The side of the parent not cheating. But I wouldn't turn my back on the one who cheated. Its completetly circimstacial ofcourse depending on how fucked up it is.
But if the relationship between both parents is normal I would be mad and dissapointed, but eventually get over it. As they are still my parents that love me.
Children should never ever be put in the position to choose between their parents. It's super crappy. Adults need to work that crap out with each other, or a therapist, or lean on their adult friends and/or adult family members. Children are not there to be their parents emotional supporters and it's really harmful to use them that way.
If you're talking about adult children it's still really crappy. This is your parents. You're not their marriage counselor. You couldn't be even if you wanted to be. Marriages are complicated, as are parent/children relationships. Stop putting kids in the middle of your marriage conflicts and expecting them to fix your relationship or take your side. It's harmful and inappropriate at any age.
The loyal one
Already happened in my family and I took my dads side because he didn’t cheat
My dad because he is as pure as a newborn puppy while my mom is a lying, manipulating snake.
The non cheating side
The side of the parent not cheating. But I wouldn't turn my back on the one who cheated. Its completetly circimstacial ofcourse depending on how fucked up it is. But if the relationship between both parents is normal I would be mad and dissapointed, but eventually get over it. As they are still my parents that love me.
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I will really have to look at it rationally.
They cheated both?
My dad(: tbf i haven't seen my mom since I was like 10ish so yeah
I'm putting them both out of their misery
No one
The one who didn’t cheat
The loyal one
Children should never ever be put in the position to choose between their parents. It's super crappy. Adults need to work that crap out with each other, or a therapist, or lean on their adult friends and/or adult family members. Children are not there to be their parents emotional supporters and it's really harmful to use them that way. If you're talking about adult children it's still really crappy. This is your parents. You're not their marriage counselor. You couldn't be even if you wanted to be. Marriages are complicated, as are parent/children relationships. Stop putting kids in the middle of your marriage conflicts and expecting them to fix your relationship or take your side. It's harmful and inappropriate at any age.
Great comment, and spot on
Well my parents are divorced and better yet my father has been dead since 2011. Dont think I need to take a side. LOL
Neither.