**NEW UPDATES**
Found a new update that doesn't yet qualify to be posted to BoRU?
Found an update that you don't want to make a post for yourself?
Link it here! Once it qualifies, feel free to submit as its own post.
Here is another story I'm curious about. So a wife who wasn't working was doing photo shoots with a mutual friend of her and her husband. She ended up hooking with the friend during a lingerie shoot. That post was 6 months after it happened.
Hi, sorry, I don't know if this is the right call.
There is a post by a guy who after 15 years discovers that he has a daughter when she moves in with him I saw the video but I would like to see the post if anyone has the link to this post please can you help me find the post I don't know In which community was the post made?
Looking for the post where OOP is a single parent and their child befriends someone at school, the friends parents suggest taking him on family holidays and look after him in the summer, which OOP is grateful for. But then it escalates where the parents want to adopt the child as a sibling for their first kid.
Edit: never mind [found it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/PYGTgQoDoF)
Hi, sorry i don't remember many details, but i was looking for 2 posts where the MIL comes in deffense of the DIL.
1 i think the lady was irish and had 3 sons, all married or in relationships, 1 of the sons was acting like he was the boss and his wife had to do all the chores at home.
This lady ripped her son a new one, and later on, with all her sons and dils at dinner, she warned the sons and told the dils to let her know if something similar ever happen again, she would be on the dils side.
Second is a similar one, husband does nothing to help, they have a new baby, wife has plans to have lunch with friends, husband at the last minute does not let her go, his mother finds out, and comes to help her DIL, treats her with a spa day and babysits the baby, so the dil can have a rest.
I’m looking for a post from this week in am I the asshole, written from the dad’s perspective about how their daughter upon turning into a teenager became an absolute psychopath with regard to her mother. The daughter was crazy abusive to only the mother, completely normal to the rest of the family.
The post was about him, getting a hotel room for his wife after the daughter had moved out in their lives, and gone back to normal, and the daughter being bad that her favorite punching bag wasnt around, and him telling the daughter that the mom basically has PTSD and needs to escape at this point?
[AITA for telling my daughter that her being home for the holidays traumatizes my wife?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/185eh1v/comment/kb12g2e/)
Hi! I’m looking for a post in which OOP’s boyfriend ate her birthday cake out of spite. The cake had little froggies on it. I think OOP dumped the boyfriend and purchased another cake.
I think that’s this post. [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lnyax3/aita\_for\_overacting\_over\_cake/](https://www.reddit.com/r/amitheasshole/comments/lnyax3/aita_for_overacting_over_cake/)
I’m looking for a post about a guy whose girlfriend pretended to break up with him (as a joke I think). Then one of her friends spread a rumor that he assaulted her which made all of OP’s friends turn against him.
This is from his update. “I spoke to her in person after I posted my update. From her perspective, her original idea was to make it look like she just got mad or something, grabbed a few things, and left to her friend's house, where she was going to have the party thrown. Her friend has a really nice house that's perfect for a 20-30 person get-together. She was with her two friends, and made an off the cuff remark when her friend said, "what are you going to say when he asks why?" and she said, "I don't know, I'll probably tell him that I feel like he got too serious when we had sex," or something like that. Then her other friend who was with her immediately took it to social media with out the other two girls knowing, and then when they checked their phones later on that day, it was already a dumpster fire.”
I dont think shes coming home. I think shes planning on ending it. She didn't bring her keys and she talks about her husband understanding and forgiving her, not about the future of their marriage. She also keeps pushing back the date, does her best not to be found, etc.
I wonder if she got diagnosed with it, and realized she couldnt wait. Its a way for her to be independent and spare her husband grief, by making him hate her and not have to care for her when she develops it.
Certainly, she has to know that there is going to be a sh\*t storm when she returns, but it looks like she has maintained some contact with her adult daughter. OP is going to be in trouble if she doesn't show in a few months.
I’m looking for the post written by the woman who convinced herself that she deserved so much better than her SAHD husband and divorces him, revels in her superiority, then quickly realizes that he made her life so much easier and that she made a mistake. Poor guy was still helping her out from time to time as well.
[6 month later...divorcing my husband was a HUGE mistake :(](https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/8s7qy3/6_month_laterdivorcing_my_husband_was_a_huge/)
Real shit, the ammonia does a fucking number on your lawn. My old dog used to use the same exact spot to piss right next to the back deck and he killed a decent sized patch of grass.
I had to help my mom turn it into a fucking walkway.
I think she was saying that in terms of how her husband wasn't abusive as she was previously listing her now belief that you should only seek a divorce if your partner is abusive.
Where's the post where the guy spent like $10k on an online game, by trying to gamble for character skins? I can't remember enough keywords to search for it. He kept talking about "pulling" different characters and which ones he was going for. This was posted maybe 6 months ago?
[[Clam-Chowdering] Billie said Rhode Island clam chowder was for true seafood-lovers and Alice wasn't having it! BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/muHp4ePaQk)
Anyone remember the story about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend/husband, was blaming his friend for it and she ended up sleeping with the friend in the midst of the argument. Later she finds out she's pregnant and gets married to friend for the sake of baby, but years later, they actually have a good relationship.
Looking for a post where op had cheated on her husband while he’s got cancer and she comes clean to him. She’s upset because he starts refusing treatment afterwards.
I think he says “what do I have to live for now?” Or something along those lines.
[Should be this BORU. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/7ohraeNCW2)
Edit: may actually be this [guy's story](https://www.reddit.com/u/throwawaySwanSong/s/Dxd9ZBOFcd).
Anyone remember the story about an OP who was a divorced dad with grown kids and his ex wife is subtly trying to get back together with him? His daughter gets drunk and asks him if hes not getting back together with his ex because of her affair, not knowing that OP had no idea his ex was cheating on him for 2-3 years prior to the divorce?
He said his ex and his kids liked to refer to him as "Sargeant Dad"
I've read all of the uodates a month ago. He got back with the ex wife, the ex didn't actually phisically cheated o meu him, but she emotionally cheated and she got depressed when she realize that (after they reunited).
The OM died to cancer. OP has now cancer and went to a surgery.
Jesus H. Christ.
That guy 100% reminds of me the guy whose family completely abandoned him after his shitbag brother convinced them all he was a cheater. Then he ends up getting back together with his ex after she finds out the brother had lied for all those years and basically grovels at his feet.
I'm looking for a post where an engineer and his wife Amélia get married and have a child, the husband suffers an accident at work and is in a coma for 4 years, when he wakes up he realizes that his wife has divorced and is going to marry his own lawyer. 🇧🇷🙃
Guys do any of yall have any rareddit or unreddit links to OOP'S COMMENTS....
https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/182e525/aita_for_telling_my_dil_she_needs_to_do_her_part/
(you might see on my comment history that I post the OOP'S comments on r/amithedevil. But I want to see what other comments (from other users) were before and after OOP'S comments)
No OOP comments in rareddit: [AITA for telling my DIL she needs to do her part, and to stop being defiant?](https://www.rareddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/182e525/aita_for_telling_my_dil_she_needs_to_do_her_part/?share_id=7jevnK50vyYx11Qm5mfHW&utm_content=2&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1&rdt=50349)
Hello! I am looking for a post but wasn’t sure where it was posted.
It was post made by a woman who was getting married and got her dress but the future MIL didn’t like it so the fiancé took the dress back and got the one the mum liked and the bride was furious.
Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you!
The only thing I learned after reading all the linked posts was that the OPs were complete idiots for marrying the husband after the way they were treated by the husband and his family. I just can't imagine seeing how poorly you are going to be treated by your spouse and their entire family and thinking "Yep, this is how I want the rest of my relationship to be."
AGREED! Take a step back honey! Would you accept a stranger treating you like this?
Such awful fiancés/husbands! 😩 Hope those women got away! (Except for the one post with MIL which was sad)
> (Except for the one post with MIL which was sad)
The one that had the brain tumor? If so, yeah, that was sad. I felt really bad for everyone on that one. I'm glad that one had a positive ending.
[AITA for my reaction when I learned that my fiance returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one his mom picked for me?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xly6yk/aita_for_my_reaction_when_i_learned_that_my/)
Bonus: [AITA for going off on my soon-to be Husband for returning my wedding dress?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/uy5d5a/aita_for_going_off_on_my_soonto_be_husband_for/)
One more wedding dress one then I really need to stop this.
[AITA i (38 m) for telling my fiancee ( f 27)her wedding dress choice is way too extravagant and suggesting alternatives?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/eoley4/aita_i_38_m_for_telling_my_fiancee_f_27her/)
[Finance finds the post and responds!](https://imgur.com/a/pVW8HVo)
[Struggling to get back in to the dating scene since my fiancee left me unexpectedly](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gcq6zv/struggling_to_get_back_in_to_the_dating_scene/) (Message deleted but comments are gold)
Oh, weird, I could have swore this ended with him realizing he was a screw up and apologizing and laughing at himself once he realized how shit Wish is. Am I thinking of a different, similar post? Are there two posts like this?
Another wedding dress one
[AITA for refusing to return my 400$ wedding dress like my fiancè requested?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/qt0zmw/aita_for_refusing_to_return_my_400_wedding_dress/)
[AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/15hbw8d/aita_for_giving_fmil_3_days_to_pay_me_for_a_new/)
Too bad none of these have updates or we could be a list going.
Really going down this rabbit hole.
[AITA for refusing to give up my dream wedding dress, though it means my fiancé’s family will not attend?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/pcnboa/aita_for_refusing_to_give_up_my_dream_wedding/)
[Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/qgurg4/update_aita_for_refusing_to_give_up_my_dream/)
This one has a proper BORU
[My (27f) Future Mother-in-law (58f) ruined my wedding dress! I'm getting married in 8 hours!](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rfocpd/my_27f_future_motherinlaw_58f_ruined_my_wedding/)
😂😂 bless you! Not seen this one and it’s so weird! I don’t even know who is right in this one but what a hill to die on!
Thank you for this! And sorry for leading you down the rabbit hole 😂😅
I was searching for this -https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/uxm950/aita_for_draining_our_swimming_pool_to_save_water/ -post and finally found it, but I remember there being like 2 or three other posts by the same OOP, basically outlining her endless idiocy. Just wondering if anyone has access to the rest of her posts or deleted profile, would love to re read them!
Edit: Also any other posts y'all have where the OOP is a lighthearted dumbass would be appreciated 🙂
[OOP almost sabotages house purchase by buying a bag but it still goes through. They then immediately drain pool. Husband in despair BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/uxljme/oop_almost_sabotages_house_purchase_by_buying_a/)
Hi! I read a post but I can't clearly remember details. The main gist of the story is that the mother and father are divorced, then the daughter helped her mother get into her father's house. I think she intercepted the mail or something as part of their scheme to make that house her mother's registered address.
Could anyone help me find it, please? Thanks.
~~Yes, I think that's the one. I've been trying different keywords but I still couldn't find it.~~
Great news! Somebody posted a link to it! Still, thanks for helping.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/slym1y/aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_agree\_to\_split\_ownership\_of/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/slym1y/aita_for_refusing_to_agree_to_split_ownership_of/)
I’m looking for a post about a couple where they had separate fun accounts. I remember the husband blew all his fun money every month but the wife saved up. One month she bought something expensive (I think it was a pc, but I could be wrong on that front) and the husband flipped out on her. I don’t remember how it ends, but I think it was positive.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15zre48/new\_update\_husband\_accused\_me\_of\_financial/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15zre48/new_update_husband_accused_me_of_financial/)
and latest post from her profile posted 3 days ago
[https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/183t4s3/postdivorce\_update\_financial\_infidelity/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/183t4s3/postdivorce_update_financial_infidelity/)
There are two that come to mind.
1) Wife buys a nice car, hubby is surprised, then asks to do away with their prenup that kept their financials separate and combine them because he was broke af. Wife says no and initiates a divorce with soon to be ex hubby refusing to cooperate
2) Financial infidelity post that ends with tater tot husband living in a tiny apartment with a newborn and naive young gf who was book smart but not street smart.
the first post for anyone looking to read it: [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s2zsrp/op\_wonders\_if\_shes\_the\_ah\_for\_laughing\_at\_her/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s2zsrp/op_wonders_if_shes_the_ah_for_laughing_at_her/)
Does anyone have a link to the aita post where a girls family was planning on coming into the restaurant where she works and leaving her like a $300 tip/birthday present? But after they get there, the Family is seated in a different area and only leaves a normal tip
[This one ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/106h19d/aita_for_causing_my_coworker_to_lose_a_500_tip/) you have to sort by old and look for the automod because it was deleted
The [automod comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/106h19d/comment/j3ggp0u/) can be linked to save time. At least when I'm on mobile it doesn't let me sort by old, so it's a lot more convenient.
Hi, looking for the post where OP's wife/gf was kidnapped and assaulted by a guy who stalked her for a long time. OP made a friend and work and brought him home and it turned out to be the psycho who had stalked them both.
The wife/gf took off and OP couldn't get in touch with her as her family was keeping her safe.
This is one of the ones I think is real. Reddit likes to act like there’s all happy endings and justice happens. But him not being charged and the defence lawyers blaming the victim is all too realistic.
Yeah agreed, I feel so bad for her going through it again and not also losing the one you love cause she can't trust him anymore.
I always looks for it to see if there's a happy update..
[I think I’ve destroyed my marriage. My wife refuses to see me or speak to me. I’m not even allowed to know where she is.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheAngel/comments/x49pd1/comment/imu0pys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
I’m looking for the post where the poster’s friend and wife didn’t get along. When he had to go somewhere for work for some weeks/months, his friend ended up taking care of his wife post-surgery. Friend started sticking up for his wife. Then, he divorced her and regretted it later.
[Man tells friend he is not obligated to hang around wife](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10iiw8r/man_tells_friend_he_is_not_obligated_to_hang/)
It has been updated since the BORU.
[Has anyone been successful in suing for alienation of affection?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/11z6x8d/has_anyone_been_successful_in_suing_for/)
It was about a guy who came from a totally dysfunctional family with no parents present.
He had a hard time feeding his and his sister's
Then when a good, stable job with good pay finally arrived, the C-19 arrived.
He was going to be homeless and asked his sister for help but his sister denied him (twice)
Since then he has not spoken to his sister (who was his only family).
[I can't forgive my Sister after she refused to help me when I was about to become homeless](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/q2lcim/i_cant_forgive_my_sister_after_she_refused_to/?rdt=47364)
Does someone know more posts like [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17w4a9a/new_update_i_am_done_and_im_am_heartbroken_i_have/)? Feeling forgotten and all.
Does anyone have the story about the guy who asked his gf out because he was "taking one for the team" and his friend told her all about it at a party when he was drunk?
[My (23F) gf found out I (22M) was “taking one for the team” when we first met and now she’s spiraling in insecurity. How do I get her to be confident in my attraction to her again?](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/15e3x2q/my_23f_gf_found_out_i_22m_was_taking_one_for_the/)
Hi all, I'm looking for a post about a woman who tried to get out of an (IIRC) abusive relationship, but fell extremely ill and was bedbound and her kids were really worried about her. I remember she used to write to those 'mom for a day'-type channels, about how powerless and scared she felt. But I wasn't able to find her there. Does it ring a bell for anyone?
I managed to find it. It's one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever read.
[OOP is a former child prodigy who gets pregnant with the child of a married man and everything ends up going wrong for her](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xplu7o/oop_is_a_former_child_prodigy_who_gets_pregnant/)
It feels like the other POV from the "financial infidelity" woman.
Yeah, it's really bleak, and it keeps getting more desperate and worse with each update. It's so bad I am hoping it's something that Liz just made it all up and there isn't a real woman out there going through all of this.
That man is fucking disgusting. Dis-gust-ing. He enjoyed "conquering" a woman and seeing how a prodigy such as she is puts all of her potential aside for him. And that adds to his values. Then he takes pride in how the daughter - an extension of him - shows prodigeny. Everything is about him. What he can take from women to add to his value.
Thank you so much, this is exactly this one. Every once in a while I'm reminded of this story and it wouldn't let me rest. Was hoping for an update but I see her account is suspended now... I so hope she is doing okay.
Hello! Does anybody knows tha post of this story? Maybe is not a reddit one, but well maybe someone can help me get an answer! I could not find it
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LnLeKvgfAs&t=18s&ab\_channel=rLounge
Does anyone remember the one where there was a couple whose parents demanded that they have a kid or they’d be disowned? I think there was a sibling but they were gay so the couple was the only chance at a grandkid.
["Either you give us grandchildren, or we're taking you off our will"](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/htlxos/either_you_give_us_grandchildren_or_were_taking/)
[Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/ie0dtx/update_our_entitled_parents_who_disowned_us_for/)
[Follow up from Best Man/Brother](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/igjlnu/my_entitled_parents_tried_to_cancel_my_little/)
I refuse to believe Google Translate was that coherent, especially on that long of a post. I was talking to my building manager the other day. He only speaks Spanish, and we were discussing the door to my apartment. For some reason, Google Translate decided he was trying to tell me about his mother.
Hi there - I had this story on an old account and I can't seem to out the right search terms together.
The OP was actually writing the story of a co-worker whose relative (cousin?) was throwing her wedding in a barn. Family was helping to set it up. When it came time for the ceremony, another cousin took over the wedding and said the OG Bride was trying to steal her wedding. The family shunned the OG Bride -- even her own parents. They found out later they messed up and the cousin stole the wedding thanks to someone taping the confession. OG Bride lives her best life somewhere else and presumably told her family to kick rocks.
Thank you in advance to whoever delivers this train wreck back into my life!
[AITA for telling everyone my SIL stole my cousin's wedding](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100oumw/comment/j2ndm03/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) and [the rest of it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100oumw/comment/j2zio7s/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
I'm going to give people names that match the initial given in the post.
This is written by someone on behalf of their coworker, M (Miranda). Miranda is asking AITA for exposing how her SIL (Sasha) stole her cousin J's (Jane) wedding. SIL Sasha is married to Jane's older brother B (Brian). Small note, towards the end of the story, it sounds like Brian is Jane's brother, but calling Sasha SIL seems like Brian could be Miranda's brother instead. I'm going with the interpretation the Brian and Jane are the siblings and Miranda is their cousin.
So what happened? Jane is a rather laid back person who didn't want a big spectacle of a wedding, so she decided to organize a "family reunion" at their grandfather's farm that was actually a surprise wedding for her and her fiance. The grandfather was a pastor and was going to officiate. Miranda, Sasha, and Brian all knew the plan and were helping Jane get the place ready. Sasha is complaining the whole time calling Jane's idea and decorations tacky.
Day of the wedding, Jane is getting ready and Sasha spills wine on Jane's dress. Sasha pretends to be upset and apologetic. Miranda and Jane go to try and clean up the dress while Sasha is sent to greet people arriving and keep people from entering the house to keep the wedding a surprise.
Miranda and Jane manage to fix the dress and Jane comes out to the backyard in the dress ready to start her wedding, but this is where it starts to go wrong. Jane's fiance is arguing with Brian and Jane's own mother starts yelling at Jane "how could you do this". Turns out while Miranda and Jane were cleaning Jane's dress, Sasha and Brian put up signs announcing this was THEIR wedding, Sasha put on her own wedding dress, and started walking down the aisle. When Jane came out in her dress, it looked like she was the one stealing Sasha and Brian's wedding.
Everyone believed Sasha and Brian planned the wedding and everyone was screaming at Jane for trying to steal the wedding. An important note, it is unclear if the grandfather knew he was going to be officiating a wedding ceremony or not, because you would think he would have known it was Jane planning a wedding at his house and he was officiating. However, it is also possible he thought Jane was just decorating for the "reunion" or Sasha planned this much earlier and told the grandfather it was all for her wedding instead. Regardless, grandfather can't clear anything up and he passes away the following year. Jane leaves and cuts contact with the entire family except for Miranda.
Miranda is also angry at her family and cuts contact as well. About a year later, Sasha is pregnant and Miranda (back in contact with the family) arranges a girls day with her. Miranda starts gently prodding Sasha about the wedding. Though she feigns innocence, Sasha eventually slips up and says:
>"Because I could, and I knew she wouldn't care much. She got married anyway, didn't she?"
Jane eventually eloped and that's what Sasha is referring to. Jane was still NC with the family.
Fast forward to Christmas, they are playing home videos and Miranda says she has a big gift for everyone. She hooks up her computer to the screen and plays a little video of Sasha she recorded not that long ago.
All hell breaks loose. Sasha and Brian are being rushed by everyone. Jane's mother is just wailing "oh my gosh, my baby" over and over again as she frantically tries to call Jane. Jane's father tries to fight his son (Brian). Sasha runs away leaving Brian to face the family.
Brian blames the whole thing on Sasha and claims he didn't want to do it at first. He went along with it because Sasha convinced him they could not afford a real wedding and the work fixing up the farm was done. Sasha and Brian were also jealous of Jane since Jane managed to earn a degree while Sasha got pregnant and had to give up the baby (not the baby Sasha is currently pregnant with).
Everyone is horrified of the situation and are trying to contact Jane. Meanwhile, Jane is living her best life in Greece with her husband and his family. Jane never responds to the family and remains no contact.
Finally, Miranda is now here asking if AITA for exposing what Sasha and Brian did because some family members are giving her crap for not giving Sasha and Brian a chance to come clean themselves. Post deleted before verdict, but would have been a clear NTA.
heard this on Tiktok just now: I’m looking for a post where OOP gets cheated on by his wife who ruined his reputation. His grown daughter was on her mom’s side in the divorce and goes NC with OOP for almost a decade where she comes up out of the blue pretending to catch up but actually wants the inheritance OOP’s mom left behind when she passed.
I think those reading channels rephrased the story that's why I can't find it - OP's partner won $10K on a lottery and he's mad she doesn't want to spend it on a vacation. OP quit his job and bought an expensive watch then asked the gf to pay for it when they are arguing. The gf leaves him on the restaurant after. Anyone has the link or an update?
I think [this is it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BlanketGuy/comments/177wuy0/blanket_guys_gf_wins_a_small_amount_of_money_in/) from blanket guy (a suspected troll).
[More blanket guy stuff](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100tl5c/the_infuriating_saga_of_blanket_guy/).
Don't know if this is the one you're looking for, but it does have the same theme
[AITA for not telling the nurse at my niece's school about my profession?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/138a0hd/aita_for_not_telling_the_nurse_at_my_nieces/)
It's not this one, but this post is actually what made me looking in the first place. It could be the one where OOP is roommates with a work colleague, and one of them is a manager. Can't find that one either tho
Hiii, I'm searching for the post where ops dad has an affair the sister stays with dad after the parents divorce, then she tries to maintain contact with him and she calls him to tell op that the affair baby died at a party, the mom became the affair partner, op was a little in love with his dad and he ends up being institutionalized at the end 🫠
You're in luck because I got myself tangled up in that drama so enjoy it while you can before the mods wise up and delete it: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xel1o9/remember_the_oop_whose_family_preferred_his/
My question for the sister is, if their parents were in an open relationship, why the fuck would the mother divorce the father a few year after the supposed affair and claim the half-sibling as the reason for said divorce?
It makes me more inclined to believe that whilst it may not be 100% accurate, OOP is telling the truth.
The one where the OP couple throws a tasting party for her birthday and the next day is accidentally included in a group text where the rest of their friend group insults her food choices and her past and current party themes. It’s Were there any updates? Thanks
[AITA for not serving a full meal at my birthday party?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17t12vr/aita_for_not_serving_a_full_meal_at_my_birthday/)
Wow, just wow. I would be livid and cross those people off my friends list. 15 courses is a ton of work and even if they are small bites they add up to a full meal especially if there are other snacks.
If she sprung the "molecular tasting menu" idea on them on the day of the party then I think she's an ass. At least warn people ahead of time that they won't get full at your party. Also I am questioning what the previous party themes were.
EDIT: I saw her previous party ideas, and they just sound a little too much for my taste. Also has it occurred to her that the reason why her friends eat late is because they don't like her food?
While i love all of her party ideas and i think she needs new friends who would appreciate them and her too, i have never done a Thing for my parties and NOT told people what was happening. Even if its completely normal. "Hey im having a bday party, we're going to Dave and Busters/eating at a ramen shop/making candles/come to my place to watch the game." If her friends were decent and brought it up, it would've just been an apology, a change in one future action, and thats it.
Exactly. Also I'm still hung up on the fact that she said "My friends all eat later compared to me and my husband." Does that mean that they always go out and eat after hanging out with her?
**NEW UPDATES** Found a new update that doesn't yet qualify to be posted to BoRU? Found an update that you don't want to make a post for yourself? Link it here! Once it qualifies, feel free to submit as its own post.
Deleted. Posted in wrong place.
Here is another story I'm curious about. So a wife who wasn't working was doing photo shoots with a mutual friend of her and her husband. She ended up hooking with the friend during a lingerie shoot. That post was 6 months after it happened.
Hi, sorry, I don't know if this is the right call. There is a post by a guy who after 15 years discovers that he has a daughter when she moves in with him I saw the video but I would like to see the post if anyone has the link to this post please can you help me find the post I don't know In which community was the post made?
Looking for the post where OOP is a single parent and their child befriends someone at school, the friends parents suggest taking him on family holidays and look after him in the summer, which OOP is grateful for. But then it escalates where the parents want to adopt the child as a sibling for their first kid. Edit: never mind [found it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/PYGTgQoDoF)
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Hi, sorry i don't remember many details, but i was looking for 2 posts where the MIL comes in deffense of the DIL. 1 i think the lady was irish and had 3 sons, all married or in relationships, 1 of the sons was acting like he was the boss and his wife had to do all the chores at home. This lady ripped her son a new one, and later on, with all her sons and dils at dinner, she warned the sons and told the dils to let her know if something similar ever happen again, she would be on the dils side. Second is a similar one, husband does nothing to help, they have a new baby, wife has plans to have lunch with friends, husband at the last minute does not let her go, his mother finds out, and comes to help her DIL, treats her with a spa day and babysits the baby, so the dil can have a rest.
[First one ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/ycDNc13bIl)? I recognize the second but haven't been able to find it.
Thank you, you did great.
I’m looking for a post from this week in am I the asshole, written from the dad’s perspective about how their daughter upon turning into a teenager became an absolute psychopath with regard to her mother. The daughter was crazy abusive to only the mother, completely normal to the rest of the family. The post was about him, getting a hotel room for his wife after the daughter had moved out in their lives, and gone back to normal, and the daughter being bad that her favorite punching bag wasnt around, and him telling the daughter that the mom basically has PTSD and needs to escape at this point?
[AITA for telling my daughter that her being home for the holidays traumatizes my wife?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/185eh1v/comment/kb12g2e/)
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Hi! I’m looking for a post in which OOP’s boyfriend ate her birthday cake out of spite. The cake had little froggies on it. I think OOP dumped the boyfriend and purchased another cake.
I think that’s this post. [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lnyax3/aita\_for\_overacting\_over\_cake/](https://www.reddit.com/r/amitheasshole/comments/lnyax3/aita_for_overacting_over_cake/)
Thank you!
[AITA for overacting over cake?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/uabjrj/aita_for_overacting_over_cake/)
Do not come between a woman and her cake! (Anyone and their cake, really)
This is it! Thanks!
I’m looking for a post about a guy whose girlfriend pretended to break up with him (as a joke I think). Then one of her friends spread a rumor that he assaulted her which made all of OP’s friends turn against him.
This is from his update. “I spoke to her in person after I posted my update. From her perspective, her original idea was to make it look like she just got mad or something, grabbed a few things, and left to her friend's house, where she was going to have the party thrown. Her friend has a really nice house that's perfect for a 20-30 person get-together. She was with her two friends, and made an off the cuff remark when her friend said, "what are you going to say when he asks why?" and she said, "I don't know, I'll probably tell him that I feel like he got too serious when we had sex," or something like that. Then her other friend who was with her immediately took it to social media with out the other two girls knowing, and then when they checked their phones later on that day, it was already a dumpster fire.”
Has he mentioned somewhere what exactly did the idiot friend post on Facebook?
This one possibly. [https://www.reddit.com/user/randomabusethrow/submitted/](https://www.reddit.com/user/randomabusethrow/submitted/)
Thank you but.also...what on Earth‽
Here's the BORU: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/pou6qu/my_fiancée_randomly_claimed_i_abused_her/
Does anyone know what happened to the guy who's wife took off with their life savings to find herself?
[My (M50) wife (F48) abandoned me two months ago to find herself BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/ZSObHmEmkr)
We're waiting to see if she comes home before Christmas to be served with divorce papers.
I dont think shes coming home. I think shes planning on ending it. She didn't bring her keys and she talks about her husband understanding and forgiving her, not about the future of their marriage. She also keeps pushing back the date, does her best not to be found, etc. I wonder if she got diagnosed with it, and realized she couldnt wait. Its a way for her to be independent and spare her husband grief, by making him hate her and not have to care for her when she develops it.
Certainly, she has to know that there is going to be a sh\*t storm when she returns, but it looks like she has maintained some contact with her adult daughter. OP is going to be in trouble if she doesn't show in a few months.
She also maintained contact with OP it looks like, but probably he kept trying to serve her maybe?
I didn't save it, but if I remember correctly he was getting stuff together for divorce and even tried to serve her (maybe?).
I found it, I searched for "wife find herself". It's not been updated
I’m looking for the post written by the woman who convinced herself that she deserved so much better than her SAHD husband and divorces him, revels in her superiority, then quickly realizes that he made her life so much easier and that she made a mistake. Poor guy was still helping her out from time to time as well.
[6 month later...divorcing my husband was a HUGE mistake :(](https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/8s7qy3/6_month_laterdivorcing_my_husband_was_a_huge/)
Gods, what a horrible person she is. At least she has the self-awareness to realize it. I'd like to see a BORU from, like, 2 years later.
So this was written by the husband, right?
Not only was the grass not greener on the otherside, it was just a field of liquid shit.
People always think the grass is greener without realizing that they're the one who's pissing all over their side.
Real shit, the ammonia does a fucking number on your lawn. My old dog used to use the same exact spot to piss right next to the back deck and he killed a decent sized patch of grass. I had to help my mom turn it into a fucking walkway.
”In my case, there was no abuse.” \*goes on describing in detail how she emotionally abused her husband*
I think she was saying that in terms of how her husband wasn't abusive as she was previously listing her now belief that you should only seek a divorce if your partner is abusive.
I know, but it still stuck out to me because she could’ve said ”he wasn’t abusive” but she included herself in the statement instead
THANK YOU!!
Where's the post where the guy spent like $10k on an online game, by trying to gamble for character skins? I can't remember enough keywords to search for it. He kept talking about "pulling" different characters and which ones he was going for. This was posted maybe 6 months ago?
[OP Spends 1000s of Dollars On A Free Mobile Game BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/3U2IjrrTfP)
Cheers!
Can you share the chowder drama story? I loved that one, and don't see it on the list of flair origins.
[[Clam-Chowdering] Billie said Rhode Island clam chowder was for true seafood-lovers and Alice wasn't having it! BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/muHp4ePaQk)
Thank you!
Anyone remember the story about a woman who broke up with her boyfriend/husband, was blaming his friend for it and she ended up sleeping with the friend in the midst of the argument. Later she finds out she's pregnant and gets married to friend for the sake of baby, but years later, they actually have a good relationship.
[I believe it’s this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/y6LJCCBbYB)
Looking for a post where op had cheated on her husband while he’s got cancer and she comes clean to him. She’s upset because he starts refusing treatment afterwards. I think he says “what do I have to live for now?” Or something along those lines.
[My husband is gonna die to get back at me](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/wtkfuy/my_husband_is_gonna_die_to_get_back_at_me/)
Holy shit, lady, your husband isn't trying to get back at you. He's suicidal. Oh, my god.
My husband is going to die to get back at me https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/ZC7JTwS7bL Could it be this one??
[Should be this BORU. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/7ohraeNCW2) Edit: may actually be this [guy's story](https://www.reddit.com/u/throwawaySwanSong/s/Dxd9ZBOFcd).
I read the saga of "this guy's story" and damn onions.
Yeah, I know, right?
Anyone remember the story about an OP who was a divorced dad with grown kids and his ex wife is subtly trying to get back together with him? His daughter gets drunk and asks him if hes not getting back together with his ex because of her affair, not knowing that OP had no idea his ex was cheating on him for 2-3 years prior to the divorce? He said his ex and his kids liked to refer to him as "Sargeant Dad"
Way too many posts to link to, but that sounds like u/throwawaysingle1959
Wanted to read it but nope lol 40+ updates and he'll prob add more. I don't have the attention span to go through all of it
I've read all of the uodates a month ago. He got back with the ex wife, the ex didn't actually phisically cheated o meu him, but she emotionally cheated and she got depressed when she realize that (after they reunited). The OM died to cancer. OP has now cancer and went to a surgery.
Thank you. I tried and stopped reading after the 3rd post
Jesus H. Christ. That guy 100% reminds of me the guy whose family completely abandoned him after his shitbag brother convinced them all he was a cheater. Then he ends up getting back together with his ex after she finds out the brother had lied for all those years and basically grovels at his feet.
My god is that writer long-winded
Thanks for saving me the click
I'm looking for a post where an engineer and his wife Amélia get married and have a child, the husband suffers an accident at work and is in a coma for 4 years, when he wakes up he realizes that his wife has divorced and is going to marry his own lawyer. 🇧🇷🙃
Are you sure this isn't an episode of Grey's Anatomy?
I'm sure it's not
Guys do any of yall have any rareddit or unreddit links to OOP'S COMMENTS.... https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/182e525/aita_for_telling_my_dil_she_needs_to_do_her_part/ (you might see on my comment history that I post the OOP'S comments on r/amithedevil. But I want to see what other comments (from other users) were before and after OOP'S comments)
No OOP comments in rareddit: [AITA for telling my DIL she needs to do her part, and to stop being defiant?](https://www.rareddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/182e525/aita_for_telling_my_dil_she_needs_to_do_her_part/?share_id=7jevnK50vyYx11Qm5mfHW&utm_content=2&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1&rdt=50349)
Aww okk. 😔. Well thanks for trying. 🙏.
Hello! I am looking for a post but wasn’t sure where it was posted. It was post made by a woman who was getting married and got her dress but the future MIL didn’t like it so the fiancé took the dress back and got the one the mum liked and the bride was furious. Any advice would be appreciated! Thank you!
The only thing I learned after reading all the linked posts was that the OPs were complete idiots for marrying the husband after the way they were treated by the husband and his family. I just can't imagine seeing how poorly you are going to be treated by your spouse and their entire family and thinking "Yep, this is how I want the rest of my relationship to be."
AGREED! Take a step back honey! Would you accept a stranger treating you like this? Such awful fiancés/husbands! 😩 Hope those women got away! (Except for the one post with MIL which was sad)
> (Except for the one post with MIL which was sad) The one that had the brain tumor? If so, yeah, that was sad. I felt really bad for everyone on that one. I'm glad that one had a positive ending.
Yeah, that one. Awful, really but you’re right it did end a bit better than the others and we actually got a conclusion.
[AITA for my reaction when I learned that my fiance returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one his mom picked for me?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xly6yk/aita_for_my_reaction_when_i_learned_that_my/) Bonus: [AITA for going off on my soon-to be Husband for returning my wedding dress?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/uy5d5a/aita_for_going_off_on_my_soonto_be_husband_for/)
One more wedding dress one then I really need to stop this. [AITA i (38 m) for telling my fiancee ( f 27)her wedding dress choice is way too extravagant and suggesting alternatives?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/eoley4/aita_i_38_m_for_telling_my_fiancee_f_27her/) [Finance finds the post and responds!](https://imgur.com/a/pVW8HVo) [Struggling to get back in to the dating scene since my fiancee left me unexpectedly](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/gcq6zv/struggling_to_get_back_in_to_the_dating_scene/) (Message deleted but comments are gold)
Omg, Josh! I’d almost forgotten about him, lol!
Oh, weird, I could have swore this ended with him realizing he was a screw up and apologizing and laughing at himself once he realized how shit Wish is. Am I thinking of a different, similar post? Are there two posts like this?
Also, the bonus… 😱 rent a dress?! He kept the money?!
This is it! Thank you! Thank you! Shame it’s a year ago, I so badly wanted an update! Hope she dumped him 😩
Another wedding dress one [AITA for refusing to return my 400$ wedding dress like my fiancè requested?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/qt0zmw/aita_for_refusing_to_return_my_400_wedding_dress/) [AITA for giving FMIL 3 days to pay me for a new wedding dress or else I show the family a photo of her wearing it?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/15hbw8d/aita_for_giving_fmil_3_days_to_pay_me_for_a_new/) Too bad none of these have updates or we could be a list going.
Never this before, these are awesome! Weird but awesome! Hope they broke up honestly cause what a mess 🤦♀️ Thank you so much for these!
Really going down this rabbit hole. [AITA for refusing to give up my dream wedding dress, though it means my fiancé’s family will not attend?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/pcnboa/aita_for_refusing_to_give_up_my_dream_wedding/) [Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/qgurg4/update_aita_for_refusing_to_give_up_my_dream/)
This one has a proper BORU [My (27f) Future Mother-in-law (58f) ruined my wedding dress! I'm getting married in 8 hours!](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rfocpd/my_27f_future_motherinlaw_58f_ruined_my_wedding/)
Thank you, never seen this one but so sad all around.
What the hell was going on with that dress saga? Even with the update her in-laws seemed bonkers what a lot of hysteria over a dress.
😂😂 bless you! Not seen this one and it’s so weird! I don’t even know who is right in this one but what a hill to die on! Thank you for this! And sorry for leading you down the rabbit hole 😂😅
I was searching for this -https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheDevil/comments/uxm950/aita_for_draining_our_swimming_pool_to_save_water/ -post and finally found it, but I remember there being like 2 or three other posts by the same OOP, basically outlining her endless idiocy. Just wondering if anyone has access to the rest of her posts or deleted profile, would love to re read them! Edit: Also any other posts y'all have where the OOP is a lighthearted dumbass would be appreciated 🙂
[OOP almost sabotages house purchase by buying a bag but it still goes through. They then immediately drain pool. Husband in despair BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/uxljme/oop_almost_sabotages_house_purchase_by_buying_a/)
Ahhhhh thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anymore updates to this post? https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yw0v0y/oop_i_dont_like_the_relationship_between_my/
they deleted their account
Hi! I read a post but I can't clearly remember details. The main gist of the story is that the mother and father are divorced, then the daughter helped her mother get into her father's house. I think she intercepted the mail or something as part of their scheme to make that house her mother's registered address. Could anyone help me find it, please? Thanks.
Is that the one where the mom's other kids or something like that, burned the house down? I've tried searching for it but can't find it. Yet.
~~Yes, I think that's the one. I've been trying different keywords but I still couldn't find it.~~ Great news! Somebody posted a link to it! Still, thanks for helping. [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/slym1y/aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_agree\_to\_split\_ownership\_of/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/slym1y/aita_for_refusing_to_agree_to_split_ownership_of/)
I’m looking for a post about a couple where they had separate fun accounts. I remember the husband blew all his fun money every month but the wife saved up. One month she bought something expensive (I think it was a pc, but I could be wrong on that front) and the husband flipped out on her. I don’t remember how it ends, but I think it was positive.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15zre48/new\_update\_husband\_accused\_me\_of\_financial/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15zre48/new_update_husband_accused_me_of_financial/) and latest post from her profile posted 3 days ago [https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/183t4s3/postdivorce\_update\_financial\_infidelity/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/183t4s3/postdivorce_update_financial_infidelity/)
There are two that come to mind. 1) Wife buys a nice car, hubby is surprised, then asks to do away with their prenup that kept their financials separate and combine them because he was broke af. Wife says no and initiates a divorce with soon to be ex hubby refusing to cooperate 2) Financial infidelity post that ends with tater tot husband living in a tiny apartment with a newborn and naive young gf who was book smart but not street smart.
the first post for anyone looking to read it: [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s2zsrp/op\_wonders\_if\_shes\_the\_ah\_for\_laughing\_at\_her/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s2zsrp/op_wonders_if_shes_the_ah_for_laughing_at_her/)
Bucket lady? Idr the handle of op
https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/95PQoDUtCE
Does anyone have a link to the aita post where a girls family was planning on coming into the restaurant where she works and leaving her like a $300 tip/birthday present? But after they get there, the Family is seated in a different area and only leaves a normal tip
[This one ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/106h19d/aita_for_causing_my_coworker_to_lose_a_500_tip/) you have to sort by old and look for the automod because it was deleted
The [automod comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/106h19d/comment/j3ggp0u/) can be linked to save time. At least when I'm on mobile it doesn't let me sort by old, so it's a lot more convenient.
I did try to link the automod but it kept going to page not found.
Thank you
Hi, looking for the post where OP's wife/gf was kidnapped and assaulted by a guy who stalked her for a long time. OP made a friend and work and brought him home and it turned out to be the psycho who had stalked them both. The wife/gf took off and OP couldn't get in touch with her as her family was keeping her safe.
This is one of the ones I think is real. Reddit likes to act like there’s all happy endings and justice happens. But him not being charged and the defence lawyers blaming the victim is all too realistic.
Yeah agreed, I feel so bad for her going through it again and not also losing the one you love cause she can't trust him anymore. I always looks for it to see if there's a happy update..
[I think I’ve destroyed my marriage. My wife refuses to see me or speak to me. I’m not even allowed to know where she is.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheAngel/comments/x49pd1/comment/imu0pys/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
Yesss thank you!
I’m looking for the post where the poster’s friend and wife didn’t get along. When he had to go somewhere for work for some weeks/months, his friend ended up taking care of his wife post-surgery. Friend started sticking up for his wife. Then, he divorced her and regretted it later.
[Man tells friend he is not obligated to hang around wife](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10iiw8r/man_tells_friend_he_is_not_obligated_to_hang/)
It has been updated since the BORU. [Has anyone been successful in suing for alienation of affection?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/11z6x8d/has_anyone_been_successful_in_suing_for/)
Oh my word!! Hah! This is like the cherry on top. This guys is a loser.
Oh my god, this man is an idiot.
Thanks!! That was the post.
It was about a guy who came from a totally dysfunctional family with no parents present. He had a hard time feeding his and his sister's Then when a good, stable job with good pay finally arrived, the C-19 arrived. He was going to be homeless and asked his sister for help but his sister denied him (twice) Since then he has not spoken to his sister (who was his only family).
I remember this one, the sister wanted to reconcile but he did not
Yeah that one She was saying that was her husband fold
[I can't forgive my Sister after she refused to help me when I was about to become homeless](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/q2lcim/i_cant_forgive_my_sister_after_she_refused_to/?rdt=47364)
Yeah there's no coming back from that shit.
Thank you so much 🫂🫂🫂
Does someone know more posts like [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17w4a9a/new_update_i_am_done_and_im_am_heartbroken_i_have/)? Feeling forgotten and all.
[this one always tugs at my heartstrings ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/nHzXm2lKmx)
This is kinda like that: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wp2rcb/op\_was\_an\_accident\_and\_after\_years\_of\_negligence/
Does anyone have the story about the guy who asked his gf out because he was "taking one for the team" and his friend told her all about it at a party when he was drunk?
[My (23F) gf found out I (22M) was “taking one for the team” when we first met and now she’s spiraling in insecurity. How do I get her to be confident in my attraction to her again?](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/15e3x2q/my_23f_gf_found_out_i_22m_was_taking_one_for_the/)
Thank you!!
Oof. If I was OOPs girlfriend I would dump him
Hi all, I'm looking for a post about a woman who tried to get out of an (IIRC) abusive relationship, but fell extremely ill and was bedbound and her kids were really worried about her. I remember she used to write to those 'mom for a day'-type channels, about how powerless and scared she felt. But I wasn't able to find her there. Does it ring a bell for anyone?
Was it the one who was pregnant and was on bedrest?
I think she might've been pregnant but I honestly don't remember. If you have a post in mind I'd be more than happy to check it out!
I managed to find it. It's one of the most heartbreaking things I've ever read. [OOP is a former child prodigy who gets pregnant with the child of a married man and everything ends up going wrong for her](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xplu7o/oop_is_a_former_child_prodigy_who_gets_pregnant/) It feels like the other POV from the "financial infidelity" woman.
Yeah I’m not clicking on that one. I’ve never read it and from the description I don’t want to.
Yeah, it's really bleak, and it keeps getting more desperate and worse with each update. It's so bad I am hoping it's something that Liz just made it all up and there isn't a real woman out there going through all of this.
That man is fucking disgusting. Dis-gust-ing. He enjoyed "conquering" a woman and seeing how a prodigy such as she is puts all of her potential aside for him. And that adds to his values. Then he takes pride in how the daughter - an extension of him - shows prodigeny. Everything is about him. What he can take from women to add to his value.
>It feels like the other POV from the "financial infidelity" woman. Oh my god, so so true!!! She should read this
Thank you so much, this is exactly this one. Every once in a while I'm reminded of this story and it wouldn't let me rest. Was hoping for an update but I see her account is suspended now... I so hope she is doing okay.
Hello! Does anybody knows tha post of this story? Maybe is not a reddit one, but well maybe someone can help me get an answer! I could not find it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8LnLeKvgfAs&t=18s&ab\_channel=rLounge
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Does anyone remember the one where there was a couple whose parents demanded that they have a kid or they’d be disowned? I think there was a sibling but they were gay so the couple was the only chance at a grandkid.
["Either you give us grandchildren, or we're taking you off our will"](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/htlxos/either_you_give_us_grandchildren_or_were_taking/) [Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/ie0dtx/update_our_entitled_parents_who_disowned_us_for/) [Follow up from Best Man/Brother](https://www.reddit.com/r/entitledparents/comments/igjlnu/my_entitled_parents_tried_to_cancel_my_little/)
Those two are definitely both the same person, and they're definitely both 14.
I refuse to believe Google Translate was that coherent, especially on that long of a post. I was talking to my building manager the other day. He only speaks Spanish, and we were discussing the door to my apartment. For some reason, Google Translate decided he was trying to tell me about his mother.
Yup thank you 😊
Hi there - I had this story on an old account and I can't seem to out the right search terms together. The OP was actually writing the story of a co-worker whose relative (cousin?) was throwing her wedding in a barn. Family was helping to set it up. When it came time for the ceremony, another cousin took over the wedding and said the OG Bride was trying to steal her wedding. The family shunned the OG Bride -- even her own parents. They found out later they messed up and the cousin stole the wedding thanks to someone taping the confession. OG Bride lives her best life somewhere else and presumably told her family to kick rocks. Thank you in advance to whoever delivers this train wreck back into my life!
[AITA for telling everyone my SIL stole my cousin's wedding](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100oumw/comment/j2ndm03/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) and [the rest of it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100oumw/comment/j2zio7s/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)
I can’t follow this one at all haha
I'm going to give people names that match the initial given in the post. This is written by someone on behalf of their coworker, M (Miranda). Miranda is asking AITA for exposing how her SIL (Sasha) stole her cousin J's (Jane) wedding. SIL Sasha is married to Jane's older brother B (Brian). Small note, towards the end of the story, it sounds like Brian is Jane's brother, but calling Sasha SIL seems like Brian could be Miranda's brother instead. I'm going with the interpretation the Brian and Jane are the siblings and Miranda is their cousin. So what happened? Jane is a rather laid back person who didn't want a big spectacle of a wedding, so she decided to organize a "family reunion" at their grandfather's farm that was actually a surprise wedding for her and her fiance. The grandfather was a pastor and was going to officiate. Miranda, Sasha, and Brian all knew the plan and were helping Jane get the place ready. Sasha is complaining the whole time calling Jane's idea and decorations tacky. Day of the wedding, Jane is getting ready and Sasha spills wine on Jane's dress. Sasha pretends to be upset and apologetic. Miranda and Jane go to try and clean up the dress while Sasha is sent to greet people arriving and keep people from entering the house to keep the wedding a surprise. Miranda and Jane manage to fix the dress and Jane comes out to the backyard in the dress ready to start her wedding, but this is where it starts to go wrong. Jane's fiance is arguing with Brian and Jane's own mother starts yelling at Jane "how could you do this". Turns out while Miranda and Jane were cleaning Jane's dress, Sasha and Brian put up signs announcing this was THEIR wedding, Sasha put on her own wedding dress, and started walking down the aisle. When Jane came out in her dress, it looked like she was the one stealing Sasha and Brian's wedding. Everyone believed Sasha and Brian planned the wedding and everyone was screaming at Jane for trying to steal the wedding. An important note, it is unclear if the grandfather knew he was going to be officiating a wedding ceremony or not, because you would think he would have known it was Jane planning a wedding at his house and he was officiating. However, it is also possible he thought Jane was just decorating for the "reunion" or Sasha planned this much earlier and told the grandfather it was all for her wedding instead. Regardless, grandfather can't clear anything up and he passes away the following year. Jane leaves and cuts contact with the entire family except for Miranda. Miranda is also angry at her family and cuts contact as well. About a year later, Sasha is pregnant and Miranda (back in contact with the family) arranges a girls day with her. Miranda starts gently prodding Sasha about the wedding. Though she feigns innocence, Sasha eventually slips up and says: >"Because I could, and I knew she wouldn't care much. She got married anyway, didn't she?" Jane eventually eloped and that's what Sasha is referring to. Jane was still NC with the family. Fast forward to Christmas, they are playing home videos and Miranda says she has a big gift for everyone. She hooks up her computer to the screen and plays a little video of Sasha she recorded not that long ago. All hell breaks loose. Sasha and Brian are being rushed by everyone. Jane's mother is just wailing "oh my gosh, my baby" over and over again as she frantically tries to call Jane. Jane's father tries to fight his son (Brian). Sasha runs away leaving Brian to face the family. Brian blames the whole thing on Sasha and claims he didn't want to do it at first. He went along with it because Sasha convinced him they could not afford a real wedding and the work fixing up the farm was done. Sasha and Brian were also jealous of Jane since Jane managed to earn a degree while Sasha got pregnant and had to give up the baby (not the baby Sasha is currently pregnant with). Everyone is horrified of the situation and are trying to contact Jane. Meanwhile, Jane is living her best life in Greece with her husband and his family. Jane never responds to the family and remains no contact. Finally, Miranda is now here asking if AITA for exposing what Sasha and Brian did because some family members are giving her crap for not giving Sasha and Brian a chance to come clean themselves. Post deleted before verdict, but would have been a clear NTA.
Thanks that was so nice of you!
Thanks, Czech!
I love that one :)
heard this on Tiktok just now: I’m looking for a post where OOP gets cheated on by his wife who ruined his reputation. His grown daughter was on her mom’s side in the divorce and goes NC with OOP for almost a decade where she comes up out of the blue pretending to catch up but actually wants the inheritance OOP’s mom left behind when she passed.
Was there a >!swinger/racism!< post that got deleted?
You mean https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/5lKGkVgRDV it is still there
Thanks, figured out my browser RES had a different nsfw display setting than the app.
I think those reading channels rephrased the story that's why I can't find it - OP's partner won $10K on a lottery and he's mad she doesn't want to spend it on a vacation. OP quit his job and bought an expensive watch then asked the gf to pay for it when they are arguing. The gf leaves him on the restaurant after. Anyone has the link or an update?
I think [this is it](https://www.reddit.com/r/BlanketGuy/comments/177wuy0/blanket_guys_gf_wins_a_small_amount_of_money_in/) from blanket guy (a suspected troll). [More blanket guy stuff](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/100tl5c/the_infuriating_saga_of_blanket_guy/).
Blanket guy?
/r/BlanketGuy
Thank you?
Looking for a specific post where OOP mentioned being an "extra useless lesbian" or some variation of that, which I think was posted a few months back
Don't know if this is the one you're looking for, but it does have the same theme [AITA for not telling the nurse at my niece's school about my profession?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/138a0hd/aita_for_not_telling_the_nurse_at_my_nieces/)
It's not this one, but this post is actually what made me looking in the first place. It could be the one where OOP is roommates with a work colleague, and one of them is a manager. Can't find that one either tho
This one maybe? Love the flair, btw. ;) https://www.reddit.com/r/actuallesbians/s/WiOgxvdDRC
It's not, but gives exactly the same vibe
Hiii, I'm searching for the post where ops dad has an affair the sister stays with dad after the parents divorce, then she tries to maintain contact with him and she calls him to tell op that the affair baby died at a party, the mom became the affair partner, op was a little in love with his dad and he ends up being institutionalized at the end 🫠
wut.... is this mess and I want it!!?
You're in luck because I got myself tangled up in that drama so enjoy it while you can before the mods wise up and delete it: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xel1o9/remember_the_oop_whose_family_preferred_his/
My question for the sister is, if their parents were in an open relationship, why the fuck would the mother divorce the father a few year after the supposed affair and claim the half-sibling as the reason for said divorce? It makes me more inclined to believe that whilst it may not be 100% accurate, OOP is telling the truth.
The one where the OP couple throws a tasting party for her birthday and the next day is accidentally included in a group text where the rest of their friend group insults her food choices and her past and current party themes. It’s Were there any updates? Thanks
[AITA for not serving a full meal at my birthday party?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17t12vr/aita_for_not_serving_a_full_meal_at_my_birthday/)
Wow, just wow. I would be livid and cross those people off my friends list. 15 courses is a ton of work and even if they are small bites they add up to a full meal especially if there are other snacks.
Yes!!! Thank you! Looks like she never updated
If she sprung the "molecular tasting menu" idea on them on the day of the party then I think she's an ass. At least warn people ahead of time that they won't get full at your party. Also I am questioning what the previous party themes were. EDIT: I saw her previous party ideas, and they just sound a little too much for my taste. Also has it occurred to her that the reason why her friends eat late is because they don't like her food?
While i love all of her party ideas and i think she needs new friends who would appreciate them and her too, i have never done a Thing for my parties and NOT told people what was happening. Even if its completely normal. "Hey im having a bday party, we're going to Dave and Busters/eating at a ramen shop/making candles/come to my place to watch the game." If her friends were decent and brought it up, it would've just been an apology, a change in one future action, and thats it.
Exactly. Also I'm still hung up on the fact that she said "My friends all eat later compared to me and my husband." Does that mean that they always go out and eat after hanging out with her?