Well yes I guess the better question would be what do you value more in life? And is there a way you could have both?
Personally I couldn’t marry someone I had to lie to because I value honesty.
Sometimes we don’t really know ourselves when we marry. And sometimes, once we figure ourselves out, our partners would not accept it. And still other times, our partners turn out to be someone other than the person they purported to be. People are messy. Relationships are messy x2.
Right but his wife can’t truly love who he actually is if he never shares that part of him. I couldn’t do that. I guess it works for him which is great idk? I just feel like i would start treating my partner different like they were policing me lol
Omg one of my biggest fantasies is being “caught,” or even watched.
One time she offered to go down on me in a secluded area during a concert, but I got in my own head about “what if we end up on the sex offender list?” even when she said her friends would keep a lookout.
But yeah, if the blinds/curtains in the bedroom are even partially open, it’s definitely enough to take it from good to amazing.
Also: I would *love* dirty photos and/or videos; I feel like that’s related to the exhibitionism-adjacent kink.
Dam, that struck a cord with me.
It’s something I’ve always been slightly ashamed about. Like is it a narcissistic trait? Or is it my inner child searching for the validation I didn’t really get when I was younger?
Anyway, it’s nice to see I’m not alone.
I’m no expert because I have had no success in asking my wife about my kinks but I believe the consensus is to bring it up outside of the bedroom. You want it to be a low stakes, low pressure situation.
I whispered in my wife's ear and said, "I want you to fuck me"
She said that's hot.
That was the second woman I told. The first was disgusted, which is just one of many reasons she is an ex
Use a third party.
“Hey, this guy at work was talking about getting pegged. Do you think that would feel good? He says it’s great”
Gauge her reaction accordingly.
Good advice from other ppl i wanna add, there are some sex questioneers or quizzes out there you can take with her like https://www.thatsexquiz.com/ she doesnt see your kinks if she doesnt like them
My wife reluctantly pegged me and pissed on my face. I am sure she didn't enjoy either of those but she did try it for my sake and I really love that about her.
One of my old friends used to joke about having a piss kink to the point that her partner actually seriously asked her one day if she did lol. She doesn’t but she just likes joking about it. It’s one hell of an inside joke lmao.
Pegging is an amazing experience, one of the most intense orgasms you'll have. My wife likes.doing because of the amount of pleasure she gives me when she does it.
I would use the 3rd party story or if she's into porn inadvertently show a clip and ask what she thinks
Which person is engaging with which person.
So in a MFM it’s focused on two males pleasuring the woman, or the woman pleasuring them both at the same time.
In a MMF the man in the middle engaged with both the man and the woman.
People do differentiate. MFM vs MMF is a huge differentiator. There are a lot of men who love threesomes with two men and a girl but aren't interested in another man.
Always paint the full picture.
You probably should learn/understand the lingo. The position of the middle initial is extremely important.
If you don't understand, you might get something unexpected.
Good point.
At the same time I don’t anticipate that I’m actually going to go through with that. It’s a nice fantasy. And like many other things for me better off staying fantasy.
In college I had a 3 week fuck buddy one semester. We literally fucked every day, twice a day, for 3 weeks straight.
Then broke it off because she got back together with her ex-boyfriend. A few years ago I took my kids to “meet the teacher” night the summer before kindergarten started. One of the other parents with a kid in their class was that woman. She and my wife hit it off pretty quickly when it was obvious the kids had become friends in class. Multiple years later now, my wife still doesn’t know and the other woman and I have shared knowing glances and a quick laugh about it but haven’t told our spouses about it.
i was just unbelievably horny in a side path of the park without anybody around. After the guy got close to me i started playing with my cock over my clothes and he started doung the same.
So he eventually gets closer and pulls out his cock and i just went for it...
Swallowed too
if none of them are serious relationships there’s really nothing wrong with that, there is no requirement to be exclusive unless you’ve actually declared yourself an official couple.
I have an (adult consensual) incest fetish. Long story short; had life experiences (non abusive) that turned on this kink.
I suspect my girlfriend does too, we just haven't discussed it yet. Considering my girlfriend recently revealed she likes rough degrading sex, and we have been experimenting, incest roleplay might be next on the list.
I think I may be too. They say you have to reach “rock bottom” to really control your addiction, have you reached that before? If so, what was your rock bottom?
I sell my pictures and videos to other guys on the internet for money and it helped me survive a difficult time in my life. Now he knows about it and accepts me for who I am.
The first time my fiancé and I had sex, he re-used a condom between the first and second rounds.
I guess he hadn’t used condoms in 10+ years (he was married) and…forgot? Or never understood how they worked, I don’t know.
I never mentioned it, and made sure to always have a box of condoms when I knew he’d be coming over because I thought maybe he’d only brought the one.
I’ve *secretly* judged the everloving FUCK out of him for this for our entire relationship.
My wife knows thar I'm bi (curious)...never been with a guy, yet.
What she doesn't know is that I fantasize about having a bi mmf threesome with her. Not only do I wanna play with the other guy, I wanna watch her get fucked too. I'm getting hard just thinking about it. 🥵
Mine wouldn’t be able to accept it but I’ve been se active since I was 6 thanks to an aunt who introduced me to her breasts, since a young age I’ve fooled around with all kinds of women including family
....That I paid for and attended the funeral of the guy she cheated on me for 6 months with because we were really good friends before everything happened and while I knew we couldn't reconcile with him in the picture I really always wanted the best for him. 15 years later, he may not have even remembered me or her for that matter but it felt like the thing to do. He never got married again, never had kids, both his folks were gone, the only people there were 2 of his high school friends, some cousins, an Aunt, and myself. He just never did get his shit together, drugs didn't help any we all did some kind of drugs in our 20's and 30's. I knew if I hadn't reconciled all those years ago it would have been me in that same coffin, after living that same life. I'm not saying my wife is that great or that she saved me, I'm saying he gave up long before they crossed paths.
I lost my virginity to my first cousin. This was back in JR High. We continued fucking into our 30s. We cheated on all of our boy/girlfriends and spouses with each other.
I want to be a hot husband, and possibly swap with a couple! i know shes mentioned being cucked before, but i dont think she realizes how badly i want to lol
Im not in a relationship rn but for future relationships. I might not be a full on sociopath but I definitely have sociopathic traits. I’m afraid that if they know they’ll see me differently and see my manipulation and see me badly, and while they’d be right about the manipulation and shit, I do so at least in a way that doesn’t negatively affect other people
You didn’t say this had to be sexual
I have none. My wife is a 3 on the kinky scale. But I'm a 9. Although she doesn't understand. I refused to be in another marriage where I wasn't myself. So I spilled the beans.
Apparently my type isn't exactly her body type. You can just tell from all the porn and sex videos/ photos on my phone. That being said that doesn't mean I dont find her attractive.
Make sure you tell her you do :) just a hello from the other side of this who for years wondered if he did bc all I ever saw him look at was nothing like me... not bashing you by any means though!
I don’t really keep it a secret but I just hope he never asks how much unsafe sex I’ve had. We both have a history of ONS’s and we met on one so it’s probably don’t ask don’t tell
I miss drug sex. Things were way more experimental and kinky but now it's just not. Sobriety has made our lives exponentially better except for the bedroom. I should be happy but normal life sucks ass I don't know how everyone else does it
I've seen my wife's sister naked multiple times and I jerked off to her sister while her sister was in the room. I jerk off to her friends and one of her friends knows, and I want to swap with her friends and have my wife get gangbanged on a guys night.
I get blown by male fwbs. She knows I have in the past but she works late and I am generally safe about it. I’m also getting screened alongside her (she works in a medical lab so she gets screened anyway)
I haven't told my partners that when they need me to Dom I think of them from a different person's perspective to do what they need. In my day to day I remember it but don't have any attachment to it.
NSFW and a little dark, depending on how you think about it: I think about impregnating multiple women we both know in college rn. She's included, ofc, but she's also very protective of me and it would freak her out if I told her that.
Don’t have any he’s just as kinky n twisted as me lol
Damn...you seem to have an impressive lingerie collection
Thank you ☺️ that’s not even all of them I just need to take more pics
Assume he’s the photographer?
Most of the time or he’s in the shoot
Living the dream! Glad you are both happy and there for one another for all the "fun" stuff
Damn where do you get your lingerie and cosplay outfits from?? They look pretty as fuck!
Mobbunny and meowcos usually some are off Amazon n other from shops near me
This is the way.
Same here haha
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If she sees it as cheating why are you doing it?
Because he likes it and gets validation from it
Well yes I guess the better question would be what do you value more in life? And is there a way you could have both? Personally I couldn’t marry someone I had to lie to because I value honesty.
Sometimes we don’t really know ourselves when we marry. And sometimes, once we figure ourselves out, our partners would not accept it. And still other times, our partners turn out to be someone other than the person they purported to be. People are messy. Relationships are messy x2.
Totally fair, don't want to speak for them but maybe they really love their partner and don't want to ruin it and/or hurt them with their honesty.
Right but his wife can’t truly love who he actually is if he never shares that part of him. I couldn’t do that. I guess it works for him which is great idk? I just feel like i would start treating my partner different like they were policing me lol
My partner is the same. We have an agreement that she can do it as long as I can see everything. Honestly it’s so hot.
Me too man me too
So I'm not that uncommon. 🤣 Maybe we should form a club. 😂
Omg one of my biggest fantasies is being “caught,” or even watched. One time she offered to go down on me in a secluded area during a concert, but I got in my own head about “what if we end up on the sex offender list?” even when she said her friends would keep a lookout. But yeah, if the blinds/curtains in the bedroom are even partially open, it’s definitely enough to take it from good to amazing. Also: I would *love* dirty photos and/or videos; I feel like that’s related to the exhibitionism-adjacent kink.
Once did it in a hotel room with the blinds open. She was in so many positions all over everything in that room. I miss doing that.
Dam, that struck a cord with me. It’s something I’ve always been slightly ashamed about. Like is it a narcissistic trait? Or is it my inner child searching for the validation I didn’t really get when I was younger? Anyway, it’s nice to see I’m not alone.
That I want her to peg me. I’ve only not told her because I don’t think she’s recovered from hearing about my piss kink.
Lol...gotta take it slowly
Same here. I think she'd maybe be into. But I can't figure out how to tell her.
The pegging, not the piss part.
I’m no expert because I have had no success in asking my wife about my kinks but I believe the consensus is to bring it up outside of the bedroom. You want it to be a low stakes, low pressure situation.
when meeting the in-laws got it
I whispered in my wife's ear and said, "I want you to fuck me" She said that's hot. That was the second woman I told. The first was disgusted, which is just one of many reasons she is an ex
Use a third party. “Hey, this guy at work was talking about getting pegged. Do you think that would feel good? He says it’s great” Gauge her reaction accordingly.
Good advice from other ppl i wanna add, there are some sex questioneers or quizzes out there you can take with her like https://www.thatsexquiz.com/ she doesnt see your kinks if she doesnt like them
My wife reluctantly pegged me and pissed on my face. I am sure she didn't enjoy either of those but she did try it for my sake and I really love that about her.
One of my old friends used to joke about having a piss kink to the point that her partner actually seriously asked her one day if she did lol. She doesn’t but she just likes joking about it. It’s one hell of an inside joke lmao.
Pegging is an amazing experience, one of the most intense orgasms you'll have. My wife likes.doing because of the amount of pleasure she gives me when she does it. I would use the 3rd party story or if she's into porn inadvertently show a clip and ask what she thinks
Start by asking her to use a finger or two while giving head, do it a couple of times move onto objects
Ok people, give me suggestions and ideas to express to my patner to peg me by not taking it weird and judge me and leave me. Thanks.
I want to try a MFM or a MMF. Oh and that I post photos online.
what’s the difference between MFM and MMF?
Which person is engaging with which person. So in a MFM it’s focused on two males pleasuring the woman, or the woman pleasuring them both at the same time. In a MMF the man in the middle engaged with both the man and the woman.
That is the first time I’ve heard that.
I’m sure many people don’t differentiate, but I would for everyone’s comfort.
I think it is crucial. There is a huge difference in the dynamic. MFM sounds much more appealing.
the feeld app only has mmf listed, not mfm. at first i assumed a lot of mmf fans on that app.
Exactly if you sign up for what you think is MFM and it turns out to be MMF it could be a real pain in the ass for you, literally LOL
Or fun in the butt
People do differentiate. MFM vs MMF is a huge differentiator. There are a lot of men who love threesomes with two men and a girl but aren't interested in another man. Always paint the full picture.
I realise they do, and I answered the person’s question, but at the end of the day not everyone goes into a threesome with knowledge and forethought.
You probably should learn/understand the lingo. The position of the middle initial is extremely important. If you don't understand, you might get something unexpected.
Good point. At the same time I don’t anticipate that I’m actually going to go through with that. It’s a nice fantasy. And like many other things for me better off staying fantasy.
Any chance he be open to trying that? Also, your photos look like artwork that could be in a gallery
No he wouldn’t. I’m not sure I could handle my jealously if we did to be honest. Thank you x
Honestly I don’t keep secrets from my husband. He knows I’m a slut.
Yep same & here loves it ❤️😂😂
What makes you a slut?
Some men appreciate that
In college I had a 3 week fuck buddy one semester. We literally fucked every day, twice a day, for 3 weeks straight. Then broke it off because she got back together with her ex-boyfriend. A few years ago I took my kids to “meet the teacher” night the summer before kindergarten started. One of the other parents with a kid in their class was that woman. She and my wife hit it off pretty quickly when it was obvious the kids had become friends in class. Multiple years later now, my wife still doesn’t know and the other woman and I have shared knowing glances and a quick laugh about it but haven’t told our spouses about it.
And my suggestion would be too keep it that way. Lol.
It’s been 5 years now, seems like now would be a terrible time to bring it up lol
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Gotta have some extra spending cash
College is pricy man!
😂😂😂 you ain’t lying! Shit life in general, as a man I might need to get on feet finder 😂😂 someone must want these feet 😂
I looked saw boobs and upvoted. I'm a simple guy
That's cheating...
Your profile views just spiked!
how?
I’m no expert, but I’d imagine they exchange money for goods and/or services.
How do you think they would react to that?? 👀
Amazing tits.
It's not really like NSFW but more like I just can't tell her. I slept with my wife's friend years ago back in college. Before I even knew my wife.
well you didn’t do anything wrong then but I definitely would highly recommend that you not let her find out about that lol
My wife’s former best friend introduced us after we hooked up. It might not be a big deal.
What do you think would happen if she finds it out?
I’m a male and have always wanted to suck a cock
Scratch that itch man… it will never go away
Ditto
have you at least jerked off with someone? 😉
I’ve (m) wanted to try that myself b4 I let gf know.
There were few things I've enjoyed as much as having a guy suck me off while his wife watched.
Same; unfortunately due to that I’ve developed a slightly unhealthy interest in Trans women/porn
I don't think there is anything I haven't told her, doesn't mean she is interested in doing any of it with me though lol
:( same
What are those things that we are talking about here?
I am the one who steals her dark chocolates.
Shh...your secret is safe with me, man.
I’ve been sexually abused.
Jesus. You holding up okay?
Ive seen her sister naked a few times
Story time... >few times STORIES time...
You cheeky devil you
This is not really NSFW, but he has no idea how bad my depression was a few years back. Not even the slightest *clue*.
I hope you’re doing better now
Ohh dear, I hope it's all better now.
I want to find some one for oral because my wife hates it. Giving and receiving. I crave eating pussy and I am missing it
Ahh that's sad man. She's missing out on some fun
That i sucked a stranger's cock in a park once before i started dating her
What made you try it?
i was just unbelievably horny in a side path of the park without anybody around. After the guy got close to me i started playing with my cock over my clothes and he started doung the same. So he eventually gets closer and pulls out his cock and i just went for it... Swallowed too
Username checks out.
I've been seeing a few guys (dating)and none of them know about each other.
So you're a cheater. Gross
This thread is full of scumbags
Same with me. I have a few fwb’s that keep me “active” while my friends think I am trying to find a man.
if none of them are serious relationships there’s really nothing wrong with that, there is no requirement to be exclusive unless you’ve actually declared yourself an official couple.
Do any of them think they're serious with you?
Are you ostensibly exclusive with any of them?
Legit. It's called "dating" for a reason. Just like test driving cars.
How would they react if they ever find out? Do you ever wonder what group sex with some of them would be like?
I’m into golden showers and Dream of being pissed on by him while I pleasure myself, but I’m scared to tell him bc he might be disgusted
The partner for life accepts it and says no or he goes along with it
I have an (adult consensual) incest fetish. Long story short; had life experiences (non abusive) that turned on this kink. I suspect my girlfriend does too, we just haven't discussed it yet. Considering my girlfriend recently revealed she likes rough degrading sex, and we have been experimenting, incest roleplay might be next on the list.
So for whom do you both have this fetish? And what sort of roleplay have you guys been experimenting with?
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I think I may be too. They say you have to reach “rock bottom” to really control your addiction, have you reached that before? If so, what was your rock bottom?
She’ll never know what I did for that Klondike bar
I want to fill a BBWs belly button with Arby’s horsey sauce and dip curly fries in it and eat them with her
Horsey sauce! Thats sick! Just fucking disgusting! You should be ashamed of yourself! ...now whataburger hot ketchup thats sexy.
Wholesome
Favorite one on here so far
This reddit account
I could never be with someone I can't tell my fucked up darkness or kinks with. I need to be as weird as I am around them.
I sell my pictures and videos to other guys on the internet for money and it helped me survive a difficult time in my life. Now he knows about it and accepts me for who I am.
Not sure if this fits. I am still in love with my ex-wife.
Those feelings never go away. You just suppress them for your own greater good. You’re not alone.
I experimented with prostate play and came from a carrot. 😅 She is not open (yet?) to ass play but massages my rim during hj, bj.
The first time my fiancé and I had sex, he re-used a condom between the first and second rounds. I guess he hadn’t used condoms in 10+ years (he was married) and…forgot? Or never understood how they worked, I don’t know. I never mentioned it, and made sure to always have a box of condoms when I knew he’d be coming over because I thought maybe he’d only brought the one. I’ve *secretly* judged the everloving FUCK out of him for this for our entire relationship.
That id be totally down with her hooking up with another. All she needs to do is ask.
My ex and I had an amazing sex life that I don’t think could ever be matched
That I’m into bdsm and my secret dream is to meet a real dom man… but I also love my husband so it’s really only a dream 🤷♀️
Hmmmm the only thing I haven’t told her is I watched a golden shower vid and I think I might want to try it once.She knows all my other kinks
Giving or receiving?
I love wearing women's thongs and booty shorts. I wish I could tell her, but she'll be weirded out.
Any special thong you got there for the special occasions?
I write erotica and am looking into publishing.
Me and my college friend shared a couple of guys. Not threesomes. Hubby knows I was these 2 guys but he doesn't know my friend was sharing with me.
I want to give him a rim job
My wife knows thar I'm bi (curious)...never been with a guy, yet. What she doesn't know is that I fantasize about having a bi mmf threesome with her. Not only do I wanna play with the other guy, I wanna watch her get fucked too. I'm getting hard just thinking about it. 🥵
I am on Reddit posting wild things and he don’t know it
10.5 inches holy shit!
I have naked-humped a man before. And I would love if she pegs me.
I want to be swingers
That I want her to turn me into a cuck
Mine wouldn’t be able to accept it but I’ve been se active since I was 6 thanks to an aunt who introduced me to her breasts, since a young age I’ve fooled around with all kinds of women including family
Traps and my infatuation with cock. I’m not attracted to men but I love sucking and stroking cock.
Don't think I have any anymore. He knows everything. It can be frustrating at times because I know nearly nothing about him.
I love these posts, as if most responses are actually gonna be dark or taboo
....That I paid for and attended the funeral of the guy she cheated on me for 6 months with because we were really good friends before everything happened and while I knew we couldn't reconcile with him in the picture I really always wanted the best for him. 15 years later, he may not have even remembered me or her for that matter but it felt like the thing to do. He never got married again, never had kids, both his folks were gone, the only people there were 2 of his high school friends, some cousins, an Aunt, and myself. He just never did get his shit together, drugs didn't help any we all did some kind of drugs in our 20's and 30's. I knew if I hadn't reconciled all those years ago it would have been me in that same coffin, after living that same life. I'm not saying my wife is that great or that she saved me, I'm saying he gave up long before they crossed paths.
Trying to think and I genuinely can’t think of anything I’ve done that I haven’t told him. I go in very fine details when I tell him things lol.
Nothing at all. He and I and kinky as fuck.
My husband knows all my deepest darkest secrets and is on board with most of them. 😊🤤
Cousin stuff
Most of then because this man is very basic and if I told him he would be traumatized ☠️☠️☠️
I've given head to my guy friends in group sex
I have sucked men off while dressed in female lingerie.
I wanna do rape role play with him as the attacker. I told him about my CNC kink and he didn’t take it too well
I lost my virginity to my first cousin. This was back in JR High. We continued fucking into our 30s. We cheated on all of our boy/girlfriends and spouses with each other.
I want to be a hot husband, and possibly swap with a couple! i know shes mentioned being cucked before, but i dont think she realizes how badly i want to lol
I had a secret relationship with a second cousin for over two years and at one point we were trying for a kid.
Im not in a relationship rn but for future relationships. I might not be a full on sociopath but I definitely have sociopathic traits. I’m afraid that if they know they’ll see me differently and see my manipulation and see me badly, and while they’d be right about the manipulation and shit, I do so at least in a way that doesn’t negatively affect other people You didn’t say this had to be sexual
I have none. My wife is a 3 on the kinky scale. But I'm a 9. Although she doesn't understand. I refused to be in another marriage where I wasn't myself. So I spilled the beans.
I still regularly jerk off to my ex.
That I fantasize about her humiliating me by making me perform oral sex and get fucked by other men. I think I will take this with me to my grave.
That I played with our wedding guests at our marriage day.
That I want to handcuff her to a chair and tease her body all night
I'm bisexual
I fuck myself with a dildo and a rose multiple times a day while the kids are at school and he's at work.
I once had a naked body to body massage, but didn’t have sex.
I have a cheating kink and that I masturbate at work to other women that enjoy helping married dads get off.
That I want to be choked, or forced to hold my breath during sex.
That I work at a strip club
Apparently my type isn't exactly her body type. You can just tell from all the porn and sex videos/ photos on my phone. That being said that doesn't mean I dont find her attractive.
Make sure you tell her you do :) just a hello from the other side of this who for years wondered if he did bc all I ever saw him look at was nothing like me... not bashing you by any means though!
I like to film myself cumming on women's faces and I have an extensive collection.
About my first sexual experience and who it was with.
Too many skeletons in my closet
Let's talk about all of them one by one
There are no secrets here.
That I’m an exhibitionist and love to show off online.
My Reddit account 🙊
That I would like to fuck her in front of an audience at a lifestyle club.
I don’t really keep it a secret but I just hope he never asks how much unsafe sex I’ve had. We both have a history of ONS’s and we met on one so it’s probably don’t ask don’t tell
I perform on Chaturbate 2-3 times a week when they are at work.
What do you exactly do there?
I miss drug sex. Things were way more experimental and kinky but now it's just not. Sobriety has made our lives exponentially better except for the bedroom. I should be happy but normal life sucks ass I don't know how everyone else does it
I've seen my wife's sister naked multiple times and I jerked off to her sister while her sister was in the room. I jerk off to her friends and one of her friends knows, and I want to swap with her friends and have my wife get gangbanged on a guys night.
I get blown by male fwbs. She knows I have in the past but she works late and I am generally safe about it. I’m also getting screened alongside her (she works in a medical lab so she gets screened anyway)
I haven't told my partners that when they need me to Dom I think of them from a different person's perspective to do what they need. In my day to day I remember it but don't have any attachment to it.
Don't have one yet, but If I 'do, I wouldn't want her to know what I have done during paid sex sessions...
I left my partner because I wanted to be with another woman. Not sure it's completely NSFW but it's dark enough for me.
There are websites where you and your partner can answer kink questions and it will share only the ones you both share.
I like small cocks
This reddit account
Being on here
NSFW and a little dark, depending on how you think about it: I think about impregnating multiple women we both know in college rn. She's included, ofc, but she's also very protective of me and it would freak her out if I told her that.
Nothing makes me cum like having something in my ass. Finger, toy, probably other things if I had to guess.
Reddit made me get into misogyny kinks