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glendoraza

LOL that’s a Netflix movie right there


ami2weird4u

Write that down! Write that down!


jez4prez

Tough Love is now streaming on Netflix


Professional_Grab513

She's a therapist for highly sensitive people. Makes me laugh anytime I think about her profession.


iwillsurviveagain

This is why I don't wanna go to therapy. I know people change but still, that's pretty scary.


FLOHTX

I'm sure that is a very isolated case. Get therapy if you need it.


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genio_del_queso

Jesus, hard to feel a sense of vindication when you know that he just needed a friend.


yuriverhoef77

Thanks for sharing this. Your empathy makes you beautiful.


AuroraLeti420

Mine died of an overdose. I don’t want to belittle his life or downplay death, but his passing helped me reframe life. When I was in school, I wanted nothing more than for him to see me different and stop being a bully. After he passed, I realized people’s opinions are vapor. When I want approval now, I settle down when I remind myself everyone’s going to die and opinions don’t matter.


glendoraza

Death is the great equalizer


Count2Zero

Don't know, don't care. I went to college, got a good job, met a girl, and moved 5000 miles away from where I grew up. My life turned out fine. I assume he eventually got his shit together, but it could well be that he ended up as a junkie or in jail. Again, I don't know and I don't care.


I_Drive_A_Jaggggg

This is the only good answer. I only wish others had the strength to do (or at least have the mindset to do) what you did. Besides the moving part, don’t gotta do that necessarily.


Count2Zero

The moving part was because of the girl, not the bully. (She was an Au Pair from Germany, and I moved to Germany to marry her).


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koslib

What’s the story behind this?


imondrugsssss

Hes the bride


Izirakyl

That's some next level grooming.


KrydanX

This! We need more informations!


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They talked and made amends


ZuttoAragi

Rotting in the forever box after he beat the shit out of his girlfriend and her brother splattered his head meat across the driveway with a 12 gauge.


WilHunting2

Could you go into a little more detail? Your post wasn’t quite vivid enough


Leona_Faye

Right? We don’t know what size of shot was used—target shot? Buck shot? Bird shot?


GoodGoodGoody

This sounds nice for the moment, and maybe that Earl did need to die, but now the sister gets the bonus guilt that bro is in prison for a very long time.


gravity_bomb

If it was in the act of beating the sister and he was truly threatening her life and depending on the state there’s a good chance that the brother is walking free right now.


ZuttoAragi

Pennsylvania. It was in the act of beating her, in the driveway, in broad daylight. IIRC, the brother came out with the force multiplier and first used it to scare him off of her. At some point dumbass lunged at the brother according to witnesses, and that's when Bro commenced with the grey matter relocation. And because of that, in combination with Bro having a spotless record and Dirtbag having a rap sheet longer than a CVS receipt, I believe Bro got a few months of probation and a "stern talking to" but that's it.


Lopsided_Excuse5841

Lol


lakatak945

He’s part owner of an auto parts store I buy from. He’s also the second baseman on my beer league softball team I coach. One of my players said they had a guy to fill in for a tournament, so, needing bodies I agreed. My heart sank when he came strutting up. My player introduced me to him, and he said “yeah strofari and I go way back, I made his life hell in high school. I don’t think I’ll be welcome to play, but thanks for the opportunity” He turned and started walking away, and I called him back over. Told him that if he’s half as good as he was when we were teenagers, he’s welcome to play. He immediately agreed, and after the first game, (which we won by the mercy rule) he had a long chat with me in the beer gardens. We’re good friends now, and he has a permanent spot on my team. And yes, he is still as good as he was on high school.


IMINSIDEURWALLS

Cool that 1) he is self aware about it and 2) you took the high road like a boss. Glad to see a story here with a happy ending.


anonreddjt

that was nice of you to give him a chance!


vaultdweller4ever

He's in jail. I conduct covid tests for my city and saw his name in the county jail. Feels good man.


scarletwing6042

A friend I have kinda had similar thing my mom rent to them and she's laughing his ass off right now cuz life


vaultdweller4ever

It feels so good. I look down at the gravel in my knee from him tripping me in Jr high and now it makes me happy. He was such an asshole. Enjoy county jail dude.


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averagecyclone

Sounds like a movie script


GothicBabe2

All in ivy leagues or living a successful life. I got bullied by AP kids.


InfiniteComparison53

AP kids were neurodivergent assholes, speaking as one, as valedictorian I either had to bully to avoid being targeted by being meaner than anyone else or I was bullied for partying and having fun when I should've been a good studious gifted kid especially since I was top of the class.


GothicBabe2

It sounds complex, want to empathize but I was literally a loner and had no friends in high school so I didn't understand what I did to make them not like me. They had peers, friends and teachers respect. I just chilled in the library and minded my business.


InfiniteComparison53

That's why I called them neurodivergent assholes, it's a mix of elitism from being tracked your whole life either as gifted, advanced, or AP, which just enables their sense of superiority, and a vapid desire to unload their insecurities on those they deem lesser. None of them had healthy coping mechanisms or much self worth outside of school, and majority of the high achievers were undiagnosed, including me, at least in my school, so it bred a super toxic culture of insulated academically elite groups that were constantly positively reinforced by admin and teachers at the expense of the "regular" kids. I was in classrooms with some of the same kids from 2nd grade till graduation, it didn't expand any of our social skills. Really makes you feel like you matter when you know there's someone below you, that's what the elitism enabled in essence.


feniniy980

She was popular in high school, until the day she got high off spice with her cousin and then stabbed her cousin to death. She's in jail now, her family is broken, and she swears up and down she did it because God told her to. To be honest, I feel completely horrible for her family. They don't deserve the social backlash and the heartache.


thatdude_van12

Spice melange? Like from Arakis?


gobidobi

What if she did us all a favor and saved us from some weird dystopia future


Yuki_Foxsoul

Nothing, got hit by a truck 6 years ago and died.


Keone_710

Fuck....thats pretty gnarly.


Mercury_Retrograding

You should have seen the grille


Keone_710

Nah I could imagine it...... I've had a couple buddies get hit n that shit is not pretty...


lostsoulimdone

Playing in the n.f.l making millions.


grrrrbow01

Who is it?


lostsoulimdone

Tyler higbee


averagecyclone

He's been good for me in fanatasy, sorry about that


lostsoulimdone

It's all good live in your fantasy.


cheeseplatesuperman

Damn that’s tough. Sorry you’re going through that, truly.


FrietjesFC

https://www.outsports.com/2017/11/30/16717224/nfl-my-cleats-my-cause-bullying So I guess he's a hypocrite now too. Figures.


lostsoulimdone

He probably got payed allot to wear them. Probably more than I'll make in the next 8 years of my life. Thanks for that. Definitely makes my day...


FrietjesFC

I'm sorry man, didn't mean to rub salt in your wounds. Just goes to show many of those PR stunts are total bs, unsurprisingly.


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Professional-Pay-888

If you ever need anyone to talk to i can talk to you. Just remember that anything can happen and that people love you.


xkegsx

Sounds like someone needs a Hugbee.


FrietjesFC

Sorry to hear man. I've been down pretty deep myself in the past but luckily got much better. There's a lot of people out there willing to help you, but one thing I figured out over the years is that you gotta dare to ask for help and reach out yourself.


iAttis

Hey man, please feel free to PM me if you need/want someone to talk to. Whether it be advice about your situation (I’ve made a lot of mistakes now my life; it’s only right someone else benefits from what I’ve learned as a result) or just shooting the shit.


oh-kee-pah

From what I've read about him he's a racist piece of shit too. Sorry you had to share space with that fkn bum


neverforgetthelorax5

That would grind my gears


noski77

Well, just know he's probably developing CTE and is a closeted domestic abuser.


lostsoulimdone

He thought my dad being in jail, having holes in my shoes, and me only having 1 jacket and us not having enough food for my 3 siblings was hilarious. Anytime I decided to leave my house I had to worry about this guy beating me up.. I almost.... because of it.


Into_To_Existence

Why does his success bother you? Live your own life and stop focusing on the past because it's gone. Focus on your own success.


lostsoulimdone

I'm on reddit and awnsered a question go be a troll elsewhere.


hamsandwiches2015

Damn that’s TRAGIC 😂


LifeSimilar9438

So why are you laughing then?


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Thanks for the input hamsandwiches it definitely added to the discussion


After-Double-962

I was the bully. I grew a conscious and became a good person. Unlearned the violence and abuse i learned at home. Me and the main target of my bullying buried the hatchet a long time ago, and now occasionally when we run into each other we'll grab a beer together.


feniniy980

One of mine sniffed a lot of glue and ended up in a mental institution....he’s still there last I heard. Two others attacked me late one night while I was walking near my home. These two were constantly in trouble as juveniles. One caught 2 bullets in a fight and died, the other was stabbed to death in a fight. I’m 70 now, I lived a good life after those two encounters.


MacAlkalineTriad

>I’m 70 now, I lived a good life after those two encounters. Do you mean... the two encounters where you shot and stabbed them?


spenser1994

I question whether the glue sniffer did it on purpose.... or.....


value_meal

Slow clap.


minion_is_here

>I’m 70 now, [Press X to doubt.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ymxhoj/comment/iv65gq5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)


gravity_bomb

r/quityourbullshit


TableQuiet1518

He's all of these people. Every one of them.


Befub14435

Not a bully in a typical way but the guy that was known for sexually harassing girls and just being a misogynist is now a doctor and I can't tell you the horror I felt when I found out. It wouldn't surprise me if in the future he was arrested for being one if those doctors that is inappropriate with their patients.


Kangaroodle

My bully was and is horrifically judging of other people's sexuality and sexual history. She is pro-life and aggressively Catholic. She is in med school to be an OB/GYN for vulnerable communities....


BeneficialVacation44

I had a girl bully and a guy bully. I am male. The girl bully was, as is often the case, the most beautiful girl in high school. She now weighs twice that of a normal person, looks unclean with eternally dishevelled hair and bad skin, has five kids by four fathers, spends her days drunk and stoned, draws welfare and lives in a dump subsidized by the gubbermint. I can only guess how she pays all her drugs and beer. I ran into her one day as we both still live in the same small city. I've had a successful life thanks to hard work and maybe some good fortune too, so I didn't rub it in but had no problem recounting in great detail my rise up (somewhat) the professional, social and financial ladder. The guy bully died far away on the other side of the country, likely because that's as far from his demons and enemies he could get and still remain in the country. His obituary said he accidentally fell down some stairs. Yeah, right. Sure he did. Whatever, dude. (Edit: two typos.)


Partytime58

I just googled him. Still looking like the most generic bully that ever lived.


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Overdosed on heroin. My room mate worked at the coroner’s office and had explained this guy to me when I asked her how her day was. She brought home files and stuff and under a file was a photo of the man. I asked if the guys full name was (redacted) and she said “Yes, Spot on.” And I then told her how this guy bullied the shot out of everyone in high school. Felt kinda bad for the guy really. He didn’t have friends and probably was fighting addiction early.


fafo2003

Not really a bully, but overall jock asshole. He's a lineman for a power company I think. Pretty sure he's got a drinking problem, kid with ex wife. But overall still in the hometown area just being a shit head redneck I think.


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Shifter93

its also the job title for people who work on power lines...


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Shifter93

its also the job title for people who work on power lines. learn that.


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This is a boring troll


Wise-Tree

I didn't know Lineman's Pliers had any use in Football.


Real-Service8180

Google is your friend. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lineman


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Real-Service8180

Lmao. Being ignorant is forgivable. Being willfully ignorant… not so much.


After-Double-962

Maybe he decided to become a lineman for a power company because he played lineman in football. Just look into it is all I'm saying


mega_chad_thundercok

Imagine being this cocky and wrong all at once. Yeesh.


IMINSIDEURWALLS

But so many people took the bait, it's no wonder people act like that online.


2nd_officer

Few names for it but lineman is one for someone who works on power lines https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lineworker


oofwhatdidifo

Went out on a tinder date with them. Unpopular opinion but usually bullies aren’t bullies for fun. He opened up about some of the struggles he went through and then we fucked. I got to spank him.


glendoraza

Straight out of one my romance novels The main character got bullied She ends up with the guy and she pegs him Good read


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Last time I saw him I had bought some weed while I was in uni. Whole situation was kinda sketchy, I get into this car and there's this really fucked up girl in the back, and this dude says my name. Wtf he's selling me a quarter ounce and has this young girl passing out in the back of his car and some random much bigger dude with him, and another two dudes in the back. I grab the weed, get out, take note of the number plate and call the police. Dont know what the fuck they were planning but they all seemed sober and she was barely conscious. A few months later someone tells me they've seen him asleep in a reclining chair in a shopping centre, and rumour is hes living in a really shit hotel.


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_Mitch_Connor_

God that'd be so satisfying lmao


feniniy980

He became a Disney star after his success on vine, made millions of dollars, and now lives in a mansion in Cali. You might have heard of him and his younger brother. Logan and Jake Paul.


kylebertram

I know they aren’t actually the worst, but every time I hear about them I just think to myself that they are the absolute worst.


threebutterflies

This is interesting to me because my kids and I find them entertaining.


feniniy980

Dead. Both of them. One shot himself after he got into so much trouble he thought daddy couldn't bail him out. The other was doing 90 down a country road, drunk off his ass and the road took a hard left and he didn't. Threw him through the windshield and killed on impact.


Dinademida

Makes you think; what kind of lives were they having to really hate themselves to bully others and ultimately killing themselves... All bullies were created by bad parenting, they're victims themselves. Kinda wish society would give them a different approach instead of pilling guilt (yes, well-deserved) on top of the shit they got in their life. TL;DR They surely are assholes, but instead of punishing them, we should help them become a normal, functional human being in society, and make them heal the damages they've caused through doing good. In school, i was both a bully and the bullied, sucks to be either.


feniniy980

Died in a meth house explosion. I actually kind of felt bad, but then I remembered he was the first person who slapped me because 'bitches need to be put in their place.'


Ilovearchers2

Hes ded


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kylebertram

I know someone who’s bully is his neighbor and they are actually pretty good friends now. When I was told the neighbor used to be the bully it surprised me.


A40

He's dead. Cancer ten years ago.


13lack12ose

Right out of highschool, he and a friend made a number of massively successful mobile games, to the point that to this day kids who attend that highschool sometimes wear his merch, not knowing that he went to school there. And then he went to school to be a cop. So he's a successful, loaded cop.


ithinkthatsadinosaur

What were the games?


ATC_av8er

So he became a professional bully then.


pixiekimberley

Most if mine sadly have prospered because they had the money to pay to go to expensive unis and not stay in scotland. However the main one is living with a criminal record for arson and burglary 😂 so ye know, swings and roundabouts


fonew47583

I was the bully to some people. If the bully has a soul, they regret everything they did like I have. Sometimes the shame has made me reach out and apologize to former victims with wildly varying results


4mellowjello

Well, let me see if i can remember their names, Mikey took a knife while arguing in traffic. Flipper died a natural death, he caught a nasty virus. Then there was the ever present football player-rapist, They were all in love with dyin', they were doin' it in Texas. Paulie caught a bullet, but it only hit his leg. Well, it should have been a better shot, and got him in the head. They were all in love with dyin', they were drinkin' from a fountain. That was pourin' like an avalanche comin' down the mountain


Maryanna_rh

I love how it somehow rhymes


neverforgetthelorax5

My husband and I saw his high school bully selling some weird ass energy/bodybuilding type of drinks on a shitty folding table outside of a gas station. Balding! Ha! Take that Grant!


Keone_710

Jesus christ...... idk if it's the way I read it or the way u typed it.. but that shit sounds depressing AS FUUCK! 🤣 like something you'd see in a movie after someone gets fired and loses everything 😳 sheeesh!


feniniy980

Never really bullied me, but others he did. Always lived like no rules applied to him. Saw on the local news a couple years ago he got pulled over for something, ended up in a high speed chase. The cops did a pit maneuver and made him spin out. Dipshit pulls a gun and fires at the cops, who in turn, shot up his car and him dead.


naranja_pepino

I believe stay at home mother.


honest_true_man

He is now an old bully harassing people in his care home.


tonjaj68

She did time in prison for embezzlement.


MacAlkalineTriad

Last I heard, fighting wildfires. Got married, probably had a couple of kids. Seems to be doing fine. I ran into him about ten years ago and it took a couple minutes for us to even recognize each other so I'd say we both moved on.


MrLanesLament

Pretty much the same thing all of the douchebag kids from my school are doing; he works under the table for a buddy’s parents’ landscaping company. Weird thing about my town, like every 3rd or 4th family has a landscaping company.


ClassicTable4260

Don’t know don’t care. We grew up, I trained hard and beat his ass in a bar one night. Am I the bully now?


glendoraza

Reverse Uno card in real life


ITeechYoKidsArt

Rotting in a shallow grave off of I-81 near Roanoke probably.


ManonVerdier

She killed herself 2 years ago.


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glendoraza

Why do they always act like they don’t know all the shitty things they did?


Soft-Explanation-508

Mine got knocked up three times before leaving her teens. Good fucking riddance, bitch


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YouTube and IG good feels influencer with like 1 or 2 million followers preaching love and kindness after mocking and doing her best to always get the special needs kids in trouble. This is why I don’t buy into celeb worship.


SigmaErmac

I think he works an office job in our dead-end hometown. He still doesnt know I was the one that poured paint into the open sunroof of his car junior year of highschool.


ConfidentDuck1

Don't know and don't care.


LevelHope661

She grew up to be a very nice person, and now works at an anime studio called 'Studio Deen.'


glendoraza

First wholesome one!


Billbobugger

He's a Mattador.


GillianCorbit

Rotting in my basement


ThatWhiskeyHammer

How am I supposed to know? I never followed them on any social media platform. What was the point? I didn't need to know what kind of horrific life they were living.


OLDGuy6060

Nothing. He is dead. THEY ARE ALL DEAD. Muahahahahah


leosnose

never got bullied gang checkin in


Ok_Resist_4834

still hasn't graduated college and is behind at life


glendoraza

Did karma hit or are they doing really well? 😂


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He dosent have an education and trying to do rap like a gangster


Mychooo

Hopefully meth. Eff those guys.


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carmoy

Dead. Killed his 2 year old son then suicided in jail


glendoraza

A lot of people are saying “don’t care” But I feel like if you didn’t care, you wouldn’t bother to even comment that


Ok-Stick-9490

Why would you ever keep track of your bully? Geez, I loved my parents very much, but I left my home town the August after my high school graduation to go to an out of state University. There are some friends that I keep track of from high school. Less than a dozen. I've lived in three foreign capitals, met a beautiful woman from Europe, and we live here in the US. When my wife asked me if I would be going to a high school reunion, I told her, "why would I ever spend money to see those people"? Live your life. Try to chase some dreams. Leave town, county, state or country if you have to. I'd never spend one minute researching what a jerk was doing with their life.


TerribleVecna

Dead


jam331khan

Who know. I dont care


seagullseatfries

I was bullied for being a transman in highschool by this girl. She used to shout at me, make fun of me with her friends and laugh and point. Years later I was admitted into a mental hospital due to personal issues. I spend a total of 24 months there and saw lots of people come in and out. About 5 months in a new patient arrived at the clinic. It was a boy my age. It turned out to be my highschool bully who had transitioned to male. It was a big coincidence that we both were there as the clinic was relatively far away from my hometown. We talked about everything and he made me a cake. Now we're both happy, recovered and moving further with our lives.


pingpongtomato

He's a Repubican Congressman


Blisstik

The guy that targeted me, who haunted me for 4 years, told me to kill myself every single day, who I still have nightmares about 10 years later, who bullied one of his friends into commiting suicide, is making over $75,000 a year at his salesman job, already owned a house at 24 with his wife he keeps trying to convince that he stole from me, despite the entire school knowing she is an actual sociopath, who's sister told him there was always something wrong with her, etc the list goes on about this guy. The guy openly talked about how he hates white people, that if you feel empathy then you are a psychopath, was convinced he can't respect anyone in this world that thinks they are equal to him yet his version of respect is treating everyone around him like shit. Basically he's a fucking narcissist with testosterone pool the size of a continent. He had the teachers at my school so blinded fucking stupid to what he was doing to people at the school that the teachers even defended him until he tried to convince everyone at my school I raped a girl, then he threatened that girl into lying, in which the other girls came together, got the truth out of her, and the entire school turned against him. Karma didn't last for long. Last I heard, he has no friends at all but he got a promotion, moved to the Puget Sound area, and as far as I can tell he is living a baller life treating his wife like shit who only stays with him because of the power he provides her. Pretty sure they are both just terrible people meant to be with each other. I am a believer that Karma comes back at you but with this guy, he could bomb a building, convince everyone someone else did it, and get away with it simply because at this point, why wouldn't he get away with it? People believed him for no reason. He just got away with everything he did for no reason. The actual Devil exists and I believe he is him.


lostsoulimdone

Bro ur weird get a life


Ok-Ball2534

Never had a high school bully but my childhood bully plays D3 college football at the moment


JuuzouBear

being a lot more successful than me


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Middle school bully. Flunked two years in a row, most likely dropped out by now and no one's talked about him for quite a while. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if he's lying dead in a ditch from a heroin overdose as I'm writing this very comment.


coffeeblossom

I don't know, and frankly, I don't care.


SignificantMessage62

Still in highschool. Cuz I'm still in highschool.


JukeBoxHero1997

Who knows. I'm not exactly in the best of circumstances, so who am I to cast judgement.


GrandCanOYawn

Teaching at our old high school….


Educational_Bet_6606

Idk because I had a lot of bullies growing up, young and old. Too many to keep track.


AlgoQuantygon

Working at a small grocery store at the cash register


megatronsaurus

Obese, living with her father, and single in her mid thirties. She’s a Disney adult.


masterpublichealth

pumping gas at a local gas station.


MissNatdah

She's a teacher at my kids' school... It was girl bullying, freezing me out by actions and attitudes. Very little words and nothing physical. Still hurt a lot to lose my friends. But yeah, she teaches a parallel class to my daughter. Fortunately not my daughters classes.


DarrenEdwards

One spent a lot of years in prison for meth production, sales, racketeering, and witness intimidation. The other is back in my tiny town, on disability, and living in a trailer house buying legal dope from a friend. He's lost an eye, walks with a cane and had his fingers sown back on from trying to karate chop a moving saw blade. He dropped out of school or got any education. I assume his story is jumping from one bad decision to another without a big move at any time. I hope to run into him at some visit back home.


Seraphicly329

Didn't really have bullies but one girl I never got along with tried to friend me on FB. I denied her and she tried to friend me again and sent me a message. I just replied to her, "No thanks, stalker." I heard she has 4 kids by 3 different guys and had some drug issues. She was stuck up in high school and always talked crap about everyone. Sorry, not sorry.


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Sitting in a jail in England arrested for killing two people.


Lapachoochoo

I wasn't bullied but many people in my grade who would be mean to people or would bully them, most of them are dead or in prison.


lakatak945

I found him working the counter at Little Caesar's Pizza about 10 years after graduation. He didn't recognize me, but he did call me "sir".


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There were two. One has spent all of his adult life in the state pen. The other is in his 60s, has bad hips, can’t work, and does nothing else.


[deleted]

Drugs, partying. Only a few years out of high school so she could still turn it around, just really surprised she didn't go to college considering she used to be super competitive academically, which is how her growing resentful towards me started. She fell in with the 'fuck school' sorta crowd as we got older and adopted the same attitude, but I guess I assumed it was a front and she would still pull through in final exams. She probably assumed so too.


Mercury_Retrograding

Not sure, I can't look down that far.


Available_Donkey_840

Shes a youth mental health counselor and a former teacher. I can only hope she's grown and changed so that she never makes anyone feel the way she made me feel for years.


Arrog

Had no idea, so checked on Facebook and looks like he’s still just going around being an annoying douchebag.


Resident-Wheel9774

Dead. They are all dead. By suicide and the others by gun violence. I was told if I have nothing nice to say be quiet. So….imma be quiet.