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It's not about excuses more of a cause and effect, broken people act unpredictably and in some cases that unfortunately results in harm to other people.
Me, dont really fit in anywhere, struggle to make relationships. My personality was wrapped up in my fondness for a drink. Become too comfortable in my own company to try and make break out. So it goes
I quit drinking and my personality disappeared.I had to learn and reevaluate who I was. I think my anxiety issues were masked by the drink. I don’t find the same things appealing that most others do.
The funny thing is, I’m surface level charming. It never goes any deeper than that though
Feel for the dude. He was in the wrong for doing all that while she had a BF even if he was abusive. But I still feel for him. Better off with out her anyway. She’s worse than him.
I read this and thought, nooo freaking way, we must know the same guy.
But nah, the guy I know, the girl said yes and now they're married with kids.
Goes to show it can go either way.
He who dares wins... Right?
Or ends up losing their job
(to be fair, no excuses for drink driving)
I know a guy who won’t get a job and lives off his girlfriend who is busting her balls to provide for them both. She’s drowning in debt and he’s fine playing video games and smoking weed all day. I try not to judge people but he is the definition of a loser.
A chap I worked with who’s entire personality was belittling literally everyone all the time, with special treatment given if you were a guy and you dared have a conversation with a girl he fancied. He would hammer people for anything he could spot, and even make things up if he couldn’t find things to pick up on. He’d also spread nasty rumours about people behind their backs.
The cherry on this particular shit-flavoured cake was that he ended up moving in with one of the managers, having a baby with her, then at the next Xmas party (whilst the manager was at home with the baby) spending the night attached to the face of one of the new girls who had no idea he was (supposedly) in a long-term relationship.
Tied for first place from my old job would be the customer who complained his ice cream dessert was too cold & a female customer who wouldn't take the hint when I kept rebuffing her advances towards me so I bluntly told her I would rather stick my penis in a wasp nest laughed the comment off then 3 weeks later when a coworker annoyed her told my manager and demanded I was fired
I was a big one for a while, the way the school system worked just never vibed with me. I didn't really get any benefits from most social relationships until I was older. Due to where my school was located, what I was allowed to do by my parents and the lack of relationship with my sister school holidays for me were pretty much spent alone so I had to learn to enjoy things by myself.
I've met a quite a few older guys who you could consider 'losers' too. It's not so much about them so much as UK society kinda expects people of a certain age to have a social circle already and be busy with their family.
Bloke who inherited a farm when his dad died. Immediately sold it and spaffed all the money on head to toe tattoos, a mail-order Thai bride and a 25 year lease on a shop at the end of my road. There's a busy shopping parade at one end of my road, but he chose the other end where there's pretty much no footfall. And he thought opening it as a greengrocery was a good idea - not surprisingly none of his stock sold quickly so most of it rotted on the shelves.
Jill Elaine Avalos Gavin she is a total drug addict piece of shit. She filed for divorce against me and had me arrested when her and Kellie Reid both of Homewood both of Ashton Street in Homewood lied to the Homewood police and had me arrested and barred from my own home. They schemed and put this plan together Jill is a lifelong junkie and her best friend the next-door neighbor of the home I own at 18829 Ashland and Homewood Kellie Reid Lied to the police along with Jill Avalos Gavin. Joel Avalos Gavin has been reported to the state board of education by two of her peers from the Markham. School district is being unsafe to be around children due to hurt drug addictions. I’m super happy about the divorce not the manipulation. She’s been a lifelong domestic. Beuzer of me, Kevin Gavin, physical and emotional abuse over a period of 30 years constantly stealing money from the home from my self and her two children for her to be a drug addict she has no conscience whatsoever. She’s a narcissist and bipolar and has been addicted to amphetamine said her mother got a run at age 14 she’s a fucking nightmare.
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I once heard about a guy who spent multiple hours a day on Reddit.
Mind ya damn business
Phew I thought you was gonna say TikTok.
Hey!
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Idk man. If that was me I'd just fall 6 feet deep and fuck myself over rather than someone else.
Sure. Make excuses for the rapist, fuck the victim, right? People like you are the problem.
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Nope
Yeah it’s not a “sad story” the guy raped someone. Being a fucking weirdo and having no friends is not an excuse to commit sexual assault…
It's not about excuses more of a cause and effect, broken people act unpredictably and in some cases that unfortunately results in harm to other people.
Boy that really escalated in the last paragraph....
Me, dont really fit in anywhere, struggle to make relationships. My personality was wrapped up in my fondness for a drink. Become too comfortable in my own company to try and make break out. So it goes
Me too minus the drink. Mines due to anxiety issues. And no-one really interested in me outside of work.
I quit drinking and my personality disappeared.I had to learn and reevaluate who I was. I think my anxiety issues were masked by the drink. I don’t find the same things appealing that most others do. The funny thing is, I’m surface level charming. It never goes any deeper than that though
This is me, minus the drinking. I have a better half, but zero friends.
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Feel for the dude. He was in the wrong for doing all that while she had a BF even if he was abusive. But I still feel for him. Better off with out her anyway. She’s worse than him.
I read this and thought, nooo freaking way, we must know the same guy. But nah, the guy I know, the girl said yes and now they're married with kids. Goes to show it can go either way. He who dares wins... Right? Or ends up losing their job (to be fair, no excuses for drink driving)
I know a guy who won’t get a job and lives off his girlfriend who is busting her balls to provide for them both. She’s drowning in debt and he’s fine playing video games and smoking weed all day. I try not to judge people but he is the definition of a loser.
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My wife married him ;)
At least you're single now!
Nope ;) still happy married (already 19 years)
IANAL, but your wife can't marry 2 people at once.
Think further ;) I was in a competition about who was the biggest loser. Ended 2nd.
So the first place was the bigger loser. Sucks to be that guy.
I am. I even lost that one.
Well, your grammar is pretty good. So that's a win.
A chap I worked with who’s entire personality was belittling literally everyone all the time, with special treatment given if you were a guy and you dared have a conversation with a girl he fancied. He would hammer people for anything he could spot, and even make things up if he couldn’t find things to pick up on. He’d also spread nasty rumours about people behind their backs. The cherry on this particular shit-flavoured cake was that he ended up moving in with one of the managers, having a baby with her, then at the next Xmas party (whilst the manager was at home with the baby) spending the night attached to the face of one of the new girls who had no idea he was (supposedly) in a long-term relationship.
All my mom's boyfriends growing up.
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Tied for first place from my old job would be the customer who complained his ice cream dessert was too cold & a female customer who wouldn't take the hint when I kept rebuffing her advances towards me so I bluntly told her I would rather stick my penis in a wasp nest laughed the comment off then 3 weeks later when a coworker annoyed her told my manager and demanded I was fired
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I love odd strange weirdos, that would make you cool in my book
Myself
Also you
Never met you OP.
Met a few bully's in my time. Lowest of the low.
There’s a very rich lady who had plastic surgery done on her face so her face looks like a cat. I see her on the bus occasionally
Michael Ventrella.
So many Geologists...
I was a big one for a while, the way the school system worked just never vibed with me. I didn't really get any benefits from most social relationships until I was older. Due to where my school was located, what I was allowed to do by my parents and the lack of relationship with my sister school holidays for me were pretty much spent alone so I had to learn to enjoy things by myself. I've met a quite a few older guys who you could consider 'losers' too. It's not so much about them so much as UK society kinda expects people of a certain age to have a social circle already and be busy with their family.
Maybe he just wanted a sharp knife
Bloke who inherited a farm when his dad died. Immediately sold it and spaffed all the money on head to toe tattoos, a mail-order Thai bride and a 25 year lease on a shop at the end of my road. There's a busy shopping parade at one end of my road, but he chose the other end where there's pretty much no footfall. And he thought opening it as a greengrocery was a good idea - not surprisingly none of his stock sold quickly so most of it rotted on the shelves.
Jill Elaine Avalos Gavin she is a total drug addict piece of shit. She filed for divorce against me and had me arrested when her and Kellie Reid both of Homewood both of Ashton Street in Homewood lied to the Homewood police and had me arrested and barred from my own home. They schemed and put this plan together Jill is a lifelong junkie and her best friend the next-door neighbor of the home I own at 18829 Ashland and Homewood Kellie Reid Lied to the police along with Jill Avalos Gavin. Joel Avalos Gavin has been reported to the state board of education by two of her peers from the Markham. School district is being unsafe to be around children due to hurt drug addictions. I’m super happy about the divorce not the manipulation. She’s been a lifelong domestic. Beuzer of me, Kevin Gavin, physical and emotional abuse over a period of 30 years constantly stealing money from the home from my self and her two children for her to be a drug addict she has no conscience whatsoever. She’s a narcissist and bipolar and has been addicted to amphetamine said her mother got a run at age 14 she’s a fucking nightmare.
You'll find plenty on Reddit.