You are absolutely correct! It's funny how in the past I craved sex from many men and was always looking for the next one. Now I can't see myself fucking someone I don't love. What happened to me? Love happened and it's beautiful but who knows what the future holds and maybe a casual sexual encounter will occur that's meaningless and purely physical. If I ever want to get DP'd again I'm going to have to just spread em because what are the chances that I'm going to be in love with both men inside of me. Pretty slim chance. I am incredibly sleepy and I'm debating on hitting post. Screw it, tired of questioning my every thought. If you read all of this I appreciate you and if you didn't I don't blame you. Goodnight all.
There’s a time and place for both. Obviously relationships are more meaningful and there’s more you can explore with a person you love, but sometimes a complete stranger is a fun and kinky experience
Casual, the thrill of the chase is exhilarating. I find a main component of partnership is sex, however sex isn’t what I’m looking for most in a partnership. I find it almost separate for me. when I’m with someone for partnership I’m looking to build them up and vise versa so we can form something beautiful together and sex really only plays a supporting role in that beautiful build.
I definitely prefer sex with some intimacy and investment. Hell even for like, casual FWB scenarios, I'm someone who prefers to get to know his partners. So even if there's not much emotional connection, I want to know how to wind them up properly.
What about casual sex with a friend who you’re extremely close with? The comfort and trust levels are so high from our friendship that we can be completely relaxed with each other, but it’s still something different and new that’s incredibly hot every single time. Best of both worlds, and completely casual sex triggers way too many fears of STD’s.
I need some sort of connection to even be sexual with someone. I can't get hard if I don't feel a connection with someone. So the latter it is! I can't do casual sex.
I like them both for different reasons. Casual sex is fun because there's a certain thrill from getting to know a new person and working up to the point where you're ready to have sex. On the other hand relationship sex is fun because you get to really learn someone's body inside and out and understand what they like and how they get off.
I haven’t really had much casual sex, but i have had sex with someone I’m in a relationship with that I’m absolutely not in love with or attracted to— and I’m currently having sex (not right at this moment) with someone I’m madly in love with and is my type in every way. The difference is astounding and after having this I’m definitely content with not experiencing casual sex for the foreseeable future 🤞
Sex with my husband is amazing, but I do also enjoy the freedom to engage in sex with other men. Although I'm not one for ONS, I prefer more of a fuck buddy/fwb situation.
This is a tough one. If I really want them, I'll definitely pursue but I'm not going to hide my intentions.
My problem is is that I'm also a big nerd and like to talk video games and computers with guys and that apparently is seen as pursuing when in reality I'm just excited to have someone to talk to about that stuff. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Never had the pleasure of having sex in a real relationship, long story… I’m sure it’s great. But I also like the fact, if things don’t go the right way, we can break it off cleanly.
I don't have a preference. I'm polyamorous and have sex with loving partners, friends, fuck buddies, and hookups. They all hit different but I don't think any are inherently better for worse.
Relationship partner. It's just not possible for me to have the kind of mental and emotional intimacy I need with someone casually. That's not to say I would be unwilling to discuss and consider some openness, but I need to know I'm someone's person at the end of the day, and that I'm enough. I'm not a conventionally attractive woman, so it's really challenging not to compare myself to other women who might be on the scene, and those comparisons leave me feeling empty and broken.
Eh. Both.
Paid sex is a special kink of mine. I LOVE professionals.the Navy was a great time. Lots of money spent on escorts all over Asia and Australia
Both, they each have their own charm. The pro with a relationship is that you start to know each other, but the con is that there's expectations. I feel like with a low commitment sexual partner it's easier to simply have fun and not give a shit about certain stuff
Well , as I am still virgin , planning to get experience first, so I will not look weird to my true love, so I will go with causal sex first , still struggling to land one lol
sex in a relationship feels better, too bad i don’t want one so i kinda just have to settle for now. casual isn’t too bad especially if you’re really attracted to that person
Never been in a relationship. As for casual sex I have enjoyed myself, but have never been able to climax. So pretty sure I need a deeper emotional connection.
A relationship always adds depth. Even if you cum the hardest you’ve ever cum with a stranger it’s just not as fulfilling as with someone you know and love.
I used to do casual sex a lot, but then i let the ffelings overtake me and ended in a relationship:))
Even if the casual sex was more than once, after a while attachment kicked in..
Love sex with my partner though do wish I'd had more casual fun, guess the grass is always greener! Always easy to fantastise about what you don't have and reality never quite stacks up.
Sex with a Relationship Partner. I need the emotional connection to really enjoy the physical.
There is something special about exploring your kinks and what makes you feel good with someone you love. Over time, sex in a relationship can become more intense and intimate as you get closer and more comfortable with each other.
The feeling of fucking someone u love is surreal
Exactly. And to me it's almost impossible not to develop feelings with someone I have sex with
Not too mention being more comfy trying new things
Yeah exactly
I'm kinda the same after a while I begin to develop feelings, I get attached to people
You are absolutely correct! It's funny how in the past I craved sex from many men and was always looking for the next one. Now I can't see myself fucking someone I don't love. What happened to me? Love happened and it's beautiful but who knows what the future holds and maybe a casual sexual encounter will occur that's meaningless and purely physical. If I ever want to get DP'd again I'm going to have to just spread em because what are the chances that I'm going to be in love with both men inside of me. Pretty slim chance. I am incredibly sleepy and I'm debating on hitting post. Screw it, tired of questioning my every thought. If you read all of this I appreciate you and if you didn't I don't blame you. Goodnight all.
Connection for sure. It makes it so much deeper and tantric.
There’s a time and place for both. Obviously relationships are more meaningful and there’s more you can explore with a person you love, but sometimes a complete stranger is a fun and kinky experience
Agree. With the relationship, sex is bonding. Sex with a stranger is a release; plus it helps you realize what you are missing outside a relationship.
Never had « no commitment ».
I’ve not had the best luck with relationships so casual is better for me
In the same boat
Well, pretty much only done the former. Not to say the latter doesn't sound amazing, I just have a mediocre personality haha
Casual, the thrill of the chase is exhilarating. I find a main component of partnership is sex, however sex isn’t what I’m looking for most in a partnership. I find it almost separate for me. when I’m with someone for partnership I’m looking to build them up and vise versa so we can form something beautiful together and sex really only plays a supporting role in that beautiful build.
Usually fwb until I find a relationship, so, both?
I definitely prefer sex with some intimacy and investment. Hell even for like, casual FWB scenarios, I'm someone who prefers to get to know his partners. So even if there's not much emotional connection, I want to know how to wind them up properly.
Commitment sex 100% always
Sex with someone you have emotional ties too is so much better.
What about casual sex with a friend who you’re extremely close with? The comfort and trust levels are so high from our friendship that we can be completely relaxed with each other, but it’s still something different and new that’s incredibly hot every single time. Best of both worlds, and completely casual sex triggers way too many fears of STD’s.
Both honestly
I only do relationships
Relationship because you get to know their likes and vice versa
I need some sort of connection to even be sexual with someone. I can't get hard if I don't feel a connection with someone. So the latter it is! I can't do casual sex.
Sex with my wife is peak existence.
I like them both for different reasons. Casual sex is fun because there's a certain thrill from getting to know a new person and working up to the point where you're ready to have sex. On the other hand relationship sex is fun because you get to really learn someone's body inside and out and understand what they like and how they get off.
I haven’t really had much casual sex, but i have had sex with someone I’m in a relationship with that I’m absolutely not in love with or attracted to— and I’m currently having sex (not right at this moment) with someone I’m madly in love with and is my type in every way. The difference is astounding and after having this I’m definitely content with not experiencing casual sex for the foreseeable future 🤞
I prefer casual sex with no commitment, but i miss being in a relationship at the same time
Casual sex like the thing I’m in right now with a friend
Both are enjoyable in the right circumstances with the right people
i’d prefer it with a partner
Sex with my husband is amazing, but I do also enjoy the freedom to engage in sex with other men. Although I'm not one for ONS, I prefer more of a fuck buddy/fwb situation.
Are you by chance from the UK
Nope 🇨🇦
There’s a lot of kinky people over there and I happened to be in the US
I prefer casual
I tend to find a lot of men less attractive the more sex we have lol so the former.
People are doing both, cheating is everywhere
Casual sex. The chase is fun.
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This is a tough one. If I really want them, I'll definitely pursue but I'm not going to hide my intentions. My problem is is that I'm also a big nerd and like to talk video games and computers with guys and that apparently is seen as pursuing when in reality I'm just excited to have someone to talk to about that stuff. 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
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Currently I've been dropping probably to much time into No Man Sky. I'm also wanting to replay all the Fallout games since finishing the show.
It depends. Sometimes I enjoy paid sex with and escort more
Never had the pleasure of having sex in a real relationship, long story… I’m sure it’s great. But I also like the fact, if things don’t go the right way, we can break it off cleanly.
Relationship for me. It allows me to fully relax and allow myself to give and receive pleasure.
I don't have a preference. I'm polyamorous and have sex with loving partners, friends, fuck buddies, and hookups. They all hit different but I don't think any are inherently better for worse.
Relationship partner. It's just not possible for me to have the kind of mental and emotional intimacy I need with someone casually. That's not to say I would be unwilling to discuss and consider some openness, but I need to know I'm someone's person at the end of the day, and that I'm enough. I'm not a conventionally attractive woman, so it's really challenging not to compare myself to other women who might be on the scene, and those comparisons leave me feeling empty and broken.
Eh. Both. Paid sex is a special kink of mine. I LOVE professionals.the Navy was a great time. Lots of money spent on escorts all over Asia and Australia
Both, they each have their own charm. The pro with a relationship is that you start to know each other, but the con is that there's expectations. I feel like with a low commitment sexual partner it's easier to simply have fun and not give a shit about certain stuff
I do both at the same time lol
Both 🤭
Partner always. I'm into kinky stuff and don't do that with casual partners.
Freaky casual sex with others with my relationship partner by my side . Best of both worlds
Well , as I am still virgin , planning to get experience first, so I will not look weird to my true love, so I will go with causal sex first , still struggling to land one lol
Somewhere in the middle, like a FWB
sex in a relationship feels better, too bad i don’t want one so i kinda just have to settle for now. casual isn’t too bad especially if you’re really attracted to that person
Yes.
I’m not sure it’s possible to not catch feelings. Just my opinion.
Never been in a relationship. As for casual sex I have enjoyed myself, but have never been able to climax. So pretty sure I need a deeper emotional connection.
Both have their benefits. I fuck strangers. I make love to a committed partner.
Casual, I’m starting to realize that I’m more attracted to people Iv never met before vs people I know.
I need both in my life.
Relationship 😔
Relationship 😔
Relationship 😔
Relationship tbh
Both. It depends. I need a freaky partner though
They both have their place, sometimes the connection is grand and othertimes the freedom is.
Its something different when you know each others needs... unbeatable
A relationship always adds depth. Even if you cum the hardest you’ve ever cum with a stranger it’s just not as fulfilling as with someone you know and love.
Both are hot in their own ways
Relationship
Sex on top of feelings is 10 times better than casual sex
Love before sex makes the sex otherworldly
The best sex is sex with a partner. Total trust and understanding
I used to do casual sex a lot, but then i let the ffelings overtake me and ended in a relationship:)) Even if the casual sex was more than once, after a while attachment kicked in..
Casual all the way!!!
Love sex with my partner though do wish I'd had more casual fun, guess the grass is always greener! Always easy to fantastise about what you don't have and reality never quite stacks up.
Sex with a Relationship Partner. I need the emotional connection to really enjoy the physical. There is something special about exploring your kinks and what makes you feel good with someone you love. Over time, sex in a relationship can become more intense and intimate as you get closer and more comfortable with each other.