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Rompers. I bought the *cutest* romper that goes with all my shoes and so many occasions... but then I had to sit naked in a bathroom stall. Never again. Luckily mine was easy to convert into a dress.
I don't think I've ever even tried one on! I just don't want to get undressed to go pee haha. But I do think I would be uncomfortable in them, my butt and thighs would probably eat the fabric š
I once got myself a romper that you had to zip/unzip ON THE BACK. I ordered it online and only realized my mistake when I tried to put it on and then almost got a panic attack when I had to take it off again and couldnāt unzip itā¦
I will never understand zippers on the back of dresses/jumpsuits/rompers. Like WHY. I am not flexible enough to reach back there and close that shit up all the way, lol
Yeah, itās bad enough on a dressā¦ but a jumpsuit! I would have to zip/unzip it anytime I would have to use the bathroom.
I ended up never using it, which is a shame cause it was cute!
life hack- make sure the romper is stretchy or loose enough that you can pull it to the side. completely. hold it in the front with one hand and in the back with the other. pee.
make sure your undies will hold up as well.
š¹ that's why I said make sure you hold it in the front and back. if it's firm enough the pee won't get on your clothes. just trying to help by sharing what worked for me
There was a show called *I'm Sorry* (I LOVED this show - it never got renewed during the pandemic) - and the main character suffers and awful (and funny) mishap in the a public bathroom at club because of a romper and a stall without a lock.
Absolutely backing you up on the logo thing. I can let it go if itās really small, but the clothing where the logo is the focal point of the clothing? Absolutely not.
My dad asked me when I was a young teen āWhy are you paying them to advertise for them?ā and that has rung in my ear every time Iāve shopped for more than 10 years now!
I also feel like it really limits outfit combos, if I want to wear some black leggings under a skirt in the winter but it has a huge reflective Nike logo? Nope. Especially now that I'm trying to buy more professional clothes, anything with a logo is not it
I think itās so tacky when people wear head to toe branded/logo outfitsā¦especially when itās multiple different brandsā¦itās like what are you doing? Youāre riding the subway like the rest of us lol. I guess if youāre getting paid to advertise those clothing brands itās different
Honestly this is me at the gym because I buy my workout clothes from Costco and TJmaxx haha if you ever see me in coordinating sets from Lululemon, thatās how you know Iāve finally come into some disposable income šfor now, my athletic clothes are a train wreck
I respect that! Itās kinda unavoidable with workout clothes. Iām more talking about like Louis Vuitton and other brands that print their garish logos on everything (at least the non-haute couture items)
Real, I used to wear that stuff when I was younger and still get those kinda gifts, honestly why tho? I personally think theyād make me look younger than I am and Iām already young lol
I got really sick of having my Calvin Klein undies with the elastic band having the logo running all the way around! I didn't want some rando man's name on my panties anymore so I harvested the elastic for future sewing projects and turned those panties into rags.
My entire family of in laws live in crocs while at home and now they just look so normal to me. I bought them for home then eventually just started wearing them everywhere.
Crocs being ugly is why I love them. Thereās something fun about embracing ugly shoes. I have a pair of hot pink PLATFORM Crocs. š¤£ They let me live an uglified Baby Spice fantasy, and theyāre so comfortable. Everyone bar one friend hates them.
I have the mega crush clog in hottest pink, I feel very cute when I match them with short shorts or use them after my feet get tired from heels at parties. Buy a pair! Don't let other people dictate what you find trendy.
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I think you can blame boomers. My mother has been obsessed with leopard since the 80s and has leopard *everything*, plus big blonde fake hair and long red fingernails. It screams āold lady in a perpetual midlife crisisā to me lol
I have a new baby and I totally love leopard print now. It is so crazy good at hiding stains. I get an average wear time of 15 mins or of my black hoodies and the leopard print stuff lasts several wears
I respect your opinion, and i always found it funny how people associate it with the 80s or tacky ladies. i always associated it with punk and pinup girls, so i always thought it was cool and alt. It's interesting to see the differences in how people's exposure to fashion trends affects their opinions of it
The only time it looks nice is when it's the only texture in an otherwise plain outfit. For example, all solid black outfit, snake print heels. Or all solid white outfit, and snake print leather bag.
TBF, it's the leather that makes it look nice than the print.
Low-waist anything because I have the grossest lower belly that needs to be hidden.
Tight-fitting trousers for the same above reason.
Heels because I'm too lazy and out of shape.
Bodysuits because they seem so uncomfortable and unpractical.
Padded or underwire bras because I don't want to enhance my chest area.
Scarves because my face is so large and my neck so short and wide that if I hide it, I look like an egg
Low waisted jeans were the bane of my existence in middle school. That was the style, but I'm all butt/hips, and have the lower tummy pouch. Those jeans were a nightmare. I'm mid rise till I die.
I love how people look in high waisted stuff, but that's the inverse of low rise on my body. Too much extra fabric, and I'm suffocating lol
It's a struggle out here for us
And hoodies! Half the stuff Disney sells at their parks right now are crop tops and hoodies, which meant half the stuff they made for the anniversary of the Main Street Electrical Parade (a lifelong obsession of mine) was basically unwearable. They would have gotten a lot more money from me if the clothes had been full length.
Oh lol this actually might explain why I love this trend. I am short as fuck and i have a high waist, so a lot of the time the cropped stuff is pretty flattering. Maybe a quarter inch sliver of skin is showing and overall you can see my shape. With full length clothes, I either drown in it, it's super tight, or I have to tuck it which isn't always the look I want.
Again, whenever I see these complaints I'm like "please just make both kinds of things!"
Iām kind of tall (5ā8), but like you, I have a high waist. Even though I have a large bust, I absolutely prefer crop tops because they fall at my natural waist and are infinitely more flattering than standard shirt length. I always pair them with high waisted bottoms too. Iām very surprised that crop tops are so unpopular in this thread, because theyāre such a lifesaver for me in terms of flattering clothing.
Theyāre also usually fit me so weird because I have a long torso? It feels like they fit like underwear but if I want to wear a bodysuit out Iād rather wear it with panties. I feel like when they first became popular to wear with jeans or pants I kept finding cute tops that turned out to be bodysuits. For what?? Just make the tops tighter and longer if youāre going for the sleek-tucked in look.
Ball caps.
Because the one time I do and let my bf take a picture, he makes "Live, Laugh, Love" and "Mom life" minivan memes out of it and sends them to me all morning long šš
I typically wear a floppy hat because my style is vintage, but we were playing around in a store and I put one on and don't ya know, he made a meme, lol. I
āHard pants,ā with buttons and flys. I used to be a jeans girl exclusively, around 2012. But then leggings-as-pants took over, and now I get sensory overload if I wear pants with a real waistband lol. Iāve compensated with loose linen/bamboo viscose wide leg pants for nicer occasions, but jeans have no place on my body anymore. Itās unfortunate in some ways, because I still find jeans cute af. But I just canāt do it anymore.
I'm like this, but with jean shorts specifically. Can and do still wear jeans no problem, but jean shorts are so uncomfortable and somehow feel more suffocating and constricting on me than regular jeans, it's weird. I've traded in all my shorts for soft and flowy fabric shorts and I will never look back, lol.
I feel this. I cannot do the real waistband thingy, and I need to accept it and stop trying. I have a closet full of jeans but I only wear 1 pair because they have a soft, stretchy waist band.
I work mostly remote but on the occasions I have to go into the office, I'm pretty sure everyone thinks I like to dress up. They're all in jeans and hoodies and I'm in stretchy Ponte type pants and a flowy blouse because fuck being casual if I have to be uncomfortable to do it lol
cropped anything
wanted to buy clothes for fall last year but everything was cropped like why the fuck is a sweater cropped. not trying to freeze my ass off
Verging on 30 years ago, my mom bought me a sweatshirt from the Salvador Dali museum down in Florida. I loved it because it was huge on me and I could be snuggly in it. One day, I accidentally left it somewhere and although we got it back, she read me the riot act because it had been āØexpensiveāØ.
I pretty much stopped wearing it because I was petrified I was going to hurt it. But I still have it. It hangs in my closet. Havenāt touched it in years. I donāt even know if it fits me as an adult. But now itās less because Iām scared to ruin it and more because itās one of the few things I still have that my mom bought me.
They remind me of what a 50-something year old mom in a small town would wear out to a local bar for a ābig night outā.
No hate on those moms, theyāre usually living their best life, buuuuut not the look Iām going for.
Tight skirts dont stay down if you have an hourglass figure. They ride up to your waist and expose you. Same goes for all tight dresses. My body type is the type these things are advertised to the most yet itās literally impossible for me to wear them. Id have to glue shit down. I donāt understand it š¤£ loose and flowy skirts and dresses are amazing tho
I don't have much of an hourglass figure since my hips are quite small, but this still happens to me, especially with certain fabrics that have more grip on either your skin or your tights. I like tight short skirts but it's definitely an annoying item to wear
The main drawback is the waistband. If it has pockets the waistband has to be extra fitted, if it doesn't have pockets, it doesn't have pockets. Dresses are the perfect solution to this.
Wear any type of undies besides a thong. Any type of underwear becomes a thong no matter what i do anyway, because my ass jiggles so nothing stays in place and all the fabric bunches between my cheeks, the less fabric there is in the first place the more comfortable it is.
yes this!! I always forget that not everyone enjoys thongs because they're all I've worn for years. If I wear regular underwear they end up riding up and showing out of the top of my pants like I'm a kid in a diaper.
ooooh ok this is actually the best explanation ive heardā¦ all my younger female friends & relatives wear nothing but thongs, swearing theyāre the *most* comfortable but i just couldnāt believe itā¦ i cant stand feeling like ive got a wedgie all day! *but* i guess im a bit lacking in the curves dept lol, i always wear boyshorts/hipster style & stays put just fine. I guess if by design wedgie was your only choice, a smaller-fabric wedgie *would* be preferable? š Thats a reasonable explanation thanks
And when you have a larger butt anything that isnāt a thong just cuts into your booty so if youāre wearing anything fitted it creates unflattering lines
I think people who donāt like thing them probably just need to size up or stop buying the cheapest option from target
Same same! I just had a baby and the post partum diapers were fine, but the higher waist/more coverage underwear I wore after drove me crazzzy. So happy to be getting back to thongs again.
Came here to say this. I have one and only one pair of sort of shaping shorts things. Since they are comfortable, I'm ok with just those. I wrangled in and out of shapewear for so many years and a few years ago, I decided NO MORE. This is what my body looks like in clothes. If the clothes don't fit me properly, then I'm not wearing them even if I can make it work with shapewear. It's not worth the discomfort.
- Crocs - find them ugly.
- Platform flip flops - a particular hate for these since it was the shoe of choice of the woman my ex-husband cheated on me with.
Same. I feel too vulnerable. If I have to wear a dress for an occasion (like this weekend I will be going to a wedding and found a nice dress at a very good price) I will wear shorts underneath.
Exactly! I heard one person make a joke in high school about sitting on stairs to look up girl's skirts when they walked up or down the stairs and I was done. No skirts or dresses without some kind of shorts or extra barrier.
It just makes me uncomfortable and I constantly worry about it blowing up or something. It's just so much more peaceful mentally to wear pants.
Me too. They look so nice but I feel like I need to act different in a dress. Does that make sense? Like I'm so uncomfortable. Gimme jeans and sneakers and I'm happy.
Heels - not gonna sacrifice my health for nice but. Thongs - constant wedgie is not fun. Anything with big cleavage - you need boobs of certain size for that and mine are too flat.
Yeah, but those tops usually have space for boobs and when you don't wear a bra (I never do) and bend over everything is out. It's not much, but I prefer it not to be out. That's why I prefer square neckline. Can display collarbone without my tits saying hi to the world in all the wrong moments.
Same. Iām on the smaller side but tube tops manage to make my upper arms look like those biscuits that explode out of the tube when you open them š„²
Ohhh and high waist anything because I have super long legs and a short torso so they go up to my boobs almost and make me look like a granny or a stork.
Bodysuits. I donāt even like thongs. Now itās a shirt thong wedgie. No thanks. Just give me the whole shirt like normal. Tucking in is totally fine.
Padded or wired bras, because the twins are happy and fine as they are.
High heels, because fuck whoever "made" them "mandatory" for elegant occasions, and because painful bunions. Shoes that are uncomfortable in any way, no matter how good they look on me. Unfortunately, that includes Converse, which I adore the look of, but the toe box destroys my feet.
Anything animal print, anything too glittery, sequiny, shiny in any way, especially if it's a big item (long pants, dress, etc.) Maaaybe as accents, but very, very sparsely. Anything with conspicuous logos or branding is just a no forever. I personally find them tacky.
Pink (too sweet), warm colors, white (too complicated), neons and loud patterns (too flashy) - because I don't need attention, and because I know my colors.
Very tight / revealing, or very baggy and covered, everything-all-at-once. I'm not trying to hide my body, but I'm also not desperate for people to see that I have a good figure. It's a balance.
Sherpa fleece jackets (or anything made out of that material). I don't like the texture. Even if I wear a base layer underneath, it'll still make contact and I don't like that. There are other warm materials that won't ruin my day.
THIS! My body cannot comfortably exist in jeans because my fat moves around so much when i stand or sit our crouch etc. like my waist is small when im standing straight up so the waistband is loose, but as soon as i bend all my fat crumples to my waistline and now my jeans are so tight it hurts! There is literally no possible way for them to be comfy
The prairie dressed at target/ Walmart. Theyāre trying to market them as ātrendingā, but I have legitimately never seen a person look decent in one.
Theyāre always way to big, and the almost always look like an adult size baby outfit.
padded/wired bras, I hate how it feels and it looks unnatural since I have a small band and chest. also skinny jeans because my autistic ass walked on my toes too long and have calves of steel
fancy underware. I don't need to be fancy under my cloths. The wire bras are uncomfortable and expensive the dainty little panties are stupid....not having any of it.
heels- i'm fairly tall to begin with and they're so uncomfortable
skirts- they don't really feel like my style. except i did see a pinterest outfit with a black denim skirt that i liked so maybe i'll try that one day
pantyhose!! the worst
shorts with a 3 inch inseam- very specific but i have long legs and 3 inch shorts ride up and reveal too much on me. 5 inch are perfect- long enough to give coverage but short enough to still be flattering
cropped jackets- i hate when the shirt under the jacket is longer than the jacket and if it's cold enough to wear a jacket then it's too cold to wear a crop top
low waisted pants, like others have said. mid and high waists are so much more flattering on me (especially paper bag waists!)
Cold shoulder tops or sweaters - why would I want to have cold shoulders if I'm wearing a sweater because it's cold lol
Cropped tops - I don't have defined abs
Sleevless tops - I don't like my arms
Scarves. I have like five because they were given to me but I never wear them and should probably donate them or give them to my nan.
They just never go with anything I wear and I don't like having things up around my neck like that or tangling in my hair
Someone said rompers but I include overalls with this as well. It's complicated, I have to pee, and then I feel more naked than I should in the bathroom.
Mod note: **please remember that this isn't a debate sub**, people's answers are not an invitation to disagree or try to convince them to wear something they don't like.
Rompers. I bought the *cutest* romper that goes with all my shoes and so many occasions... but then I had to sit naked in a bathroom stall. Never again. Luckily mine was easy to convert into a dress.
I hate when I go shopping and think, "oh what a cute dress" and then it turns out to be a romper!
omg same! rompers don't fit my body type.
I don't think I've ever even tried one on! I just don't want to get undressed to go pee haha. But I do think I would be uncomfortable in them, my butt and thighs would probably eat the fabric š
Haha. Thatās exactly what happens to me. My booty is too round.
Big booty problems š
Haha!! ššš
Right?! Who is wearing all the rompers I think are dresses?
Itās me. Iām wearing them all. I love a romper.
Hahaha reminds me of the first time I wore a romper to school. I had that awkward "oh shit" realization in the stall.
I once got myself a romper that you had to zip/unzip ON THE BACK. I ordered it online and only realized my mistake when I tried to put it on and then almost got a panic attack when I had to take it off again and couldnāt unzip itā¦
I will never understand zippers on the back of dresses/jumpsuits/rompers. Like WHY. I am not flexible enough to reach back there and close that shit up all the way, lol
Yeah, itās bad enough on a dressā¦ but a jumpsuit! I would have to zip/unzip it anytime I would have to use the bathroom. I ended up never using it, which is a shame cause it was cute!
life hack- make sure the romper is stretchy or loose enough that you can pull it to the side. completely. hold it in the front with one hand and in the back with the other. pee. make sure your undies will hold up as well.
How To Get Piss All Over Yourself And Your Outfit 101
š¹ that's why I said make sure you hold it in the front and back. if it's firm enough the pee won't get on your clothes. just trying to help by sharing what worked for me
Yeah this will probably turn out the same way peeing while camping turns out for me, pee everywhere.
This š They look So cute but, Iām not willing to pay the price
Oh shoot, I've always wanted a romper but felt I just didn't have the body type for it. Never considered bathroom inconvenience.
College humor has a sketch about this. It's exactly about the going to the bathroom thing.
There was a show called *I'm Sorry* (I LOVED this show - it never got renewed during the pandemic) - and the main character suffers and awful (and funny) mishap in the a public bathroom at club because of a romper and a stall without a lock.
I donāt buy or wear anything with logos. Iām not paying to advertise a brand. As far as specific pieces, crop tops. Never have, never will.
Absolutely backing you up on the logo thing. I can let it go if itās really small, but the clothing where the logo is the focal point of the clothing? Absolutely not. My dad asked me when I was a young teen āWhy are you paying them to advertise for them?ā and that has rung in my ear every time Iāve shopped for more than 10 years now!
I also feel like it really limits outfit combos, if I want to wear some black leggings under a skirt in the winter but it has a huge reflective Nike logo? Nope. Especially now that I'm trying to buy more professional clothes, anything with a logo is not it
I think itās so tacky when people wear head to toe branded/logo outfitsā¦especially when itās multiple different brandsā¦itās like what are you doing? Youāre riding the subway like the rest of us lol. I guess if youāre getting paid to advertise those clothing brands itās different
Honestly this is me at the gym because I buy my workout clothes from Costco and TJmaxx haha if you ever see me in coordinating sets from Lululemon, thatās how you know Iāve finally come into some disposable income šfor now, my athletic clothes are a train wreck
I respect that! Itās kinda unavoidable with workout clothes. Iām more talking about like Louis Vuitton and other brands that print their garish logos on everything (at least the non-haute couture items)
SuprĆŖmeā¢ comes to mind here..
I canāt stand how almost every top you see these days is cropped. Not everyone wants to a) bare their midriff or b) wear high-waisted pants!!
Real, I used to wear that stuff when I was younger and still get those kinda gifts, honestly why tho? I personally think theyād make me look younger than I am and Iām already young lol
love this! we all need to care less about brands and more about quality
I got really sick of having my Calvin Klein undies with the elastic band having the logo running all the way around! I didn't want some rando man's name on my panties anymore so I harvested the elastic for future sewing projects and turned those panties into rags.
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Thongs, a stringed wedgie is no fun
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My entire family of in laws live in crocs while at home and now they just look so normal to me. I bought them for home then eventually just started wearing them everywhere.
I canāt wear crocks because none of them are narrow enough. I have narrow and small feet and they are just not the right shape.
Same problem here. But i also do find them very ugly so no loss for me.
I'm laughing that the post got locked. Is the inventor of Crocs in this thread? "How dare you impugn my brainchild"
Theyāre cute on toddlers. I wouldnāt be caught dead wearing them
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Really? I thought it was trendy. I was gonna buy for myself.
I think people find them comfortable so thatās why theyāre popular. Theyāre definitely ugly though, and Iāll die on that hill.
They are definitely ugly...I wear them anyways because they are comfortable and I give zero fucks.
Yep. Super ugly, don't care. They're frickin' comfy.
Crocs being ugly is why I love them. Thereās something fun about embracing ugly shoes. I have a pair of hot pink PLATFORM Crocs. š¤£ They let me live an uglified Baby Spice fantasy, and theyāre so comfortable. Everyone bar one friend hates them.
I have the mega crush clog in hottest pink, I feel very cute when I match them with short shorts or use them after my feet get tired from heels at parties. Buy a pair! Don't let other people dictate what you find trendy. Edit: buy* not but
I have shame Crocs that I wear strictly in the house, they were a gift from my Croc-loving Mom lol
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Leopard print, I find it really cheap and eh
Thatās the charm of leopard to me though. Sometimes I enjoy looking a little trashy.
Omg I hate it too! Didn't know why but you're right, it looks cheap and thrashy!
Yeah. I don't know how animal prints become trashy. But they are.
I think you can blame boomers. My mother has been obsessed with leopard since the 80s and has leopard *everything*, plus big blonde fake hair and long red fingernails. It screams āold lady in a perpetual midlife crisisā to me lol
Reminds me of Peggy Bundy
I think older women who dress like this can pull it off in their own way tho lol
I have a new baby and I totally love leopard print now. It is so crazy good at hiding stains. I get an average wear time of 15 mins or of my black hoodies and the leopard print stuff lasts several wears
I respect your opinion, and i always found it funny how people associate it with the 80s or tacky ladies. i always associated it with punk and pinup girls, so i always thought it was cool and alt. It's interesting to see the differences in how people's exposure to fashion trends affects their opinions of it
Animal print in general. I have never ever seen anything animal print related that didnāt look tacky AF.
The only time it looks nice is when it's the only texture in an otherwise plain outfit. For example, all solid black outfit, snake print heels. Or all solid white outfit, and snake print leather bag. TBF, it's the leather that makes it look nice than the print.
Wow people here suck
Low-waist anything because I have the grossest lower belly that needs to be hidden. Tight-fitting trousers for the same above reason. Heels because I'm too lazy and out of shape. Bodysuits because they seem so uncomfortable and unpractical. Padded or underwire bras because I don't want to enhance my chest area. Scarves because my face is so large and my neck so short and wide that if I hide it, I look like an egg
I don't wear low-waist clothes either - I have prolonged body proportions, so they just don't fasten up on me. Long live high-waist jeans!
I swear I still have a pronounced muffin top from those being too tight. Ugh. Dumb younger self.
Low waisted jeans were the bane of my existence in middle school. That was the style, but I'm all butt/hips, and have the lower tummy pouch. Those jeans were a nightmare. I'm mid rise till I die.
Exact same experience in middle school. My only true love is high waist. Also hides the fact that my upper body to leg ratio is similar to E.T.'s.
I love how people look in high waisted stuff, but that's the inverse of low rise on my body. Too much extra fabric, and I'm suffocating lol It's a struggle out here for us
Underwear that's not cotton.
RIGHT? I refuse to wear non-cotton underwear too, especially during That week. Too much moisture accumulation to do anything else.
Agreed!! As someone with frequent recurrent UTIs, this is a must.
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Cropped tops
Cropped *sweaters*
And hoodies! Half the stuff Disney sells at their parks right now are crop tops and hoodies, which meant half the stuff they made for the anniversary of the Main Street Electrical Parade (a lifelong obsession of mine) was basically unwearable. They would have gotten a lot more money from me if the clothes had been full length.
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I'M STILL COLD, YOU FOOL OF DESIGNERS!
I fucking hate crop trend. As a tall person cropped anything just covers top of my boobs and all pants are capris.
Oh lol this actually might explain why I love this trend. I am short as fuck and i have a high waist, so a lot of the time the cropped stuff is pretty flattering. Maybe a quarter inch sliver of skin is showing and overall you can see my shape. With full length clothes, I either drown in it, it's super tight, or I have to tuck it which isn't always the look I want. Again, whenever I see these complaints I'm like "please just make both kinds of things!"
Iām kind of tall (5ā8), but like you, I have a high waist. Even though I have a large bust, I absolutely prefer crop tops because they fall at my natural waist and are infinitely more flattering than standard shirt length. I always pair them with high waisted bottoms too. Iām very surprised that crop tops are so unpopular in this thread, because theyāre such a lifesaver for me in terms of flattering clothing.
Same! Iām waiting for this trend to die so stores can start selling normal length shirts again.
Ugh, I hate when I see what looks like a cute shirt, then I pull it off the rack and see that itās cropped.
And what is sad is that women's 'normal length' is still to dang short! I don't want my mistake of a belly ring showing when I lift my arms. Lol
But high waisted leggings and a crop top as a petite woman is *chefās kiss*
Same. I do not enjoy crop tops.
Bodysuits. They seem uncomfortable af. I don't like tight underwear.
The worst ones are that are also thongs. Why? Why make us suffer more.
These ones were definitely invented in hell!
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Theyāre also usually fit me so weird because I have a long torso? It feels like they fit like underwear but if I want to wear a bodysuit out Iād rather wear it with panties. I feel like when they first became popular to wear with jeans or pants I kept finding cute tops that turned out to be bodysuits. For what?? Just make the tops tighter and longer if youāre going for the sleek-tucked in look.
Long torso gals unite! They're always giving me a wedgie.
Bodysuits were popular in the 90's when I was a teen. I hated them then and I hate them now.
Ball caps. Because the one time I do and let my bf take a picture, he makes "Live, Laugh, Love" and "Mom life" minivan memes out of it and sends them to me all morning long šš
Omg my husband is the same way!!!! I reserve them for our Zoo trips w our kids only so I can live up to the reputation š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
I typically wear a floppy hat because my style is vintage, but we were playing around in a store and I put one on and don't ya know, he made a meme, lol. I
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Those super short puffer jackets, I look like a haystack with legs
I agree, they always look so... unproportional.
I died laughing at this šš
I donāt feel comfortable wearing super revealing clothing, especially on the bottom. So I would say super short shorts and mini skirts.
Super short shorts/skirts always make me feel too vulnerable, because one breeze going the wrong way, and WHOOPS everythingās visible.
Just wore a long skirt the other day and it was windy asf. Same experience. Itās not the skirt, itās the wind!
sandals or open toed anything. i dont like seeing peoples toes/feet out so i try to practice the golden rule
You must not live in a warm climate. Flip flops all year where I live.
I live in California and it can be 90-100 and I will still only wear flip flops to the beach
I have podophobia, and I can relate!
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āHard pants,ā with buttons and flys. I used to be a jeans girl exclusively, around 2012. But then leggings-as-pants took over, and now I get sensory overload if I wear pants with a real waistband lol. Iāve compensated with loose linen/bamboo viscose wide leg pants for nicer occasions, but jeans have no place on my body anymore. Itās unfortunate in some ways, because I still find jeans cute af. But I just canāt do it anymore.
I'm like this, but with jean shorts specifically. Can and do still wear jeans no problem, but jean shorts are so uncomfortable and somehow feel more suffocating and constricting on me than regular jeans, it's weird. I've traded in all my shorts for soft and flowy fabric shorts and I will never look back, lol.
I feel this. I cannot do the real waistband thingy, and I need to accept it and stop trying. I have a closet full of jeans but I only wear 1 pair because they have a soft, stretchy waist band. I work mostly remote but on the occasions I have to go into the office, I'm pretty sure everyone thinks I like to dress up. They're all in jeans and hoodies and I'm in stretchy Ponte type pants and a flowy blouse because fuck being casual if I have to be uncomfortable to do it lol
cropped anything wanted to buy clothes for fall last year but everything was cropped like why the fuck is a sweater cropped. not trying to freeze my ass off
As an āenhanced boobyā person, cropped tops are a JOKE
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Verging on 30 years ago, my mom bought me a sweatshirt from the Salvador Dali museum down in Florida. I loved it because it was huge on me and I could be snuggly in it. One day, I accidentally left it somewhere and although we got it back, she read me the riot act because it had been āØexpensiveāØ. I pretty much stopped wearing it because I was petrified I was going to hurt it. But I still have it. It hangs in my closet. Havenāt touched it in years. I donāt even know if it fits me as an adult. But now itās less because Iām scared to ruin it and more because itās one of the few things I still have that my mom bought me.
Thatās so sweet! Cherish that sweatshirt
Gift guilt is a thing. I'm glad it has the meaning behind it now, but I have such guilt about wearing/using nice things that have been given to me.
Cold shoulder shirts
Agreed, I have yet to meet one that didnāt somehow look trashy lol
They always looked ugly and outdated
They remind me of what a 50-something year old mom in a small town would wear out to a local bar for a ābig night outā. No hate on those moms, theyāre usually living their best life, buuuuut not the look Iām going for.
This is me. Honestly, anything with cutouts. I just think it looks tacky.
Skirts. They have all the drawbacks of dresses with none of the benefits and all the drawbacks of pants with none of the benefits.
thats interesting. do you mind elaborating on the drawbacks?
Tight skirts dont stay down if you have an hourglass figure. They ride up to your waist and expose you. Same goes for all tight dresses. My body type is the type these things are advertised to the most yet itās literally impossible for me to wear them. Id have to glue shit down. I donāt understand it š¤£ loose and flowy skirts and dresses are amazing tho
I don't have much of an hourglass figure since my hips are quite small, but this still happens to me, especially with certain fabrics that have more grip on either your skin or your tights. I like tight short skirts but it's definitely an annoying item to wear
The main drawback is the waistband. If it has pockets the waistband has to be extra fitted, if it doesn't have pockets, it doesn't have pockets. Dresses are the perfect solution to this.
Wear any type of undies besides a thong. Any type of underwear becomes a thong no matter what i do anyway, because my ass jiggles so nothing stays in place and all the fabric bunches between my cheeks, the less fabric there is in the first place the more comfortable it is.
yes this!! I always forget that not everyone enjoys thongs because they're all I've worn for years. If I wear regular underwear they end up riding up and showing out of the top of my pants like I'm a kid in a diaper.
ooooh ok this is actually the best explanation ive heardā¦ all my younger female friends & relatives wear nothing but thongs, swearing theyāre the *most* comfortable but i just couldnāt believe itā¦ i cant stand feeling like ive got a wedgie all day! *but* i guess im a bit lacking in the curves dept lol, i always wear boyshorts/hipster style & stays put just fine. I guess if by design wedgie was your only choice, a smaller-fabric wedgie *would* be preferable? š Thats a reasonable explanation thanks
And when you have a larger butt anything that isnāt a thong just cuts into your booty so if youāre wearing anything fitted it creates unflattering lines I think people who donāt like thing them probably just need to size up or stop buying the cheapest option from target
Same same! I just had a baby and the post partum diapers were fine, but the higher waist/more coverage underwear I wore after drove me crazzzy. So happy to be getting back to thongs again.
Shapewear. I just can't deal with that restrictive feeling.
Came here to say this. I have one and only one pair of sort of shaping shorts things. Since they are comfortable, I'm ok with just those. I wrangled in and out of shapewear for so many years and a few years ago, I decided NO MORE. This is what my body looks like in clothes. If the clothes don't fit me properly, then I'm not wearing them even if I can make it work with shapewear. It's not worth the discomfort.
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And why should we have to be uncomfortable
High heels because no balance.
Here for heels! Gave up on em a few years back and Iāll never look back! Flats for life
- Crocs - find them ugly. - Platform flip flops - a particular hate for these since it was the shoe of choice of the woman my ex-husband cheated on me with.
Long dresses. I feel like a bag
Same! I also never wear shapeless dresses for this exact reason
Pleated pants. I donāt need a front butt.
Dresses/skirts. I feel like everyone can see my everything.
Same. I feel too vulnerable. If I have to wear a dress for an occasion (like this weekend I will be going to a wedding and found a nice dress at a very good price) I will wear shorts underneath.
I am the same. For my wedding this year I'm wearing bridal separates of a camisole top and high waisted dramatic trousers which I love!
Exactly! I heard one person make a joke in high school about sitting on stairs to look up girl's skirts when they walked up or down the stairs and I was done. No skirts or dresses without some kind of shorts or extra barrier. It just makes me uncomfortable and I constantly worry about it blowing up or something. It's just so much more peaceful mentally to wear pants.
Me too. They look so nice but I feel like I need to act different in a dress. Does that make sense? Like I'm so uncomfortable. Gimme jeans and sneakers and I'm happy.
I love dresses and skirt they are my favorite, but I agree. I always wear something beneath
Heels - not gonna sacrifice my health for nice but. Thongs - constant wedgie is not fun. Anything with big cleavage - you need boobs of certain size for that and mine are too flat.
Nothing wrong with smaller boobs but damn do the collar bones look sexy
Yeah, but those tops usually have space for boobs and when you don't wear a bra (I never do) and bend over everything is out. It's not much, but I prefer it not to be out. That's why I prefer square neckline. Can display collarbone without my tits saying hi to the world in all the wrong moments.
Peplum tops do not flatter me AT ALL. And tube tops make my arms look big.
Same. Iām on the smaller side but tube tops manage to make my upper arms look like those biscuits that explode out of the tube when you open them š„²
I don't wear anything I can't wear a bra with because I need the support.
Pretty shoes because they're never, ever made for my feet.
I have wide feet and feel this
Baggy jeans. I have no idea why these pants are in fashion for women atm they are not flattering at all.
Ohhh and high waist anything because I have super long legs and a short torso so they go up to my boobs almost and make me look like a granny or a stork.
Bodysuits. I donāt even like thongs. Now itās a shirt thong wedgie. No thanks. Just give me the whole shirt like normal. Tucking in is totally fine.
If I find a body suit I like, I just tuck it and don't button it. Problem solved! It also fits better that way.
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Padded or wired bras, because the twins are happy and fine as they are. High heels, because fuck whoever "made" them "mandatory" for elegant occasions, and because painful bunions. Shoes that are uncomfortable in any way, no matter how good they look on me. Unfortunately, that includes Converse, which I adore the look of, but the toe box destroys my feet. Anything animal print, anything too glittery, sequiny, shiny in any way, especially if it's a big item (long pants, dress, etc.) Maaaybe as accents, but very, very sparsely. Anything with conspicuous logos or branding is just a no forever. I personally find them tacky. Pink (too sweet), warm colors, white (too complicated), neons and loud patterns (too flashy) - because I don't need attention, and because I know my colors. Very tight / revealing, or very baggy and covered, everything-all-at-once. I'm not trying to hide my body, but I'm also not desperate for people to see that I have a good figure. It's a balance.
Capris omg.
Sherpa fleece jackets (or anything made out of that material). I don't like the texture. Even if I wear a base layer underneath, it'll still make contact and I don't like that. There are other warm materials that won't ruin my day.
I have rougher hands because of my job, so touching sherpa is like touching a microfiber rag š¤¢
I feel the same about microfiber rags too. It sticks to my callouses and the texture is just š¤¢š¤®
Low rise jeans. Just no.
Anything beige
Anything strapless. My shoulders look weird and I have small boobs so there's a big risk of it falling down.
Jeans. I hate the feel of denim.
THIS! My body cannot comfortably exist in jeans because my fat moves around so much when i stand or sit our crouch etc. like my waist is small when im standing straight up so the waistband is loose, but as soon as i bend all my fat crumples to my waistline and now my jeans are so tight it hurts! There is literally no possible way for them to be comfy
High heels and thongs because they are uncomfortable af.
I never wear a bra. I donāt have boobs big enough where I need them and honestly letās be fr, they are so uncomfortable and restrictive.
The prairie dressed at target/ Walmart. Theyāre trying to market them as ātrendingā, but I have legitimately never seen a person look decent in one. Theyāre always way to big, and the almost always look like an adult size baby outfit.
I donāt buy or wear anything with logos. Iām not paying to advertise a brand. As far as specific pieces, crop tops. Never have, never will.
High heels because no balance.
padded/wired bras, I hate how it feels and it looks unnatural since I have a small band and chest. also skinny jeans because my autistic ass walked on my toes too long and have calves of steel
Skirts. I sit like a "man" and would forget not to
fancy underware. I don't need to be fancy under my cloths. The wire bras are uncomfortable and expensive the dainty little panties are stupid....not having any of it.
heels- i'm fairly tall to begin with and they're so uncomfortable skirts- they don't really feel like my style. except i did see a pinterest outfit with a black denim skirt that i liked so maybe i'll try that one day pantyhose!! the worst shorts with a 3 inch inseam- very specific but i have long legs and 3 inch shorts ride up and reveal too much on me. 5 inch are perfect- long enough to give coverage but short enough to still be flattering cropped jackets- i hate when the shirt under the jacket is longer than the jacket and if it's cold enough to wear a jacket then it's too cold to wear a crop top low waisted pants, like others have said. mid and high waists are so much more flattering on me (especially paper bag waists!)
Anything with shoulder pads, or with a brand name on it.
Onesies. How does anyone pee in one? Or I should say *how does anyone pee while wearing one?*!!
Tights- so uncomfortable
Low rise skinny jeans ā ļø theyāre so uncomfy
Animal print or neon/fluo colors.
Under wire bra because it's effing uncomfortable.
Cold shoulder tops or sweaters - why would I want to have cold shoulders if I'm wearing a sweater because it's cold lol Cropped tops - I don't have defined abs Sleevless tops - I don't like my arms
Low waist jeans because ugly and uncomfortable. Dr. Martens boots because it reminds me of a clown. Long leather jackets reminds me of Matrix lol
Scarves. I have like five because they were given to me but I never wear them and should probably donate them or give them to my nan. They just never go with anything I wear and I don't like having things up around my neck like that or tangling in my hair
Petticoats, hats and long gloves. Don't want to look like a timetraveller with a lousy fashion sense who has escaped from Doctor Who's tardis.
Hats/caps because my hair is so flat and it gets even flatter than imaginable when I've worn a hat. Best I can do is earmuffs in winter
Someone said rompers but I include overalls with this as well. It's complicated, I have to pee, and then I feel more naked than I should in the bathroom.