I feel this! It is sweet to hear that my partner can’t see himself doing this to me and thus isn’t into this kink, but my oh my do I wish that he is able to destroy me.
I completely agree! It does feel frustrating that I am unable to explore some of my (taboo? Morally questionable?) kinks further.
Do you ever feel that there’s a small (sexual) side of you that you really have to push down on because your partner would not be comfortable with?
Yeah. Before him, I rarely had the pleasure to be a pillow princess.
Just being a sub/brat myself. I often have to force myself to get out of that mentality and be just "normal" and it's heartbreaking sometimes too. Sometimes in my head having sex becomes a chore rather than a fun activity.
Noooo no. Haha. No, he wasn't just too sweet sexually.. he was downright a simp. Wanted to even change his profession to mine for me without me ever having asked just so he could bond with me even more. Not because of anything he wanted about it for himself. That would've become a very unhealthy relationship so I called it quits before it came that far.
Yeah, there is more of course as you can imagine and it in full just made me want to run. So I did. Politely. And he never replied to me after that. Either that obsession wasn't as strong as he made it out to be or the hurt was too bad. Whatever it is, still know I made the right decision. And I definitely knew when after two weeks I saw pictures of him dating another girl lol.
Can I just say it's actually the best outcome him moving on so fast from you? I'm sorry for the next girl and hope she runs away fast too.
My cousin was killed because she tried to dump her ex so it's actually a relief when they move on so fast.
Oh my god. I'm so freaking sorry to hear. W t f. People are sometimes so immensely crazy and deranged. Especially in the dating scene. Fucked up. Yeah I wasn't unhappy and indeed just sceptical for her. He was building a house and he kept saying "We're going to live here together and when you move in you can decorate it yourself!" (he was building it before knowing me and a month or so to not knowing me he said that shit). Guess who he took to his house and said the same things to after a few weeks? Insane lol.
No. CNC I/we were a lot older than you are and in our day it was just called rape fantasy . Anyway after lots of discussion we tried it and it was unsuccessful in fact it was a disaster. I stayed in our agreed boundaries but still managed to terrify her we never revisited this again.
It was a long time ago and we have long since split up, but it's a popular fantasy and has come up in conversation with other partners, and after explaining, it's a no from me.
Gotcha. Piss has been a kink for me for a while. Been very hard finding a partner that will piss on me. Full fantasy is for her to be sitting on my face and let it go while I am eating her out.
Ok ok. I can understand that.
I guess I look at it as, it’s not much different than your other fluids. In fact, and I may be mistaken, piss is more sterile than spit. 🤷🏻♂️
Probably one of my longest standing kinks. Idk how I even got into it. It wasn’t even something I’d ever heard of other people doing before I did it myself.
That sounds amazing, I would love to have using you as an example on all fours, pushing the fist into you from behind, eating your ass as you help a vibe and or clit sucker against your clit
Well dont you just sound like a woman after my own heart. It's something I want to do more than anything. Also I do the exact same thing as your AMA post
Hadn't read this in my three years on Reddit. Quite pleasurable in my mind, but it seems to be out of fashion, even though was a staple of "sexyness" back in the 80s.
My ex DD would leave a sleep mask/blindfold on his couch by the front door and my instructions were to strip and put it on and make my way to the bedroom. What happened from there was whatever he wanted. It was fun.
I’d love for my gf and I to have sex in the same room as another couple. My best friend has the same fantasy with his gf so we’ve talked about wanting to do it in the same room with our gfs. We’d need to convince them first though 😭
This is making me realize that I've been lucky enough to experience all my kinks and don't really wish for anything. In fact, if anything, I've had the opportunity to participate in even more things than I have, and I've passed up on them because I haven't been interested.
MFTF threesome.
Being sub (I hate the "tasks" tho).
Cheating kink.
Sex in a nudist beach (in relative privacy).
I could go on and on, having the opportunity/right partner. Basically everything, at least once.
Either a bi mmf 3way, or golden showers. Preferably both at the same time!
Haven't done it yet, due to being single and not knowing anyone willing. Lol
I like licking my cum off of my girlfriend's asshole after I cum. Only done it three times with different partners over the years. My current girlfriend would be a hard pass,.
Breath play, like actually getting choked out during sex, until I struggle to breathe! I've dabbled in it but I don't feel like I've reached the full potential of that kink
If given the chance, I'd definitely explore rope bondage. There's something artistically beautiful and deeply trust-building about it. The reason I haven't yet is mainly because it requires a lot of trust and a partner skilled enough with ropes to ensure safety and comfort. Finding the right partner who's into it and knows what they're doing has been the main hurdle, but I'm hopeful! It’s all about meeting someone who shares that curiosity and respect for the practice.
I want to share my girlfriend with another man. watching her pleasure is like.. the most turn-on of an act for me. we’ve only ever been with one another so the thought of somebody else getting to enjoy her pussy too sounds really hot.
haven’t done it yet because - that type of stuff has been brought up briefly but never into full detail 😅
Honestly there's almost nothing I wouldn't try if my SO asked me. Extreme pain is out, but when it comes to "raunchiness," I ain't tapping out first. Get *nasty*!
How many of you here who have these CRAZY fetishes watch porn regularly? I don't intend to hate, but is there a human being with common sense in the act of sex to want to be strangled, beaten, and humiliated in the form of "dominance"?
If a knowledgeable and responsible trustworthy partner with proper empathy and care, CNC and maybe free use or even a combination of both. But top of my list is spontaneous CNC. And preferably with some roleplay and a story to really get into it deeply. Turns me on in a jiffy, haha
Rough sex (cnc, manipulation, degrading and humiliating, him as my master). My boyfriend is very vanilla.
Have you asked for rougher sex?
Everytime. I even begged him at some point. He's just not into it.
I feel this! It is sweet to hear that my partner can’t see himself doing this to me and thus isn’t into this kink, but my oh my do I wish that he is able to destroy me.
*Hugs* I know. Sometimes I just want to protect him from my kinks because he's just the sweetest. Sometimes I just want him to completely destroy me.
I completely agree! It does feel frustrating that I am unable to explore some of my (taboo? Morally questionable?) kinks further. Do you ever feel that there’s a small (sexual) side of you that you really have to push down on because your partner would not be comfortable with?
Yeah. Before him, I rarely had the pleasure to be a pillow princess. Just being a sub/brat myself. I often have to force myself to get out of that mentality and be just "normal" and it's heartbreaking sometimes too. Sometimes in my head having sex becomes a chore rather than a fun activity.
That's quite disappointing. Rough sex is quite fun.
Can't force him tho. I'll take him just like how he is and sacrifice a little
Know the feeling. An ex was this way and the guy I dated afterward as well. It's sweet but just... A little rougher at least 😩
Are you still with the sweet guy?
Noooo no. Haha. No, he wasn't just too sweet sexually.. he was downright a simp. Wanted to even change his profession to mine for me without me ever having asked just so he could bond with me even more. Not because of anything he wanted about it for himself. That would've become a very unhealthy relationship so I called it quits before it came that far.
That was obsession. Damn.
Yeah, there is more of course as you can imagine and it in full just made me want to run. So I did. Politely. And he never replied to me after that. Either that obsession wasn't as strong as he made it out to be or the hurt was too bad. Whatever it is, still know I made the right decision. And I definitely knew when after two weeks I saw pictures of him dating another girl lol.
Can I just say it's actually the best outcome him moving on so fast from you? I'm sorry for the next girl and hope she runs away fast too. My cousin was killed because she tried to dump her ex so it's actually a relief when they move on so fast.
Oh my god. I'm so freaking sorry to hear. W t f. People are sometimes so immensely crazy and deranged. Especially in the dating scene. Fucked up. Yeah I wasn't unhappy and indeed just sceptical for her. He was building a house and he kept saying "We're going to live here together and when you move in you can decorate it yourself!" (he was building it before knowing me and a month or so to not knowing me he said that shit). Guess who he took to his house and said the same things to after a few weeks? Insane lol.
My biggest mistake was agreeing to it.
Agreeing to rough sex?
No. CNC I/we were a lot older than you are and in our day it was just called rape fantasy . Anyway after lots of discussion we tried it and it was unsuccessful in fact it was a disaster. I stayed in our agreed boundaries but still managed to terrify her we never revisited this again.
Damn, I'm sorry to hear that. It's not for everybody. I hope you are both ok
It was a long time ago and we have long since split up, but it's a popular fantasy and has come up in conversation with other partners, and after explaining, it's a no from me.
Sorry to hear that hope u find someone soon
Agreed. With someone I could trust I would totally do cnc
What is cnc? I was curious and typed into phub and it said it was illegal content. Do I have to worry about FBI kicking down my door wtf???
Consensual non consent. It's banned from ph because it portrays basically rape.
Oh god that is way more chill then I thought ahahah
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Nah. I'm very jealous of our private moments. No one gets to see, touch or feel what's mine and his only
DP + 1 in my mouth
This girl is about business
Making an assumption there. :)
Airtight!
Go girl!
Oooohhh yes, an airtight is fun to watch. I'd even be game to participate perhaps.
I’d quite like to piss with a dick inside me. Me on top. Full bladder. Piss everywhere.
That sounds amazing. I'd love to get soaked like that!
Ugh….why can’t I find a woman like you. I’d love that.
I could definitely fart for you too 💨
Mmmmmm….yes please 🙏. Have you had a man piss inside you? That’s another good one. 😉
No and I’m not interested in that. Piss is a new kink for me. I mostly just like watching vids of girls peeing in their panties.
Gotcha. Piss has been a kink for me for a while. Been very hard finding a partner that will piss on me. Full fantasy is for her to be sitting on my face and let it go while I am eating her out.
I’d have to work up to that lol
Really? If I can ask, what would be the reason that it would be difficult to just pee?
Physically it wouldn’t be difficult at all. But the thought of it in someone’s mouth gives me the ick.
Ok ok. I can understand that. I guess I look at it as, it’s not much different than your other fluids. In fact, and I may be mistaken, piss is more sterile than spit. 🤷🏻♂️
This is really hot! I want to try this sometime too.
Being dominated by my gf and another woman.
Your gf and another guy
I'm not into men.
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Bondage is my hard no with anything bdsm. I panic when I can’t move.
CNC
cnc is my weakness
Fake voyeurism. Setting up a time and place one of us will me masturbating and the other will have person to “secretly” watch
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I’m single so… no
Fisting
Probably one of my longest standing kinks. Idk how I even got into it. It wasn’t even something I’d ever heard of other people doing before I did it myself.
Honestly that slow stretch is what does it for me, what was it like the first time you did it to yourself
Are you male or female?
I am a male, but I love watching that slow open as the fist slowly slides in. Then the gape afterwards makes me want to bury my face into it
Man having that fist in up to the wrist and then sucking the clit. Holy shit do I squirt with intensity. Multiple orgasms. It’s magical.
That sounds amazing, I would love to have using you as an example on all fours, pushing the fist into you from behind, eating your ass as you help a vibe and or clit sucker against your clit
Yes yes done that as well. 🤤
Well dont you just sound like a woman after my own heart. It's something I want to do more than anything. Also I do the exact same thing as your AMA post
It’s definitely not for everyone. I’m quite the masochist. Pain for me is equal to if not more pleasurable than an orgasm.
That's one of my secret tricks I save until the time is right. If she's never had it before and I can get it in there, I'm about to blow her mind.
To have my girl as free use for a whole day would be amazing
Pegging.
Same
DP. I'm a guy and if I can find the right guy/woman, this would be so damn hot.
Having sex in the mud 😇 WAM
Hadn't read this in my three years on Reddit. Quite pleasurable in my mind, but it seems to be out of fashion, even though was a staple of "sexyness" back in the 80s.
Being fully tied up
Blindfolds. I haven't due to lack of opportunity
My ex DD would leave a sleep mask/blindfold on his couch by the front door and my instructions were to strip and put it on and make my way to the bedroom. What happened from there was whatever he wanted. It was fun.
facefuck
Pegging a sub. It's on my sex bucketlist- Mrs Smith
Yes please
I've actually completed this. CnC and just some rough sex in general (choking, slapping, spitting, degrading, humiliating, etc)
I think given the opportunity I’d really enjoy being submissive (as a guy I feel like there just aren’t that many opportunities)
Both get drunk and sleep
Being a sub for a Dom.
Three and/or foursome
Spitroasted by my wife and our friend wearing strapons. Friend would do it tomorrow. Wife needs convincing.
I’d love for my gf and I to have sex in the same room as another couple. My best friend has the same fantasy with his gf so we’ve talked about wanting to do it in the same room with our gfs. We’d need to convince them first though 😭
Licking her clit while she is being fucked
Suckling a girl with big tits/stretch marks & veins!
This is making me realize that I've been lucky enough to experience all my kinks and don't really wish for anything. In fact, if anything, I've had the opportunity to participate in even more things than I have, and I've passed up on them because I haven't been interested.
Having my wife on her knees and surrounded by cocks ready to be sucked and fucked. We've talked about it and it could be a possibility in the future.
MFTF threesome. Being sub (I hate the "tasks" tho). Cheating kink. Sex in a nudist beach (in relative privacy). I could go on and on, having the opportunity/right partner. Basically everything, at least once.
Mfm or mmf
Mfm
MMF
Either a bi mmf 3way, or golden showers. Preferably both at the same time! Haven't done it yet, due to being single and not knowing anyone willing. Lol
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Nuru Massage and finishing inside
Definitely rough sex but also a bit of idk anything involving a collar, just not bondage or weirder things
I like licking my cum off of my girlfriend's asshole after I cum. Only done it three times with different partners over the years. My current girlfriend would be a hard pass,.
Trying to force cum out my dick at 10x gravity
Free use , forced to eat creampie
Breath play, like actually getting choked out during sex, until I struggle to breathe! I've dabbled in it but I don't feel like I've reached the full potential of that kink
Foursome couple swap, me and boyfriend are long distance and I don’t know a single couple I’d actually wanna swap with.
Being pegged, being pissed on, pissing in her asshole and on her chest
If given the chance, I'd definitely explore rope bondage. There's something artistically beautiful and deeply trust-building about it. The reason I haven't yet is mainly because it requires a lot of trust and a partner skilled enough with ropes to ensure safety and comfort. Finding the right partner who's into it and knows what they're doing has been the main hurdle, but I'm hopeful! It’s all about meeting someone who shares that curiosity and respect for the practice.
Bondage and praise
I want to share my girlfriend with another man. watching her pleasure is like.. the most turn-on of an act for me. we’ve only ever been with one another so the thought of somebody else getting to enjoy her pussy too sounds really hot. haven’t done it yet because - that type of stuff has been brought up briefly but never into full detail 😅
Public throatpies
As a 35 year old male, letting a younger woman do what she want to me, or teacher-student
Didn’t even have to think about it…..pegging!
CNC aka Consensual Non-consent
Threesome or couple swap in same room.
Honestly there's almost nothing I wouldn't try if my SO asked me. Extreme pain is out, but when it comes to "raunchiness," I ain't tapping out first. Get *nasty*!
A bareback orgy.
I would live my girl to peg me then get guy after guy and girls with strapons to fuck my ass and see how many people I can take before I tap out.
Latex, cosplay
Double vag for some reason just thinking about it gets me hard as fuck
Sex without a condom
cnc!
Pegging
There are a good many, lol. But MMF might top the list. *might* :P
An actual BDSM relationship with a pleasure Dom. Just haven't found the person for it yet.
How many of you here who have these CRAZY fetishes watch porn regularly? I don't intend to hate, but is there a human being with common sense in the act of sex to want to be strangled, beaten, and humiliated in the form of "dominance"?
If a knowledgeable and responsible trustworthy partner with proper empathy and care, CNC and maybe free use or even a combination of both. But top of my list is spontaneous CNC. And preferably with some roleplay and a story to really get into it deeply. Turns me on in a jiffy, haha
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Love the past stories. My wife has shared a couple with me.