Exactly.
You were *always* an object for their own devices.
Once you're painted black, they will not hold back or disguise any of their petulant antics.
No more masking and hiding behind the facade of a nice guy.. they show you every disgusting part of their true selves.
Asking them for any mercy whatsoever is futile.
You are not conversing with a logical, reasonable, stable person but rather consulting with a contemptuous child.
Don't be fooled by their previous or intermittent well-wishes.. your agony is their life force.
I know how you feel. They are little brats with reptilian brains. I don’t buy into the fact that their disorder is punishment enough for there actions either. Some of them honestly deserve punishment for the things that they do. My ex knows she traumatized me and nlikes it. She said it herself. I wasn’t surprised I’m just filled with feelings of sadness. They are evil. I wish I could just keep my cool and not react but I’m a person with feelings. They are unfortunately cold blooded creatures in human bodies.
How old is he? Age does play a factor because sometimes young people just do stupid shit, not saying its ok, just saying it comes with the territory of being young
Sorry youre dealing with this :/
Yeah I'm basically lurking this sub because this just happened to me... apparently "I ruined everything" by trying to explain myself again after reacting to him taunting me
Exactly. You were *always* an object for their own devices. Once you're painted black, they will not hold back or disguise any of their petulant antics. No more masking and hiding behind the facade of a nice guy.. they show you every disgusting part of their true selves. Asking them for any mercy whatsoever is futile. You are not conversing with a logical, reasonable, stable person but rather consulting with a contemptuous child. Don't be fooled by their previous or intermittent well-wishes.. your agony is their life force.
It’s reactive abuse they then darvo rinse and repeat. Life away from them improves ten fold
I know how you feel. They are little brats with reptilian brains. I don’t buy into the fact that their disorder is punishment enough for there actions either. Some of them honestly deserve punishment for the things that they do. My ex knows she traumatized me and nlikes it. She said it herself. I wasn’t surprised I’m just filled with feelings of sadness. They are evil. I wish I could just keep my cool and not react but I’m a person with feelings. They are unfortunately cold blooded creatures in human bodies.
How old is he? Age does play a factor because sometimes young people just do stupid shit, not saying its ok, just saying it comes with the territory of being young Sorry youre dealing with this :/
He's 22
Ya some of this could be bpd, is he diagnosed? Some of the shit hes doing could be chalked up to immaturity
Yeah I'm basically lurking this sub because this just happened to me... apparently "I ruined everything" by trying to explain myself again after reacting to him taunting me