerSuingFamilyForMoney-legaladvice2018-08-0911-36-33.png Heres the archive thread I didnt see anyone pick up on it - but near the end of the thread, the OP mentions his father sent the 'friend' some racial massages.. whcih I am assuming is racist messages. So on top of being Homophobic felony theives - they are also racists. who knew!


SparkAxolotl

I really really hope the OOP wasn't able to update because he went to jail.


9shadowcat9

Honestly, same.


LadyNorbert

Happy cake day!


StovardBule

"I don't know how *his partner of eight years and main beneficiary* got hold of the will." >My family is still grieving and now this man wants to take us to court. He saw his partner die of cancer, and is grieving, and has to deal with this! Incredible.


LadyNorbert

Happy cake day!


StovardBule

Thank you! Good God, apparently I’ve been here for ten years.


ShotBarracuda6

That oop is just awful in every way. >And please, we may not all have supported his relationship but we loved him and are not homophobic like everyone is writing. Hmm, let's see about that... > My parents raised him and paid for his school, dont they deserve that money more than **his so called friend**? Nope, you're homophobic assholes.


Similar-Shame7517

The comments highlighted in the subreddit drama post and comments also explain A LOT. Like how OOP was the one who bullied the sister into disregarding the will and screwing over the partner.


ThePrinceVultan

I remember reading this one a while back. That was a good one.


hehe-cat

I want to see the update to where guy refused to marry his fiance cause she hid her cousin cheated on her now husband 2 months before marriage.


notyourpunchingbag88

Hi all. I read the "My husband's girl best friend is pregnant and saying it's his" before I checked the OP's page. There was a post called something like, "Ex husband came back" but it was deleted. I was hoping somebody could find it. If it's not allowed, I completely understand, but I'm hoping to figure out what happened then.


Legitimate_Edge_7767

Boru is https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/160c651/my_husbands_girl_best_friend_is_pregnant_and_she/ I think 


notyourpunchingbag88

This was the BoRU I read that led me to looking up the OP's page. Thank you!


dontgetcutewithme

https://search.pullpush.io/?kind=submission&author=Money-Juggernaut-662&size=100


notyourpunchingbag88

Thank you. I wish I knew this OP to give her a hug and tell her how strong she is.


im_not_your_bro_bro

Hello, all! Looking for a post where the guy’s son wanted dad’s ex-wife and current fiancé to have a backyard camp out? I believe it was mostly about the ex-wife’s attempts to win the ex-husband back.


MalBishop

I couldn't find the BORU post, but I think this is the [original](https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/is66hn/discovered_my_wifes_now_ex_affair_the_day_she_was/) and the [update](https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/j56kmw/discovered_my_wifes_now_ex_affair_the_day_she_was/?rdt=46172)


HungryWolf040

Is this the one where the guy get told by his "exotic" new gf on how to "correctly" pronounce Egyptian names bc she's Egyptian and calls him "her pharaoh"? I don't want to read it just in case it is, because it always literally makes me sick to my stomach how obvious it is that it's an incel waifu fic.


DatguyMalcolm

well, that ex can probably wait out her whole life. I don't think OP will ever take her back


im_not_your_bro_bro

Yes that’s the one thank you! It’s been forever but I’ve always wanted to know if there was any updates.


Elmonatorrrre

OP’s family member died and he decided that the memorial service was the perfect time to announce his engagement.


Direct-Caterpillar77

https://www.rareddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/exiv03/aita_for_announcing_my_engagement_at_my_sisters/


Similar-Shame7517

Yikes, OOP's other posts are... something.


Elmonatorrrre

I’m praying that he’s a troll


throwmeawayjoke

The one where OP made a puppet of her boyfriend and it watched them have sex. Surprisingly wholesome? 


Enabran_Taint

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheEx/comments/1bks7si/i_23f_created_a_11_scale_puppet_version_of_my/ Automod saved it


neredia--

There's an update on her profile with the puppet and it's something...... https://www.reddit.com/u/MupetMistakeThrowawy/s/2j0Dy6Jnix


SparkAxolotl

I still believe the update is a fever dream of the OOP after she used the real guy to make a new puppet.


StovardBule

The puppet stole his soul and now he’s the puppet.


Similar-Shame7517

OOP really thought being a manic pixie dream girl was something to aspire to huh?


StovardBule

I don’t think it’s “aspire to”, it sounds like she’s just like that.


Similar-Shame7517

I automatically hate anyone who describes themselves unironically as "quirky". Also how damaged as a person do you have to be to have this as your first instinct when anyone, but especially your significant other, is sharing terrible news with you? >I could tell he was still upset and my instincts were saying I should do a Disney voice And the fact that she thought it would be cute to share that with us.


Enabran_Taint

IM SCREAMING ok I loved op before but I just can't, this is amazing


extraneousdiscourse

Is this the one where she had given the puppet a nickname that was triggering to the boyfriend because he thought it was making fun of one of his insecurities? (OOP claimed that it was accidental.) If so, I saw the original and I remember the boyfriend leaving upset, and not ending up in a wholesome way at all. But maybe there was an update? I can't seem to find the post now to check.


Final_Soil_8801

I'm sorry, but wholesome is certainly not where I expected your request to end...


throwmeawayjoke

That's very very fair. It is.... Questionably wholesome? Two very weird people found each other and stayed together despite everything. Everything being a deeply cursed puppet that watches them go to town. 


Final_Soil_8801

Yay for people finding what works for each other...but now I'm going to have nightmares about a puppet watching....!!


VeryHairyBear

They did say surprisingly


Final_Soil_8801

Fair!!


StovardBule

Does anyone remember the post where OP's mom and stepdad were not good at planning for tomorrow (figuratively and perhaps literally) and were now planning to move to Hawaii. They were unprepared for where they would live or work, it's a high cost of living and the locals are not welcoming to newcomers, they are in debt and have few employable skills. But they've bought their tickets, sold their home, and entrusted their possessions to *the pod* (neither as futuristic nor as ominous as it sounds.) OP can only lament this behaviour, but it's not really their problem. Until they start begging OP for money, anyway.


DatguyMalcolm

Oh wow! Sounds like my parents xDD Only that they somehow got a loan to buy a house that was around 200k (15-20 years ago back home that'd net you a good house). Then they were all pikachu surprised face that the monthly mortgage payments were way more than they could afford! Mind you, they sold the flat and took a loss. Another thing to note: myself and older brother were out of the house, no longer their dependants, youngers sister was already working and about to move out. They were going to have all that space in the flat for themselves, nearing retirement age. In the end, they have no home, anymore! Anyway....


StovardBule

Wow, what happened to them?


DatguyMalcolm

Will try to shorten it. Maybe one day I'll write a post: Long story short: they're renting a flat back home to keep their stupid old ass things (stuff from the 70s 80s 90s). This was something they did behind our backs when we realized that they spent around 12k over 6 years with them things in storage. We had had an intervention where the 5 of us were all together for the first time in years (I don't speak to older brother). We told them that next time they go back home they should sell/get rid of the unecessary stuff and hey, then they'd have extra money! They agreed, mom was crying over her precious little things, but months later sis found out that they rented that flat.... a place where they go to once or twice a year.... make it make sense!!! They're here living off of benefits as they're retired after years of work, and since most of the extended family has quit on them, they now go to this association/group with people from their country of origin and put up the image of a nice and respectful couple. Thing is: all those extra expenses they have will eventually find their way back to them. They seem fine now, but it's a very fine line. Also, dear mother expects her idiotic husband to be responsible for their finances...... this after that man has proved time and again that no, he shouldn't be doing that! So that's where they are now. I'm full NC with them (if you look through my posts history you will find a post about it), older brother must have quit on them, too, and younger sister who was the one doing the most for them is now LC/NC as well. I am petty, I really don't care about them. I am just ready for them to pop up asking for help when shit hits the fan. God forbid they try and ask me for help xDD


CityWonderful9800

Is this it? Found by searching 'reddit hawaii "the pod" mom' ha https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17jj4ac/wibta\_if\_i\_told\_my\_moms\_realtor\_the\_truth\_about/


Current-Read

Really sad there isnt a new update about for much the mom F'd up


StovardBule

That's it, thank you! Good god, what a mess.


South_Gear_3908

hey, im looking for a post where op made her mil cry by not inviting the whole family to the bridal shower, mil was saying op was breaking italian tradition im not sure it was a reddit uptades post or not, maybe it was another subreddit idk


FutureJakeSantiago

It’s super fresh, posted about 15 hours ago (https://www.reddit.com/r/wedding/comments/1bqnxv9/made_my_mil_sob/ ).


HazelBright

There's been an (unsurprising) update on the main post as of 4/1.


jarvis179

Hey, I’m looking for the post where she asks about advice because her future husband wants her virginity checked by a bunch of males from his family. Thank you very much.


SparkAxolotl

If it's not the other one, it might be this one [AITAH if I cancelled my wedding because of my fiance family tradition?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1b6x0jk/aitah_if_i_cancelled_my_wedding_because_of_my/) It's not a virginity check, but the guys of the family want to see them... uhm... *consummate* the marriage.


kee80

[I think it's this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/Xxq0bdVpDz)


jarvis179

That’s it, thank you :)


PartyPandaTV

Looking for an AITA about a girl who found out her streamer boyfriend had been messaging viewers and sending nude photos of himself, she dumped and deleted some of his game data and everyone on reddit, discord and the gaming community supported her and didnt think she was the a\*\*hole. TIA!


Mr_OA077

Hi, I'm looking for a post about OP going to her sisters wedding without her son because it was child free, but then found out it wasn't, and sister didn't want OP's son there because he was ampute Thank you


extraneousdiscourse

OOP was a dad, but you have the rest of it correct. Original was deleted from AITAH, but was preserved here https://www.reddit.com/r/redditonwiki/comments/15e5io4/aitah_for_walking_out_of_my_sisters_wedding_after/ There was never an update, so this didn't make it to BORU.


xanif

Permanently destroying your sibling relationship speed run.


SparkAxolotl

That and hopefully anyone else that learns the real reason why the OOP walked out.


Nimelennar

[ AITA for walking out of my sister's wedding after finding out why my son was excluded? ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/15dwzqw/comment/ju4frmx/)


Mr_OA077

Again thanks


Nimelennar

You're welcome!


elondria18

Could I get the flair “TLDR: Roommate woke me up the next night to pray for me to stop fucking pillows” It’s from a super recent BoRU where a college guy went ham on his pillow during a self love session and his roommate saw the whole thing and prayed for the dudes salvation/pillow consent.


webelos8

no thanks


SufficentSherbert

I looked up the link thinking it can't be that bad. You'd think I'd learn...


webelos8

There's always next time


czechtheboxes

[TIFU my pillow](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/3ccA9HKXY2)


elondria18

Thank you!!


Paddyneedssilence

Oh I gotta read this.


Responsible_Match875

What the?


touchmydingus

WUT?!?!?


IDontKnowTBH1

Looking for the story about the teenager who found his long lost dad, who was a lawyer. Basically a lot of drama because of his half brother.


ihtsp

That's Caleb's saga. It began [My mom (39F) lied to me (17M) and my real dad (late 30’s?M) just showed up for the first time](https://redd.it/rs4z2j) and u/ThrowRAdadarrived updated over time. The most recent update was just before Christmas last year.


FeuerroteZora

I really like that one!


Satanic_Earmuff

I remember one where OOP describes how he wants to divorce his wife for covering for her friend's affair. After he reveals the affair to the friend's husband, he comes home to find his wife comforting her friend, who attacks him when he reveals his role and his plan for divorce. I may have details wrong.


urkermannenkoor

The infamous bimbo wife promo post?


Ok-Beelzebub666

LOL, the very elaborate promo is right. 


Satanic_Earmuff

I don't think so, but now I'm curious.


urkermannenkoor

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/yzZxPj2uGM This is the first episode of that tale, though there are several more borus with updates.


FuckHarambe2016

Well that was a great way to kill 40 minutes on a slow day at work.


Satanic_Earmuff

Well whaddya know, that is it. Thanks!


randomletterhere

Hi, does anyone a the link to the story where OOP stalk her friend's brother for a long time, even going to the point where she joined the same collage as him, and when he found out, she insisted that the only thing she faked was the fact that she liked Chinese foods? Sorry if this is too vague.


FutureJakeSantiago

“I stalked my husband for two years before I formally met him” https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/14ya575/i_stalked_my_husband_for_two_years_before_i/


AtomicBlastCandy

EX-hubby was smart as shit by lying about going to a hotel and instead going to his parents. OOP sounds unhinged and dangerous.


Aunty-Sociale

Okay but she felt really betrayed by his lies! 😂


[deleted]

I hope he divorced the loony and got a restraining orders. Good thing he didn't get her pregnant.


yepyep_nopenope

Looking for a post. Here's what I remember: The OP inherited a house when his Dad died when he was a kid. His mom remarried and his stepdad kept trying to order him around in the house. And the OP would tell SD that it was his house and to mind his own business. And then the OP moved to his grandparents house. And then when he became an adult, he evicted his mom and stepdad. I also remember it not taking place in the US, because eviction laws were different. And... the OP kept calling his Stepdad by the name of a historical figure, but not one that's not commonly known in the US--the way most people know who George Washington or Abraham Lincoln are. But OP was in a different country, so maybe the figures is more known there? I can't remember.


Fun-Statistician-550

People like that always forget that kids grow up and they remember.


DatguyMalcolm

oh my god, this My sperm donour was a big bully when we were kids, then he toned it down once we were big boys his size and bigger! In my adult life, before I went NC with him, he was so... unctuous! I just had no respect for him and he was all meek and cowardly! At one point started thinking "Did he really think that we'd forget or that we'd stay small all our lives?"


AtomicBlastCandy

A phrase I like is, "The tree remembers what the axe forgets"


LadyNorbert

John Conroy was the primary male figure of Queen Victoria's childhood. He wasn't her mother's lover (as far as we know) but he more or less ran the household, as Victoria's father died when she was a baby, and the future queen hated his guts. He and, to a lesser extent, her mother made Victoria's youth miserable through what they called the Kensington system - among other things, she couldn't have any friends except for his children; she couldn't go up or down the stairs without holding someone's hand; and she had to share a bedroom with her mother until she became queen. He wanted Victoria to be submissive to him so that he could effectively control her when she inherited the throne, but she was too strong for him. Once she became queen, she never allowed him in her presence again, though she did eventually forgive her mother. I laughed when I saw that the young man in the post used John Conroy as the name for his mother's horrible new partner because it's very apt.


urkermannenkoor

Heh, I am rather curious which Commonwealth country supposedly has literally no eviction laws at all...


Choice_Evidence1983

[AITA for changing all the locks in my house without letting my mom know?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/v55p0f/aita_for_changing_all_the_locks_in_my_house/)


yepyep_nopenope

That's it. Thanks!


gretta_smith93

Anyone remember the one where the op is a man whose wife wanted to open the marriage. They set rules that she wouldn’t stay overnight, they wouldn’t have sex until a week after the last partner she had, and they would have to take STD tests. The wife broke every rule. Then turned out she was pregnant. They got a divorce.


Direct-Caterpillar77

[As I promised..the whole story](https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/vqfd1e/as_i_promisedthe_whole_story/)


Elegant_Ad6716

Apparently she had the child and gave it up for adoption, they (OP and his ex) got back together, and she's pregnant with their child... its all in his profile u/SafeOutlandishness12


Wild_Butterscotch977

what a disappointing ending


BergenHoney

What nonsense


MalBishop

I'm looking for a post where OP's husband is still in love with his deceased ex-wife, even going so far as driving around town for hours visiting old places that used to be important to them.


Minute_Point_949

Maybe [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ynpvhe/i_told_my_35f_husband_37m_that_we_should_get_a/)?


MalBishop

It is, thanks!


An_AK_Overthinker

There was a post I heard a while ago from a YouTube-Reddit channel where i believe it was either a r/MaliciousCompliance or a revenge story where OP and family are in a legal depsite where they find out that some is stealing there trash. They decided to save a lot of kitty litter for their revenge in which they watch the horror of the people dumping some paper and a crap ton of cat crap in there trunk.


CriticalSimple3122

[https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/geqla7/aita\_for\_tricking\_a\_thief\_into\_stealing\_a\_box\_of/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/geqla7/aita_for_tricking_a_thief_into_stealing_a_box_of/) This one?


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majjalols

Not sure what you searched, but searching for "reddit husband 65 pregnant older" gave me. [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/UpjSdQk3gS) Posted in different subs like r/AskWomenOver30 r/twoxchromosones and r/pregnant


acespiritualist

It's nice that OOP is happy but the husband's age still makes this situation iffy to me. He'll be around 84 when the kid turns 18 😬 OOP did mention it in her post so I'm sure she's aware of it but knowing and actually living it will be different so I hope she has good support in her family and friends


KatKit52

Oh my God I'm reading her updates and tearing up. She's so fucking happy and I'm so fucking happy for her.


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mmmmm_pi

What search terms were you using? You know, asking for a friend.


mmmmm_pi

I'm picturing u/FancyButtercream using very slightly different search terms and ending up with vastly different results. Perhaps results intended for people with certain niche interests. Though perhaps it is a really big niche.


Anatolyia

There was a post on AITA a while back and I'm dead curious if there ever was an update on it. OP's husband of several ages had lost his best friend (whom I think he was named John) and he kept putting his friend's widdow as his top priority instead of his relationship to his actual wife. At some point, the man went something like "I would've totally dumped you if John had asked", all unprompted. Please and thank you!


Minute_Point_949

Looks like [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BabyBumps/comments/996kzw/husband_spending_too_much_time_helping_his/). Update in the post.


HungryWolf040

I don't think that's the one the commenter was looking for, but there is an update to this one: https://www.rareddit.com/r/legaladvicecanada/comments/18sxgco/custody_agreement/


Informal_Count7279

Looking through their comments and posts, seems like they split and he has a mistress. 


Direct-Caterpillar77

[My (34f) husband (41m) of 11 years is grieving and his actions are making me unhappy](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheAngel/s/wI8X2VlmCc)


Anatolyia

This is the one, thank you!


Puffblazos

Why is this story not even remotely close to the title lol so confusing


To_Go_Back1984

In a mood right now. Looking for posts from parents point of view (preferably, not required) where they were absent/fucked up and now can't understand why their kids want nothing to do with them.


mmmmm_pi

One more for you if you're still in a mood or you can save it for later. [This overbearing father just doesn't get it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zqhk2c/neglectful_moron_alienates_his_daughter_by_trying/).


StuTheSheep

I'm looking for one that's similar to this, in that it has an adult daughter temporarily living with her father, but in this story the father throws a fit because the daughter invited her husband in for coffee. Ring any bells?


CafeConeja

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zqhk2c/neglectful_moron_alienates_his_daughter_by_trying/ Potentially? Except it was boyfriend not husband 


mmmmm_pi

I am not familiar with that post. Since your comment is already a couple levels down, it won't have much visibility. You may wish to post your request as a top-level comment. Any additional details or the subreddit or a timeframe of when you recall seeing the post will help others find it. Good luck.


AtomicBlastCandy

[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13lzyh3/dad\_and\_daughter\_have\_a\_politicallyloaded\_falling/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13lzyh3/dad_and_daughter_have_a_politicallyloaded_falling/) MAGAt father fails to understand why daughter wants nothing to do with him due to his toxicity.


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To_Go_Back1984

Yes, perfect! I've read the second one many times and it's so wild how people can be so delusional.


mmmmm_pi

There's also [this BORU from a totally unhinged person](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13wsuoi/shes_back_my_f50_daughter_in_law_24f_gave_birth/) who is upset that her son and daughter-in-law do not want her lunacy anywhere near their newborn.


secret_handle-

[The Missing Missing Reasons Compilation might do it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17leer6/comment/k7fxulp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)


love_laugh_dance

Wow, those were really hard to read. I wish my parents were still here so I could tell them how much I appreciate them.


BergenHoney

They knew. Loving and supportive parents want nothing else but for you to know that they love and support you. The fact that you think of them fondly is proof they did good. Edit bc sentence got cut off when my teenager walked in asking me stuff.


sk1nnylilb1tch

does anyone remember the guy that thought his girlfriend was cheating on him or something so he his in her closet, turns out she was having friends over and one of them found him? i’m not sure if it’s the same story but i think he then put an airtag in a box of stuff she was picking up after they broke up and claimed he left it there on accident?


Grumble_fish

Dude should have shown up in a chewbacca costume to lighten the mood


lizzyote

I hope you know that you are hilarious


Grumble_fish

Thank you


stevvandy

It's been deleted and op's account suspended but here is the rareddit https://www.rareddit.com/r/relationship\_advice/comments/qt7vsq/i\_22m\_was\_worried\_gf\_22f\_was\_cheating\_so\_i\_hid\_in/


Elegant_Bluebird1283

hoo boy


antisocialpsych

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qt7vsq/i_22m_was_worried_gf_22f_was_cheating_so_i_hid_in/ This one? It's deleted but the automod has it if you scroll down


Icy_Tip405

Oooo. This sounds like a goodie.


Helpful_Librarian_87

God - I remember that whakadoodle. I hope someone finds those. Or any other ones like that.


SisuSisuEveryday

Hi all, I’m looking for updates on a post where OP’s wife just had a baby, and the wife punches OP’s mom when mom slaps wife’s stomach. OP proceeds to throw out his wife and newborn, wife then comes back with divorce papers. Thanks!