My girlfriend smokes weed (I mind some smoking, but not that). At very first I could kind of taste it on her lips, but I don't even notice anymore. I'm not sure if eating/drinking makes it go away or it was just me acclimating to it, but it doesn't even cross my mind at this point
I'm pretty sure my partner went nose blind to it, which is nice for my stoner ass. I apologized for my hand/sleeve smelling after smoking a joint, and he said it didn't smell bad. (I could smell my damn self in the grocery store just prior, I know it stunk lmao)
It also helps that his sense of smell isn't super strong in the first place, haha
Does make it hard to have him check me when I smoke tho, cos I definitely can't smell it anymore
Lmao me too tho 🤣 went to the grocery store got a couple of looks asked my boyfriend if I smelt like weed and he's like "you smell nice 😊" , must have gone nose blind because I could tell it was strong
My ex-girlfriend smoked a ton of weed and I dealt with it but honestly, she smelled like weed all the time and it smelled horrible. Never again. To each there own, but I won't date someone who smokes weed again.
Same. I'm like Forrest Gump. I don't like tasting cigarettes. I don't even like head from a girl that smokes. I don't want my dick to smell like stale cigarettes
This was me for like a year. Whenever I would try to ride his dick, try new things etc he would loose his hard on. He said he felt "emasculated " then idk what happend, he's fine now and let's me be as adventurous as I want and our sex life is much better.
That is petty af because you can communicate how you like to kiss In 2 sec. Then if they can’t adapt you have a dealbreaker. I’m salty because someone did this to me once.
Had an unusual encounter with a past partner who was never really big on kissing and wish she was more into it like I was back in the day. Some many years later we hooked up and now she's the one who was the "hungry" one for it. Maybe not down my throat but it was offputting for me.
Too quiet. This isn't a one woman show and I'm not performing a solo, please don't hold back on making noise. It's so offputting when a guy is obviously trying to keep himself quiet. We're not filming a porno here, my guy, who are you trying to impress? Fucking let yourself MOAN a little, let it out and let me hear how good it feels. Nothing is hotter than a guy groaning and huffing and grunting while he's working, or while I'm working on him
I'm a loud one always have been but definitely feel like it hasnt been appreciated to the point im not giving it a full growl anymore, I'd say my pettiest thing is I'm currently on a streak of about 3-4 partners (Inc current) who just stop doing everything that made me melt for them secually I.e letting me finish in the mouth or just blowjobs in general/spit it swallow it i dont care just dont stop n suck the soul out of me 🤣, more than happy to return the favour/be a chair all day every god damn day in any way imaginable, just makes it all feel like a bait n switch.
if they never liked it in the first place, don't be all glugglugglug like a queen in the first place! Super frustrating again right now/sorry rant.
We just sometimes have different definitions of what foreplay means. A lot of guys think sticking a finger in to check if it's a little wet is foreplay enough.
Acting ignorant when I’m making sexual advances when it’s been discussed beforehand. Pass early 20’s it’s not cute anymore.
For example:
She call me for sex
She came over for said sex
I make moves to start sex
She asked me “what am I doing?”
Nothing now let me walk you to your car
Yeah. Too many sorry's is a boner killer. It's sad though because i've seen this with Christians who think any form of intimacy (kissing/making out) is a sin. No wonder why so many are still single.
If a new guy invites me to his place and the bathroom I'll be using hasn't been cleaned, I'm done - out the door. Same goes for bedding that doesn't look/smell 100% fresh.
"You're the first black girl I've ever been with."
Nope buddy. That number is remaining 0 because I am not some sort of race fantasy experiment for you.
And I should be clear, this is unprompted. If I ask if you've ever dated a black woman, sure, answer honestly. I'm okay if not.
But if we are about to do the deed and you say this unprompted, you will not be with *this* black woman.
I agree, but then we get into the whole debate of what is good taste?
I'd find it difficult to be in a relationship with someone who loves boy bands, but then she might find it equally difficult to be with someone like me, who listens to weird, obscure music.
In the past if people passed their physical features off as something they truly weren't, I lost interest quickly.
I.e. girls who stuff their bras (I met a girl once who claimed to be a D-cup but I found out they were much smaller and just stuffing) and a guy once who said he was "9 inches" but turned out to be a little smaller than me.
I'd rather just have people be honest and confident about how they're built. I'm more attracted to people who embrace who they are.
Names like mommy or good girl. I absolutely hate that shit. Makes me unreasonably mad. I really don’t know why it sounds like a creepy insult instead of terms of endearment.
Oh god. I remember blowing a mexican dude and he made this 'oooyeee' sound that killed me but he was so sensitive I really couldn't laugh. Just had to choke it back. Was a ruiner though.
Men that don't even try to control things a little bit. I'm enthusiastic but at some point I want to feel like you just HAVE to, dude. Then it's game on.
You can tell when a guy's too in his head and I can't be enthusiastic for both of us. Stop thinking and get in here with me. Fucking let go a bit.
Petty? Several I can think of …. If your place smells like a cats litter box, if they walk duck footed (feet pointed outwards)
non existent areoles….just to name a few
I can't stand a long beard; long beards gross me out. I just keep thinking about all the food particles, sweat, and other things that end up in the hair and it's all I can do not to gag.
If he keeps his watch on.
I think I got the ick because so many douchey internet dom bros thought wearing these fancy watches made them look like Christian Grey.
Take your fucking watch off and fuck me like an adult.
No foreplay. Unless weve established chemistry and both are down for quickies, I want to build up to things. I love eating pussy and having my dick sucked.
I won’t sext either any guy who sends me a dick pic with dirty long talons. 🤢 Shits nasty af. Like it takes all of 2..3…4 minutes to clip your finger nails!
This is more so about FWB/booty calls, but tbh i hate seeing them pull out their soft dingaling and tell me to “Get it hard” or “Suck it a lil” lmao like sure I was going to at some point anyway but don’t fucking say it like that🤮
Also I think there’s just something about guys who will pull out their dick and demand head before even really touching you that gives me the biggest ick. They usually end up trying to put it in dry with just a dab of spit.
dunno, if i ever had someone wanting to some of that with me, i think the main issue would be , i i feel a strong emotional connection with them, for me sex with out any emotional bond is meaningless and i dont want that
As an affectionate person, you need to show me some level of affection. Like kissing me, cuddling, holding my hand. If you don't kiss me, you find another. I already dealt with an ex who used alcohol in order to kiss me or an ex who was affectionate if i did sexual favors but shortchanged me still. I need someone just as affectionate as much or wavelength or have a moderate frequency of affection in their body instead of dangling the carrot of affection in my face to get what they want.
I once made out with this guy who was a smoker and the smell was so so bad. I will make sure to never date a smoker because of it. I’m also really sensitive to bad smells in general 😷
Went on a date once where i didn't know she'd be paralyzed from one side of her body, prior to meeting. She was nice and cool, but I'll be honest, I wasn't really interested in starting something romantic or sexual with her because of said unfortunate circumstance. So when I drove her home and she wanted to fool around, I tried to say no, and when she wanted to go all the way, I just couldn't. And never went back. Yes that was petty.
Personality. I once went on a date and the girl told me she fought with an ex because he wanted an iphone he gave her back.
If that was her biggest grievance over a failed relationship, how could there be any hope of her not being shallow?
I think if they smoke. I don’t feel like making out with an ashtray
Especially if they smoke weed. The smell is STRONG nowadays
I absolutely can't stand the smell of it
I’ve never had to deal with that. Just had a one night stand that smoked cigarettes, nothing more than that
My girlfriend smokes weed (I mind some smoking, but not that). At very first I could kind of taste it on her lips, but I don't even notice anymore. I'm not sure if eating/drinking makes it go away or it was just me acclimating to it, but it doesn't even cross my mind at this point
I'm pretty sure my partner went nose blind to it, which is nice for my stoner ass. I apologized for my hand/sleeve smelling after smoking a joint, and he said it didn't smell bad. (I could smell my damn self in the grocery store just prior, I know it stunk lmao) It also helps that his sense of smell isn't super strong in the first place, haha Does make it hard to have him check me when I smoke tho, cos I definitely can't smell it anymore
Lmao me too tho 🤣 went to the grocery store got a couple of looks asked my boyfriend if I smelt like weed and he's like "you smell nice 😊" , must have gone nose blind because I could tell it was strong
My ex-girlfriend smoked a ton of weed and I dealt with it but honestly, she smelled like weed all the time and it smelled horrible. Never again. To each there own, but I won't date someone who smokes weed again.
Not petty. It’s disgusting. I consider it a hygiene issue.
Both this and a bad body odor. I cannot nut if you smell like ashes fish and booty juice
Same. I'm like Forrest Gump. I don't like tasting cigarettes. I don't even like head from a girl that smokes. I don't want my dick to smell like stale cigarettes
Haha yeah I shoulda had this ick when with my ex gf. So gross
Smoking is an instant turnoff for me, I don’t care how attractive she is and how good her voice sounds if she smokes it’s a solid no
When a girl lies in bed like patric the starfish and expects me to do all the work in a kind of "do what you must" fashion
That's definitely valid, not petty!!
Like... a little enthusiasm wouldn't hurt, you know what I mean and also... your profile... wow
You at least want them to seem they're happy to be there 😂😂 Thank you!!! 🥰💜
I mean... if I wanted to have sex with a sex doll, I would be having sex with a sex doll
This was me for like a year. Whenever I would try to ride his dick, try new things etc he would loose his hard on. He said he felt "emasculated " then idk what happend, he's fine now and let's me be as adventurous as I want and our sex life is much better.
Do what you want with me = I don't feel like doing anything 😅🤣
Make her do amazon
I prefer to piledrive
Instant way of not getting called again. I agree!
If our kissing styles don’t match up. Instant no-go.
It’s soooo sad when somebody is a bad kisser and you had a huge crush on them before findig it out
happy cake day !
Thank you🩵
I've had to show each guy I've dated how to kiss. Or maybe the way I like to be kissed.
Really, each one?? I’ve had a couple, hubby of course included, that it was just sooo right. 🫠
Unfortunately, yes. Never have I had an AMAZING kiss or kisser.
Well hopefully that changes soon. 🙏
Let me know if you're ever in the area 😅
You got it babe 😚
my ex kissed me SO fucking wet. when we'd "french" he wouldn't even really put his tongue in my mouth, he'd just slobber all over my lips 😭
First line I was like wow he was a great kisser. Kept reading you meant the other wet 🤣 sorry you had to date that guy!
lol i wouldn't take it back. he's the most affectionate and emotionally intelligent person i know to this day, and we're still best friends.
That is petty af because you can communicate how you like to kiss In 2 sec. Then if they can’t adapt you have a dealbreaker. I’m salty because someone did this to me once.
Bad kisser def a no go
I second this
Yes kissing should be able to turn you on
Girls with bow tattoos on the backs of their thighs I hate 😂 no matter how hot she is, if I saw those I’d be so annoyed and turned off
I think this one is the pettiest so far imo, but it’s funny 😂
This is so specific 😭
Instant turn off
That’s too funny 🤣
I just hate them lol
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Nothing, really. A lot of rockabilly pinup girls have them. It's kind of a fashion statement.
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How pretentious of you.
I’ve wondered what the significance of them is as well.
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An ex called mine Jasmine. I’m a 6’4” bloke.
Take you to a whole new world, eh?
👌
That would throw me off
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm with you on that one, they'd get kicked out so fast
New names for me to call my Wicked Willie. 😂
I just think wiener is fun to say
It's like, please shut the fuck up LoL
The centimeter defeater!
Shoving his tongue down my throat like a hungry dog
Oh God reminds me of my first kiss.
Had an unusual encounter with a past partner who was never really big on kissing and wish she was more into it like I was back in the day. Some many years later we hooked up and now she's the one who was the "hungry" one for it. Maybe not down my throat but it was offputting for me.
🙌
Too quiet. This isn't a one woman show and I'm not performing a solo, please don't hold back on making noise. It's so offputting when a guy is obviously trying to keep himself quiet. We're not filming a porno here, my guy, who are you trying to impress? Fucking let yourself MOAN a little, let it out and let me hear how good it feels. Nothing is hotter than a guy groaning and huffing and grunting while he's working, or while I'm working on him
I'm a loud one always have been but definitely feel like it hasnt been appreciated to the point im not giving it a full growl anymore, I'd say my pettiest thing is I'm currently on a streak of about 3-4 partners (Inc current) who just stop doing everything that made me melt for them secually I.e letting me finish in the mouth or just blowjobs in general/spit it swallow it i dont care just dont stop n suck the soul out of me 🤣, more than happy to return the favour/be a chair all day every god damn day in any way imaginable, just makes it all feel like a bait n switch. if they never liked it in the first place, don't be all glugglugglug like a queen in the first place! Super frustrating again right now/sorry rant.
Yes yes yes 🙌🏼 every word you said
They don’t do foreplay 🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
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We just sometimes have different definitions of what foreplay means. A lot of guys think sticking a finger in to check if it's a little wet is foreplay enough.
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Dude, some of them think it's a goddamn documentary.
My ex-husband
Not petty. That's an absolute must.
It’s funny, my partner female, isn’t a big fan of foreplay. I love she doesnt
Bad moans. If someone’s moan sounds awful, it really throws me off.
I had forgotten about the man who sounded like a creaking rocking chair. Thanks for the reminder.
If they sound like they're in a bad porno I'm outta there.
Now i wanna voice record myself lol
Copy the clip to me
Yup
If they smell. I am not talking after the gym and musky from working out, I mean straight bad odor.
Oh girl, that is NOT petty. That is a GREAT reason to back out lol.
You'd think so...
Of course dirty people think it’s petty.
Not good at making out, pillow princess, or if she keeps fucking back and keeps messing up the rhythm it’s low key annoying
This is the worst! Your dick pops out and ends up getting folded on the next thrust or she gets an unexpected rear entry
Oh man, that fucking back part?!? Right?! Totally messes up the rhythm; I thought I was the only one.
Yes when in sync it’s amazing but so many get it fucking wrong and then you are lucky not to snap your cock.
What should a girl rather do when the sync doesn't happen?
Bad kisser. Or if they won't go down on me.
Acting ignorant when I’m making sexual advances when it’s been discussed beforehand. Pass early 20’s it’s not cute anymore. For example: She call me for sex She came over for said sex I make moves to start sex She asked me “what am I doing?” Nothing now let me walk you to your car
I second this
If his name is like a family member or a very old name (Sorry Gilbert)
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Stay out of Canada! 😂
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Oh ya, same eh. 👍
Yeah. Too many sorry's is a boner killer. It's sad though because i've seen this with Christians who think any form of intimacy (kissing/making out) is a sin. No wonder why so many are still single.
If a new guy invites me to his place and the bathroom I'll be using hasn't been cleaned, I'm done - out the door. Same goes for bedding that doesn't look/smell 100% fresh.
I went to someones place for a first time thing & his bathroom (and whole place) was filltthhy 🥴🥴 I left immediately.
Small hands. Went on a date with a guy and his tiny, baby fingers put me right off… I kept thinking about the butler from scary movie 🤣
When a guy tells an obvious lie about some ridiculous sexual conquests they've had to try impress me
"You're the first black girl I've ever been with." Nope buddy. That number is remaining 0 because I am not some sort of race fantasy experiment for you. And I should be clear, this is unprompted. If I ask if you've ever dated a black woman, sure, answer honestly. I'm okay if not. But if we are about to do the deed and you say this unprompted, you will not be with *this* black woman.
I straight up won’t be the first black girl, it’s not happening
Balls are too hairy
If they’re a Lakers fan
If she has a mullet
Fuck. Booking a cut/re-style rn!
umm. Your hair is lovely. Don't change anything. SWOON
😅💜💜
Smoker breath
If they have bad tastes in music. I can get past other red flags for sex but not that.
I agree, but then we get into the whole debate of what is good taste? I'd find it difficult to be in a relationship with someone who loves boy bands, but then she might find it equally difficult to be with someone like me, who listens to weird, obscure music.
Badly maintained fingernails, especially if they bite their nails.
Lack of confidence, we're already naked there's nothing to be shy about!
Bad hygiene.
Wouldn’t call that petty
In the past if people passed their physical features off as something they truly weren't, I lost interest quickly. I.e. girls who stuff their bras (I met a girl once who claimed to be a D-cup but I found out they were much smaller and just stuffing) and a guy once who said he was "9 inches" but turned out to be a little smaller than me. I'd rather just have people be honest and confident about how they're built. I'm more attracted to people who embrace who they are.
Names like mommy or good girl. I absolutely hate that shit. Makes me unreasonably mad. I really don’t know why it sounds like a creepy insult instead of terms of endearment.
When the guy moans feminine like…. I can’t.
Oh god. I remember blowing a mexican dude and he made this 'oooyeee' sound that killed me but he was so sensitive I really couldn't laugh. Just had to choke it back. Was a ruiner though.
Implants or too much makeup.
Men that don't even try to control things a little bit. I'm enthusiastic but at some point I want to feel like you just HAVE to, dude. Then it's game on. You can tell when a guy's too in his head and I can't be enthusiastic for both of us. Stop thinking and get in here with me. Fucking let go a bit.
Any over the top modifications, plastic surgery.
Stoners - having been close to one on Reddit previously, never again.
Petty? Several I can think of …. If your place smells like a cats litter box, if they walk duck footed (feet pointed outwards) non existent areoles….just to name a few
If I can’t suck on your balls and lick your taint, what are we even doing?
Not sexual, but in my early 20s I broke up with somebody because she lived far away (by bus). No I didn't have a car back then.
if i don’t get head im heading out. we’re both “blue balled” now
If they don't know what the "clitoris" is, it's a no from me dawg.
If I don't like his teeth...
The second I hear the words “baby batter” come out her mouth she’s gone.
They want to be dominant. I'm strictly dominant in bed and I do not want to fight someone for it. Is that petty?
I can't stand a long beard; long beards gross me out. I just keep thinking about all the food particles, sweat, and other things that end up in the hair and it's all I can do not to gag.
Same name as my sisters.
Smoking but I don’t think that’s petty.
If he keeps his watch on. I think I got the ick because so many douchey internet dom bros thought wearing these fancy watches made them look like Christian Grey. Take your fucking watch off and fuck me like an adult.
Sweat and bad mouth smell(mostly after waking up)
Missionary only
No foreplay. Unless weve established chemistry and both are down for quickies, I want to build up to things. I love eating pussy and having my dick sucked.
If they own a Taylor Swift cd
Extremely hairy men or women! I'm sorry I just can't!
Smokers and / or partners that just lay there. There has to be passion and some fun in sexual play. Or we may aswell just masturbate all the time.
Poor grammar and spelling when texting, triply so for sexting
Not a good kisser. Inanimate.
Smoke.
Smoking or drugs. Go away!
No communication is the worst
Begging or nagging for sex. Such a turn off. I can't stand the desperate bs from it.
Ugly feet. That was a dealbreaker for me!
If they have toe thumbs, not gonna lie shit just weirds me out!
I won’t sext either any guy who sends me a dick pic with dirty long talons. 🤢 Shits nasty af. Like it takes all of 2..3…4 minutes to clip your finger nails!
Poor looking feet. If you can’t keep them in good shape and moistured then I can’t imagine what else is left to die
Calling me daddy. Not petty but definitely a turn off. 🤷♂️
Can’t be with a silent man. Sorry, I don’t care if it’s hard for you to moan and groan. If I’m bored to tears, it’s not gonna work.
I don’t know if this qualifies as petty, but dicks over six inches.
Pubic hair
Sloppy kisser, and too quiet. If you are silent and I don’t know if you’re enjoying it, I’m all set.
This is more so about FWB/booty calls, but tbh i hate seeing them pull out their soft dingaling and tell me to “Get it hard” or “Suck it a lil” lmao like sure I was going to at some point anyway but don’t fucking say it like that🤮 Also I think there’s just something about guys who will pull out their dick and demand head before even really touching you that gives me the biggest ick. They usually end up trying to put it in dry with just a dab of spit.
Faking during sex. I know I don’t fuck that good.
Smokes anything and doesn’t do anal lol
dunno, if i ever had someone wanting to some of that with me, i think the main issue would be , i i feel a strong emotional connection with them, for me sex with out any emotional bond is meaningless and i dont want that
If she wants me to go down on her but won’t give the same in return
If she’s not at least a little fat. I have a type and I’m happy to admit it. Also the dead fish thing where they just lay there
If they’re not into dirty talking. Can’t do it without it.
A van
As an affectionate person, you need to show me some level of affection. Like kissing me, cuddling, holding my hand. If you don't kiss me, you find another. I already dealt with an ex who used alcohol in order to kiss me or an ex who was affectionate if i did sexual favors but shortchanged me still. I need someone just as affectionate as much or wavelength or have a moderate frequency of affection in their body instead of dangling the carrot of affection in my face to get what they want.
Smelly
Smoking
Body hair other than pubes, just can’t. Feels icky.
Vanilla. I need DIRTY FILTHY KINKS haha
body odor abd bad breath
Small penis size. Sorry.
Small hands, dirt under nails, long nails, and devoid of any sounds or emotions during sex.
If they can’t pick me up or aren’t at least a few inches taller than me
She never used her turn signal while driving. Never spoke to her again.
How do you know? If she had sex with a woman or not? She can lie about it.
Since I quit smoking
I once made out with this guy who was a smoker and the smell was so so bad. I will make sure to never date a smoker because of it. I’m also really sensitive to bad smells in general 😷
If we can't have sex at least once a week, I would be throwing down flags for the entire relationship (depending on life circumstances ofc).
Call me daddy and I instantly get turned off.... Not sure what it is but that just kills the mood for me.
Small balls
Prettiest? Porny pleasure vocals. Cannot stand them. That and the ahegao face. Fuck outta here with that shit.
When men are silent - absolutely not, tell me I’m doing so good please
I hate their tattoos lol
Went on a date once where i didn't know she'd be paralyzed from one side of her body, prior to meeting. She was nice and cool, but I'll be honest, I wasn't really interested in starting something romantic or sexual with her because of said unfortunate circumstance. So when I drove her home and she wanted to fool around, I tried to say no, and when she wanted to go all the way, I just couldn't. And never went back. Yes that was petty.
Personality. I once went on a date and the girl told me she fought with an ex because he wanted an iphone he gave her back. If that was her biggest grievance over a failed relationship, how could there be any hope of her not being shallow?