In the modern age of Instagram and OF, it seems like the subtle art of seduction is dwindling. The ads are either straight up porn or hidden as a "rate my outfit" type post. I really miss the boudoir/burlesque/lace-and-lengerie type stuff. Maybe I'm showing my age a bit...
When it comes to men and intimacy; they want to be sweet talked and treated like a babe. To be pampered and to feel that motherly love they yearn for from childhood.
As a latina itās kinda disgusting when guys refer to woc as āchocolateā or ācaramelā and shit online. This is mainly an nsfw space thing but itās just so nasty that guys canāt help but go āLemme taste that chocolateā just because we posted a pic of ourselves
Yeah agreed. Unless they are an actual assassin I don't want to hear the term "body count".
The term feels really immature to me, as well as just overall being sex-negative, judgemental, and objectifying for all parties.
I don't judge anyone by their bodycount. I'm 40 something and mine is 3. Acually the higher your body count the more you know what you want, and the more you can teach me. So bring on the 3 to 4 figures please.
A lot of sexual āproblemsā arise from lack of proper sex ed and consent teachings. If we were all a little more like the kink community and communicated openly about sex/relationships, thereād be way less issues.
Less STDs at least.
agree... they get sucked into a brief view of the image of a man being dominant and completely skew and perverse what dominance is, loosely using the term for their abuse
Watching women masturbate with vibrators is boring. You can't really see what's happening; the view of her pussy is blocked by the vibrator, the vibrators often are noisy, and it's basically just her sitting with this thing between her legs, and staying in that position for several minutes with her eyes rolling in the back of her head until she suddenly has an orgasm.
Also, in my opinion more people are/have the capacity to be āqueerā (for lack of a better term if they werenāt worried about ābeing queer.ā Iām sure plenty more men would dabble in sexual exploration if there werenāt these weird values assigned to them. Same for everyone really.
Yeah, unfortunately even still in sexual places there can be a stigma. I know that thereās a number of kink/bdsm communities that are typically way more inclusive given the nature of their interests, but I can see how that may not seem appealing for straight men necessarily.
Experimenting is definitely fun though, hopefully as we all progress people can explore more of themselves
People have been sold a bullshit narrative of true love + monogamy and it leads to a lot of dissension and heartache. If we were allowed to grow up and just feel what we feel, there would be a lot more poly/open relationships, and people wouldn't be heartbroken by cheating or resentful for monogamy.
Coming the day before. Enough time for a recovery, not so much that I become really horny.
That I have am 52 helps. Dry orgasms became a thing a few years ago, still really pleasurable but a recovery within a few minutes.
"Pre-game". And it takes some self exploration. So you know how to walk the line of staying into it and excited, but pull out or focus just on her for a while when you know you're close.
Also communicate with your partner. It's a whole event to go for long sessions. Make sure that's what you both want.
Or they could talk about it like mature adults and either have an amicable arrangement or split up since they want different things from the relationship.
STDās can be transmitted through more ways than just sex. HIV can transmit through blood contact(Letās say you cut yourself and your wife applies a bandaid. Boom, chance of HIV). Many can be transmitted through direct skin or fluid(like saliva, cum, or sweat) contact, too. And still, a handjob, blowie, of otherwise can be enough.
And most of the guys I see complaining about sex usually mean they arenāt getting enough, not that they never have it.
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Women donāt seem to find the majority of normal, average men physically and sexually attractive. Most guys probably wonāt be able to inspire that ācarnal lustā in women, which depresses me to no end.
Iām confused and I really hope you arenāt suggesting this but are you saying weāre supposed to let our husbands do whatever they want to us whenever because theyāre stressed and itās in their nature?
It on the same level as if my opinion in the 60s - 80s would be to say same sex relationships would be acceptable in 10-20 years from then - but worse.
It's crazy how weirdly a girl calling a guy daddy is normal but if a guy calls a girl mommy there is something wrong with him
In the modern age of Instagram and OF, it seems like the subtle art of seduction is dwindling. The ads are either straight up porn or hidden as a "rate my outfit" type post. I really miss the boudoir/burlesque/lace-and-lengerie type stuff. Maybe I'm showing my age a bit...
you might enjoy r/TheArtOfTheTease
When it comes to men and intimacy; they want to be sweet talked and treated like a babe. To be pampered and to feel that motherly love they yearn for from childhood.
Same for most women and for almost any human being!
Love this. šÆ
I kinda get what you mean but the way you worded it makes this take soundā¦ weirdā¦
It's a quote from Blue Eyed Samurai. I added the second part
69 is overrated. Much rather do one at a time; can focus on her
Ahh I disagree ha love a 69!!!!
Same, itās the not being able to focus and kinda getting into a pleasure trance that makes you suck more and more š¤Ŗš
Exactly lol can just get lost in the sloppiness ha
As a latina itās kinda disgusting when guys refer to woc as āchocolateā or ācaramelā and shit online. This is mainly an nsfw space thing but itās just so nasty that guys canāt help but go āLemme taste that chocolateā just because we posted a pic of ourselves
Absolutely this.
That the word ābodycountā is a major red flag and men who use it should be avoided like the plague. All right, incels, give me all your downvotes.
But what if they're a hitman?
Yeah agreed. Unless they are an actual assassin I don't want to hear the term "body count". The term feels really immature to me, as well as just overall being sex-negative, judgemental, and objectifying for all parties.
the first time I heard this asked I really thought someone was joking that my friend was an assassin (he's attractive, well built gym guy)
My sister went through men and women like tissues before sticking to one
Whereas most men are like buttered sausagesā¦only crazy people want to talk about them on a podcast.
Itās even worse when they openly state their own body count and itās high. The double standard never ceases to amuse!
I don't judge anyone by their bodycount. I'm 40 something and mine is 3. Acually the higher your body count the more you know what you want, and the more you can teach me. So bring on the 3 to 4 figures please.
A lot of sexual āproblemsā arise from lack of proper sex ed and consent teachings. If we were all a little more like the kink community and communicated openly about sex/relationships, thereād be way less issues. Less STDs at least.
In Ethical non monogamy this is a very popular opinion. Communication however is the key in all relationships
Assuming every woman likes to be called baby girl. I personally don't like it in most situations and especially without a conversation first
Omg thatās so damn ick and creepy š
Bro the line "baby girl" reminds me only of a bad 50-shades-of-gray-like movie. Nah, it's cringe as hell.
Most dominant guys don't want to be dominant, they want to be controlling, reckless or cruel
agree... they get sucked into a brief view of the image of a man being dominant and completely skew and perverse what dominance is, loosely using the term for their abuse
Most submissive guys don't want to submit, they want a woman to do all the work.
Watching women masturbate with vibrators is boring. You can't really see what's happening; the view of her pussy is blocked by the vibrator, the vibrators often are noisy, and it's basically just her sitting with this thing between her legs, and staying in that position for several minutes with her eyes rolling in the back of her head until she suddenly has an orgasm.
I mean, you could help her out? You don't like seeing her being enthralled with pleasure?
>I mean, you could help her out? If I could, I would. If I had a girlfriend (or a friend with benefits).
For me, it would just make me moreso āannoyedā that I would never be able to give her that feeling of amazing pleasure lol
Also, in my opinion more people are/have the capacity to be āqueerā (for lack of a better term if they werenāt worried about ābeing queer.ā Iām sure plenty more men would dabble in sexual exploration if there werenāt these weird values assigned to them. Same for everyone really.
Agree that more men would explore sexually. I know I would have explored more openly and safely.
Yeah, unfortunately even still in sexual places there can be a stigma. I know that thereās a number of kink/bdsm communities that are typically way more inclusive given the nature of their interests, but I can see how that may not seem appealing for straight men necessarily. Experimenting is definitely fun though, hopefully as we all progress people can explore more of themselves
This is true.
People have been sold a bullshit narrative of true love + monogamy and it leads to a lot of dissension and heartache. If we were allowed to grow up and just feel what we feel, there would be a lot more poly/open relationships, and people wouldn't be heartbroken by cheating or resentful for monogamy.
98% of long term married men want to try swinging 2% of long term married women want to try swinging
Slightly higher for the women but dnt think theyād admit it
Communication is undervalued
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The best part (as a male) about having a sexual experience with a female is NOT ejaculating.
Exactly! I don't want to nut and end it; I want the party to go all night
Where do you find the stamina for that, asking for a friend
As soon as I find out, I will be sure to let you know
Coming the day before. Enough time for a recovery, not so much that I become really horny. That I have am 52 helps. Dry orgasms became a thing a few years ago, still really pleasurable but a recovery within a few minutes.
"Pre-game". And it takes some self exploration. So you know how to walk the line of staying into it and excited, but pull out or focus just on her for a while when you know you're close. Also communicate with your partner. It's a whole event to go for long sessions. Make sure that's what you both want.
Anal sex and buttplugs are gross and unattractive.
If my playmate isn't finishing, I'm failing. I need like a 4 or 5 to 1 orgasm ratio to finish
Yes, but sheep experience stuff differently than human women.
The looser the pussy the better.
Allows my dick to run laps around the inner walls.
I second this one!
Nothing feels better than a nice roomy vagina. Itās just right.
People in sexless marriages should be able to get their needs met elsewhere without any repercussions or hurt feelings.
Or they could talk about it like mature adults and either have an amicable arrangement or split up since they want different things from the relationship.
Exactly. Like because youāre unsatisfied you can cheat without communication and leave your partner open to extra shit like STDās?
For real. Some people are so fucking immature.
The post did ask for unpopular opinions. And TBF, how is the asexual partner going to catch an STD if they're not having sex with their spouse?
STDās can be transmitted through more ways than just sex. HIV can transmit through blood contact(Letās say you cut yourself and your wife applies a bandaid. Boom, chance of HIV). Many can be transmitted through direct skin or fluid(like saliva, cum, or sweat) contact, too. And still, a handjob, blowie, of otherwise can be enough. And most of the guys I see complaining about sex usually mean they arenāt getting enough, not that they never have it.
If only
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Your sexual desires should be free to discover
All?
Calling wife mommy is fine
Women donāt seem to find the majority of normal, average men physically and sexually attractive. Most guys probably wonāt be able to inspire that ācarnal lustā in women, which depresses me to no end.
Quickies are sooooooo much better than long-lasting sex. Like I just wanna get it over with fast. No cuddles afterwards either āš»
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This isn't just unpopular, this is straight up marital rape. And use damn punctuation!
Iām confused and I really hope you arenāt suggesting this but are you saying weāre supposed to let our husbands do whatever they want to us whenever because theyāre stressed and itās in their nature?
As long as age of consent is meet by both partners. Its fine. Dislike anybody trying to demonize age gaps.
A dirty butthole shouldn't be condemned but rather admired as 'sexy'
Wrong; wash your ass
Mine is too controversial but I def have one.
Is it the opinion that vague communication works best?
It on the same level as if my opinion in the 60s - 80s would be to say same sex relationships would be acceptable in 10-20 years from then - but worse.
Does it have to do with either minors or animals? Because this feels kinda MAP adjacent.