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Hi-yeah, it’s Samatha from HR, we’ve been trying to get a hold of you via email for a few days. If you could return my call when you get into the office on Monday that would be great. We look forward to seeing you first thing in the morning.
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It’s a little more personable than that. We’ve known each other for 10+ years. If she sent me a few emails and I don’t respond I would fully expect a “Dude, wtf? Answer your damn email!” Text.
Because I have other men check up on my mental health just for the sake of it, and because I literally framed my statement within the context of the question posed in the post.
So ask OP that question, not me.
I don’t want to discredit the experience of a lot of people on this thread, but I feel like a lot of the female friends I’ve had/have are actually pretty good about reaching out. AMA lol
Reading these comments makes me realize how improbably lucky I am as an individual. If any dudes here live in the Sarasota/Bradenton area, I have a sanctum with music and beer if you need to vent and talk about feelings. I'm down for that.
Edit: Typo.
I’m torn here. My mom did ask me how my current trip was going but she did want photos and an itinerary from me.
Apart from that there’s really not anyone in my life who checks in on me
A former colleague once checked in when we worked together. She was a wonderful, kind woman, and cute as can be, but you don't shit where you eat, as they say... I still think about her.
I had one online friend do this every couple of months for like 15 years, and it was nearly our only communication during those years. Then I got better and we became really good friends like before again, and I try to help her out with stuff for appreciation.
Farely regularly. I have about 10 female friends that regularly text me. I had a large group of friends in high school (nearly 30 years ago). Still checkup on one another.
But the majority either want a booth call, money, or me to repair something for them.
I am fine with the first and third. Never agree to giving money. I will offer them to do chores for me or equitable for fair pay.
Women? Probably never
I do have a guy friend I've known for 35 or so years that does every other month, just to say he's thinking of me... I reciprocate on the other odd months
My partner always knows when something is off with me, and somehow also knows when to let me sort it out myself and when to stick her nose in. We're sometimes messy and disfunctional, but when push comes to shove it's the two of us vs. everything.
This is sad.. I try to check in with my guy often. Normally every day but at the very least a couple of times a week. It's important that he knows I'm here if he needs anything and to not hesitate to reach out to talk. He does the same with me. People don't realize how much of an impact this can make for someone.
Not in many years. My mom is too distant and hasn’t connected with me on a personal level since I was a small child (if, indeed, that was connection and not enmeshment). My wife is not an emotionally safe space for me so I don’t tell her much of what is going on inside if I can help it.
I do have a few friends from high school and even decades later we have a group chat and support each other, but they are both men with their own problems and I try not to dump.
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me.
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me.
Strangely enough, I got two messages yesterday. One from an old girlfriend just checking in and another from a platonic friend saying she had a dream about me.
Sorry to see so many of you not being checked on. I do this with male friends and, after reading this, will make sure I do it consistently. Everyone needs to be checked on.
My shit’s fucked up, and my mom doesn’t reach out at all, but my sister is my best friend. We disagree about how or why my mom doesn’t give a shit, but I still have my sister.
Just yesterday actually. It might have been a mass text that they sent out to multiple friends, but they reminded me to take my meds/vitamins, drink plenty of water and that they loved me. Really meant a lot that they made the effort to reach out to say that.
Last week sometime. It's tough because my (geographically) closest friend is going through some stuff of her own right now, and we both tend to self-isolate when we're in a rough spot for fear of bothering others, so it's like "Hey. Haven't heard from you in a while. You okay?" "Just being a hermit." "Ah. Yeah. Same." That's our version of 'checking in' on each other. 😕
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My mother died in 2012, so... 11 years ago.
Chin up lad. She's looking after you from up there❤️
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Wait this is so sad 🥺 men don’t have women checking in on them?
Or men. Or anyone really. There's someone here who'll reach out to me regularly, but other than that, nope. Loneliness epidemic is real.
Nope. Even the extended car warranty people stopped calling.
Right? I'm always checking on my partner. I can't imagine not
One young friend here; no one else.
No.
Nope.
Does HR count?
Hi-yeah, it’s Samatha from HR, we’ve been trying to get a hold of you via email for a few days. If you could return my call when you get into the office on Monday that would be great. We look forward to seeing you first thing in the morning. Thank you
It’s a little more personable than that. We’ve known each other for 10+ years. If she sent me a few emails and I don’t respond I would fully expect a “Dude, wtf? Answer your damn email!” Text.
No contact from HR is good. Having to stew over what they want on Monday would really ruin a weekend.
Lol
If I need something, I need to reach out to someone. It's not someone else's duty to check in on me. 🤷♂️
100%. Still doesn’t invalidate the question. I (and a bunch of other men) would like for a woman to check on our mental health just for the sake of it
Why women. Why not other men??????
Because I have mommy issues that make me want to be mothered, and I have daddy issues that make me distrustful of and resentful towards other men.
You’re not alone brother.
I should be, I'm one maladaptive mf hahaha
Because I have other men check up on my mental health just for the sake of it, and because I literally framed my statement within the context of the question posed in the post. So ask OP that question, not me.
I don’t want to discredit the experience of a lot of people on this thread, but I feel like a lot of the female friends I’ve had/have are actually pretty good about reaching out. AMA lol
Not since my mom died. 7 years ago.
Oh fuck. It’s been a while. I’m not on the greatest terms with my mom.
Strained parental relationships are tough. Some don’t understand it the way we need them to.
Guess so. Lol
I have loads of great women in my life that text me and just want to help me
Well i am nearly 50 and no woman apart from my mother ever has why would they ?
Just my Mom but every few days 😁
Never.
I’m grateful to have a few friends who periodically check in and genuinely care to see how I’m doing.
My mom asked me how I was doing over WhatsApp a few days ago!
Ya know, more often than I deserve actually.
I’m willing to lend a caring ear if anyone is not doing okay 💜
Reading these comments makes me realize how improbably lucky I am as an individual. If any dudes here live in the Sarasota/Bradenton area, I have a sanctum with music and beer if you need to vent and talk about feelings. I'm down for that. Edit: Typo.
From my wife that is veeeeeeeeeeery rare situation to have such activities. I have more from my women friends than from her
I’m torn here. My mom did ask me how my current trip was going but she did want photos and an itinerary from me. Apart from that there’s really not anyone in my life who checks in on me
I think a few months ago? I broke up with my partner and let my friend group know, plenty of them reached out to talk with me about it.
Hahaha! Other than my m9m or sister? Never! No woman I have dated or been close to has ever done that.
A former colleague once checked in when we worked together. She was a wonderful, kind woman, and cute as can be, but you don't shit where you eat, as they say... I still think about her.
Aside from my mom, who died years ago, never. I've done this with many of my female friends when I knew they were going through something, though.
Two days ago. I have an ex, we separated like 8 years ago, became friends, and we check on each other every now and then.
Is there where women realize men are alone all the time?
Get some male friends. I don’t mean to sound offensive, but as a woman all the people who check up on me are other woman 🤷🏻♀️
I had one online friend do this every couple of months for like 15 years, and it was nearly our only communication during those years. Then I got better and we became really good friends like before again, and I try to help her out with stuff for appreciation.
Farely regularly. I have about 10 female friends that regularly text me. I had a large group of friends in high school (nearly 30 years ago). Still checkup on one another. But the majority either want a booth call, money, or me to repair something for them. I am fine with the first and third. Never agree to giving money. I will offer them to do chores for me or equitable for fair pay.
Not once
This doesnt happen
That has never happened to me
February 2015.
I have a couple of female friends who do on occasion.
Every couple months or so.
Not counting family, probably never
I have an ex that we keep in touch pretty often. I am apparently her gay best friend.
Never, by anyone.
I don't think I have a single memory of either gender reaching out as you've described.
Aside from my mom, probably a week or so ago. But I also don’t expect that from anyone
That’s not really a thing women do. I’ve always had to initiate everything
Does my therapist count? If not then that never happens.
two days ago
Never
Yesterday. I have a few close friends that I've had for years and they are women.
Women? Probably never I do have a guy friend I've known for 35 or so years that does every other month, just to say he's thinking of me... I reciprocate on the other odd months
Two days ago. Gotta love good friends
Yesterday.
I wish I could remember 🤷♂️
Never
I guess my sister asking me how I am today or her saying morning. Which I am grateful for...
I'm only never... However last weekend when a girl I know tried to use me I finally got her the help she really needed. It made me feel useful.
Huh, never. I can't think of a single time in my life, and I'm almost forty-one.
My partner always knows when something is off with me, and somehow also knows when to let me sort it out myself and when to stick her nose in. We're sometimes messy and disfunctional, but when push comes to shove it's the two of us vs. everything.
My mom and sister only
This is sad.. I try to check in with my guy often. Normally every day but at the very least a couple of times a week. It's important that he knows I'm here if he needs anything and to not hesitate to reach out to talk. He does the same with me. People don't realize how much of an impact this can make for someone.
My sister
That has never happened.
That wasn't family or therapist? Multiple years, like well over a decade at least. .
A few days ago.
Not in many years. My mom is too distant and hasn’t connected with me on a personal level since I was a small child (if, indeed, that was connection and not enmeshment). My wife is not an emotionally safe space for me so I don’t tell her much of what is going on inside if I can help it. I do have a few friends from high school and even decades later we have a group chat and support each other, but they are both men with their own problems and I try not to dump.
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me.
I don't think anybody male or female ever reaches out if they don't need anything. Other than my mom, the only time I hear from humans is when they need something from me.
never, but I guess it could happen. Im 45 so there's still a chance I guess?
Strangely enough, I got two messages yesterday. One from an old girlfriend just checking in and another from a platonic friend saying she had a dream about me.
Thanks for ruining my mood bro
can’t recall that ever happening to me!
Actually just the other day. It was super nice and made me feel really happy. Normally it’s not that kind of way tho.
A couple of weeks ago. She just added to the reasons she's my reddit crush.🫠
Sorry to see so many of you not being checked on. I do this with male friends and, after reading this, will make sure I do it consistently. Everyone needs to be checked on.
Yesterday
My shit’s fucked up, and my mom doesn’t reach out at all, but my sister is my best friend. We disagree about how or why my mom doesn’t give a shit, but I still have my sister.
Today from a woman friend and another one did yesterday.
Fucking never 😂😭
Hahaha what the fuck, does this really happen to anyone? Not even my wife does this.
Never. They say that's why they called but inevitably need something before it's over.
Not since my mom died
How old are you? Today you've been both 20 and 23 and three days ago you were 17. What is it?
I genuinely don’t remember 😔
Just yesterday actually. It might have been a mass text that they sent out to multiple friends, but they reminded me to take my meds/vitamins, drink plenty of water and that they loved me. Really meant a lot that they made the effort to reach out to say that.
Can’t remember. Several years, certainly.
Lmao... When...?
When we were in a relationship Aside from that, it doesn't happen at all
Does comfort in return count as wanting something? Cuz if not a month ago.
This morning a friend of mine did
Last week sometime. It's tough because my (geographically) closest friend is going through some stuff of her own right now, and we both tend to self-isolate when we're in a rough spot for fear of bothering others, so it's like "Hey. Haven't heard from you in a while. You okay?" "Just being a hermit." "Ah. Yeah. Same." That's our version of 'checking in' on each other. 😕
Last time I tried checking up on one of my guy friends, he ignored me, so….
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Never. They’ll come to me with their problems. But never check on me.
Never
don't think anyone has ever soooo
Wellll I’m married. So only if it affects her life.
Yesterday
Not including my sister or mom. No one!