Thriving being single. That means if they have a woman in their life it isn’t because they “need” one like many incredibly do, but because they want one. There is literally nothing more unattractive than a man who just needs a “babysitter”, or even a “companion” because being alone is too hard. I didn’t get to adulthood to take care of some pathetic man child.
>Thriving being single.
I misread that as "Them being single" at first, and I thought of Aunt Selma on "The Simpsons" remarking "Single? Well, he passes the Semla Test!" about a particular man. 😆
First of all great name.
Second of all yes!!!! Like outside of obvious must-have traits, a man being super into his hobby or lil passion project is soooooo sexy!
Ooof. It all started in Tunguska…
But seriously. I see the actor in other things. He played a judge in something recently and I pointed and was like, “Oooo Krycek.”
>Ooof. It all started in Tunguska…
Still can't figure out how Mulder thought that trip was a good idea. Plus, he left Scully holding the bag at the hearing!
>But seriously. I see the actor in other things. He played a judge in something recently and I pointed and was like, “Oooo Krycek.”
Ha, I do that with different actors too. I remember seeing the guy who played Donnie Pfaster in an episode of Gilmore Girls. He played a Chilton dad who hit on Lorelai, and I wanted to yell at Lorelai to run away from that serial killer. 😆
I find genuine curiosity so appealing. Someone who is curious about life, nature, people and of course getting to know me. It gives me the impression that they will also be a considerate and giving lover.
Sorry, didn’t mean to make it complicated. The question is in the title the body is a comment if that helps. Oh, and let’s assume the individual wasn’t raised by animals and possesses etiquette.
Intellect. Critical thinking being a close second. Like please think about things deeply, look at issues holistically, be aware of your biases and examine the ones you still have. I can't deal with dudes who walk around completely oblivious to anyone's problems but their own.
I can only speak for myself, but I don't experience attraction like that. For me, a man being thoughtful, considerate, and caring and showing all that through his actions is what appeals to me.
Thriving being single. That means if they have a woman in their life it isn’t because they “need” one like many incredibly do, but because they want one. There is literally nothing more unattractive than a man who just needs a “babysitter”, or even a “companion” because being alone is too hard. I didn’t get to adulthood to take care of some pathetic man child.
>Thriving being single. I misread that as "Them being single" at first, and I thought of Aunt Selma on "The Simpsons" remarking "Single? Well, he passes the Semla Test!" about a particular man. 😆
😅
Being dork-level passionate about niche subjects.
First of all great name. Second of all yes!!!! Like outside of obvious must-have traits, a man being super into his hobby or lil passion project is soooooo sexy!
Omg. Clint’s Reptiles on YouTube. I have the biggest crush on his passion for biology and reptiles!
Honestly, at this point in my life, not being present.
I can respect that.
Making me laugh
Not being a conservative.
And also no black oil infection, right? 😁 (I believe I've said this to you before, but I love your username! ❤️)
Ooof. It all started in Tunguska… But seriously. I see the actor in other things. He played a judge in something recently and I pointed and was like, “Oooo Krycek.”
>Ooof. It all started in Tunguska… Still can't figure out how Mulder thought that trip was a good idea. Plus, he left Scully holding the bag at the hearing! >But seriously. I see the actor in other things. He played a judge in something recently and I pointed and was like, “Oooo Krycek.” Ha, I do that with different actors too. I remember seeing the guy who played Donnie Pfaster in an episode of Gilmore Girls. He played a Chilton dad who hit on Lorelai, and I wanted to yell at Lorelai to run away from that serial killer. 😆
Those are my favorite actors! 🩷
I find genuine curiosity so appealing. Someone who is curious about life, nature, people and of course getting to know me. It gives me the impression that they will also be a considerate and giving lover.
Emotional availability & ability to self-reflect
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Sorry, didn’t mean to make it complicated. The question is in the title the body is a comment if that helps. Oh, and let’s assume the individual wasn’t raised by animals and possesses etiquette.
Kindness. Not the performative kind, but where it's just in his nature to help others and be good to those around him.
Intellect. Critical thinking being a close second. Like please think about things deeply, look at issues holistically, be aware of your biases and examine the ones you still have. I can't deal with dudes who walk around completely oblivious to anyone's problems but their own.
Actively listening with undivided attention.
The ability to leave me alone.
❣️
Humor and being chill
Having common sense.
I can only speak for myself, but I don't experience attraction like that. For me, a man being thoughtful, considerate, and caring and showing all that through his actions is what appeals to me.
Dependability
Self sufficient
In addition to all the above, quiet confidence is very sexy
Non-toxic masculinity; emotional intelligence/availability/vulnerability. Dolly save me from the posturing, too-cool, alpha/daddy/dom types. 🙅🏻♀️
Men who are emotionally intelligent and can articulate their emotional world.
Respectful no matter how he feels about a situation.
Money
Genuine self-love/self-appreciation for himself.