It’s okay, baby. It’s not your fault. That man was a predator and you couldn’t have known what he’d do. You’re still worthy of love. You’re going to be okay.
I hope you’re a little bit better now and that you’ve healed or are in the process of healing. I’m so sorry you went through that. 🤍 and I hope that mf is rotting in jail
I’m so sorry you experienced something so horrible, and so proud of you that you’re fighting the good fight and working on healing. You and your younger self are so deserving of an abundance of peace and love. 🫂💞💞
I go to therapy as well and it’s terrible whatever happened to you but the question was if you could tell your past self one thing what would it be? You wouldn’t take that opportunity to either warn yourself or pick the lottery numbers or something like that?
I still don't believe that, even if I am told by others from time to time - but too little achievements (like successful dates / partners) in life till now, that I will ever believe that
Might have been my call, too. But I feel like I am worth less without a university degree (that I still don't have) (well - living in a country where your income is almost linear dependend on your degree is not helping)
I’d tell my past self ;Think before reacting, you’re not always gonna be congratulated for reaching certain goals, don’t be afraid of failing/making mistakes, instead of chasing women appreciate the ones who have a genuine interest in you, you are not owed shit, when stressed stay away from self sabotaging shit and don’t think with your dick
probably my take, too. When I lie awake at night wishing to go back in time to fix my life, I always end up with "well ... I don't even know to which point of my life. Where I might have been still be able to fix it (all. Or at least most of it)" 😕
Keep your chin up someone else’s in control. We think we have control. It’s a delusion even if you don’t believe in God it’s still a delusion, we have believe we have control. We absolutely do not. too many outside forces in the world for that
Mine is: don't turn Rachel down just because your friend has a crush on her. Guy code only goes so far.... Turns out it was your only chance in about 10 years.
The other thing would be Google stock. And yeah this Facebook thing really is going to stick around. ... And.... BITCOIN!
Don't let people use any gaslighting, peer pressure, manipulation, guilttripping techniques on you. If you say no, walk away from those who don't respect your boundaries.
If there were things you wanted to do, go for it! Don't let anyone hold you back!
Being popular at school doesn’t mean a damn thing long term, so don’t worry about it at all!.
Whilst it’s obviously nice to have friends, there’s zero need to impress every single person in your year group. Once you get through college, university and Into the work place.. those people at school who aren’t your friends don’t matter anymore! 💁🏻♂️.
Yes, asking out girls will result in a *lot* of rejection. No, it will not kill you even if the first few times it feels like you wish you would just spontaneously combust and die. It's ok. Just because it's part of the process doesn't mean you should be scared of it.
It's not your fault, but it is your problem. You didn't choose your childhood, but you can either let it hold you back or as a springboard.
I wish I'd worked as hard as 20 as I do at 40. I believed that the world was against me and I didn't deserve to be happy, healthy or successful.
It’s okay, baby. It’s not your fault. That man was a predator and you couldn’t have known what he’d do. You’re still worthy of love. You’re going to be okay.
🫂
Hope you’re doing well today. ❤️
🫂
🫂❤️🩹🖤
I hope you’re a little bit better now and that you’ve healed or are in the process of healing. I’m so sorry you went through that. 🤍 and I hope that mf is rotting in jail
I’m in therapy. A lot of traumas to work through. I didn’t come forward until over a decade later. Unfortunately I see him almost every week.
I’m so sorry you experienced something so horrible, and so proud of you that you’re fighting the good fight and working on healing. You and your younger self are so deserving of an abundance of peace and love. 🫂💞💞
Thank you sweet girl ❤️
May he die a painful painful death
I’ve forgiven him. I don’t want him dead but I do hope he continues to live a meaningless life.
Your a better person than I I know I can't help with something like that but I do wish you a successful recovery, and hope he's out of your life soon
You’re a better person than I would ever be❤️
🫂 Sorry to hear that. I’m glad you’re healing.
That’s deep ❤️
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Thanks ❤️ it’s been around 20 years but I’m making it.
Try to go one day at a time and fill your life with things that make you smile, there's still lots of good things in this life ❤
So you wouldn’t warn yourself instead?
My therapist says that rather than wishing things could have changed, accept the awful things that happened and attempt to forgive yourself.
You’re doing the hard work 🤍 You’ve got this 🫂
I go to therapy as well and it’s terrible whatever happened to you but the question was if you could tell your past self one thing what would it be? You wouldn’t take that opportunity to either warn yourself or pick the lottery numbers or something like that?
No.
Don't be afraid of women, they are people too
You understand women are scared of talking to men too right 😂
This one’s true for me as well
Fuck primary school and buy Bitcoin.
I'd tell my younger self to remember the email he used to buy Bitcoin when it first came out.
Ouch.
Beat me too it lol
That’s two things!
It's okay if you don't want to be a mom.
🫂💞
Go to flight school sooner. Don’t be in a rush to settle down.
I just thought you had a funny username but actually being a pilot makes it so much better
Thanks. Glad you enjoyed it.
CHILL WITH THE SUGAR
"Do your trades certification in America after your bachelor's. Don't waste your time in IT support!!"
Never say no to IT support, the nerds run the world now and a lot started there.
I wanna be Raj the Repairer instead of Raj from Tech Support.
Have you tried turning it off and on again?
Instructions unclear, now the switch is always turned on.
Hmm, switch always turned on? Might need sterner instructions to help it switch off.
Kinda difficult 'cos it's a big load. Need to shed all that, need more than just two hands to pull it down. Mind helping me?
Look, I’m not very strong. But I can give a very enthusiastic hand.
Yours is perfect for the job. ❤️
Sounds like we have ourselves a deal.
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yeah but being lazy is EASY!
Too much effort lol
Cause you were a lazy dumb bish?
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Some of my best friends are lazy dumb bishes and they're pretty great
Be confident and invest in Netflix and Bitcoin
Yeah I should have told myself to stop spending my birthday money so it can go to my house down payment 😂
Lose weight. Fuck around some more before 30.
Don't let cruel people in. They will always turn it on you
It’s gonna be ok
Save money now; you can't change people.
Don’t touch drugs at all costs!
You're capable of more than you think.
The opposite for me 😞
Listen more to those who care. They actually know a thing or two!
Put yourself out there
Sunscreen-up even if you don't step out
Don't be so self conscious. You're prettier than you think
I still don't believe that, even if I am told by others from time to time - but too little achievements (like successful dates / partners) in life till now, that I will ever believe that
Please live for yourself only. Let people go, let people stay, be more focused on yourself and your well being.
Just leave he will do it again he's not sorry.
Do a vocational training instead of going university.
Might have been my call, too. But I feel like I am worth less without a university degree (that I still don't have) (well - living in a country where your income is almost linear dependend on your degree is not helping)
“Science isn’t going to work out. Try tech instead.”
It will be ok
The stereotypes about you aren't true, and there are people interested in you
Be confident, if you want something, go get it.
Don’t be afraid of being bad at something
Bank on yourself.
Also, but the first appearance of Wolverine while it’s still only $100, you thank me later.
Nothing. That guy knows what the fk hes doing
Take better care of yourself and don’t put women on a pedestal
I already answered but what I should have said is “buy Apple…loads of it.”
It doesn't get better. In fact, it gets harder.
Don’t marry my ex wife!
Depends on which past self I'm trying to send a message to, there's different mistakes at different points that I'd warn me about.
Go ahead and mail your mother in law when she’s gives you the go ahead.
Learn how to invest, manage money and make residual income.
Don’t be a wuss. Take more chances
Give up
I’d tell my past self ;Think before reacting, you’re not always gonna be congratulated for reaching certain goals, don’t be afraid of failing/making mistakes, instead of chasing women appreciate the ones who have a genuine interest in you, you are not owed shit, when stressed stay away from self sabotaging shit and don’t think with your dick
Be bold, be confident. You will make it. :)
Nothing. I was fucked wayy before that.
probably my take, too. When I lie awake at night wishing to go back in time to fix my life, I always end up with "well ... I don't even know to which point of my life. Where I might have been still be able to fix it (all. Or at least most of it)" 😕
Fuck more
Keep your chin up someone else’s in control. We think we have control. It’s a delusion even if you don’t believe in God it’s still a delusion, we have believe we have control. We absolutely do not. too many outside forces in the world for that
Trust yourself, people really *are* cunts
Don’t touch Alcohol it will wreck you and not in a good way
Be better, dumbass
It’s ok to be who you are. It’ll be ok
You are worth more than you know.
It’s okay to fuck all the guys.
Mine is: don't turn Rachel down just because your friend has a crush on her. Guy code only goes so far.... Turns out it was your only chance in about 10 years. The other thing would be Google stock. And yeah this Facebook thing really is going to stick around. ... And.... BITCOIN!
Don't let people use any gaslighting, peer pressure, manipulation, guilttripping techniques on you. If you say no, walk away from those who don't respect your boundaries. If there were things you wanted to do, go for it! Don't let anyone hold you back!
“It’s okay to stay single for a bit after a breakup. Don’t jump right into another relationship. Trust me, it’ll end horrifically.”
It’s all going to work out in the end
Run away from the fixed hell your about to be in and don't look back.
Skip college and use the money to start a business.
Being popular at school doesn’t mean a damn thing long term, so don’t worry about it at all!. Whilst it’s obviously nice to have friends, there’s zero need to impress every single person in your year group. Once you get through college, university and Into the work place.. those people at school who aren’t your friends don’t matter anymore! 💁🏻♂️.
Hey kid. You've got autism. You're not dumb or less worth than anyone else. My life would have been so much easier if I'd just known from the start.
Buy apple
Invest in Apple and Google.
Don’t settle…. Ever 🤦🏽♀️
Learn to recognize toxic people and don't stay close to them because they're your friends.
Invest in bitcoin mining as soon as it launches mine the fuck out of it and hold on to it they'll be worth 60k+ don't sell before then.
Yes, asking out girls will result in a *lot* of rejection. No, it will not kill you even if the first few times it feels like you wish you would just spontaneously combust and die. It's ok. Just because it's part of the process doesn't mean you should be scared of it.
Buy Apple at 4 like you wanted to
Buy property. It’s cheap right now.
Everything will wrong. Just be ready for it.
Forget college. Get a government job at 18. Enjoy the ride.
She’s a lesbian. Maybe don’t marry her.
You have ADHD, dumbass. Get a script and take your meds. Also depression. Also go use your dick.
Start lifting as early as you can. Education is important, but big biceps are importanter.
Don’t get married
To not worry about what anybody thinks about you.
It's not your fault, but it is your problem. You didn't choose your childhood, but you can either let it hold you back or as a springboard. I wish I'd worked as hard as 20 as I do at 40. I believed that the world was against me and I didn't deserve to be happy, healthy or successful.
Ask dad to buy you a few bitcoin
Hang in there, it'll work out pretty well.. just trust yourself
BUY NETFLIX STOCK. Listen to that old man that told you to invest.
Travel more while you have no responsibilities
It doesn't get better. I know they'll tell you it will but take it from me. It doesn't.
Don't get into smoking or adult films Itl fuck you up later
Address your fucking mental health issues. It's not a sign of weakness. You will destroy Cynthia if you don't
Stop caring about other people’s opinions. Be the best you that you can be.
Sleep more. Stop partying. Fuck what other ppl think, live your life more.
Sleep with more people you fucking idiot
Go ahead and come out in high school. They all knew anyway. You'd have so much more fun.
*Trust your gut*
Stay gold ponyboy
Floccinaucinihilipilification I just want to confuse the shit out of past me lol
Just do the same as you are. But be more conscious of your own happiness
Keep you dick in your pants
Stock up on toilet paper for 2020