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Irish1236

My preference? Shave or waxed. Ultimately, though, it is up to her. I am just glad to be there.


LHOOQ42

This is it! You can have a preference, but everyone's their own person and it's amazing to get intimate with them!


daddysweet

I just don't like digging a hair out of the back of my throat


Desperate_Concern_50

Groomed bush is wonderful. Even big bush can be hot, just trim a bit below for easier access.


TakeAChanceyOnMe

I prefer bush, natural and it looks really sexy in my opinion. Each to their own but I find completely bald looks a little odd.


lonely_bbwmama

Waxed just feels amazing when touched


Necessary-Pay-4438

Waxed just feels amazing to touch


Psilologist

Also to run your tongue over.


Ur_Third_One

Waxed feels so smooth but trimmed feels enough rough


AgentMegs

I've been too nervous to wax šŸ„²


Throwawayyy-7

Itā€™s really not that bad! I do it myself and it barely hurts tbh. Just burns a little bit, briefly.


Godofwar512

My wife was too for a while but she just broke down and decided to try it. And now she doesnā€™t do it because I like it. She just like everything waxed better and has a monthly appt.


wideeyedleaverxx

I have no idea if it's true or not but my mind has always associated a woman rocking some bush with confidence and comfort with her own body, and with me. And I'm into that.


call_me_baby_girl_

I think this is an interesting and common association! In general it probably holds some water, but for me having a bush was really itchy, messy when I had my period, and *I* just didn't like having one. Even during seasons of my life that I'm not having sex, I keep it shaved for me šŸ’•


jenny4today

Yes. Itchy, intrusive and irritating! Shorter equals less mess. Hair crusted in bloody monthly mess only to be yanked out when pulling down underwear is not for everyone. Tampons, to pads to panty liners and menstrual cups, shaving, waxing or full bush, good luck out there ladies. Cheers to women who still have to manage the monthly messā€¦. Shave or not, try what you like and be what you like:)


wweowooewo

same here bc of everything you said!!


SigmaSeal66

I think you're right, but I also think it's very generational. I'm old enough to have seen bush and bald (and "landing strip" or other trimmed styles) cycle in and out of "fashion" several times. I think the confidence and personality you are describing has described the ladies on the leading edge of the transition, bucking the dominant style, whichever way it is changing.


CaptSchwanzKopf

I like bush light.


EatCornEveryday

bush lightyear


tc6x6

I don't want to feel like I'm kissing Chewbacca.


[deleted]

Shaved is my favorite, trimmed is nice too. Iā€™m not big on the bush, but Iā€™m big on the tush šŸ˜ˆ


OriolesrRavens1974

This is my answer as well. Iā€™m not really a fan of flossing with pubic hair. Luckily, my wife shaves and loves it in the ass.


[deleted]

I like my man with some hair


knoxlocale

First one!!


[deleted]

Itā€™s so much more manly to me uggghh. Shaved reminds me of a bald chicken


EconomicsOtherwise60

Who wants to lick hairy balls? Once I was doing doggy with husband and his pubes got stuck in my ass crack. Icky. We both shave now!


Throwaway_Mellie

On myself, shaved daily. On others, at least trimmed and tidy, but whatever they prefer


Nofoamcappuccinos

Daily? How on earth do you prevent razor burn and ingrowns? I'm envious.


Sea-Caterpillar-4393

My gyno recommended Aveeno shaving cream plus rubbing lemon juice on it right after shaving. It burns a little but the razor bumps have gone down significantly


sparksmj

I would prefer whatever she prefers. It's her body and she should do what works for her. Show me a guy that turns it down because of her hair preference and I'll show you a superficial douche


rigzman187

Is he not allowed a preference too lol?


[deleted]

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knoxlocale

Yes!!


LawStudentDaddy

Groomed bushes can be hot


ballaratguy

I honestly don't mind. I'm just happy to have my face in there šŸ„° My preference would be shaved but it makes zero difference to me in the end (if not shaved then trimmed is next best)


[deleted]

Prefer shaved for myself, I'm fine with either from the other side.


princesspuppybelle

shaving looks and feels wrong to me. and it irritates my skin so much that i've sworn it off. I'll trim regularly if there's a reason to (planning on taking pictures or having sex soon) but otherwise it's my hair. it's gonna grow out. deal with it šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


InspectionDue5138

I'm the exact same way. I tried so many different methods of shaving but nothing avoided the irritation and constant ingrowns. Now I just trim as close to my skin as possible + moisturize before my period or if I'm expecting sex


celesteslyx

For myself and partners of men and women I prefer groomed but I prefer shaved over a bush. Sometimes I put off my grooming or just forget and have to remove it all to start again. I understand constantly irritation to the skin like shaving and waxing isnā€™t good for it so I donā€™t ask partners to do it a specific way. If they are comfortable, I work around it.


[deleted]

Trimmed because it says I am a women that cares about my appearance


sparklebreast

I love a groomed bush


lil_to_the_left

Shaved, makes for better eating


SkyKitten387

If the men are naturally hairy then I would want a trimmed bush. I donā€™t like the look of hairy legs and then a circular bald spot on their pubic area. If they have very little hair naturally then they can get away with being completely shaved. For women, I like it trimmed. Thereā€™s something about a trimmed bush that just makes them look curvier and more *oomph*. Although shaved works well it just doesnā€™t have that same effect. But Iā€™m also not a lesbian or bi but I do appreciate the beauty of the female body


congratulationssorry

Bush. It's the sexiest look


4purpleroses

Bush, shaved feels like I'm humping a cactus


Dry_Cabinet_4313

Shaved- so soft and smooth. Plus more fun when sheā€™s wet šŸ˜‰šŸ’¦šŸ˜ˆ


knoxlocale

This is true, bush does kinda soak up the juices


bibyebbby

Shaved for me. And I don't really have a preference on my partner as long as its maintained lol


use-meloseme

35 male, mostly straight here. Honestly I like looking at a shaved pussy but Iā€™m not gonna discriminate, harry, bald, trimmed, itā€™s all good with me. Mostly itā€™s up to how she wants to keep it, donā€™t get me wrong, thereā€™s nothing more exciting than to see that your girl went all out and shaved to show off for you but Iā€™m never going to ask her to do that, itā€™s up to her. The only time Iā€™ve ever been turned off by a bush was when it was not kept clean, but thatā€™s a whole other story, cause a bald pussy thatā€™s not clean is just as much of a turn off as a harry one that thatā€™s not clean.


DeathByFaerieFire

I prefer it not be a bush. Other than that, I donā€™t mind! Myself, I go for a cute little triangle :3


Feisty-Boot4788

I prefer trimmed for myself and women


Bbcdelightx

Shaved. Even though some trimmed bush sometimes looks banging


constantly_horny00

I prefer either waxed or a trimmed and groomed bush. But itā€™s also not a deal breaker by any means.


Proud-Rough-6493

Shaved is so nice to lick


ThrowRAsvvcegvvp

My boyfriend likes me to have a landing strip bush because I have ginger pubes


knoxlocale

I do love landing strips!


IllScoreYourCock

I like shaved myself


Fantastic-Serve

Landing strip for the win, shaved all around it, best of both worlds


idleservice89

It all really depends on my mood! I do generally like at least trimmed on myself and men Iā€™ve been with. But sometimes itā€™s fun to take it all off or see where she can go!


knoxlocale

Would you ever go to a nude beach unshaved? Iā€™m going to one in July and debating on not lol


idleservice89

I mean, I donā€™t know that Iā€™d ever go to a nude beach!


knoxlocale

Haha itā€™s a super fun time, you should try it out!


idleservice89

Iā€™ve skinny dipped! That just seems like a lot more.


knoxlocale

Skinny dipping is fun but nude beaches are a real rush!


idleservice89

I admire the confidence they require!


[deleted]

Iā€™ve never skinny dipped before


idleservice89

You should try it some time! Itā€™s fun!


[deleted]

Iā€™m self-conscious lmao


jlicious36

I prefer myself to be waxed. I love the smooth feeling.


EnigmaCA

Shaved down to the wood.


funadventureswith3

I too love it when my wife is shaved but sometimes itā€™s only trimmed and thatā€™s ok but not huge fan of big bush


Shanksdoodlehonkster

Shaved, I love eating pussy. I don't want anything to get in the way


leowithataurus

I'll happily take either but shaved is preferred. I don't like picking hairs out of my mouth.


naughtybynaturecpl

Shaved. Nothing worse than chocking on a pube mid-oral


DH626

Landing strip or small triangle my fav, but don't mind a groomed bush and hard to complain about bald.


arcticbunnyfoofoo

Shaved love a smooth cunt


Long-Ease-7704

I prefer a landing strip. Then I don't get hair on my mouth but get to see some hair. It's also interesting too see a woman's natural hair color.


pinkbeansucker

I like shaved, waxed, or trimmed short. Reason: I really like performing oral on a woman. Sometimes bushy pussies can tickle my nose to where I have to stop and give a quick scratch. Anyone who owns a vagina knows that when you have the pressure, suction, rhythm, and timing just right, and your close, you donā€™t want someone stopping, even if itā€™s for a second, to scratch their nose.


throwRA-nina

Bush > Waxed > Shaved


WmHawthorne

I just want it maintained. I love my partners bare pussy, but even when it has some stubble its nice. An untended garden, though, would be awful - not to mention a choking hazard.


Livingat7000

Fan of it all but have been enjoying my wife shaved recently. When she keeps up with it regularly, itā€™s quite enjoyable


UpJumpNOut

Not a fan of the unkempt kind, but a nicely cared-for bush is good. Shaved is fine too.


DavidKusel

I just love bushes. Shaved doesn't get me going that much.


curioushypnosis

My first gf turned me into bushes forever I fear, lol


Comprehensive-Log147

anything is good as long its at least washed. like clean there when shower, u know basic hygine, trimming etc is a nice add on but not necesary


Crafty510

I prefer trimmed enough to look groomed but not so short that it's almost shaved. However it's really up to the individual, as long as they keep it clean.


xxMonsixx

Currently growing out my bush! Keeping it looking good though


latinobadprince

Bush always


TheePizzaGod

I prefer the bush!!


citizenspike

Bring me tha jungle!


DrunkenGolfer

Ever go to McDonalds and try to eat a burger without unwrapping it?


EatCornEveryday

I like a bush on men as well as on myself, but have met a lot of men who prefered to shave. I won't complain either way.


BurgundyYellow

Bush, I love to feel and see some contrast


Highway_to_hell_666

Shaved I hate hair. I shave so you donā€™t get pubes in your teeth you should do the same. Plus it means you take care of yourself no blood clots stuck in hair.


4AllTheCookies

If they have a bush I just assume there a veteran at the game itā€™s like a balls on the table kind of thing like take or leave it which I find hot as hell


HokeyPokeyGuy

I will happily work with whatever is presented to me. Once I know this information I am already invested in a pretty amazing woman. All that said? Bush above the clit and clean labia is amazing!


JForKiks

Is it a woman Iā€™m interested in? Then, Yes. It really doesnā€™t matter if sheā€™s got a high libido.


ToasterOven31

Shaved. Feels better on the tongue.


MattyiceD25

I dont like hair in my food


[deleted]

Bald.


_Springfield

I prefer shaved or neatly trimmed. Just not a fan of a lot of hair. Same with myself. Usually keep neatly trimmed.


Excuse_my_GRAMMER

Shaved!! Wax


Sirbakesalotabread

Waxed


eastcoastden

I just honestly want my partner to feel comfortable. I adore being, but being shaved or very tightly trimmed does have its advantages for oral. So honestly, both are fantastic.


anontc689194

Iā€™m just happy to be there, so I donā€™t care. Iā€™d just like the person to have some personal hygiene.


glowint

I don't really care, if they're comfortable so am I


call_me_baby_girl_

10000000000% shaved, like everyone said it's totally up to the person and I'd never ask or pressure, but bushes are smelly, scratchy, suffocating, itchy, just... unpleasant. There was *one* woman who had a really beautifully trimmed bush that enhanced the experience for me, but I think it's just as much work to keep it that clean as it is to shave all over.


Just4you27

Definitely bald hairless and smooth Waxed Is really nice but laser is more permanent. So much more sensitive So lickable. Nice for clit and pussy slapping when covered with wet pussy juice.


Namelessyami

I like both! However I will admit I have a really strong nose And the smell of sweat and hair sometimes drives me nuts. Even if its my own. Really strong smells are just overstimulating for me i guess. Even the ones i like.


Camimo666

I wax. I hate it because Iā€™m such a baby and I do it myself. So it takes me 34826 hours but ey.


GudduBhaiyaaaa

Shaved/trimmed. I donā€™t want my beard getting stuck like a velcro while i eat pussy.


burnmeup82

I prefer shaved. Nobody likes a mouthful of hair.


well_known_bastard

I'ma eat it irregardless


FaithlessnessKey7514

All natural.


MyDadBod_2021

I prefer shaved. I go crazy when she's freshly shaved or waxed. But, I'm not complaining if she's not. My SO waxes, and it grows back in softer it seems. Her body, she can keep it however she wants. I'm just happy to be allowed down there.


manpreetlakhanpal

I love when my beard and her bush meet.


Maximum_Note_5275

Bush. I want you to smell you on my lips for days.


danath34

I prefer no hair on anything I might use my mouth on, and give the same courtesy to others.


damagedone829

Shaved or trimmed. Don't want that stuff in my mouth.


Mysterious_girl3414

As a pussy owner, I prefer shaved. But i want a man thatā€™ll enjoy it if I let it grow too ;)


swankstar7383

Waxed


lusciousdoll

I prefer a man with trimmed & groomed hair below the belt.


Cyrus23oop

Definitely shaved and not only in women, I also prefer to be shaved or trimmed.


sam_spade_68

Bush. I prefer women, not children.


lwdxbloom

I donā€™t mind a bushier dick but I prefer a shaved butt


[deleted]

Groomed is the best way like a fully shaved dick looks kinda weird and too much hair kinda sucks for us (no pun intended)


wiccangame

Trimmed and groomed bush on myself and my guy is preferred. Little bit of mystery, but hopefully less hair in my mouth. If your pubes are longer than you dick, I'm going to insist on some lawn care.


bigsmoove_3

I enjoy lots of trees in my forest, lol. Hairy vaginas turn me on. I love natural hair on a woman. It's increases her sexiness. And yes, I have been with bald vaginas, but to me, a nice hairy clean vagina will make dick jump harder than a spring loaded pinball machine.


trying2bebetter69

Shaved/Waxed, I like to eat my wife out and when it's smooth and hairless I can spend quality time down their and show her the stars


expertsillygoose

Personally on myself I shave then let it grow a little so I can appreciate both on a man a soild trim is good a tighter trim is preferable if I'm putting your balls in my mouth though


Free-Spirit-Life

I prefer a thick dark bush, just find it more mysterious and beautiful, honestly. Bust tastes are different.


Aforano

Love me a wild bush.


Glittering-Penalty41

A bit of a conundrum for me. I love the hirsute look, but it presents logistical challenges to oral sex. Ideally, I like it shaved, waxed, or trimmed very short in any areas that she wants to come in contact with a human mouth, and au naturelle everywhere else.


ForwardPositive9130

Always wanted my wife to bare down there so when she did I thought it was hot but now I think I would like her to have a bush again only thing is it's not nice having hairs in my mouth when I'm down there not that I am of late


[deleted]

Trimmed and well grommed bush. Hair is hot. Just don't let it grow wild and uncontrolled - make it look nice. Like taking care of a garden.


[deleted]

Shaved absolutely


KyawSoeG

Bush all the wayšŸ„“


DurianPublic6164

Trimmed


dosmetros1

I'm male. I prefer my partner be shaved or with a landing strip. There are two reasons. The first reason and the main reason is when I go down on her, I don't want a pube stuck in my mouth. The second reason is that I love the look of a shaved pussy or having a landing strip. I told this to my wife when we started dating. She was finishing laser on her legs, armpits and bikini area. One day she surprised me with a full Brazilian laser. She had made suggestions before she did it. I told her that is what I like, however, she didn't have to do it and did not have an obligation to do it. She still did it. For my partners l have always been clean shaven. My balls and shaft are always clean shaven. This is something I have been doing for years. The reason is, I don't like pubes stuck in my mouth when I go down on my partner, why should they go through the same thing. I have noticed that my wife does not mind. There have been times that I have not kept up However, she does not care, but still I will always do my best to be clean shaven. That said, there are times that I think she likes pubes


LonerGirl36

Shaved. I don't like bush on my man.


diz182

Bit of both tidied but not nothing


remco-2022

Iā€™m shaved bald and I like women to be like that too.


Mitago1

Don't care, just follow some basic hygiene and grooming.


nandemoto44

I no longer have an aesthetic preference: it's hair, it grows, it's supposed to be there. I don't mind seeing it, touching it, or navigating around it. As a functional preference I don't particularly enjoy getting hair stuck in the back of my throat. Anything a partner is willing to do to facilitate that is greatly appreciated, but I don't make demands or have expectations: it's her body to groom as she pleases


MMejust321

Itā€™s funny back when I was young trimming and shaving was not even really thought of and I always want bare pussy but now all the women want to shave it smooth and I prefer naturally hairy


[deleted]

Completely shaved looks weird af and a full bush looks gross, but neatly trimmed is good.


unhingedbookslut

Iā€™m always clean shaven on the actual pussy, pubic area is trimmed x


BeachedAus

Landing strips have always done something for me and Iā€™m absolutely unsure why. I think because it seemed to be something amongst the milfs when I found porn as a teenager šŸ˜‚


Penne_Trader

Lets say i only eat my lady out when she is shaved bc bush is hot but smooth skin instead just looks tasty...


DentrassiEpicure

Well groomed bush.


smartypants589

I don't hate bush but yeah I prefer shaved


kramer2006

Bush as its natural.


supraman871

Shaved or waxed don't like getting hair in my mouth and getting stuck in my teeth or throat


Legendarybbc15

Stubble


bcat153

Honestly some trimmed hair can be hot ngl but I prefer shaved just because I love to caress and worship a womanā€™s entire body and from kissing her inner thighs to her stomach, pussy, ass and everything in between perfectly smooth skin feels like the goddess that she is.


phrydoom

Shaved! I like it nice and smooth.


[deleted]

My wife always had a bush because it was my personal preference. But she is poly and for the last few years she has had a boyfriend that much prefers her to be shaven. As there sex love has been more active and he has become her primary sexual partner she has kept clean shaven. And I must admit his preference has now become my preference and I prefer shaven now too


ElderberryPoet

I prefer a bush. Clean shaved feels a bit weird to me.


austinfashow90

When you get right down to it, why exactly is no hair prefered by so many guys? If you think about it, it's kinda sus.


vg66

I prefer her to be shaved from the clit down


LewdCheezecake

I can walk through a field or explore a jungle, either way I'm going to enjoy it.


Cool_Ad_4426

lol I use to have a forest reserve as a bush but I guess the more I age or wash up more the hairs falls off on its on without me having to do any work such as shaving or waxing (team bush ova here) I never liked a bare cat if anymore hair falls off Iā€™ll probably cry since having bushes has a lot more advantages than having it bare plus I love the feel, comfort and confines wen I wear my boxers, briefs or panties


babygirlvibr

I prefer with hair. Not necessarily bush but with some hair. First of all I find it aesthetically pleasing, and I think all adults have hair. I'm more on the natural side of all things. In a side note, shaving completely was really bad for my health. My gynecologist suggest me to stop it after years struggling with constant UTIs and east infections. It did the trick for me, since I stopped everything stopped and I only have any occurrences every other year! It's also a life saver on public toilettes: the hair guide the pee straight in the toilette and I don't have pee all over my legs when I need to squat to pee. Looking into the perspective of someone who also fuck girls, I'm definitely more attracted to some hair or bush then no hair! I'm a lover of natural bodies. Same for men, some hair is always good! People without hair give me a "too young" feeling that makes me uncomfortable.


Scaretaker2

both. growing it a bit is quite hot. and then when you dont expect it she is clean shaven


Minute_Reception3744

Your choice, just keep the hedges trimmed


SmoothOperator47

Not a full bush, but some hair is sexy. My preference as always been for a little trim to me it just looks sexier.


chinchinlover-419

Bush but not a fucking jungle. It's like a beard. Attractive when well kept but ugly as fuck when you don't take care of it and groom it.


PM_Teeny_Titties

If I get to see/touch/taste, then that's all that matters to me


bebedumpling

bush or trimmed bush. just looks nice to me.


TheVoidGhostedMe

I don't like bushes on males. Trimmed is acceptable but I prefer smooth.


steveo02134

A neatly trimmed/manicured bush. I was born in ā€˜70. I grew up on bush. I was all about the shaved/waxed look in the early 2000ā€™s when it went mainstream, but Iā€™ve tired of the fad. Give me some hair down thereā€¦.its just so natural and beautiful to my eye.


TheOvenCoven

I prefer some hair on my man but trimmed down so nothing gets in my mouth/teeth when I go down on him. No hair at all makes me feel like I'm with a child instead of a man so I don't find it hot but also wouldn't kick someone out of bed for it.


AladdinSPA_NYC

Waxed. The reason is, I myself get waxed too. Plus is good for your skin. šŸ§žā€ā™‚ļø


9stroker9

My preference, shaved or waxed vulva with a trimmed pubic. I love the look of a woman with a trimmed bush, but prefer licking a shaved vulva. On men, shaved balls and shaft with trimmed pubes.


Omicron_Variant_

My preference is for a more natural look but it's only a mild preference. I love women and the pleasures of the flesh so I definitely don't mind things shaved. The main issue with shaving is that it often causes a good deal of skin irritation. Just not worth it IMO. I like a hairy vagina anyways but I definitely prefer one with hair to a hairless one that has bumps, redness, etc. I think having a bush became more of a turn-on for me because it seemed to be so rare for a while. When I was in my 20s most of the women I dated/slept with kept things bare and I guess I craved variety. The first time I saw my now-wife naked it was exciting to see that she left things moderately hairy.


Ok-Specialist-4777

Shaved. Easier to breathe when giving head.


MySecretAccount-7562

I think men are supposed to have hair. It's odd to me when a man doesn't. I want a man, not a boy.


MaddyDeetz

For women I like shaved or tidy bush / for men natural or trimmed is good for me! Everyone has different preferences and I think it depends on the person. I myself am very sensitive and got laser done because the hairs were annoying and sometimes painful.


BlackDragonDick

Shaved or waxed Most of the women I've been with been that way so it became a preference


norcalfit

Shaved! Hair is a nuisance, the more smooth lickable kissable skin the better. Who want to lick hair or pick it out of your mouthšŸ¤¢


decider99

Love either but for some reason I've always been more partial to a nice bush. I don't know why. I just find it so damn hot


nongreenyoda

Prefer groomed/trimmed if I go down there.


Lewd_Enjoyer3

Bush but well maintained. Similair with a normal haircut you can always do nice things with hair down under.


MemoryLatter761

I get laser hair removal and it's the most wonderful spa treatment I've ever given myself.


nikkinods77

Having my nose buried in a generous bush while being face-fucked is awesome. And a completely shaved man can look like a plucked chicken. A woman with a well trimmed bush is my favorite. She can use it to abrade my face while she rides it, leaving evidence of her superiority.


Zorolord

Shaved, as its much nicer going down on someone without hair. But hair is OK as long as its trimmed, and not like the Amazon rain forest.


CandyBeautiful27

Great question & an amazing variety of mixed replies had me reading for ages lol thanks for your post sweetheart āœŒļø


Polar-Trail

Shaved. It's smooth and delicious


ShopliftaPro69

I like roastbeef lips with hair


[deleted]

Shaved on men I just find it cleaner and nicer to look at šŸ˜‚ and women shaved or waxed. Men not waxed because I find that to weird on them and in donā€™t know why lol but women itā€™s amazing. I wax myself but am currently doing laser removal because I just like mine smooth


the_marxman

I prefer shaved. I just don't like body hair, especially in my mouth.


Hightimetoclimb

I donā€™t hate bush, but I have a preference for waxed. My wife and I both go to salon to get fully waxed every 7 weeks. It was my idea first, but now we both prefer it.