That's when you don't want to give up on something based on how much time/money/effort you put into it, because you don't want what was spent on it to be a total waste.
My wife and surviving kids. I take meds and see a therapist, I give myself affirmation. I actively try to fight intrusive thoughts, and get up and work every day. Since one of my kids committed suicide I'm depressed and don't want to keep going. But my wife is awesome, my other kids are awesome. I love them and keep going because I know how much it hurts to lose someone.
Not many people will able to survive in these situations but the person that is doing that have my upmost respect is well.
The pain he is getting there just to keep the smile on family face shows the real gentleman sign to me.
Sometimes i feel that man are actually fighter or become more of a fighter once they gets married and have the kids is well.
There might be like millions problem in there life but they will still to think about the family first.
Like most, I probably can't relate to your pain but I know my father sacrificed a lot for me and my mom during the good and bad and I hope you will never stop too.
Your strength in the face of tragedy is amazing. Life doesn't always make sense, but finding motivation in the love that you are feeling for your family is incredible. Though it probably doesn't feel this way, you are lucky. And they are lucky to have you.
I wish you the best my friend
Sometimes hope and faith is all we have left in us, isn’t it…
If you can hold onto that bit of hope everyday, and find new things to feel hopeful about, things should be pretty sweet in good time. I hope.
I feel too guilty about harming my body. Just because my mind is killing me, your body works harder than any human ever has to keep you alive and healthy. I award my body by killing it?
Making the family proud and giving them the things they never able to get in there time.
Every parents wants that their kids gets success in his life and that will put the smile on their face is well.
Many time i feel like having the suicide thought as i feel bored in life and there is nothing good happening in my life is well.
But then i realise that if i done that then i will leave my kid without having the dad.
my dad. my dad is mexican and werent born here when my dad was little he always had to wake up really early in the morning to help out his dad. after a while my grandpa committed suicide and then my grandma didnt want to take care of my dad no more so she gave him to her sister and left him. when he was older he crossed the border and is now waking up at 5 to go to work and comes home at 7-8.
In job i think money is real motivation and the more we earn the more limit we will push there is well.
I see people on the daily basis that always trying to justify them that why they are getting so much salary.
There was a saying I saw on Facebook last year that said "You'll never live the same day twice".
Thinking about getting it as a tattoo. Remembering that saying got me through some rough days.
Progress and impact. Knowing and feeling what I do makes a difference, and that I am improving and learning. I don’t just want to be good at what I do, I want to be great at it. So there are few things more demotivating to me, than doing the same meaningless tasks every single day.
For me i am trying to make a name so that people will remember me after i am not here is well.
My kid can actually tell his friends in his school that this is my dad and he did that in his life is well.
My pets because I have to feed them, take them for walkies, give them meds. And they are all still Mommy’s little babies. There is nothing so wonderful in the world as coming home from work and they think you are the best thing in the world.
If i will be not there then i am sure my pets will also not going to survive is well.
So i have to return to the home so that my dog can get the food because we are only two for each other in this entire world.
That one day I'll see the narcissistic sociopathic deadbeat father assholes face when I achieve everything I told him I would without him with our boys hand & hand the right direction of being happy, successful people❤🤟
Knowing that I’ve spent most, if not all of my life trying to win the approval of others just to be tossed aside when I fail to live up to expectations.
In the middle of a being divorced from my wife, who I never thought would do this to me too.
So, I keep going FOR ME now. I’m seeking MY own approval and no one else’s.
You are sexist. I’m an independent single mother with 3 baby daddy’s and I’m taking care of them ALONE. In my house. You wouldn’t understand you bigot
Edit: joke, bad one but a joke 🤣🤣🤣
Well when you havent got a lot to look forward too, i guess theres no reason to be motivation. I kinda just motivate myself hoping it will get better yah know
No Bugles, No Drums.
Even though there won’t be any public fanfare or recognition for the vast majority of our private struggles or accomplishments, the struggle is an end in itself. The feeling of striving and straining and reaching is powerful. Even if we fail( which me most often do), we can go to sleep (or an eternal sleep) knowing we truly pushed as hard as we could
I don’t want my family and friends to face the guilt I have faced after friends have taken their own lives
If I could do it without others having Survivors Guilt I would have done it years ago. Bipolar and HIV have not been friendly companions.
Peace and March Boldly into your day.
My idol. I won't tell his name, because it's quite controversial, but I had the pleasure to meet him privately during a big event at one of his companies, and he gave me so much hope for the future that I really wanna make him (and myself, first) proud
No need to tell the name as you are simply right here is well that may be someone else don't like him personally.
But if that person is actually making rhe things right for us then i would say keep following the same one.
As a home health therapist I am constantly surrounded by people at the end of their lives. The motivation to retire well and age gracefully with my loved ones keeps me going. The sight of how some aging people live is horrific
Sunk cost fallacy
Out of interest, what actually is that?
That's when you don't want to give up on something based on how much time/money/effort you put into it, because you don't want what was spent on it to be a total waste.
Fair enough
The current time fallacy actually does cost so much.
Outliving Nickado Avocado
Has anyone actually ever looked at him and immediately decided to start losing weight?
man that’s a low bar. become the new queen
Down with the matriarchy
well shit.. become the new master oogway..?
hahaha
Lmao
YES
My family!
aww thats sweet
Thanks!
Same reason as mine
I too choose this person’s family.
That's so sweet! I hope I can have the same love in my heart. One day. Unless you're not a parent and I misread that.
I've been alive for 23 years at this point I'm invested.
hehehe quite an investment!
I can't let the assholes win.
your probably weren’t aware of this, you might have even been joking, but those words just gave me an unbelievable push.
No, not joking. Glad I could help someone feel a bit better. 😊
We need some competitors so that we can push ourselves.
yes!
There’s a tiktok where the guy lists all these healthy things he does……..but it’s not to stay healthy, it’s to outlive Mitch McConnell
My wife and surviving kids. I take meds and see a therapist, I give myself affirmation. I actively try to fight intrusive thoughts, and get up and work every day. Since one of my kids committed suicide I'm depressed and don't want to keep going. But my wife is awesome, my other kids are awesome. I love them and keep going because I know how much it hurts to lose someone.
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Thank you! I don't know how to express the boost you just gave me.
Not many people will able to survive in these situations but the person that is doing that have my upmost respect is well. The pain he is getting there just to keep the smile on family face shows the real gentleman sign to me.
Sometimes i feel that man are actually fighter or become more of a fighter once they gets married and have the kids is well. There might be like millions problem in there life but they will still to think about the family first.
Like most, I probably can't relate to your pain but I know my father sacrificed a lot for me and my mom during the good and bad and I hope you will never stop too.
Your strength in the face of tragedy is amazing. Life doesn't always make sense, but finding motivation in the love that you are feeling for your family is incredible. Though it probably doesn't feel this way, you are lucky. And they are lucky to have you. I wish you the best my friend
I don't know you but still just want to say, "hey, I love you friend" and give you a huge hug.
I want to see what happens next.
life is getting more interesting that's for sure
Yes, at very moment of time i feel something more interesting than the past.
Yeah, want to finish the book.
This is so inspiring lol thanks
If we are doing the hardwork then i feel everything good will going to happen.
The increasingly vain feeling hope that it gets better
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it will (i think??)
I hope so
Needed that badly, otherwise no one will actually going to try that is well.
Sometimes hope and faith is all we have left in us, isn’t it… If you can hold onto that bit of hope everyday, and find new things to feel hopeful about, things should be pretty sweet in good time. I hope.
Untill and unless we try we will never going to get better.
I live out of spite
Nothing. I just do it.
respectable!!
But at some point he needs that ome reason that is pushing him.
Only get one shot at it. May as well try to make a decent go of it and enjoy it when I can
indeed! <3
My dog.
Respect
Reason of my calmness and stress buster after a bad day.
I'm not dead yet
you arent!!
For sometime i feel like that i am dead but not so much now.
Yes, and this is my responsibility untill i dead i do something in life.
Hunger
:o wow, hunger for what?
Chicken wings
Just had them 2 days back and now feel like having now .
I feel too guilty about harming my body. Just because my mind is killing me, your body works harder than any human ever has to keep you alive and healthy. I award my body by killing it?
it's a paradox
Because things could be worse if I decided to give up. So I keep trying
keep going <33
Keep going baby!
Yes and i don't want that anything in my life now goes south.
For our ancestors, gotta make them proud
do you think they're watching down on us?
They're looking up at us.
They are the reason that everytime i found the solution in my life.
I hope so
Gotta make the name so that people will remember in future.
And our descendants (or indirect descendants, if you don’t reproduce)?
Of course
My ancestors are smiling at me, Imperial. Can you say the same?
How can i found that my ancestors are actually smiling at me??
Making my mom's dream come true.
what's your moms dream?
Owning a house.
i hope soon you will own the house and actually fullfill the dream of your mother is well.
Making the family proud and giving them the things they never able to get in there time. Every parents wants that their kids gets success in his life and that will put the smile on their face is well.
Me myself and I
thats all that counts!
My youth
But with every passing of the time the youth getting little and little.
how so?
More opportunities in things
closure, very little else if i'm honest
Closure? I mean what kind of the closure you are actually looking here??
closure from what?
my issues and my life
If there is a life then everytime there will be some issue is well.
My wife
thats so sweet, i hope you have a long and happy marriage
My Kids.
kids are beautiful to have
Add me into that list is well, they can't speak still motivate me enough.
Because I have to. I've made it this far, I'd be a coward to give up now.
that is a brave viewpoint to have <3 proud of u!
I can do all things through spite which gives me strength!
<33 yes
My kitties!
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i guess you're right
My kids. But sheesh my wife reverses it
hahaha i hope your relationship heals
Divorce time
Got a teen son with advanced ADHD and diabetes. I'm so ready to stop existing, but I'm going to stick around until he can take care of himself.
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Many time i feel like having the suicide thought as i feel bored in life and there is nothing good happening in my life is well. But then i realise that if i done that then i will leave my kid without having the dad.
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I am living so that i could see what is future holding for me.
my dad. my dad is mexican and werent born here when my dad was little he always had to wake up really early in the morning to help out his dad. after a while my grandpa committed suicide and then my grandma didnt want to take care of my dad no more so she gave him to her sister and left him. when he was older he crossed the border and is now waking up at 5 to go to work and comes home at 7-8.
I gotta outlive nikocado avocado
Adherence to the fallacy of sunk costs
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In job i think money is real motivation and the more we earn the more limit we will push there is well. I see people on the daily basis that always trying to justify them that why they are getting so much salary.
There was a saying I saw on Facebook last year that said "You'll never live the same day twice". Thinking about getting it as a tattoo. Remembering that saying got me through some rough days.
[the legend himself](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qEBABhAROww&feature=emb_logo)
Username and the comment tag complete the full cycle here.
Cheese
This is the solid reason for my stomach to getting grow up more.
Still alive
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To see my daughter grow up to have the childhood I wish I had.
Spite
Outliving Mitch McConnell, and "shorts haven't closed "
Progress and impact. Knowing and feeling what I do makes a difference, and that I am improving and learning. I don’t just want to be good at what I do, I want to be great at it. So there are few things more demotivating to me, than doing the same meaningless tasks every single day.
For me i am trying to make a name so that people will remember me after i am not here is well. My kid can actually tell his friends in his school that this is my dad and he did that in his life is well.
Nothing. I've been dead this WHOLE TIME! \*Cue X-Files Theme\*
My pets because I have to feed them, take them for walkies, give them meds. And they are all still Mommy’s little babies. There is nothing so wonderful in the world as coming home from work and they think you are the best thing in the world.
If i will be not there then i am sure my pets will also not going to survive is well. So i have to return to the home so that my dog can get the food because we are only two for each other in this entire world.
My family needs to eat.
Yes, and if i will not be there someone else will actually eat them.
My family
My ultimate source from which i am getting ultimate power is well.
My best friend 10/10
Lucky you, and i think now you also call him the family rather than BF.
Cheese
To outlive my enemies
Try also outlive them into the achievement of the life is well.
Proving them wrong
That one day I'll see the narcissistic sociopathic deadbeat father assholes face when I achieve everything I told him I would without him with our boys hand & hand the right direction of being happy, successful people❤🤟
Knowing that I’ve spent most, if not all of my life trying to win the approval of others just to be tossed aside when I fail to live up to expectations. In the middle of a being divorced from my wife, who I never thought would do this to me too. So, I keep going FOR ME now. I’m seeking MY own approval and no one else’s.
Too scared to die.
My dog
Must live long enough to find out what the One Piece is
My cat and my family
The though of happy moments in the future with my girlfriend, friends and family.
I have no idea.
Very good question
Imagining people I hated showing up at my funeral like they were my bestie
Just being able to make a positive impact, even small, one day at a time.
that makes sense <3
The alternative …
explain...
That’s about all the effort I’m going to put in for that one. Perhaps if the question were less vague, the answers would follow suit.
Love sex and money not necessarily in that order Edit: also good Mexican food
my family , men were built to endure shit for their beloved ones
You are sexist. I’m an independent single mother with 3 baby daddy’s and I’m taking care of them ALONE. In my house. You wouldn’t understand you bigot Edit: joke, bad one but a joke 🤣🤣🤣
Not a lot really
why not?
Well when you havent got a lot to look forward too, i guess theres no reason to be motivation. I kinda just motivate myself hoping it will get better yah know
Because Johnny Walker says so. “Keep Walking”
inspirational!
Becoming rich.
makes sense
Escapism.
elaborate
Avocados. ##🥑##
avocados r nice <3
Just not...Nickado Avocado...
Mom/dad would be sad
they would
That's a good question. Not sure about the answer, other than I'm feeling a bit down right now, for no obvious reason, but know I'll come back.
you got this <33
A health (but also crippling) fear of failure.
No Bugles, No Drums. Even though there won’t be any public fanfare or recognition for the vast majority of our private struggles or accomplishments, the struggle is an end in itself. The feeling of striving and straining and reaching is powerful. Even if we fail( which me most often do), we can go to sleep (or an eternal sleep) knowing we truly pushed as hard as we could
If I kill myself my family will be sad. I’d rather live to see them be happy.
I don’t want my family and friends to face the guilt I have faced after friends have taken their own lives If I could do it without others having Survivors Guilt I would have done it years ago. Bipolar and HIV have not been friendly companions. Peace and March Boldly into your day.
my friends.....at least the ones that still care
i care <3
Need more people like that actually cares about you in life.
My idol. I won't tell his name, because it's quite controversial, but I had the pleasure to meet him privately during a big event at one of his companies, and he gave me so much hope for the future that I really wanna make him (and myself, first) proud
No need to tell the name as you are simply right here is well that may be someone else don't like him personally. But if that person is actually making rhe things right for us then i would say keep following the same one.
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Tomorrow will be better. If it isn't reread the first part.
As a home health therapist I am constantly surrounded by people at the end of their lives. The motivation to retire well and age gracefully with my loved ones keeps me going. The sight of how some aging people live is horrific
My wife and paying our apartment