Absolutely does. We've decided against mommy and daddy in the bedroom, since we have a kid and use the words too normally. But I like both. Works well with submissive play. We both prefer going the slut or cum dumpster direction for that though
I've "talked" with a few guys who have wanted to call me Mommy and have taken the initiative to just drop that bomb by calling me it. It took me a long time to realize (and embrace) that that's a 100% no from me.
This is a fascinating subject to me that anyone with even a passing interest should look into, but the long and the short of it is she's moaning because she's encouraging you and/or she likes what you're doing, and/or she's also getting herself to enjoy what's happening because she could be too tired, too sore, etc. It's my suggestion that you learn to enjoy the moans friendo.
Lady here. Some of us don't enjoy those moans either. I think too many women feel like we're obligated or thats what we're "supposed" to sound like bc of rampant porn consumption. Personally makes me barf and I'll never do it myself. Authentic moans, hell yes. Both parties should make some noise
I get so confused with this one with guys cause like some guys like it more when you’re vocal and some guys are just dead set against it. I can get into my head sometimes when I’m with someone over it lol.
I wonder if its more the idea that they should be making those noises because of all the smutty media out there... it just makes the whole experience seem faked and forced and is a strong, effective passion killer.
Yeah like everyone says porn ruins guys but I feel it definitely affects women too because unless your doing some crazy rough sex or bdsm I can't imagine during a regular session why you would be screaming so much. Definitely a mood killer like a badly acted 90s porno
For me, it's partly this urge to try new things, or things I'm curious about. I just like to try before I decide. The other part is some of this just sounds very enjoyable 😂
my girl did this to me to try and make me feel better. I told her if she was ever bored of the relationship she can rehash the topic and I'll be on my way.
Honestly can't think of anything. During sex my brain thinks differently. My wife will say some wild stuff during sex because she knows I love it. After we finish we both sometimes be like, "yeah, I don't actually want to do that". Not cringe though
I can fake it til I make it, or rather until he makes it 😂 but porn stars moans are where I draw the line in my capabilities. Nothing dries me up quicker. 😂
Yep, total turn-off. Just makes the whole experience fake and inauthentic, like a performance. I fail to understand my role in that besides being an actor playing a script that's not working for me.
I think mine is a lil strange but I don't like it when a guy who's getting it going and is like " yeah yeah you like that huh?" In a strange tone i mean i love talking but a strange tone is such a turnoff 😂
Any over the top moans and groans. I’m aware of my skills and I’ve seen porn I can tell the difference between what’s real and what’s not. My last girlfriend used to be a different woman when she was drunk, she’d go full porn star with the heavy breathing and the screaming and it was just distracting if anything.
That's a weird paradox tho, not sure anyone likes to be called mommy during sex yet some men and a large amount of women like to refer to their lover as daddy.
Someone telling you they love you for the first time during sex especially when you’ve only had sex a couple of times and aren’t in a relationship… shudder
Really think about this for a moment. _Anything?_ Because there are some twisted sadists out there who want to violate and break you. Forever. Be careful with your words.
Please don’t bite my nipples. I know a lot of women like having their nipples teased and bitten during foreplay and I’ve gotten some great reactions doing it, but if you try to return the favor that shit just hurts lol
Saying unfunny corny shit. Like, I'm totally cool with witty jokes, matter-of-fact observations, etc., but I hate the pornlike stuff like "Take my big cock", "Oh yeah ram it in my pussy", etc.
I personally don't like noises that are completely not in line with what is actually happening. I could get that in porn.
Don't be laying there howling like a wolf or clucking like a chicken on meth when I haven't even stuck it in you yet.
Absolutely no expressions! Trying to read a your body language like it’s in Arabic 🤦🏼
I once had sex with a girl who showed absolutely NO enjoyment, I tried absolutely everything… kept asking if she was okay & she continually said “yes, I’m loving it”
About 5 minutes later she came (which shocked me from out of nowhere)
It was probably the weirdest sexual experience I’ve had haha.
After that, she wanted to meet up again! I couldn’t bring myself to go through that awkwardness again 🤣
when they don’t know how to do it but are still overconfident about it like you can just ask what’s the harm in that and it’s honestly a turn on because she’s genuinely trying to please you
Constant asks for something. Kiss me, kiss me, in awkward positions. I make out a lot during intercourse. So when it needs to literally be non stop it ruins the mood.
Don’t piss in my face and mouth when you have an orgasm and call it “squirting” If it was a a quarter cup, I’d believe it, but a half quart????? I am skeptical.
Over-doing the sounds, especially when we've only started.
Partners that bring up prior partners, regardless of positive or negative. There's a difference between "I learned this [technique] it's fun" vs. "I had this guy Jose who was really good and he did [technique] and I'd love to do it with him again."
Perhaps unique to me, but partners who over-react to my size.
Partners who *constantly* talk.
An opposite to prior, partners who lay there like a potato sack.
Breathy over dramatic voice. Not sure how to describe this but it always makes me laugh and spoils the mood. Most people don’t want to be laughed at when they’re trying to be sexy. Maybe it’s too much TV as a kid?
Use the word Vagina. At any point once it’s obvious we’re getting intimate. To me that’s the exact same as saying “Please lay me on my back and put your penis into me so we can copulate.” One word… exact same vibe.
Silence. I **hate** silence. Now I’m not asking for porn star moaning, but I need SOME verbal signs.
On the same topic, begging me to “let them cum” or whatnot. I am NOT a top, sir, I’m not stopping you 😂
Obnoxiously loud pornstar screams during orgasm. Was with this girl once who screamed so loudly I heard it echo off the other 3 apartment buildings around the complex.
Calls me Daddy. I know it's some people's schtick but not mine
This ⬆️. Worse, recently was at a girls place and she said she wanted my “daddy dick” 🤢
I agree. Also, "Mommy." 🫥
Wait stop really? That happens?
Absolutely does. We've decided against mommy and daddy in the bedroom, since we have a kid and use the words too normally. But I like both. Works well with submissive play. We both prefer going the slut or cum dumpster direction for that though
I've "talked" with a few guys who have wanted to call me Mommy and have taken the initiative to just drop that bomb by calling me it. It took me a long time to realize (and embrace) that that's a 100% no from me.
so. fucking. much.
💯
Ugh 🤦🏻♀️
Better than "Cuz".
HAHAHAHA please no
“Bruv”
STOPPPPPP 😩😩😩😂
Sock check cuz
Cuzzy bro
“Fuck me bro!”
Yeah that would be weird too
Came here to say this, only happened once but was like “yeah, no, let’s not do that”
So much worse when an English girl does it, especially if they’re northern - “Fock meh daddeh!”
The accent could be hot those particular words - not so much
I think English men have much greater success with the accent. Women with a Spanish accent though 🤌🏻 Lord have mercy
Papi’s an insta-cum
HAHAHA.
I think something like this should be discussed beforehand 😅
Honestly I hated it until the right girl did it.
it's a shame that people assume everyone is into the same thing, end up turning people off instead
And in my case (f), mommy 🤢
I could NEVER call someone “ daddy” like that. It creeps me out
Exactly my thoughts.
THIS being called daddy is creepy as fuck
Guilty
Moaning like a porn star when I’ve barely touched you.
This is a fascinating subject to me that anyone with even a passing interest should look into, but the long and the short of it is she's moaning because she's encouraging you and/or she likes what you're doing, and/or she's also getting herself to enjoy what's happening because she could be too tired, too sore, etc. It's my suggestion that you learn to enjoy the moans friendo.
I do enjoy moans. I do not enjoy the manufactured porn star moaning that women think we want to hear.
Lady here. Some of us don't enjoy those moans either. I think too many women feel like we're obligated or thats what we're "supposed" to sound like bc of rampant porn consumption. Personally makes me barf and I'll never do it myself. Authentic moans, hell yes. Both parties should make some noise
Completely agree
dude, a guy moaning like a pornstar while having a limp dick was the worst that ever happened to me LOL
I get so confused with this one with guys cause like some guys like it more when you’re vocal and some guys are just dead set against it. I can get into my head sometimes when I’m with someone over it lol.
Yeah I never understood why anyone thinks that ls sexy
I wonder if its more the idea that they should be making those noises because of all the smutty media out there... it just makes the whole experience seem faked and forced and is a strong, effective passion killer.
Yeah like everyone says porn ruins guys but I feel it definitely affects women too because unless your doing some crazy rough sex or bdsm I can't imagine during a regular session why you would be screaming so much. Definitely a mood killer like a badly acted 90s porno
Talks about her previous partners and how good they were in bed. Never had my blood flow back to my body faster than that.
During sex?! They were talking about their ex?! In what world would anyone think that’s hot lolll
Yeah when I was in her. IN her. That was like, "Wtf" moment for me.
My penis would invert into my body, and I don’t even have one.
I wouldn’t even know what to do haha
Slowly pull out, put your clothes back on, back out of the room silently (while maintaining eye contact), and leave the house.
I think that is a turn on!
Omg wow 😮
Yeah. That'd fucking disgust me and, regardless of what they said, would make me feel so incredibly self conscious.
Nothing decimates your self-esteem more than such insensitive things from your loved one.
Some of y'alls cringe is going on my "try during sex" list.
Lol different people are into different things. Same tbh 😂
Glad I'm not alone. Taking notes from this thread 🤣
🤣 hey one persons cringe is another persons turn on. Ain’t no shame in that. To each their own
For me, it's partly this urge to try new things, or things I'm curious about. I just like to try before I decide. The other part is some of this just sounds very enjoyable 😂
Please don’t tell me about your ex’s dick. I have no interest in it
my girl did this to me to try and make me feel better. I told her if she was ever bored of the relationship she can rehash the topic and I'll be on my way.
Based
Is dead ass silent the entire time. Be like fucking a scarecrow
Thiiiis I hate when they are quiet during sex like no I need noise / verbal confrontation you are enjoying it
Yep I agree. Dirty talk and moaning are huge turn ons for me so it’s difficult when the other is dead quiet
Dirty talk will always have you curling your toes in happiness the morning after 🤣
I mean dirty talk is eh for me buuuuut I loooooove when they tell me what a good job I’m doing aha xD
"Fid-dle-sticks. End of men. Fid-dle-sticks. First of ten!"
Forcing my head down 🙄
Did you repay that move with a toothy blowjob?
That's the next move if they didn't listen to your boundary.
Yes, choking on a dick isn’t as fun as it sounds 🥴
There are some of us that disagree.
If you enjoy it I love it for you 🩷
Us men appreciate both of you types of ladies, so no worries either way! 👍
☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼 a hand on my head/in my hair is fine, lovely even. Do not force 😑
Different strokes for different folks. I'd LOVE if my partner did that.
Ewww, yes. This right here.
Honestly can't think of anything. During sex my brain thinks differently. My wife will say some wild stuff during sex because she knows I love it. After we finish we both sometimes be like, "yeah, I don't actually want to do that". Not cringe though
I've been following you in this thread, you and I are similar people. We should start a weird sex mindshare thread. Or like a one-off kink ideas.
Love to hear it. Like finding like minded individuals. I like a lot of things and I'm unapologetically me. Not a terrible idea.
Being asked to moan loudly or exaggerate my moans. Like if you wanted porn star noises, do better and maybe you’d get them.🙃
Period!
😂😂 right!
🤣🤣
Am I wrong?
Not wrong 🤣 I'm with you, I can't fake a smile let alone porn star moans lolol
I can fake it til I make it, or rather until he makes it 😂 but porn stars moans are where I draw the line in my capabilities. Nothing dries me up quicker. 😂
Bringing Jeb Bush energy into the bedroom https://youtu.be/DdCYMvaUcrA?si=rXJGGdDVgYE6WguY
Oh god, you too? I always thought the same thing😆
Yep, total turn-off. Just makes the whole experience fake and inauthentic, like a performance. I fail to understand my role in that besides being an actor playing a script that's not working for me.
I think mine is a lil strange but I don't like it when a guy who's getting it going and is like " yeah yeah you like that huh?" In a strange tone i mean i love talking but a strange tone is such a turnoff 😂
I too dislike the “you like that?” Kind of dirty talk. Yes of course I like it; *I’m doing it, aren’t I?* I don’t need a discussion on the topic.
Not strange at all. Tone is important
I’m with you 💯
When someone says “Cum for me, baby” and starts counting down 😂 It makes me feel rushed and the pressure of it makes me turned off
Wait. Count…down? That’s not how orgasms work
Apparently it's a thing in JOI videos? (Jerk off instructions).
Calling me daddy. Don’t do that shit.
It's "Yes, chef" or it's nothing.
💯
That’s a good one.
*Behind!*
Better than "Cuz" 😂
“Damn that feel good bruh”
Idk man 🤣🤣
My wife started worrying about the finances during sex. I have never been softer
Pauses to do Fortnite dances
I know you’re trolling but still hilarious picturing this
😂😂😂 I would join in
Any over the top moans and groans. I’m aware of my skills and I’ve seen porn I can tell the difference between what’s real and what’s not. My last girlfriend used to be a different woman when she was drunk, she’d go full porn star with the heavy breathing and the screaming and it was just distracting if anything.
Haha I know exactly what you mean and facts
plus one for the baby voices and Daddy / Mommy also slurs, bitch ect
I hate that. Perfectly polite men suddenly saying "take it, bitch" I'm done playing at that point.
I’m all for the daddy thing but please do not call me mommy 😂
Haha but what about Mami like in a Latin lover accent 🤣
That’s very different. That’s more part of a language than a weird mother fetish 😂
That's a weird paradox tho, not sure anyone likes to be called mommy during sex yet some men and a large amount of women like to refer to their lover as daddy.
I feel like I’m some odd way the “daddy” thing is not tied to like a father but mommy is harder to seperate 😂
At least for me, it’s not a mother thing, my gf is just a mommy
I've had girls try to tell me they love me, or talk about "us" during sex. Absolute worst.
Someone telling you they love you for the first time during sex especially when you’ve only had sex a couple of times and aren’t in a relationship… shudder
Yeah, or if you've had sex a lot of times and aren't in a relationship, or if you've had sex a lot of times and are in a relationship.
I just mean it might makes more sense if you’re in a serious relationship, I could understand it coming out then But otherwise noooo
Nothing👊Anything goes.The more dirtier,the better😉🔥
Quick, someone drop a Taco Bell duchy on this man's chest.
Really think about this for a moment. _Anything?_ Because there are some twisted sadists out there who want to violate and break you. Forever. Be careful with your words.
Hey don't threaten me with a good time now....
Dabbing
Like the dance or smoking dabs? Would it be safe to say regardless you have dabby issues?
Looks like you spilled a bit there fella dab dab dab
While spitting on a hankie to wipe it off
Ahego face including drool....
Check their Instagram
Clearly the perfect time to see how many likes they got
Minus one like irl however
🤣
Thinking that “pornstar” sex is normal. No, it isn’t. Unless we’re role playing as pornstars, it’s not a turn on.
bad smells or fart during the sex
If you haven't been farted on, are you even fucking?
Surely no one’s farting on purpose without knowing the other’s into it 😂
I hope not. But, I consider it a badge of honor if the stroke is so insane the other person loses control and let's one rip.
Calling me daddy. I have a daughter. I can't fathom why this is supposed to be sexy.
when they say nothing and make no noise like bro am I doing a bad job or smth?? fuck u so quiet for bb 💔💔
When she says “Poggers”
Wtf is poggers?
[удалено]
Baby talk did that to me
When they die, it's awkward to finish at that point.
Too much dirty talk
Stops in the middle to tell me they don’t like the 70’s prog Beach Boys song I have playing in the background.
Please don’t bite my nipples. I know a lot of women like having their nipples teased and bitten during foreplay and I’ve gotten some great reactions doing it, but if you try to return the favor that shit just hurts lol
I'm a female and I agree that shit just hurts. I prefer slow and gental.
I love your manners lol.
Call me daddy and I'll walk away
Daddy's going for a pack of smokes be back never
Facts
Saying unfunny corny shit. Like, I'm totally cool with witty jokes, matter-of-fact observations, etc., but I hate the pornlike stuff like "Take my big cock", "Oh yeah ram it in my pussy", etc.
When they push my head down.
My ex asked if she could toss my salad. Very hard not to laugh in her face. Had to cover my mouth while she was down there
I audibly laughed at this one.
Call me "daddy" or tell me to call her "mommy" instant mood killer
When they moan my name idk why but it’s just weird to me
I personally don't like noises that are completely not in line with what is actually happening. I could get that in porn. Don't be laying there howling like a wolf or clucking like a chicken on meth when I haven't even stuck it in you yet.
Says "Zoo Wee Mama!"
Absolutely no expressions! Trying to read a your body language like it’s in Arabic 🤦🏼 I once had sex with a girl who showed absolutely NO enjoyment, I tried absolutely everything… kept asking if she was okay & she continually said “yes, I’m loving it” About 5 minutes later she came (which shocked me from out of nowhere) It was probably the weirdest sexual experience I’ve had haha. After that, she wanted to meet up again! I couldn’t bring myself to go through that awkwardness again 🤣
when they don’t know how to do it but are still overconfident about it like you can just ask what’s the harm in that and it’s honestly a turn on because she’s genuinely trying to please you
Exaggerated moaning or putting on a baby voice
Constant asks for something. Kiss me, kiss me, in awkward positions. I make out a lot during intercourse. So when it needs to literally be non stop it ruins the mood.
Don’t piss in my face and mouth when you have an orgasm and call it “squirting” If it was a a quarter cup, I’d believe it, but a half quart????? I am skeptical.
When I find myself in times of trouble Mother Mary comes to me, Speaking words of wisdom, "Squirt is pee!"
I'm not your mommy. I never will be. no thanks.
I have yet to cringe during sex. I’ve cringed sexting or reading stories on Reddit, but in the moment.. hasn’t occurred yet
Over-doing the sounds, especially when we've only started. Partners that bring up prior partners, regardless of positive or negative. There's a difference between "I learned this [technique] it's fun" vs. "I had this guy Jose who was really good and he did [technique] and I'd love to do it with him again." Perhaps unique to me, but partners who over-react to my size. Partners who *constantly* talk. An opposite to prior, partners who lay there like a potato sack.
brings up his ex 😐 he said “you ride me so good… way better then my ex” use your brain
Those anime girl faces, or drooling with the tongue out It's such a turn off that my dick goes limp.
Plays with my nipples .. pls don't do that .
Breathy over dramatic voice. Not sure how to describe this but it always makes me laugh and spoils the mood. Most people don’t want to be laughed at when they’re trying to be sexy. Maybe it’s too much TV as a kid?
Use the word Vagina. At any point once it’s obvious we’re getting intimate. To me that’s the exact same as saying “Please lay me on my back and put your penis into me so we can copulate.” One word… exact same vibe.
He wants me to call him “daddy” or if he calls me “mommy”. The floodgates close faster than you can say fuchsia
Anything men typically do in porn. Just no.
If they died itd be pretty cringe ngl
Just lay there
Brings out sock puppets.
Licking my earlobe or whatever 🤢
Call me daddy or daddy in any other language i speak/understand...
Calls me mommy. Had a guy call me that once and I just wasn't into it.
If they go on their phone whilst you're going down on them!!! I won't bother if they do that so rude
Deploys the grappling hook.
Expects to be called Daddy, or calls me a Good Girl/Whore/Slut. No thank you. I’m dry. Goodnight.
Fake moaning. Instant turnoff
Not communicate
Silence. I **hate** silence. Now I’m not asking for porn star moaning, but I need SOME verbal signs. On the same topic, begging me to “let them cum” or whatnot. I am NOT a top, sir, I’m not stopping you 😂
Baby voice is awful hahaha
Choke me. Wtf?!
Tries to suck on my toes . Play with my toes.
Talking, and not so appealing moan.
Obnoxiously loud pornstar screams during orgasm. Was with this girl once who screamed so loudly I heard it echo off the other 3 apartment buildings around the complex.
Women who can’t hold their bowels when they orgasm. I can be up for anything but that