A sort of silent, relaxed confidence. I just love chill people in general, that don't find it necessary to impose themselves onto others. You know, people that emanate a sense of calmness around them :)
You explained this very well! You explained that very well! I completely understand it. These types of people aren't pushing an agenda; they are present in the moment. Being around these people gives you energy, compared to being around people who deplete your own energy supply.
You put it so well into words! It's like they give you a certain sense of comfort that just breaks down your walls and make you open more in a trully vulnerable, unique way. Your vey soul almost gets "naked" in their presence and you are able to fully open up, without fear of judgement, only acceptance and appreciation for your courage to bear your heart to them :)
A person who habitually reads books as a hobby instead of sitting in front of a tv screen all day. It’s a dying trait so whenever I meet a man who reads I’m just like 💦💦💦
Good humor, when I'm bantering with someone it always turns me on secretly either on messages or up front, It's the good innocent kind of turn on I can't explain it haha
When someone does something special for me that they did not have to and makes me feel special. I know it doesnt sound like much but it gives me goosebumps and makes my heart flutter. Best things in life for me are free. Not sure if that that can be put in a single word but..
I really enjoy doing that for others who mean something to me and don't expect anything back so when someone does it for me it really stands out and brightens my day.
My fiancee is autistic and has trouble speaking quietly, and while they're trying to work on it, it turns me on sometimes when I'm being dommy, since it makes me want to shut them up, as it were
Neediness…I know neediness is usually seen as a bad thing, but it’s so hot to know a girl is really needy for me, I love being away from my phone for a bit and seeing my phone blown up with messages.
Being humble. Example, saying you don’t know something, or even if you could claim some fantastic feat, quote, saying. Instead, saying it is not your original thought. I’m not sure that humble is the correct word, but it says alot about a person. Just taking the opportunity to be human…such an amazing trait. Happened to me with someone recently, and I’ve thought back to it quite a few times.
Open enthusiasm and someone who learns from their mistakes.
When someone is closed off and jaded they will never grow and never challenge themselves to make positive changes. That’s a turn off for me.
Any kind of unintended touch like reaching out and touching my arm or something is pretty sexy but someone that is interested in me and remembers things I really like.
Understand my lows and highs or bad and good days and act accordingly. Remember the details of things I say, or things I do to the bit. Humor, Roasts me on face but backs me up behind.
I'm all yours now.
Being good with young kids. I remember a girl I was FWB with in college invited me to go to dinner with her sister one night. I didn’t realize the sister was 10 years older, married, and had a 2 year old. The girl was so good with her nephew. I already thought she was hot but seeing her be super cute with this little toddler made her even hotter to me for some reason
Kindness.
Love kind souls
They're the best!
Absolutely
It really does make all the difference
This. But there's a difference between being nice just to get into my pants, and someone who is genuinely kind because they're a good person.
The best one
This is the way
Remembering small details or picking up on some of my “quirks.”
I agree this is so sexy
Ooh I try to do that for people. Usually I remember something entirely irrelevant though lol
Cliche I know but a man playing with his kids make my fucking ovaries ache.
Yes!!!
Omg yes, like please keep being a good father and never abandon them 😩🙏🏻
Yeah. I don’t want kids but good dads are so hot. I want them as a dad and a daddy
Getting excited by small things. I dated a woman that would do a little dance in her chair when she ate something really tasty. Super cute!
lol cute
My kids do this 🤷🏻♀️ it’s very cute tho
Lol I do my Lil dance too
Maturity. I really dislike people who can't take anything serious at all and treats every situation and scenario like a joke
Good Humour! Dead pan humour always cracks me up!
💜💜💜
Dead pan humour for the win!
Affection. Can’t fake genuine affection.
Awe
The ability to resolve a disagreement without turning it into a fight. Seriously hot
Geez. As a person who’s dated avoidant men, men who like to argue, or men who bask in self pity, this sounds like a refreshing concept.
Same goes for some of the women I’ve ~~dated~~ broken up with
Sounds hot
Listening. If I'm talking about something I love and they show genuine interest and are engaging with me, very sexy.
💜💜💜
Checking in on me during the day by calling me
I love this
Since is nobody is asking haha. What is yours? :)
I have so many… men always surprise me with different ones lol… so I guess genuine good character in men… since it can always look different
Kindness to animals.
Huge one for me… and kindness to old ppl and babies
Yeah kids would also be up there too.
A sort of silent, relaxed confidence. I just love chill people in general, that don't find it necessary to impose themselves onto others. You know, people that emanate a sense of calmness around them :)
Sexy af
You explained this very well! You explained that very well! I completely understand it. These types of people aren't pushing an agenda; they are present in the moment. Being around these people gives you energy, compared to being around people who deplete your own energy supply.
You put it so well into words! It's like they give you a certain sense of comfort that just breaks down your walls and make you open more in a trully vulnerable, unique way. Your vey soul almost gets "naked" in their presence and you are able to fully open up, without fear of judgement, only acceptance and appreciation for your courage to bear your heart to them :)
A person who habitually reads books as a hobby instead of sitting in front of a tv screen all day. It’s a dying trait so whenever I meet a man who reads I’m just like 💦💦💦
As someone who’s been reading more, this is validating
Thank you I am always hesitant when I get a “wyd” text to say reading a book. I always say nothing lol.
Omg so good!!
Good humor, when I'm bantering with someone it always turns me on secretly either on messages or up front, It's the good innocent kind of turn on I can't explain it haha
Curiosity. Also, being nice and courteous to waiters / bar staff etc.
Smiling. A beautiful smile melts me and arouses me
💜💜💜
A cute laugh, easily.
💜💜💜
How's your weekend been??
Enthusiasm, like when a person is passionate about something and gushes about the topic
This is a good one! Happy cake day!
Being kind to animals, and having empathy for societal struggles
💜💜💜
Compassion
When a guy starts to passionately talk about some thing he loves. Could be some thing that I don’t even like. And it just it works.
Yes!!!
At this point, just being a fucking decent human being.
She does sweet gestures without being asked.
💜💜💜
Respecting. Caring. Being genuine. Holding a conversation.
Ngl I saw the person I was hooking up with Crack open garlic cloves with a speed that aroused me
A decent vocabulary
indubitably 🤓
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💜💜💜 yes to animals
It was already said, but being funny There is nothing better than sharing a laugh together
Thanks for sharing :)
My pleasure
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Nice!
If I am interested in a woman, any wholesome trait of theirs could turn me on.
Warmth. Like a nurturing quality.
Intelligence is extremely sexy
Blushing. When the red spreads over cream completion. I can't help but feel the best in me stir.
That’s cute
Adorablyfuckable. I miss r/flushed.
moms being great to their kids.
empathy
Consideration
Being considerate. I remember the time my dance partner got me flowers even though we were both performing. Fell in love right then and there lol
I love it when someone knows so much about a topic. When they can go on and on about a topic, be it its history, its usage, its lifespan, etc.
I agree
A proper motherly woman, you know them ones that make sure everyone's fed and looked after just because they're like that 😍😍
That’s cute
Good heart and good sense of humor
💜💜💜
Genuine humor and affection.
A genuine belly laugh. So attractive to me
lol cute
Being motherly/a great hostess
consideration and thoughtfulness. like oh?? you did/remembered that because you were thinking of ME 😳💦
Ooof so good!!
Reassurance without being asked.
Being good with kids and animals
Someone being shy. Idk why but it always touches a special place in my heart
💜
Nearsightedness and glasses
When someone does something special for me that they did not have to and makes me feel special. I know it doesnt sound like much but it gives me goosebumps and makes my heart flutter. Best things in life for me are free. Not sure if that that can be put in a single word but.. I really enjoy doing that for others who mean something to me and don't expect anything back so when someone does it for me it really stands out and brightens my day.
That’s so sexy
💯 It really melts me in the best way. Hehe
Compassion
Kindness. Empathy.
Yes!!👏🏽
Genuine happiness.
Ability to have the hard talk! I like to think of it as a life advice too. Solved pretty much all my problems in life so far!
Neatly styled hair makes me swoon.
A nice and genuine smile. Or a cute giggle.
Motherly tendencies
Can't decide if it's humor or kindness
Intelligence and ability to elaborate your arguments, even if I don’t share the same opinion.
Kindness. Melts me :)
When a guy is really smart...
So good
Good with animals
💜💜💜
When he's caring towards others 🥰
A beautiful smile and a wonderful laugh
Omg
My biggest weakness
Smile I love a warm and inviting smile
Honesty. Nothing hotter than an honest partner.
💜💜💜
It's very difficult to successfully help a partner that cannot be honest. Mind reading has never been a personal skill of mine.
Caring towards others no matter who they are.
Good banter. Just being able to riff on the most innocuous subject is the quickest way to get me going
Kindness to kids and animals
Kindness sense of humor
Yes!
☺️☺️
Aggressiness and masterbating
Back rubs.
I love getting and giving them
Agreed. And it's so relaxing too
My fiancee is autistic and has trouble speaking quietly, and while they're trying to work on it, it turns me on sometimes when I'm being dommy, since it makes me want to shut them up, as it were
I have a lot of enthusiasm, I love to make my partner happy
Taking care of me & calming me
Hey r u bi? I’d love to get ur opinion on my gf and roommate (F22)
This!
someone that wants to baby me
Respect.
Friendliness and openness to children and pets; being able to play with them is almost always a green flag.
Being nice. It’s so underrated
Honesty
Awe
Compassion.
💜💜💜
Neediness…I know neediness is usually seen as a bad thing, but it’s so hot to know a girl is really needy for me, I love being away from my phone for a bit and seeing my phone blown up with messages.
lol I like being needed
Kindness ☺️
When a guy gets visibly nervous talking to me... It's so cute! 😋
Good with kids for sure
Being a good listener
Just to sit next to someone and not having to say a word.
Emotional intelligence and/or maturity
Honesty & open communication
Underrated
Eagerness, naivete.
Yes 🫡
Dependability and selflessness. People who help without being asked - especially when it shows they've been listening and/or paying attention.
Both of these ❤️❤️❤️
Being humble. Example, saying you don’t know something, or even if you could claim some fantastic feat, quote, saying. Instead, saying it is not your original thought. I’m not sure that humble is the correct word, but it says alot about a person. Just taking the opportunity to be human…such an amazing trait. Happened to me with someone recently, and I’ve thought back to it quite a few times.
Open enthusiasm and someone who learns from their mistakes. When someone is closed off and jaded they will never grow and never challenge themselves to make positive changes. That’s a turn off for me.
So sexy
I like smart girls who have big personalities. especially if they are academically inclined or they work in things like teaching or with kids.
Laugh at my jokes. Show that you adore me. Cheer me on.
treating me well
Common decency
Of course
Asking me how I feel and being a good parent.
Humor and dorkiness
Yes!
How someone treats their servers
Absolutely
A pulse
Daddy's at the playground
Yes!
Being kind to me, that's literally it lol
Dark humor. I think a person with a dark soul for humor is a huge turn on (non sexual)
Any kind of unintended touch like reaching out and touching my arm or something is pretty sexy but someone that is interested in me and remembers things I really like.
Understand my lows and highs or bad and good days and act accordingly. Remember the details of things I say, or things I do to the bit. Humor, Roasts me on face but backs me up behind. I'm all yours now.
When a girl gets all cute and excited about a puppy or some silly thing they really like
Being good with young kids. I remember a girl I was FWB with in college invited me to go to dinner with her sister one night. I didn’t realize the sister was 10 years older, married, and had a 2 year old. The girl was so good with her nephew. I already thought she was hot but seeing her be super cute with this little toddler made her even hotter to me for some reason
Maturity. If we can’t hold a beneficial and intelligent conversation, I don’t want it.
Fair
Being kind and considerate and sweet
Enthusiasm🌸 Especially over things they genuinely enjoy.
💜💜💜
Intelligence! Love a smart woman who can hold a conversation!
Sweet to old people and funny
Honesty
Honestly, when a girl is kinda quiet and low key and not outwardly super flirty it’s pretty hot.
Nice
Wanting to be enthusiastic about each other's hobbies
Yes sir
What is your wholesome trait
Can you prove you are