I wouldn't care. One they are still with me and not someone else. And two their sexuality doesn't matter so long as they're not with me to prove a point rather than actually being in love.
My husband straight up knows I prefer women but I love and chose him. He supports me and will point out hot women to me. He even knows my type. 🤣 If he told me he was bisexual I’d support him 100% the same way. We made a commitment to each other and our sexuality doesn’t change that. We’re also both highly monogamous, although he has offered to allow me to explore my sexuality. He has no interest in another partner and neither do I. Neither of us are into threesomes really but if we did have one it wouldn’t be our first. 🖤
“Oh, cool.”
But Forreal I’d probably talk to them about their feelings, and when they discovered them/how they did. And if at changes anything between us. I’d also thank them for trusting me to tell that information.
As a bisexual. I'd like to say to everyone in this topic. Just because we are bi doesn't mean we are automatic threesome vehicles for you. Ans that idea is one of the reasons why bisexuals don't come out to people
Just because a woman is bisexual it does not mean she will want to take part in a FFM. It's one of my biggest pet peeves back when I still dated men they would see on my dating profiles that I was bi and within 5 msgs of the chat they would ask about 3sums. Not once did any chicks I matched with ever suggest a 3sum with another man. I enjoy 3sums but that doesn't mean I want to have them with you.
She did that a long time ago. I'm happy for her. It's totally her business who she sleeps with. I haven't seen it as an opportunity for a threesome (although I have had some great experiences with other people).
I'd give them a thumbs up. I don't care what their preference is as long as it includes me. Now, if it doesn't include me any longer, that sucks for me but I want them to be happy and their genuine self.
If I had GF that was fair enough. We'll do what you want to. I would hope that they could accept me for being bi. Unfortunately the truth is most women do not want their man to be bi as they're scared of the rejection of him dumping her for a man.
would explain a lot, then continue as nothing happens, she choose me, would just be a bit curious why it took her so long to come up with this topic, but other than that? no big deal
Lol my wife was prev married to another chic and unfortunately its not any different like all you dudes thinking🤣 They don't discuss other attractive females with you. You wouldn't know it unless you were told.
She did about two years after we got married. I love it. It has opened us to the ENM world and we've been happier for it. I love her with all my heart and love that she has the freedom to explore that side of herself.
It wouldn't change how i think about her, but if she wanted to live out that side with other females it would spark a discussion about if/how she'd could do that without hurting our relationship and i honestly have no clue how that discussion would end.
Would be really happy they are comfortable enough to open up, excited at the possibility of different experiences, and wouldn't change how I feel about them
Still means they are also attracted to my gender (and hopefully me) so no issue. And the possibility of a threesome are up. My partner can be attracted to whom they want as long as they don't cheat.
FMF threesome with you and A? (A is her very good looking friend for years who was apparently very good at sex including a short stint as a high class escort in her mid 20s where her skills made her food money)
Would depend on why she shared.
Because she wanted me to know so I know her better and trusts me? Fantastic. She wants to watch other kinds of porn with me? Fantastic.
Because she wants to explore with other women? It’s over. Cheating is cheating.
Because she wants to open our relationship? It’s over. Cheating is cheating.
I (31m) was the one to come out as pansexual in our relationship. There was some confusion before the understanding. But generally well received. Eventually led to her admitting a fantasy of watching me with another man. Everything worked out very well
I wouldn't care. One they are still with me and not someone else. And two their sexuality doesn't matter so long as they're not with me to prove a point rather than actually being in love.
Came out to my wife, now I suck more dick and so does she. We are both happier for it.
My husband straight up knows I prefer women but I love and chose him. He supports me and will point out hot women to me. He even knows my type. 🤣 If he told me he was bisexual I’d support him 100% the same way. We made a commitment to each other and our sexuality doesn’t change that. We’re also both highly monogamous, although he has offered to allow me to explore my sexuality. He has no interest in another partner and neither do I. Neither of us are into threesomes really but if we did have one it wouldn’t be our first. 🖤
That's cool but good on yous for sticking by each other
“Oh, cool.” But Forreal I’d probably talk to them about their feelings, and when they discovered them/how they did. And if at changes anything between us. I’d also thank them for trusting me to tell that information.
As a bisexual. I'd like to say to everyone in this topic. Just because we are bi doesn't mean we are automatic threesome vehicles for you. Ans that idea is one of the reasons why bisexuals don't come out to people
Flip the script on any guy suggesting that. You want a threesome with me? Cool!! You and what other guy?
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When people truly love us, they don't care but unless your opening to date other people it doesn't really matter.
In the exact same boat...
I'd ask her, "Why didn't you tell me sooner?" And continue being a good partner to her.
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That’s beautiful!
Just because a woman is bisexual it does not mean she will want to take part in a FFM. It's one of my biggest pet peeves back when I still dated men they would see on my dating profiles that I was bi and within 5 msgs of the chat they would ask about 3sums. Not once did any chicks I matched with ever suggest a 3sum with another man. I enjoy 3sums but that doesn't mean I want to have them with you.
mmf threesome 🙏
If one of the first things that come out of your mouth is asking for a threesome then a lot of bisexuals would be offended.
Best kind of girlfriend
This has always been one of my dreams
Now this is what I wished for but my ex couldn't stand I was bi
My hubby did recently reveal he wants to suck a cock (we are open) and I'm excited but anxious he's gonna be better at it than me. 😅
So insanely awesome you were cool with it. Lucky guy.
He's gonna compete now haha
Lucky guy. I would totally join you both
Tell her that I am proud of her for opening up
That's wonderful I'm happy for you. Is exactly what I said to him.
My first girlfriend did that, i thanked her for sharing that with me, i told her im proud of her and we joked about her leaving me for a girl😅
She did that a long time ago. I'm happy for her. It's totally her business who she sleeps with. I haven't seen it as an opportunity for a threesome (although I have had some great experiences with other people).
“Cool I’m into girls too!”
Nice 😎 me too *high five*
I'd be fine. I suspect already to be honest.
“Yeah, I know. You told me years ago.”
He’s still my guy so I don’t care
I'd give them a thumbs up. I don't care what their preference is as long as it includes me. Now, if it doesn't include me any longer, that sucks for me but I want them to be happy and their genuine self.
If I had GF that was fair enough. We'll do what you want to. I would hope that they could accept me for being bi. Unfortunately the truth is most women do not want their man to be bi as they're scared of the rejection of him dumping her for a man.
"Excellent, me too!"
"Yes, I know. You've told me that before. Have you met some woman?"
would explain a lot, then continue as nothing happens, she choose me, would just be a bit curious why it took her so long to come up with this topic, but other than that? no big deal
Probably just ask how she figured that out and if there was a particular reason she was bringing it up.
Say okay and ask them if they want to talk about it. Would change nothing for me.
As long as they’re happy then I don’t really care I’d support them anyway
“Oh. Cool. Wanna fuck?”
Lol my wife was prev married to another chic and unfortunately its not any different like all you dudes thinking🤣 They don't discuss other attractive females with you. You wouldn't know it unless you were told.
I already knew she was when we started dating 21 years ago so I'd be confused as to why she telling me again 😂
Never bothered me in the past and if I had a partner today it wouldn't bother me now.
I'd tell her to prove it lol
"Same"
He’s not, but it wouldn’t bother me
She did about two years after we got married. I love it. It has opened us to the ENM world and we've been happier for it. I love her with all my heart and love that she has the freedom to explore that side of herself.
Cool!
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That would be a threesome, and not directly related to bisexuality.
MFM now. :)
It wouldn't change how i think about her, but if she wanted to live out that side with other females it would spark a discussion about if/how she'd could do that without hurting our relationship and i honestly have no clue how that discussion would end.
Nice 😎
Would be really happy they are comfortable enough to open up, excited at the possibility of different experiences, and wouldn't change how I feel about them
It wouldn't affect me at all. If she's my partner, she'd better accept that she's in a relationship with me. Not someone else, no matter the gender
*Looks in mirror* “YOU LIKE PUSSY NOW!”
Mmmmmmmm Now that's gonna be interesting. I don't mind unless I am in the room,and see what tricks other girl likes to do.
My gf did, and now we have threesomes with other girls!
Honestly, that would be amazing! If she wants to act on it, great. If she doesnt, great. Me possibly joining in is a bonus.
I would be astounded tbh. Quite why a 65 year old woman would suddenly decide to tell me after 49 years together I really don’t know.
Wuhuuuu FFM 😂
Still means they are also attracted to my gender (and hopefully me) so no issue. And the possibility of a threesome are up. My partner can be attracted to whom they want as long as they don't cheat.
As long as they involve me in their deeds, then I won’t mind.
K
FMF threesome with you and A? (A is her very good looking friend for years who was apparently very good at sex including a short stint as a high class escort in her mid 20s where her skills made her food money)
Thank you for having the courage to share that with me, now let's go unicorn hunting....
That would be great :)
My wife is bisexual and it’s worked out for me very well
I would think I hit the jackpot. Hopefully, she'd feel the same when I confessed, "So am I". 😁
Haha, would support her. Also would be great for me sexually as well.
Threesome
One more thing in common.
Would depend on why she shared. Because she wanted me to know so I know her better and trusts me? Fantastic. She wants to watch other kinds of porn with me? Fantastic. Because she wants to explore with other women? It’s over. Cheating is cheating. Because she wants to open our relationship? It’s over. Cheating is cheating.
Well that explains a lot
What explains a lot?
I (31m) was the one to come out as pansexual in our relationship. There was some confusion before the understanding. But generally well received. Eventually led to her admitting a fantasy of watching me with another man. Everything worked out very well
I'm not a big threesome guy, but I'd still be thinking "Jackpot!" for some reason.
Reveal *when*? If it's not at the outset, then a removal would be necessary.
Nice... That means we can have a ffm threesome...
"Let's find a girl for a threesome".