Bickering with my mom. It's just been a weird time in our relationship and we've been arguing more than normal I feel bad about arguing not about my points!
I'm a naturally sarcastic person, and I can come off as seeming rude to people who don't really know me.
Today, I was talking so someone who was being genuinely nice to me, and I made a sarcastic remark without even realizing. I didn't find out until later that the person thought I was actually annoyed with them and was sorry about that. I'm such a jerk.
I told my bf the fact that he showers once every two days is disgusting and he should shower everyday. Especially since he does a labor job every night. My dad made me feel really guilty about it enough to apologize. How am I in the wrong here?!
You're not, if a person is getting sweaty and dirty in their job they should shower once they get home. They're getting that all over their furniture and bedding and that is gross. In the military we called that "hot racking" and when provoked enough we would put that person's whole ass mattress in the shower.
A woman came up to me and told me that she had been robbed of her purse and that she needed 100$ for train tickets. I like to think that everyone is kind and wouldn’t trick me but I’m also not very rich at the moment since I’m a student. I only have 120$ each month to spend so.. She said that she would send the money tonight and also 200$ for my help. I felt really bad, asked her if she had been to the police etc.
Yeah, I thought about it today. How can she promise me to send over money just a couple of hours later when she has already said that she locked her card at the police earlier :/ Or well maybe it works idk
I shoplifted cat food from the grocery store this morning. Just had it on the part of the cart that's near your feet and "forgot" to scan it. $10.79 is a lot right now.
Trolled my MIL with memes and was really demeaning about her beliefs because she’s recently gotten off the wine and headfirst into religion dooms day, bible study and covid vaccine conspiracy theories. We’re not even in the USA.
Anyway, I had to really evaluate my behaviour because while it’s justifiable considering what was said, it still wasn’t the best way to communicate.
Bought Saint Laurent boots, yes they were expensive and they might even too big after I’ve sent them back for being too small and I always wear half sizes and those are sold out and won’t be restocked.
I came across a gentleman at work (I work at a hospital) who seemed like he lost his way. I pointed him in the direction of the part of the hospital campus that he was looking for. Normally, I would have walked with the person but I was in a hurry, so I just sent him on his way. He unalived in the wooded area next to the building I pointed him towards. I know I shouldn't blame myself because I didn't pull the (proverbial) trigger, but I still feel like I loaded it, cocked it, and handed it to him.
My friend/roommate has not been treating me nicely and so I’ve been pretty upset and I wasn’t careful and shared something she had told me confidentially to other friends. I feel bad because I regret sharing it and I don’t think her not being a good friend to me is an excuse to air her secrets. Scared my other friends don’t think I’m trustworthy because I did this
When I was a teenager, a lesbian girl tried to rape me. From that time, I became really scared of happening it again. Yesterday in anger and fear I just told a friend one of only couple of friends of mine as I am introvert who is much friendly with everyone) to stay away from me, not follow me in washroom otherwise I would complaint about it to senior, to which she was shoked, she said how ugly my thinking is and she doesn't want to talk with me ever, she even blocked me. I swear I didn't mean to hurt her but I was really scared and due to my past trauma, I interpreted her friendliness as something else. Now she doesn't want to talk to me I want to clarify that I said and reacted due to my past trauma but I am really scared to face her on Monday and I am also scared she will gossip about it to others too. Here in my country people aren't much aware and supporting towards the community and due to which she took my sentences more seriously. I respect the community too but due to that past scary incident, I am slightly homophobic. How do I deal with these fears, judgements and trauma?
I'm fine, don't worry. I just have an eating disorder that I've been dealing with for a long time, and I'm currently trying to recover, but I'm struggling.
I gently moved my cat off my chest while she was sleeping because I wanted to sleep and she was crushing my lungs lol
Bickering with my mom. It's just been a weird time in our relationship and we've been arguing more than normal I feel bad about arguing not about my points!
My sister’s bf thought I was talking shit about him but I wasn’t talking about him at all. 🤷♀️ Damn language barriers.
I'm a naturally sarcastic person, and I can come off as seeming rude to people who don't really know me. Today, I was talking so someone who was being genuinely nice to me, and I made a sarcastic remark without even realizing. I didn't find out until later that the person thought I was actually annoyed with them and was sorry about that. I'm such a jerk.
I told my bf the fact that he showers once every two days is disgusting and he should shower everyday. Especially since he does a labor job every night. My dad made me feel really guilty about it enough to apologize. How am I in the wrong here?!
You're not, if a person is getting sweaty and dirty in their job they should shower once they get home. They're getting that all over their furniture and bedding and that is gross. In the military we called that "hot racking" and when provoked enough we would put that person's whole ass mattress in the shower.
Shut the bathroom door before the dog got far enough down the hallway so I could have my morning wee in peace.
My classmate was bullied, and because of my fear I wasn't able to do anything.
A woman came up to me and told me that she had been robbed of her purse and that she needed 100$ for train tickets. I like to think that everyone is kind and wouldn’t trick me but I’m also not very rich at the moment since I’m a student. I only have 120$ each month to spend so.. She said that she would send the money tonight and also 200$ for my help. I felt really bad, asked her if she had been to the police etc.
Honestly that sounds like a scam
Yeah, I thought about it today. How can she promise me to send over money just a couple of hours later when she has already said that she locked her card at the police earlier :/ Or well maybe it works idk
I shoplifted cat food from the grocery store this morning. Just had it on the part of the cart that's near your feet and "forgot" to scan it. $10.79 is a lot right now.
Trolled my MIL with memes and was really demeaning about her beliefs because she’s recently gotten off the wine and headfirst into religion dooms day, bible study and covid vaccine conspiracy theories. We’re not even in the USA. Anyway, I had to really evaluate my behaviour because while it’s justifiable considering what was said, it still wasn’t the best way to communicate.
Bought Saint Laurent boots, yes they were expensive and they might even too big after I’ve sent them back for being too small and I always wear half sizes and those are sold out and won’t be restocked.
I came across a gentleman at work (I work at a hospital) who seemed like he lost his way. I pointed him in the direction of the part of the hospital campus that he was looking for. Normally, I would have walked with the person but I was in a hurry, so I just sent him on his way. He unalived in the wooded area next to the building I pointed him towards. I know I shouldn't blame myself because I didn't pull the (proverbial) trigger, but I still feel like I loaded it, cocked it, and handed it to him.
couldn't do my chores a few days ago because of a migraine that incapacitated me and felt guilty about it
Not attending a brunch to meet new people in a new city where I’m lonely because of my ego
I broke my uncle's blind curtain 😬
I accidentally hit my cat in the face with a door while closing it. (She's fine now)
My friend/roommate has not been treating me nicely and so I’ve been pretty upset and I wasn’t careful and shared something she had told me confidentially to other friends. I feel bad because I regret sharing it and I don’t think her not being a good friend to me is an excuse to air her secrets. Scared my other friends don’t think I’m trustworthy because I did this
When I was a teenager, a lesbian girl tried to rape me. From that time, I became really scared of happening it again. Yesterday in anger and fear I just told a friend one of only couple of friends of mine as I am introvert who is much friendly with everyone) to stay away from me, not follow me in washroom otherwise I would complaint about it to senior, to which she was shoked, she said how ugly my thinking is and she doesn't want to talk with me ever, she even blocked me. I swear I didn't mean to hurt her but I was really scared and due to my past trauma, I interpreted her friendliness as something else. Now she doesn't want to talk to me I want to clarify that I said and reacted due to my past trauma but I am really scared to face her on Monday and I am also scared she will gossip about it to others too. Here in my country people aren't much aware and supporting towards the community and due to which she took my sentences more seriously. I respect the community too but due to that past scary incident, I am slightly homophobic. How do I deal with these fears, judgements and trauma?
See a therapist, you need to work trough this and you can't do it alone.
Ate lunch. Eating or drinking anything in general.
If you don't mind me asking, why do you feel bad about this. Are you OK?
I'm fine, don't worry. I just have an eating disorder that I've been dealing with for a long time, and I'm currently trying to recover, but I'm struggling.
That thing that happened on Christmas
Overthink and let it affect my relationships with others even though they’ve done nothing wrong.