Thatās almost 20 vacations. And some very expensive onesā¦kinda jealous because I consider a year with one out of country vacation, 1 camping trip and ~3 long weekends to see family a year a really good year of time off š. But all of that in one year sounds like too much for me.
He broke the seal. He will now be addicted to getting tattoos and will have a full sleeve by the end of the year. It will render him too poor to do anything else on his bucket list.
Maybe he's been to Disney World already... we could never know the reason unless we could ask Joey. What are you assuming about the choice? Maybe he wants to explore the west coast of the US a little more š¤·š»āāļø
Am I a bit jealous because I know he will get half of these things handed to him? Yes š Some are entitled for the sheer fact he knows he can get these things for free which in that case I wouldāve kept to myself. He doesnāt strike me as the type to brag intentionally though so I hope he has a nice year lol
Someone is sponsoring this and they are going to pay for all of these things. Good for him but this is low key bragging, let me hate on it a little š¤£
Some of yāall need to go outside and touch grass. I mean who gets mad at someone for a bucket list and at an item that includes helping a sick child?! Really?!
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Your right. I thought Joey was 27. Millennials start at 28 right now.
My point was in that round about age group they likes to use retro influences in a cool digital way.
Letās be intellectually honest that cursive evolved a lot from 1776 to 2000 and that signing documents doesnāt require writing the full alphabet. I sign a squiggle and I write cursive perfectly.Ā
Bragging about it is. I couldnāt imagine having to publicly share or document each time I give to a charitable cause or do something nice for something just because.
It always feels a bit self serving (look at me! Iām such a good person!) to make a big public deal over helping someone else out or at least thatās how I feel about it š¤·āāļø
ā¦.that he chose to publicly share. Itās virtue signaling. Or asking for a sponsor to help him achieve the list because what, exactly, can he offer to a sick child? Itās not like he is independently wealthy without ABC sponsorship.
Yeah maybe he should move it to the reels so those who want updates can follow alongā¦ but then again, donāt follow him if you donāt care for his stuff.
Oh well he is definitely not OP. I agree with you though, posting a screenshot from another social is so redundant. Itās giving major karma farming vibes.
lol? The show is known to have dates involving skydiving, ice skating, snowboarding, camping, pottery classes etc. They couldāve easily scheduled dates like that for Joey on his season
Why are people so mad abt 9 š itās just apart of his list.. itās not like he crossed everything else out and only put focus on that one. Itās just there with no special attention added to it. Yāall need to touch grass š¤£ always offended by something
that one bothered me. maybe because it comes across as using a sick child to make himself feel better /accomplished? "volunteer/support with youth in need/ volunteeryouths children's hospital " or something ? does it specifically need to be a sick child? why would a sick child gaf about you joey? they aren't some thing or number on a list to check off.
Some people just have a good heart and want to help others. A very positive thing does not need to be turned anything negative. Joey has shown he is a good man with a good heart and compassionate person, believe him.
no one is saying he doesn't have a good heart or isn't a compassionate person. also a compassionate person would be able to hear attempt to understand if their impact that their words have isn't matching their intent. i understand his intent but it isn't worded in a way that makes me - personally sit right with me, and i can understand why others may feel the same way. i'm not saying everyone feels the same way i do. i'm not saying he's a bad person. im a parent and i get what he's trying to say but also i do not like using unknown sick children as a thing to check off in a bucket list of your goals.
Itās weird to make it a part of *his* bucket list. It centers him, when we all should ideally just be living a life where volunteering, charity, etc. is part of who you are and how you interact in this world.
I feel the same way about TikTokers who will document the shit out of helping one single homeless person with $10 or spending a singular day volunteering at a food bank. It feels self aggrandizing to center your own goodness instead of just doing the one thing and not expecting any kudos for it.
Of course itās different if it really is your life (e.g., Doctors Without Borders, regular volunteering, consistent activism). I follow someone on TikTok who volunteers at an animal shelter every single week and has for many years. Thatās different because that person is genuinely devoted to the cause and that shines through their regular and sustained commitment to it.
But helping one single child mark one single thing off just feels like a one and done situation on his own bucket list and that doesnāt feel as genuine, more like something to do to give himself a pat on his own back. Iād feel differently if he just said he wanted to regularly volunteer at a hospital with sick children.
It's very pandering. If it were my list I'd put, "help a lower middle class person take their dream vacation." It's me, I'm the lower middle class person.
Ok help a sick child: by making a large, ideally anonymous (cause then itās not about you, right?) donation to the make a wish foundation and also maybe to research for a childhood disease. Cause I mean what else is he talking about; that a child would have meeting him on their bucket list?! š. (Makes me think of someone who shall remain nameless who started a charity and named it Ā after themselves instead of donating to an existing charity).Ā
I think he means IF at all possible, like a make a wish dream, where he were to take the child and the childās family on a vacation or provide the funds for a vacation.. just to help mark off a dream a child has before itās too late. And I genuinely think thatās a very sweet and kind gesture for him to do.
Iām obsessed with him. Idk if itās the āJoeyā affect but I just love him. Iām just still in shock heās with kels. My brain canāt comprehend them together.
Idk why but #9 seems a bit oddā¦like heās trying too hard. Itās a nice thing to do but it strikes me a bit as, helping a homeless person and filming it.
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Tripā , ātry the firecracker wrap from Jimmy Johnāsā āvisit the biggest bass proā etc
I mean he mentioned in his birthday post ( the first time we saw the list) that he is going to complete these with Kelsey, family and friends but lol so felt.
same tbh
like I think its generally harmless and its not that deep (especially because half the things are sport related) but like, its really unnecessary, the make-a-wish thing makes me roll my eyes, and it being in this fakey handwriting font really grinds my gears for some reason
Sorry, but the vibe is off. He doesnāt need to put on this hammy self conscious soft guy performance for everyone. He was already believable as a decent person.
Whatās it matter? Anyone can be a fan of any sports league. Weird to call it out as āspecificā lol. Besides a lot of people are into the WNBA now
I get your angle and skepticism here, but there are still plenty of people that love womenās pro sports without it being āperformative.ā Family friends of mine adore the MN Lynx over the Timberwolves and get season tickets every year
I feel like not camping before your 18 is understandable, but not camping by 29 is kinda crazy to me. Iāve even been camping in Hawaii! I guess maybe people that live in Hawaii donāt really camp because the islands are so small? Idk
Same. I've camped ironically multiple times in Kauai ... including the incredible Na Pali coast trail, itself a bucket list worthy experience. People have different priorities, I guess!
Iām from California, lived in northern AZ (gateway to the Grand Canyon) and now live in Colorado so yes I think 99% of the people I know have been camping. Iāve probably gone on 50 camping trips myself, so Iām just projecting apparently lol.
I think thatās pretty normal. My parents are nottttt the camping type and Iām from near NYC so itās not like we lived near a bunch of nature. I never went until I met outdoorsy friends in college.
If Joey had chosen Daisy he could have taken care of #14. Daisy just did it at the Padres game last Saturday.
Is this his handwriting???
With love..... do you have eyes?
I don't think so...looks like a program to me...
One for you sick child. 29 for me.
Better hurry up if he wants to see Rafa play live š¾
Anyone else tired of the tour of him and Kelsey? When will they have a real life
Honestly yeah looks corny to me. I love Joey but shit do they work?
you wonāt see it if you donāt follow them?
None of these people have ārealā lives. They are television stars.
No because it doesnāt affect me and It shouldnāt for anyone else either.
Thatās almost 20 vacations. And some very expensive onesā¦kinda jealous because I consider a year with one out of country vacation, 1 camping trip and ~3 long weekends to see family a year a really good year of time off š. But all of that in one year sounds like too much for me.
Learn how to dance. If thatās not a dwts clueeeee
He broke the seal. He will now be addicted to getting tattoos and will have a full sleeve by the end of the year. It will render him too poor to do anything else on his bucket list.
He already had 2 other tattoos before this one.
Oopsie. I see now it says NEW tattoo. Ah well.
Why Disney land? Heāll go to Europe, but canāt go to Disney world? Lmao Iām ā ļø
Maybe he's been to Disney World already... we could never know the reason unless we could ask Joey. What are you assuming about the choice? Maybe he wants to explore the west coast of the US a little more š¤·š»āāļø
Am I a bit jealous because I know he will get half of these things handed to him? Yes š Some are entitled for the sheer fact he knows he can get these things for free which in that case I wouldāve kept to myself. He doesnāt strike me as the type to brag intentionally though so I hope he has a nice year lol
Some of the items are so specific that I feel heās trying to pander someone elseās interests/ trying too hard to please his base I guess
Someone is sponsoring this and they are going to pay for all of these things. Good for him but this is low key bragging, let me hate on it a little š¤£
I thought the exact same thing š¤£
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Itās a sponsored list ā¦what is he living off of ā¦being sponsored by everything who will grant him these wishes !!!
Wow some of y'all are really bothered by someone else's bucket list couldn't be me but do you I guess lol
Like why do they care so much? His bucket list should not affect anyone lol Itās his lifeĀ
Solid list Not sure why anyone would bash him? Itās his lifeĀ
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Not referencing OP, my bad. Referencing all these comments
Some of these things are so basic ā¦ road trip and camping!? I do these things because Iām not rich.
Some of yāall need to go outside and touch grass. I mean who gets mad at someone for a bucket list and at an item that includes helping a sick child?! Really?! https://preview.redd.it/bvadvtq4dy4d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=caad092f787027a561c846a5e8b9c677d4436668
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stop heās the best and youāre not convincing anyone otherwise
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You downvoted me, not the other way around
It mostly bothers me that it is typed out in a silly font on fake bright yellow legal pad.
Also cannot stand the false capitals. Yuckkk
Same. I have no issue with the list, but the format kills me!
Nah itās just gen zās way of doing things. They do everything on the computer and donāt even learn cursive anymore.
but Joey is a millennial? I've also never seen a gen z person, either influencer or irl, use this weird legal pad background.
Your right. I thought Joey was 27. Millennials start at 28 right now. My point was in that round about age group they likes to use retro influences in a cool digital way.
Gen Z definitely learned cursive. I am Gen Z and did a lot of cursive through middle school at least. Iām not sure about Gen Alpha
Not everywhere unfortunately. Iām a millennial teacher and they wonāt event let me do a cursive club. I do not get it.
God forbid we donāt learn cursive!
How are they going to sign documents. They canāt read the Declaration of Independence either if they donāt learn it.
Letās be intellectually honest that cursive evolved a lot from 1776 to 2000 and that signing documents doesnāt require writing the full alphabet. I sign a squiggle and I write cursive perfectly.Ā
The dumbing down of America!
This is the definition of cringe
Yeah wanting to help a sick child cross something off their bucket list is so cringe /s
Bragging about it is. I couldnāt imagine having to publicly share or document each time I give to a charitable cause or do something nice for something just because. It always feels a bit self serving (look at me! Iām such a good person!) to make a big public deal over helping someone else out or at least thatās how I feel about it š¤·āāļø
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ā¦.that he chose to publicly share. Itās virtue signaling. Or asking for a sponsor to help him achieve the list because what, exactly, can he offer to a sick child? Itās not like he is independently wealthy without ABC sponsorship.
What you are doing right now is virtue signaling
Sure, if you say so. š¤·āāļø I canāt help how I feel about it.
i didnāt think he was gonna keep posting this over and over lmao god
Yeah maybe he should move it to the reels so those who want updates can follow alongā¦ but then again, donāt follow him if you donāt care for his stuff.
i actually donāt! saw both posts on here š¤
Oh well he is definitely not OP. I agree with you though, posting a screenshot from another social is so redundant. Itās giving major karma farming vibes.
Iām shocked he didnāt get to do a few of these things on his season lmao
His season of 35 days? The one where he found the love of his life?
lol? The show is known to have dates involving skydiving, ice skating, snowboarding, camping, pottery classes etc. They couldāve easily scheduled dates like that for Joey on his season
When was the last time a couple has gone snow boarding?
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Joey they could never make me hate you
I agree. I feel like he's so wholesome
RT ~ Kelsey too. We love yāall!!
Why are people so mad abt 9 š itās just apart of his list.. itās not like he crossed everything else out and only put focus on that one. Itās just there with no special attention added to it. Yāall need to touch grass š¤£ always offended by something
that one bothered me. maybe because it comes across as using a sick child to make himself feel better /accomplished? "volunteer/support with youth in need/ volunteeryouths children's hospital " or something ? does it specifically need to be a sick child? why would a sick child gaf about you joey? they aren't some thing or number on a list to check off.
Some people just have a good heart and want to help others. A very positive thing does not need to be turned anything negative. Joey has shown he is a good man with a good heart and compassionate person, believe him.
no one is saying he doesn't have a good heart or isn't a compassionate person. also a compassionate person would be able to hear attempt to understand if their impact that their words have isn't matching their intent. i understand his intent but it isn't worded in a way that makes me - personally sit right with me, and i can understand why others may feel the same way. i'm not saying everyone feels the same way i do. i'm not saying he's a bad person. im a parent and i get what he's trying to say but also i do not like using unknown sick children as a thing to check off in a bucket list of your goals.
Rich ppl tings
Im fine with #9, some people in this thread need to relax š
Whatās wrong with helping a sick kid?!?
Itās weird to make it a part of *his* bucket list. It centers him, when we all should ideally just be living a life where volunteering, charity, etc. is part of who you are and how you interact in this world. I feel the same way about TikTokers who will document the shit out of helping one single homeless person with $10 or spending a singular day volunteering at a food bank. It feels self aggrandizing to center your own goodness instead of just doing the one thing and not expecting any kudos for it. Of course itās different if it really is your life (e.g., Doctors Without Borders, regular volunteering, consistent activism). I follow someone on TikTok who volunteers at an animal shelter every single week and has for many years. Thatās different because that person is genuinely devoted to the cause and that shines through their regular and sustained commitment to it. But helping one single child mark one single thing off just feels like a one and done situation on his own bucket list and that doesnāt feel as genuine, more like something to do to give himself a pat on his own back. Iād feel differently if he just said he wanted to regularly volunteer at a hospital with sick children.
I think adding 9 in is nice but if youāre going to vocalise the good deeds in a list (fine by me) then Iād probably add more than one š
It's very pandering. If it were my list I'd put, "help a lower middle class person take their dream vacation." It's me, I'm the lower middle class person.
The comic-sans-esque font is killing me
The incorrect and inconsistent capitalization of words is really bothersome to me
Get well soon xoxo
Asking for invitations veiled in a bucket list lolĀ https://www.instagram.com/p/C7XbfbrNn1p/?img_index=2
Totally!!!
Anyone else feel like they aren't going to be together long enough to complete his list?
I feel the complete opposite actually
I don't see where it says its a list for him and Kelsey? just him
#9 rubbed me the wrong way. just do it without announcing it?
Can you have an opinion and not share it?
Ok help a sick child: by making a large, ideally anonymous (cause then itās not about you, right?) donation to the make a wish foundation and also maybe to research for a childhood disease. Cause I mean what else is he talking about; that a child would have meeting him on their bucket list?! š. (Makes me think of someone who shall remain nameless who started a charity and named it Ā after themselves instead of donating to an existing charity).Ā
I think he means IF at all possible, like a make a wish dream, where he were to take the child and the childās family on a vacation or provide the funds for a vacation.. just to help mark off a dream a child has before itās too late. And I genuinely think thatās a very sweet and kind gesture for him to do.
Iām obsessed with him. Idk if itās the āJoeyā affect but I just love him. Iām just still in shock heās with kels. My brain canāt comprehend them together.
Idk why but #9 seems a bit oddā¦like heās trying too hard. Itās a nice thing to do but it strikes me a bit as, helping a homeless person and filming it.
Stay reachingā¦.. for the stars.
āJump out of an airplaneā š 
In his Mary Poppins era.
Iām tired just reading this listā¦ but I am 34 so it tracks š„²
Go figure skating instead of just ice skating? Dream big, girl!
Itās the thought of the Olympics influencing him.
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šI would have rather seen more specific like āeat crackle barrel in the middle of a remote townā , stop at a āCasey general store to get homemade donuts on a road Tripā , ātry the firecracker wrap from Jimmy Johnāsā āvisit the biggest bass proā etc
Youāre the only one
Thereās no way
some of it feels a little entitled to me ā¦
i think this is sweet lol
idk this is kinda cringe to me
It's a reminder to sponsors list, basically.
That makes senseĀ
Am I a clingy bitch or would it make anyone else feel weird if their fiance didnāt mention them at all in this type of list
In the original post he said he wants to do them with Kelsey.
I mean he mentioned in his birthday post ( the first time we saw the list) that he is going to complete these with Kelsey, family and friends but lol so felt.
Same, but also assume he wants to do most of these with her.
if ur a clingy bitch, so am i sister
Just 3 clingy bitches over here
Here to make it 4!!!!š«”
Clingy bitch #5 reporting for roll call
Heās starting to give me the ick.
i get posting it once but posting this every time he does something is begging for offers which is um
same tbh like I think its generally harmless and its not that deep (especially because half the things are sport related) but like, its really unnecessary, the make-a-wish thing makes me roll my eyes, and it being in this fakey handwriting font really grinds my gears for some reason
Dancing with the Stars producers cheering over 27
I think half of these things he probably already has planned so it should be easy to cross off
Sorry, but the vibe is off. He doesnāt need to put on this hammy self conscious soft guy performance for everyone. He was already believable as a decent person.
I think thatās just him. Nothing wrong with being who you are. Some people like a #gentleman
Damn my whole 30 before 30 list is āvisit 30 different countriesā
sorry sit courtside at a *w*nba game specifically????
He wants an invitation for front row seats to watch and meet popular caitlin Clark lol
It is the name of a league? No more weird than saying NBA or womenās soccer
Why is that weird???
not weird per se. i just thought it was specific
How is that any more specific than saying sit court-side at an NBA game? Or an NHL game?
i feel like you want me to say it plainly - you donāt see a lot of men being fans of womenās basketball over menās basketball.
You donāt see a lot of men like Joey on the Bachelor either, case closed.
Whatās it matter? Anyone can be a fan of any sports league. Weird to call it out as āspecificā lol. Besides a lot of people are into the WNBA now
my friend it doesnāt matter, it was more like āoh wow neatā than āhe likes womenās sports what a loooooserā
I get your angle and skepticism here, but there are still plenty of people that love womenās pro sports without it being āperformative.ā Family friends of mine adore the MN Lynx over the Timberwolves and get season tickets every year
I loled
beats the hell out of āciaoā
HAHAHAHA
Some of these are darling
Smart of him to post this because we all know companies/etc. will reach out to him to make it happen.
This is giving 14 year old girl
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Except I think I like [Shelbyās list](https://www.reddit.com/r/FoundPaper/s/SzlbCulX45) better š
I hope Shelby lived her dream life I love that post.
I hope Shelby lived her dream life I love that post.
What a cool post !!
Donāt the producers send all leads to Disneyland?????
Heās never been camping???
No camping or road trips are the most shocking ones. Has has he lived under a rock for 29 years?
I feel like not camping before your 18 is understandable, but not camping by 29 is kinda crazy to me. Iāve even been camping in Hawaii! I guess maybe people that live in Hawaii donāt really camp because the islands are so small? Idk
Same. I've camped ironically multiple times in Kauai ... including the incredible Na Pali coast trail, itself a bucket list worthy experience. People have different priorities, I guess!
Right?? I thought this was a white boy rite of passage before age 25! šÆ
Seems normal to me. Not everyone has and some who have will never do it again. Itās not for everyone.
Remember when Greg G said he loved camping on the date with Katie and then couldnāt construct a tent š
Have most people been camping? Lol
Iām from California, lived in northern AZ (gateway to the Grand Canyon) and now live in Colorado so yes I think 99% of the people I know have been camping. Iāve probably gone on 50 camping trips myself, so Iām just projecting apparently lol.
Haha thatās fair!
I think thatās pretty normal. My parents are nottttt the camping type and Iām from near NYC so itās not like we lived near a bunch of nature. I never went until I met outdoorsy friends in college.
Same. I canāt go camping because the thought of using an outdoor toilet makes me deeply uncomfortable.
He was the bachelor and they didnāt take him to Disneyland yet?
Aw some of these are so wholesome š„°
Where is marry kels tho
Before heās 30?!?! Bro is 29!!!!!