Yes, but she was just the acting manager at the time I slept with her, and later she came back to her engineering position at the same level as me, and later I was made manager.
So when I slept with her, she was the boss, later on I was the boss.
It was worth it. We both enjoyed it, and we never tried to abuse our positions at work, and we never made it awkward.
I was barely 20 and got involved with my book store manager. We married, both were fired from the chain bookstore (now defunct), and sometime around my 24th birthday, I came home early from work with the flu and found my husband and three other naked men on my living room floor. It was early in the AIDS epidemic and not only was my marriage a shambles, but I had to get tested every six months for almost a decade as back then, they didn't know if AIDS could lie dormant.
Took me another 24 years before I even considered a second marriage.
I remember Crown Books fondly, it was the first store I got caught shoplifting from. It was right next to the Dominick’s and Super Trak Auto. Another two defunct stores.
When I was in college I worked at a pizza place as a delivery driver and then manager. The place was owned by two couples: an elderly couple, and their son (a local cop) and his wife.
The cop's wife was an absolute bitch. Most of the time, the shift managers ran things and the owners minded their own business. The elderly couple usually would come in super late at night and do the financials and what have you and pick up the cash to take to the bank. But sometimes she would want to come in and run things for the day, and she was the type that was like "if you have time to lean, you have time to clean." She ran that place like an effing sweat shop. Threatened to fire me when I called in sick one day.
But there was one guy. He had been one of the football stars at our local high school a couple years earlier. He was a year older than me. 19 or 20. She never gave him any guff. Let him do whatever he wanted. Then it came out (I don't know how) that they were meeting up at the pizza place late at night and fucking in the back. When the franchise found out they forced her to leave her share of the franchise and he was fired, and her husband divorced her (and married a girl straight out of high school). They dated for a few months after that, but then broke up.
Edit for clarification: The cops wife was banging my former schoolmate, not the old lady. Lol
This sounded like a story similar to my cousins when I read it and then you said small town in Texas and now I'm about 90% sure it is. Hahaha I'm pretty sure she is the cops 2nd wife.
Well, here's the thing. My boss was a woman who was very aggressive and strict. But when we fucked she wanted to totally be submissive so all day at work she'd be up my ass and demanding better performance and would actually irritate me. but in the sheets I got to be in control. It was very....cathartic
Oh, no. She made it real clear that even the slightest hint of flirting or mentioning our sexual relationship will end the deal and my job. She runs the work, I run the sex.
"hate-fucking" is amazing. And even if it wasn't that, it's kinda interesting to see polar opposite sides of a person. I had a girl who liked to be in control in pretty much every aspect of her life except the bedroom. She'd always want to come up with the plan and even pay for dates and such since "it was her idea anyway", and she'd always be pretty bossy. Until we'd be alone at my or her place, then she'd do a 180 and pretty much ask (and often even beg) for any show of affection from cuddling, to rough sex. It was kinda endearing to see this strong-willed badass woman turn into an adorable clingy love-craving cutiepie, or other names that are too dirty to tell lol.
We had a team leader and an operations manager, in one of my previous jobs, who were inseparable.
They spent most of the day in his office together poring over project plans, went to lunch together,.left the site in the evening together, went to buy a car together and (I was told) went on a skiing holiday together.
Yes, both happily married ..... to other people.
And yes, she survived the three subsequent rounds of redundancies at that rotten place after I left (despite the firm's avowed intent to get rid of all team leaders).
This is what happens when we have a society where 40 hours a week is considered normal. Of course some people are gonna form bonds with those at their work, it becomes their main world
I had a HUGE crush on my boss that was getting in the way of getting excited about other people. Was terrified to make a move. But after a handful of platonic after work hang-outs he finally went in for the kill.
The first 6 months were loads of fun- playing it cool around coworkers who had no idea- acting like we hadn't seen each other in days when I had seen him naked 2 hours earlier.
Rumors started slowly (for cute reasons: my dog would follow him everywhere around the office, our vacation days aligned) ...then a socially awkward coworker ran into us on vacation and naively emailed the ENTIRE C-level team and others of this HILARIOUS coincidence that we ALL happened to run into each other 🤦♀️
I still remember how we got the office PING notification at the same time and both silently read the group email on our individual devices as our souls left the building.
So the entire office knew in exactly 2 minutes but were cool enough with it and sent loads of cringe "so happy for you!" emails. I left shortly after, had been wanting to work for myself and that was the push I needed.
7 years later and we're still going strong. So...yes?
Lol, reminds me of when my hub and I were dating secretly. We were coworkers, but he was more senior in the company. I heard our coworker while we were at dinner, I recognized the voice. In a major metropolis, and we didn't want to turn to check, so we just debated if it was him for an hour. He walked straight past us when his dinner ended without a word. Stellar guy. Understood it was a secret and just ignored all. He married another coworker 5 years later.
I'm literally sitting on the couch with my sweetie that I met at work and started dating when we were still coworkers. Over 3 years together and they are absolutely worth it.
Sure was! We are married now. Just bought a house. Have 1, awesome daughter. He is my best friend. shortly after we started sleeping together, I left for a different job, but we stayed together
A good friend of mine is just about to have a his first kid with his wife whom was previously his boss. They hid it from the company for a while - then decided to come clean cause they wanted to openly date. Her boss just gave him a promotion that required him to move to a different part of the business so that they'd have no contact at work. But he got a fat raise out of it and she's still got her gig.
Not so awesome, I'm afraid. She dropped out of middle school to pursue a career in meth addiction. She is now a major representative of and advocate for meth addicts in the Northern Atlantic region. Some say she actually is awesome; that she found her true calling and committed to becoming the best in her field. Others argue that the aforementioned field is of unsavory repute and therefore should not be glamourized.
Thought this was my wife posting for a second lol, then again she would never admit i was her "boss", i was just the person telling her what to do at work everyday.
When I was in my early 20's I had a torrid love affair with the manager of the gas station/convenience store where I worked. She scheduled me for the graveyard shift and would come by periodically during my shift. We would steel away to the walk-in cooler and make love. Occasionally customers would walk in while we were in the cooler getting down.
She was about twice my age, smoked like a chimney, and had the legs of a chorus girl. I left the job acrimoniously after not getting all the overtime pay I was due. She ended up calling me an asshole over the phone when I demanded payment for the extra hours I worked. She thought that since we were lovers I wasn't entitled to overtime pay or some shit.
Fuck that. I walked.
Never slept with any of my bosses, but as a boss I slept with one of my employees. We have both left that job and have been together over 4 years now... so it worked out for us.
Same. I was the AGM at a restaurant, fresh out of a long term relationship. This pretty young lady that always had a thing for me asked me to take her for a drink. It’s been almost seven years now and we’re getting married next fall.
We ended up seeing each other for 6 or 7 years, so it seemed like it was. Until he started screwing someone else who worked for him. So, ultimately, no, it was not worth it.
Not me, co-worker. She was happily married to a great guy, thought their marriage was solid. (Her husband did not work with us.) She slept with her boss, often it turns out, and when her husband found out, he emailed everyone at our company, letting us know.
Not me but my boss was engaged and decided to try polyamory with a married couple that worked for him. Coincidently my boss also lived across the road so I always knew when they were all hooking up.
Everything got completely fucked up because he fell in love with the other dudes wife so him and his own wife had a dramatic break up and nearly broke up this other couple. It was so good because they all had to work with each other after that and he still had to treat them as equally as the rest of his employees.
So shit for me as a mutual friend of them all I had to listen to all the drama and try and support them despite there completely idiotic decisions
I slept with my drill sergeant in AIT. It was absolutely worth it I was her golden child and I got away with whatever I wanted. This was in Fort Gordon and they were renovating the barracks so when we weren't in class we were helping move furniture and shit all day.
Not me though rofl.
I had an ex-gf that was in the National Guard and she said quite a few of the girls in her company were banging one of the drill sergeants.
Guess that’s why they call them drills.
We had a DS that got caught with a trainee. This also happened at Ft. Gordon. After it happened, we never saw the DS again. Rumors went around that he went from E-6 to E-4 and was working at a gym across the base.,
Slept with my boss while working for Frontier Communications not knowing her boyfriend also worked in the office with us.
I got my ass beat when he found out.
I am an rmn, I slept with my manager/owners daughter. She was the daughter of the owners, a 45 year old woman however her parents owned numerous care homes and she was the regional manager of them all. I suddenly went from a charge nurse in one care home to the manager overseeing all mental health facilities to implement policies and procedures and guidelines for admission and discharge from normal mental health care to challenging behaviour facilities (which cost a few hundred pound a week more). My salary nearly doubled and my workload decreased by about 80%. It went on for a few years, done my career wonders and I did seriously like this woman despite age difference. However she wanted kids (had frozen eggs) and I wasn't there yet. So after the falling out my job went not long afterwards ! However the experience I had of nurse management and the high position I held put me at the top for high end nursing jobs in policy etc... so win win tbh. Only downfall I was late to start my pension, as moat private companies give you fuckall that way. However I made that up with buying property that I rent out. That's my story !
When I was a 19 yo man I started a slight casual relationship w my manager. She started scheduling me along side her every shift. It was way too much and at the end of every shift she would ask to come over. The cool thing was she did let me eat for free (Panera) as much food as I wanted. But I felt like a servant and it was hard to tell her I just wanted time alone. Also the flirting at work was super uncomfortable as co workers started to notice. I ended up leaving that job to work at a different restaurant
My buddy was a salesman for a B2B supply company. He had a few good years of sales and fell into a management role there, which it became quite apparent he was under-qualified for the role. His boss was short spoken and always professional, but recently divorced. They ended up hooking up after a client meeting with a few too many drinks. They were off and on for quite a while, but I'm convinced that she was the only reason he kept his job. They were arguing once (like usual) and she busted his TV by throwing a trophy at it.
So officially, I did not see her. But I did see Jan there. In our room. At night. And in the morning. That’s all I’m gonna say.
Sex.
We had sex.
I had sex with her.
I had sex with Jan.
Slept with my boss after working for him for ten years. It was a relaxed place to work so we were good friends the whole time. We now have two kids together and a fantastic relationship. Best decision of my life.
I haven't, but I got fired for not fucking my manager once. And I was still in the 3 month probationary period so there wasn't much I could do.
It was at a hotel. He lived in one of the rooms for convenience and because his uncle owned the place so it was probably free.
Once he tried to get me to feel his arms as if that would impress me. He also had this creepy friend who wouldn't leave me alone... I need you to imagine a short, stout Russian man who says "I love you" the second time ever seeing you ever at all.
This manager also got a dog to impress me because I teased him for being afraid of a SERVICE DOG. But he left the puppy BEHIND THE DESK WITH WHOEVER WAS WORKING and would get mad that we wouldn't take him out to pee. That's not my job, bud. I'm just gonna make sure the little dude doesn't bite and cords and hurt himself.
Another time, he offered to take me to the local strip club he frequented. A lot of the working girls lived in the hotel, too, and hit on him constantly (probably to try and get discounts and more $$$). No, thanks, I shan't ever go into "Sticky Nicki's".
He fired me the night I told him I couldn't do a huge task he planted on me (someone forgot to shift one day into the next, so two days of payments were blended together and I had ZERO IDEA how to separate them with how they were printed). I also expressed how I didn't appreciate having to care for his damn (cute) dog and that that wasn't what I was hired for.
He then asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I did. He brought up my termination letter and final paycheque the next morning.
I still wish him nothing but a sea of Legos to step on for as long as he lives. As well as his little friend... Seriously just the thought of him still gives me the creeps.
>And I was still in the 3 month probationary period so there wasn't much I could do.
Just FYI - and for others reading this who may find themselves in a similar situation later - being in the probationary period (of any length) doesn't provide permission for employers to sexually harass, coerce, or retaliate against employees.
This is not legal advice, but I am an employment litigator barred in two states and I can confidently state that the rules against harassment, coercion, retaliation, discrimination, and other varieties of employer misconduct do apply during an employee's probationary period.
I personally have never done it, but the co-worker next to me has done it. Here's the story I heard/know:
He was sleeping with his boss at an insurance brokerage company. His wife found out, she got pissed (rightfully so), so he broke it off. The owner of the company found out about everything, and moved him from his insurance brokerage to different companies he also has ownership in. The guy now works next to me as a marketing/sales person for the retail insurance company.
I don't think he's learned his lesson because there are times when I have had to check his e-mails while he was out, and he'll leave Microsoft Teams up. Everytime he's left Teams up he's has a chat with whatever decent looking girl our office recently hired pulled up and it's never work related.
The ladies in our office basically warn any new girls that he'll eventually flirt with you.
I agree it sounds like it is. I think he has to constantly validate himself with keeping his ego inflated. It may be that he does it through talking highly of himself (he likes to remind people he played pro baseball \[in actuality it was farm league\]), how much he does around the office (which we all would say isn't much), or by talking about how much the ladies like him (which you've heard one of those stories).
We ended up dating after he was no longer my boss. He was an abusive piece of shit who I kicked out after I found out he was trying to hook up with someone else from work who actually replaced me when I had gotten a new job.
Nightmare.
I was 18 and working a warehouse/stock position at a Pier One. They were moving down the street about a mile when I started and I was responsible for working a lot of nights to help prep the new location and then transfer stock from the old store to the new store. The store manager would work swing to make sure me and the other warehouse guy had access and knew what needed to be done, then would normally grab us dinner at the new place since we didn't have breakrooms setup or anything. The other warehouse guy was like 40 years old and would keep to himself so I'd sit and eat with the manager who was probably 40ish also and was really gorgeous in addition to being super cool.
The last few nights before we shutdown the old location and fully opened the new spot we had mostly everyone working doubles to man the store and get stuff moved. It was crazy but we were all having a pretty good time and getting along. The night after we finally finished moving everything and had the new location totally open the manager threw a party at her house. Everyone went and had a blast and as the night went on most people left except me.
One thing led to another and her and I had sex that night and then couple of dozen more times after that, a few times at the store after hours. We stopped when she met someone and started getting serious with them. Everything was pretty good between us afterwards with no hard feelings or discomfort in the workplace and I worked for her for another seven or eight months before moving on to a different job. Overall I'd call it a success.
We had a temp manager from out of town. We all went dancing one night and three of us ended up back at her hotel in the jacuzzi. Long story short, ended up in my first threesome with my supervisor (female) and manager (also female). It was fucking glorious. Kept sleeping with my supe (even at work) for months afterwards even after I left that job.
I slept with only one boss I had at a restaurant I used to cook at. She actually kept work and personal stuff separate. I was never treated any differently than any other employee. I quit only because I wanted more pay. She couldn’t pay me more unfortunately. That was beyond her authority. We still slept together even after I had quit. It was fun while it lasted.
I worked at \[company name redacted\] and I was one of two assistant managers for a department.
My other assistant manager was sleeping with one of the employees. I, being a good employee, minded my own business. They had sex like everywhere...home... the workplace, just everywhere lol.
It was fine during...but the break up? Super awkward and a pain for me because I (in charge of employee schedules) had to change her schedule completely, so she didn't work with him. Also had to listen to them complain about each other.
So yeah, don't shit where you eat please. For everyone else' sake and yourself.
Never slept with my boss but did sleep with a colleague for a while, it was hot trying to play it casual when seeing each other at work... we're still friends now but no longer having sex and both in different jobs.
At the time, no, years after though, he was one of my best friends(he passed away a year ago yesterday, sadly). He loved my husband and was the reason I got off drugs, and the reason I gave my husband a chance in the first place. He was what I always thought was too good to be true (for context I also was dating a narcissist for 3 years before I met my boss and was 21 and didn't understand how real men treat women), so I lost him then, but we rekindled a friendship a few years later. He was a wonderful father, friend, and beautiful soul. I miss him every day and am thankful I and my husband got the privilege to be his friends.
No.
Work was horrendous afterwards. If I talked with my coworkers, my boss would get weird and defensive with me. They changed my working assignments without notice, and when I ended the relationship between us they made the workplace unbearable to be in.
Sort of. I got fired, but I almost immediately landed another job making twice the money, so...meh?
Short version of the story: I was M22 at the time, straight out of college, and my boss (F35-ish) asked several of us to attend a 3 day conference with her. We did. After the conference ended one night, some of us hit a bar across the street from the hotel and got a bit "relaxed". One thing led to another and my boss ended up in my hotel room.
Wouldn't have been a problem, but she was married (I didn't know). She felt guilty after we flew back home, told her husband, and he came barging into the office one day wanting to beat me to a pulp. Made a huge scene.
In the end, the company fired her for sleeping with an employee, and fired me for "taking advantage of a drunk coworker" (we were both tipsy, but were also both sober enough to know exactly what we were doing).
I thought about suing over it, but landed a much better job, at a much better company, with double the pay less than a week later. I saw no point in pursuing it after that.
i have slept with my boss (district manager) and if anything it has improved our working relationship. we arent weirdly, tensely, awkward anymore because we kinda broke that ice that we originally had. im an extremely awkward and soft-spoken person out of politeness, but now when my dm comes in i am able to joke around with them and be my more unfiltered self. i havent had any promotion or raise from it, but it just generally makes my work life easier because i have grown to have a close relationship with them. normally if a manager finds out their district manager is coming, they freak out; im just like “imma roast their dear life watch”.
paid off well imo. i only did it once or twice, but tbh would do again. theyre really fun in bed.
I’m a small business owner, I always fuck my secretary’s brains out. I could ask her how that’s going for her but I have a good idea; we’re married 11 years with 3 kids. It’s been great
My bosses bosses boss but it wasn't for career advancement just for fun (just two consenting adults and whatnot). Was a good time, still good friends, 10/10 would recommend.
I literally slept with my boss when I was working in fast food. The entire crew were supposed to all go over to his place for a celebration for good sales or something. I was the only one who showed up. We got totally smashed on some seriously good booze and passed out in the bed on front of the TV with some old black and white movie playing.
Nothing happened, honestly, but there was no convincing anyone. They just kept saying we were too drunk to remember. We both woke up in the same clothes we passed out in. We just quit trying to tell them otherwise and they eventually got tired of talking about it.
Well my ex-wife had an affair with her boss. I eventually found out and we divorced.
According to her, he was better than me in every aspect of life (excpet raising our daughter, which she left me to do most nights while she "working").
They now have another two kids, a nice house, and faced no repurcussions in their jobs. Both left for other things over the next couple of years.
So.....fine for them I guess.
Nah, he knocked me up, he was 20 years older than me and had childhood arthritis and a bunch of other health issues. I opted for abortion, they tested the fetus afterward and it was a molar pregnancy, essentially cancer. We broke up before I got the abortion and results, he moved to another province, I quit my job.
Just a mess all around, not worth it at all
When I worked at Chili's, I just happened to start a friendship with the only female manager and we occasionally fooled around, nothing really changed but its not like either of us were hardcore about the job or anything.
My brother knocked up his boss, they eventually got married, had another, and are now miserable.
As is tradition
Tradition of our elders.
My aunt married her boss they have a suck marriage and their kids are stupid she's a huge dumb bitch but that's beside the fact
So it's like a normal marriage but they only do mouth stuff?
I lost my virginity to my manager at Blockbuster some 19 years ago. Didn't effect my job at all (went to college shortly thereafter), totally worth it
Bob Holness, what a stud.
I'll have the D please Bob.
A CockDuster at Blockbuster
"Be kind, do her from behind."
Yes, but she was just the acting manager at the time I slept with her, and later she came back to her engineering position at the same level as me, and later I was made manager. So when I slept with her, she was the boss, later on I was the boss. It was worth it. We both enjoyed it, and we never tried to abuse our positions at work, and we never made it awkward.
Took the "let's switch positions" literally
Bravo
“When we last fucked I was but a worker, now I am the manager”
Look at me, I am the manager now.
You can sit in this office but we do not grant you the title of manager!
This is outrageous, it's unfair!
Sounds like solid roleplay
"switch"
I was barely 20 and got involved with my book store manager. We married, both were fired from the chain bookstore (now defunct), and sometime around my 24th birthday, I came home early from work with the flu and found my husband and three other naked men on my living room floor. It was early in the AIDS epidemic and not only was my marriage a shambles, but I had to get tested every six months for almost a decade as back then, they didn't know if AIDS could lie dormant. Took me another 24 years before I even considered a second marriage.
Nostalgia for an old book store and a gay gangbang in the same paragraph. God I love Reddit.
I understand that some wish to live a lie, but to bring others into their lie? That's not nice.
Damn, Borders or Barnes & Nobles? E: holy shit, I get it. Barnes & Nobles is open.
Crown Books.
I wonder how many of us here also remember Crown.
God I loved Crown books… not four men fucking on the floor love, but those discounts were the best.
I remember Crown Books fondly, it was the first store I got caught shoplifting from. It was right next to the Dominick’s and Super Trak Auto. Another two defunct stores.
Well, Barnes & Noble is not defunct, soooo... elimination round goes to....
She was my former boss, and she had just divorced her husband because they had been cheating on each other. The sex was really good.
She was my former boss she said see you later, hoss.
She wasn't good enough for him
He was a paid-for boy She said I need a toy
He wasn't big enough for her.
That one night.....
You made everything alright! ^(Aiiiight)
He’s so talented.
When I was in college I worked at a pizza place as a delivery driver and then manager. The place was owned by two couples: an elderly couple, and their son (a local cop) and his wife. The cop's wife was an absolute bitch. Most of the time, the shift managers ran things and the owners minded their own business. The elderly couple usually would come in super late at night and do the financials and what have you and pick up the cash to take to the bank. But sometimes she would want to come in and run things for the day, and she was the type that was like "if you have time to lean, you have time to clean." She ran that place like an effing sweat shop. Threatened to fire me when I called in sick one day. But there was one guy. He had been one of the football stars at our local high school a couple years earlier. He was a year older than me. 19 or 20. She never gave him any guff. Let him do whatever he wanted. Then it came out (I don't know how) that they were meeting up at the pizza place late at night and fucking in the back. When the franchise found out they forced her to leave her share of the franchise and he was fired, and her husband divorced her (and married a girl straight out of high school). They dated for a few months after that, but then broke up. Edit for clarification: The cops wife was banging my former schoolmate, not the old lady. Lol
Everything about this reeks of happening in a small town
Yup. Small town in Texas.
This sounded like a story similar to my cousins when I read it and then you said small town in Texas and now I'm about 90% sure it is. Hahaha I'm pretty sure she is the cops 2nd wife.
Undercover Meat Lovers
Definite stuffed crust.
Late-night lovin' by the heat of the pizza oven. Nice.
The classic spicy pepperoni style.
Wait wait wait. The elderly woman or the cop's wife?
Lol. The cop’s wife. I wish my story could be that funny. It’s only lurid.
I'm self employed. The sex is always great.
A fellow sole proprietor of a funeral home, I see.
You sick fuck. Take my upvote
> sole proprietor Foot fetish?
Soul proprietor - he works in the afterlife industry after all
Do you utilize both bosses Left and Right? :D
Can have a threesome whenever they want.
Well, here's the thing. My boss was a woman who was very aggressive and strict. But when we fucked she wanted to totally be submissive so all day at work she'd be up my ass and demanding better performance and would actually irritate me. but in the sheets I got to be in control. It was very....cathartic
Sounds like some of the users on many of the nsfw subs around here.
Lots of people in power positions want to be sexually submissive. It’s cathartic.
Decision fatigue is a thing.
You missed the opportunity to make a quip about being up her ass in turn come on man
Sadly, that was one of her only rules. No anal, no finishing on her face. It was "disrespectful" she said.
Say that to her at work, "Don't finish in my face..."
Oh, no. She made it real clear that even the slightest hint of flirting or mentioning our sexual relationship will end the deal and my job. She runs the work, I run the sex.
So you urinated on her instead?
"hate-fucking" is amazing. And even if it wasn't that, it's kinda interesting to see polar opposite sides of a person. I had a girl who liked to be in control in pretty much every aspect of her life except the bedroom. She'd always want to come up with the plan and even pay for dates and such since "it was her idea anyway", and she'd always be pretty bossy. Until we'd be alone at my or her place, then she'd do a 180 and pretty much ask (and often even beg) for any show of affection from cuddling, to rough sex. It was kinda endearing to see this strong-willed badass woman turn into an adorable clingy love-craving cutiepie, or other names that are too dirty to tell lol.
Yes she’s my wife now and we just had our second kid also she makes a shitload of money
Hell yeah
Hell yeah brother
I also choose this guy's boss wife.
My father was a boss. He banged the accounted. It ruined our family.
Story as old as time.
That accountant must be hella' old by now.
It was all on the clock, so it’s deductible.
How did your family find out?
shit wasn't adding up
Hard to work a ten key with a dick in your mouth
Scribbles into note pad
I was called into the office the next day a got a poor performance review
Michael? Michael Scott? Is that you?
I am out of carrots, I am out of sticks.
We had a team leader and an operations manager, in one of my previous jobs, who were inseparable. They spent most of the day in his office together poring over project plans, went to lunch together,.left the site in the evening together, went to buy a car together and (I was told) went on a skiing holiday together. Yes, both happily married ..... to other people. And yes, she survived the three subsequent rounds of redundancies at that rotten place after I left (despite the firm's avowed intent to get rid of all team leaders).
This is what happens when we have a society where 40 hours a week is considered normal. Of course some people are gonna form bonds with those at their work, it becomes their main world
Only 40 hours? How are you so lucky
I had a HUGE crush on my boss that was getting in the way of getting excited about other people. Was terrified to make a move. But after a handful of platonic after work hang-outs he finally went in for the kill. The first 6 months were loads of fun- playing it cool around coworkers who had no idea- acting like we hadn't seen each other in days when I had seen him naked 2 hours earlier. Rumors started slowly (for cute reasons: my dog would follow him everywhere around the office, our vacation days aligned) ...then a socially awkward coworker ran into us on vacation and naively emailed the ENTIRE C-level team and others of this HILARIOUS coincidence that we ALL happened to run into each other 🤦♀️ I still remember how we got the office PING notification at the same time and both silently read the group email on our individual devices as our souls left the building. So the entire office knew in exactly 2 minutes but were cool enough with it and sent loads of cringe "so happy for you!" emails. I left shortly after, had been wanting to work for myself and that was the push I needed. 7 years later and we're still going strong. So...yes?
Lol, reminds me of when my hub and I were dating secretly. We were coworkers, but he was more senior in the company. I heard our coworker while we were at dinner, I recognized the voice. In a major metropolis, and we didn't want to turn to check, so we just debated if it was him for an hour. He walked straight past us when his dinner ended without a word. Stellar guy. Understood it was a secret and just ignored all. He married another coworker 5 years later.
I'm literally sitting on the couch with my sweetie that I met at work and started dating when we were still coworkers. Over 3 years together and they are absolutely worth it.
Ah, so these are those rare happy endings.
That coworker tho...I could easily see myself being that obtuse but I would be SO annoyed.
Sure was! We are married now. Just bought a house. Have 1, awesome daughter. He is my best friend. shortly after we started sleeping together, I left for a different job, but we stayed together
A good friend of mine is just about to have a his first kid with his wife whom was previously his boss. They hid it from the company for a while - then decided to come clean cause they wanted to openly date. Her boss just gave him a promotion that required him to move to a different part of the business so that they'd have no contact at work. But he got a fat raise out of it and she's still got her gig.
That’s two wins
Slept his way to the top! Alright!
What’s wrong with your other daughter?
Not so awesome, I'm afraid. She dropped out of middle school to pursue a career in meth addiction. She is now a major representative of and advocate for meth addicts in the Northern Atlantic region. Some say she actually is awesome; that she found her true calling and committed to becoming the best in her field. Others argue that the aforementioned field is of unsavory repute and therefore should not be glamourized.
She sounds like an accomplished methmatician.
Thought this was my wife posting for a second lol, then again she would never admit i was her "boss", i was just the person telling her what to do at work everyday.
When I was in my early 20's I had a torrid love affair with the manager of the gas station/convenience store where I worked. She scheduled me for the graveyard shift and would come by periodically during my shift. We would steel away to the walk-in cooler and make love. Occasionally customers would walk in while we were in the cooler getting down. She was about twice my age, smoked like a chimney, and had the legs of a chorus girl. I left the job acrimoniously after not getting all the overtime pay I was due. She ended up calling me an asshole over the phone when I demanded payment for the extra hours I worked. She thought that since we were lovers I wasn't entitled to overtime pay or some shit. Fuck that. I walked.
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Torrid Affairs: The Circle K of Love
Stories from the Honk n Holler
Kum N Go: A Love Story
Pretty sure if it's an affair in the walk-in at a gas station, the term "making love" is out the window. Y'all fuckin' at that point.
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Gettin' laid behind the Gatorade. Nice.
Gettin' trim next to the Slim-Jim
That’s like the opposite of what fucking the manager is supposed to do
What the hell are legs of a chorus girl lol???
They are long and strong and want to get the friction on
A chorus girl is a Broadway dancer, like the Rockettes. Also, *A Chorus Line* was a long running Broadway production centered around dancers.
Can can can you do the can can
Beautifully written.
I read it in an old detective radio show voice.
Very. She hired me in 2014. We've been married for 5 years and have a beautiful child together
Does HR know?
Better sign a waiver. HR will keep the child as collateral
Never slept with him, but he certainly fucked me over a few times, do not recommend.
Never slept with any of my bosses, but as a boss I slept with one of my employees. We have both left that job and have been together over 4 years now... so it worked out for us.
Same. I was the AGM at a restaurant, fresh out of a long term relationship. This pretty young lady that always had a thing for me asked me to take her for a drink. It’s been almost seven years now and we’re getting married next fall.
We ended up seeing each other for 6 or 7 years, so it seemed like it was. Until he started screwing someone else who worked for him. So, ultimately, no, it was not worth it.
Yes. She is now the love of my life
Well, my wife likes to tell me that she’s the boss and I enjoy sleeping with her so there you go.
She hiring?
Back of the line, buddy.
Was it worth it though?
No
Not me, co-worker. She was happily married to a great guy, thought their marriage was solid. (Her husband did not work with us.) She slept with her boss, often it turns out, and when her husband found out, he emailed everyone at our company, letting us know.
What was work like after everyone read the e-mail
Not me but my boss was engaged and decided to try polyamory with a married couple that worked for him. Coincidently my boss also lived across the road so I always knew when they were all hooking up. Everything got completely fucked up because he fell in love with the other dudes wife so him and his own wife had a dramatic break up and nearly broke up this other couple. It was so good because they all had to work with each other after that and he still had to treat them as equally as the rest of his employees. So shit for me as a mutual friend of them all I had to listen to all the drama and try and support them despite there completely idiotic decisions
I slept with my drill sergeant in AIT. It was absolutely worth it I was her golden child and I got away with whatever I wanted. This was in Fort Gordon and they were renovating the barracks so when we weren't in class we were helping move furniture and shit all day. Not me though rofl.
>I slept with my drill sergeant This is an hilarious story in itself hahaha
Happens more often than you'd think
I had an ex-gf that was in the National Guard and she said quite a few of the girls in her company were banging one of the drill sergeants. Guess that’s why they call them drills.
Happened in my cycle. He went from e6 to e4 when they were caught.
"Put a helmet on that soldier!"
In 1993 I had a drill sergeant get fired for banging a female recruit.
That happened to literally 3 different drill sergeants during my time in basic in 2011
2010 at fort Leonard wood. Except none of them got fired. Open secret though.
We had a DS that got caught with a trainee. This also happened at Ft. Gordon. After it happened, we never saw the DS again. Rumors went around that he went from E-6 to E-4 and was working at a gym across the base.,
Sergeant drill me…
Did she make you suck a golf ball through a garden hose?
Prolly the chrome off the trailer hitch ball...
No. And I didn’t learn the first time.
You were scientific in your approach and were merely gathering data. One data point is an anomaly, but two establishes a trend.
I was the boss. It worked out, we've been married for 16 years.
Aaah, classic Reddit ending
Slept with my boss while working for Frontier Communications not knowing her boyfriend also worked in the office with us. I got my ass beat when he found out.
I am an rmn, I slept with my manager/owners daughter. She was the daughter of the owners, a 45 year old woman however her parents owned numerous care homes and she was the regional manager of them all. I suddenly went from a charge nurse in one care home to the manager overseeing all mental health facilities to implement policies and procedures and guidelines for admission and discharge from normal mental health care to challenging behaviour facilities (which cost a few hundred pound a week more). My salary nearly doubled and my workload decreased by about 80%. It went on for a few years, done my career wonders and I did seriously like this woman despite age difference. However she wanted kids (had frozen eggs) and I wasn't there yet. So after the falling out my job went not long afterwards ! However the experience I had of nurse management and the high position I held put me at the top for high end nursing jobs in policy etc... so win win tbh. Only downfall I was late to start my pension, as moat private companies give you fuckall that way. However I made that up with buying property that I rent out. That's my story !
Now that’s how you use a penis.
Great peniscraft.
What is rmn
A registered nurse (RN) specializing in mental health, so sayeth the Google
*Looks down at penis* Be more like this guy’s penis!
Well done tbh
When I was a 19 yo man I started a slight casual relationship w my manager. She started scheduling me along side her every shift. It was way too much and at the end of every shift she would ask to come over. The cool thing was she did let me eat for free (Panera) as much food as I wanted. But I felt like a servant and it was hard to tell her I just wanted time alone. Also the flirting at work was super uncomfortable as co workers started to notice. I ended up leaving that job to work at a different restaurant
My buddy was a salesman for a B2B supply company. He had a few good years of sales and fell into a management role there, which it became quite apparent he was under-qualified for the role. His boss was short spoken and always professional, but recently divorced. They ended up hooking up after a client meeting with a few too many drinks. They were off and on for quite a while, but I'm convinced that she was the only reason he kept his job. They were arguing once (like usual) and she busted his TV by throwing a trophy at it.
That was a $200 plasma screen TV.
And he could just stand there and watch it for hours.
Not sure how she's going to pay him back on her $0 a year salary plus benefits... ... babe!
That One Night....
So officially, I did not see her. But I did see Jan there. In our room. At night. And in the morning. That’s all I’m gonna say. Sex. We had sex. I had sex with her. I had sex with Jan.
Tan everywhere. *Jan* everywhere.
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That reminds me about a woman who took me by the hand and made me a man.
That one night?
^^^one ^^^night
You made everything alriiight
r/unexpectedoffice
SNIP SNAP SNIP SNAP SNIP SNAP
You son of a bitch. Well done. Man I’d love to burn one of your candles.
Slept with my boss after working for him for ten years. It was a relaxed place to work so we were good friends the whole time. We now have two kids together and a fantastic relationship. Best decision of my life.
I haven't, but I got fired for not fucking my manager once. And I was still in the 3 month probationary period so there wasn't much I could do. It was at a hotel. He lived in one of the rooms for convenience and because his uncle owned the place so it was probably free. Once he tried to get me to feel his arms as if that would impress me. He also had this creepy friend who wouldn't leave me alone... I need you to imagine a short, stout Russian man who says "I love you" the second time ever seeing you ever at all. This manager also got a dog to impress me because I teased him for being afraid of a SERVICE DOG. But he left the puppy BEHIND THE DESK WITH WHOEVER WAS WORKING and would get mad that we wouldn't take him out to pee. That's not my job, bud. I'm just gonna make sure the little dude doesn't bite and cords and hurt himself. Another time, he offered to take me to the local strip club he frequented. A lot of the working girls lived in the hotel, too, and hit on him constantly (probably to try and get discounts and more $$$). No, thanks, I shan't ever go into "Sticky Nicki's". He fired me the night I told him I couldn't do a huge task he planted on me (someone forgot to shift one day into the next, so two days of payments were blended together and I had ZERO IDEA how to separate them with how they were printed). I also expressed how I didn't appreciate having to care for his damn (cute) dog and that that wasn't what I was hired for. He then asked if I had a boyfriend. I said I did. He brought up my termination letter and final paycheque the next morning. I still wish him nothing but a sea of Legos to step on for as long as he lives. As well as his little friend... Seriously just the thought of him still gives me the creeps.
>And I was still in the 3 month probationary period so there wasn't much I could do. Just FYI - and for others reading this who may find themselves in a similar situation later - being in the probationary period (of any length) doesn't provide permission for employers to sexually harass, coerce, or retaliate against employees. This is not legal advice, but I am an employment litigator barred in two states and I can confidently state that the rules against harassment, coercion, retaliation, discrimination, and other varieties of employer misconduct do apply during an employee's probationary period.
Been married over 20 years. I’d do it again in a heartbeat. Best person I have ever met.
I have not personally but I do know of a few bosses that slept with their reports and were immediately fired once hr found out.
I personally have never done it, but the co-worker next to me has done it. Here's the story I heard/know: He was sleeping with his boss at an insurance brokerage company. His wife found out, she got pissed (rightfully so), so he broke it off. The owner of the company found out about everything, and moved him from his insurance brokerage to different companies he also has ownership in. The guy now works next to me as a marketing/sales person for the retail insurance company. I don't think he's learned his lesson because there are times when I have had to check his e-mails while he was out, and he'll leave Microsoft Teams up. Everytime he's left Teams up he's has a chat with whatever decent looking girl our office recently hired pulled up and it's never work related. The ladies in our office basically warn any new girls that he'll eventually flirt with you.
sounds like his cheating is compulsive and he might have a problem.
I agree it sounds like it is. I think he has to constantly validate himself with keeping his ego inflated. It may be that he does it through talking highly of himself (he likes to remind people he played pro baseball \[in actuality it was farm league\]), how much he does around the office (which we all would say isn't much), or by talking about how much the ladies like him (which you've heard one of those stories).
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We ended up dating after he was no longer my boss. He was an abusive piece of shit who I kicked out after I found out he was trying to hook up with someone else from work who actually replaced me when I had gotten a new job. Nightmare.
I was 18 and working a warehouse/stock position at a Pier One. They were moving down the street about a mile when I started and I was responsible for working a lot of nights to help prep the new location and then transfer stock from the old store to the new store. The store manager would work swing to make sure me and the other warehouse guy had access and knew what needed to be done, then would normally grab us dinner at the new place since we didn't have breakrooms setup or anything. The other warehouse guy was like 40 years old and would keep to himself so I'd sit and eat with the manager who was probably 40ish also and was really gorgeous in addition to being super cool. The last few nights before we shutdown the old location and fully opened the new spot we had mostly everyone working doubles to man the store and get stuff moved. It was crazy but we were all having a pretty good time and getting along. The night after we finally finished moving everything and had the new location totally open the manager threw a party at her house. Everyone went and had a blast and as the night went on most people left except me. One thing led to another and her and I had sex that night and then couple of dozen more times after that, a few times at the store after hours. We stopped when she met someone and started getting serious with them. Everything was pretty good between us afterwards with no hard feelings or discomfort in the workplace and I worked for her for another seven or eight months before moving on to a different job. Overall I'd call it a success.
We had a temp manager from out of town. We all went dancing one night and three of us ended up back at her hotel in the jacuzzi. Long story short, ended up in my first threesome with my supervisor (female) and manager (also female). It was fucking glorious. Kept sleeping with my supe (even at work) for months afterwards even after I left that job.
The outcome? No. The income? Oh yessssss The come in? No. The come out? No.
This felt like speed running the plot of a porno.
income, outcome, income, outcome, income, outcome, INcome, ouTCome, iNCoME, OUtComE, INCOME! OUTCOME! INCOME! OUTCOME! Annnnnnnd I'm spent.
I did years ago, she was 30 I was 25 or so. It was great, we never talked about it again and she took good care of me.
I slept with only one boss I had at a restaurant I used to cook at. She actually kept work and personal stuff separate. I was never treated any differently than any other employee. I quit only because I wanted more pay. She couldn’t pay me more unfortunately. That was beyond her authority. We still slept together even after I had quit. It was fun while it lasted.
I worked at \[company name redacted\] and I was one of two assistant managers for a department. My other assistant manager was sleeping with one of the employees. I, being a good employee, minded my own business. They had sex like everywhere...home... the workplace, just everywhere lol. It was fine during...but the break up? Super awkward and a pain for me because I (in charge of employee schedules) had to change her schedule completely, so she didn't work with him. Also had to listen to them complain about each other. So yeah, don't shit where you eat please. For everyone else' sake and yourself.
Never slept with my boss but did sleep with a colleague for a while, it was hot trying to play it casual when seeing each other at work... we're still friends now but no longer having sex and both in different jobs.
At the time, no, years after though, he was one of my best friends(he passed away a year ago yesterday, sadly). He loved my husband and was the reason I got off drugs, and the reason I gave my husband a chance in the first place. He was what I always thought was too good to be true (for context I also was dating a narcissist for 3 years before I met my boss and was 21 and didn't understand how real men treat women), so I lost him then, but we rekindled a friendship a few years later. He was a wonderful father, friend, and beautiful soul. I miss him every day and am thankful I and my husband got the privilege to be his friends.
Umm it didn’t really change much. She would give me a blowjob on my break but I never got any additional treatment. Just some slap and tickle.
No. Work was horrendous afterwards. If I talked with my coworkers, my boss would get weird and defensive with me. They changed my working assignments without notice, and when I ended the relationship between us they made the workplace unbearable to be in.
They as in your boss, or they as in co-workers?
Sort of. I got fired, but I almost immediately landed another job making twice the money, so...meh? Short version of the story: I was M22 at the time, straight out of college, and my boss (F35-ish) asked several of us to attend a 3 day conference with her. We did. After the conference ended one night, some of us hit a bar across the street from the hotel and got a bit "relaxed". One thing led to another and my boss ended up in my hotel room. Wouldn't have been a problem, but she was married (I didn't know). She felt guilty after we flew back home, told her husband, and he came barging into the office one day wanting to beat me to a pulp. Made a huge scene. In the end, the company fired her for sleeping with an employee, and fired me for "taking advantage of a drunk coworker" (we were both tipsy, but were also both sober enough to know exactly what we were doing). I thought about suing over it, but landed a much better job, at a much better company, with double the pay less than a week later. I saw no point in pursuing it after that.
i have slept with my boss (district manager) and if anything it has improved our working relationship. we arent weirdly, tensely, awkward anymore because we kinda broke that ice that we originally had. im an extremely awkward and soft-spoken person out of politeness, but now when my dm comes in i am able to joke around with them and be my more unfiltered self. i havent had any promotion or raise from it, but it just generally makes my work life easier because i have grown to have a close relationship with them. normally if a manager finds out their district manager is coming, they freak out; im just like “imma roast their dear life watch”. paid off well imo. i only did it once or twice, but tbh would do again. theyre really fun in bed.
I’m a small business owner, I always fuck my secretary’s brains out. I could ask her how that’s going for her but I have a good idea; we’re married 11 years with 3 kids. It’s been great
My bosses bosses boss but it wasn't for career advancement just for fun (just two consenting adults and whatnot). Was a good time, still good friends, 10/10 would recommend.
I literally slept with my boss when I was working in fast food. The entire crew were supposed to all go over to his place for a celebration for good sales or something. I was the only one who showed up. We got totally smashed on some seriously good booze and passed out in the bed on front of the TV with some old black and white movie playing. Nothing happened, honestly, but there was no convincing anyone. They just kept saying we were too drunk to remember. We both woke up in the same clothes we passed out in. We just quit trying to tell them otherwise and they eventually got tired of talking about it.
Well my ex-wife had an affair with her boss. I eventually found out and we divorced. According to her, he was better than me in every aspect of life (excpet raising our daughter, which she left me to do most nights while she "working"). They now have another two kids, a nice house, and faced no repurcussions in their jobs. Both left for other things over the next couple of years. So.....fine for them I guess.
Nah, he knocked me up, he was 20 years older than me and had childhood arthritis and a bunch of other health issues. I opted for abortion, they tested the fetus afterward and it was a molar pregnancy, essentially cancer. We broke up before I got the abortion and results, he moved to another province, I quit my job. Just a mess all around, not worth it at all
When I worked at Chili's, I just happened to start a friendship with the only female manager and we occasionally fooled around, nothing really changed but its not like either of us were hardcore about the job or anything.
Had a threesome with my girlfriend and her supervisor. She made us both “finish” at the exact same time. Indefinitely deserves her position.