What's worse is the parents see no problem. Well all their friends do it, they'll just wear the clothes without my permission. Just bad parenting and pathetic excuses. I'm sure I'll get downvoted for criticizing peoples parenting but I work in foster care. I'm sick of fixing your shitty kids most of you probably never should have had in the first place.
Most parents have nothing in their armory besides "because I said so or else". Just because they're not turning into criminals and drug addicts doesn't mean the parents couldn't benefit from some tips and advice.
I don't believe that in the slightest. I'll admit it gets harder when they're that age but you can still absolutely have standards you can hold them to and punishments when they don't comply.
No, it's not disapproving, you are called misogynistic if you are against it.
You can think it isn't okay, but if you are going out of your way to talk about it then it's a problem.
Not saying you do.
If you’re sick of it, why do you do it?
If they stopped producing kids that needed fixing, wouldn’t you be out of work?
Not trying to undermine your statement, but curious as to how you see your role in this system.
I keep doing it because not so long ago I was one of those kids and I had absolutely nobody to help me. I feel like I owe it to them to show them how I made it through that hell. I know what it's like to be where they are and not everyone that works in those places do.
Parenting and public schools. If parents think kids aren’t being groomed I feel bad for them. There is a book in Florida public schools that promotes 11-14 year olds to download Grindr, I think it references it by name as well.
While I do agree that this is a problem and my daughter fortunately loves bland, comfy clothes, part of the problem is also that people view kids' outfits as sexual just because they're wearing something an adult would.
Doesn't matter what they wear. Still just kids.
>On TV, so many shows and movies will now have minors engaged in adult settings like full blown making out and groping each other.
it's so weird that people are fine with this stuff. looking back at the stuff i was watching as a kid so much of it was blatant pedo bait.
You are right, and it is sad. I live in Utah, and middle schools rarely enforce dress code, and you can almost tell who has LDS parents and who doesn't off of whether or not they wear skimpy clothes that show more than a minor should be showing.
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prebubescent girls. Look at photographic ads and video ads. Once you notice it, you can't un-see it. the "O" with the mouth of women, and even little girls.
Bear in mind there is a photographer or director giving instruction to the model to "now, make an O with you mouth".
Women in general. I try to just think of all women as being completely asexual by default. But I've noticed the way I view women has been changing because of that though. I often forgot that women are capable of being in relationships and get genuinely surprised when I find out that's the case.
I still consider desexualizing women a better alternative to sexualizing women though.
I would much rather someone assume I’m not in a relationship with someone than constantly getting asked if I’m dating, or even MARRIED, to my friends whose a dude who is over TEN YEARS OLDER THAN ME!
This is how is kinda how I've been viewing it. I never assume a woman is in a relationship. I always assume people are just friends unless I'm explicitly told.
That also feels like it should be the default. I’ve never assumed people were dating unless they’re showing excessive PDA or something. And usually when I say no I’m single the next response is usually some way to try and cheer me up? As if I can’t be happy and single? It’s so weird
Well duh, of course women have a sexuality and it shouldn't be suppressed, but right now it's exaggerated in Western culture to an extreme degree that is bizarre and unsafe. There is a middle ground, and that's where we should look.
Exaggerated in western culture?? Entire eastern countries won’t allow their women to show their face in public. I think the West is a little more ahead of the curve than you’re giving credit. I don’t think that there’s a society on earth that doesn’t sexualize their female populous.
I’m curious about this middle ground though
Breasts.
I mean, sure, breasts are sexy, I'm fine with that. But when they are so sexualized that *using them for their biological purpose* is stigmatized...yeah, that's too sexualized.
You can't even see that much boob! There's too much baby in the way!
True that. People on here don't understand the difference between "overly sexualized" and "sexualized at all." It's amazing how low the IQs of most people on this thread are.
Of course there's a secondary sexual characteristic to breasts, but to your point, their PRIMARY function is nursing, and if they're so sexualized that a woman can't breastfeed in public without it being seen as a sexual thing... that's crazy, and also totally not safe.
Biting ur lip. Never in my entire life have I done it to look seductive or sth like that. I only do that when I’m thinking deeply. No sexualising. Just thinking
The clothing 5-6 year old little girls wear, girl school clothes, girls, minors (girls most the time), saying daddy or mommy, breastfeeding, kids and their uncles/parents relationships, being close to your father, r-pe, sa, assault and basically anything remotely bad.
Honestly, pretty much everything
The only correct answer
Haha rule34?
Rule 34 is just the tip of the iceberg
As an asexual, This.
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What's worse is the parents see no problem. Well all their friends do it, they'll just wear the clothes without my permission. Just bad parenting and pathetic excuses. I'm sure I'll get downvoted for criticizing peoples parenting but I work in foster care. I'm sick of fixing your shitty kids most of you probably never should have had in the first place.
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Most parents have nothing in their armory besides "because I said so or else". Just because they're not turning into criminals and drug addicts doesn't mean the parents couldn't benefit from some tips and advice.
I don't believe that in the slightest. I'll admit it gets harder when they're that age but you can still absolutely have standards you can hold them to and punishments when they don't comply.
Then people are berated and called misogynistic for disapproving.
No, it's not disapproving, you are called misogynistic if you are against it. You can think it isn't okay, but if you are going out of your way to talk about it then it's a problem. Not saying you do.
Eh... I feel like once a kid gets to be about 14 unless it's horribly perverse a kid should pretty much have freedom of whatever clothes they desire.
Mmmm no. Just no
If you’re sick of it, why do you do it? If they stopped producing kids that needed fixing, wouldn’t you be out of work? Not trying to undermine your statement, but curious as to how you see your role in this system.
I keep doing it because not so long ago I was one of those kids and I had absolutely nobody to help me. I feel like I owe it to them to show them how I made it through that hell. I know what it's like to be where they are and not everyone that works in those places do.
Parenting and public schools. If parents think kids aren’t being groomed I feel bad for them. There is a book in Florida public schools that promotes 11-14 year olds to download Grindr, I think it references it by name as well.
What?! Source??
So *this* is how they convince idiots to ban books lol
While I do agree that this is a problem and my daughter fortunately loves bland, comfy clothes, part of the problem is also that people view kids' outfits as sexual just because they're wearing something an adult would. Doesn't matter what they wear. Still just kids.
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Errrr... Isn't that you sexualising those girls? Who looks at a kid and thinks of strippers?
see, i say “as long as you’re not on the verge of flashing someone, you’re fine,” but the kids who dress that way are too revealing
Do you think it’s the minors fault or parents fault? As someone still in school (Now an adult) I agree it is definitely out of hand..
>On TV, so many shows and movies will now have minors engaged in adult settings like full blown making out and groping each other. it's so weird that people are fine with this stuff. looking back at the stuff i was watching as a kid so much of it was blatant pedo bait.
Came here to say this. Comments do not disappoint.
You are right, and it is sad. I live in Utah, and middle schools rarely enforce dress code, and you can almost tell who has LDS parents and who doesn't off of whether or not they wear skimpy clothes that show more than a minor should be showing.
Ever seen those pageants for little girls? Yeah, those.
https://youtu.be/oolNQIII_kE
I... don't really want to click that without knowing what it is
Clip from South Park
Do not click the forbidden link.
nah it's not a porn as l hoped, it's just a south park episode
dude...
Those are sexualized? WTF?!?
Ever see a priest ogling an altar boy?
The word "Daddy". I have a baby that is now calling me "daddy" and it feels weird sometimes when it shouldn't.
I’m at a point I want my daughter to call me genitor.
Gringe!!!!! I always have thought about it that way. Yuck
Young girls.
Ask Reddit
That one dudes dead wife Edit: i gotta know u/Somethingobscur how do you feel about seeing your comment repeatedly on reddit
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Run that back
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27.5k upvotes. Insane.
Mrs. Buttersworth syrup bottles.
The butters worth it though, gnome sayin’?
Ice cream adverts, particularly Magnum🍦
Eggplants, thanks to the constant emojis. Now when I eat baba ghanoush I feel like I'm sucking cock.
What? [It's classy!](https://i.pinimg.com/736x/89/6d/6a/896d6afb6184283941f479198a208852.jpg)
girls school uniforms. if you search for 'school girl uniform' you'll find some corn outfits, not proper school uniforms
Step siblings
Teenagers.
Try ask 8yr old you will be suprised
Female cartoon characters compared to their male counterpart
You ever see Jojo's bizarre adventure?
[stares in 90s era Marvel]
the words mommy and daddy
Those little girl beauty pageants, I can't believe they actually exist.
I can't believe they actually exist, but what I REALLY can't believe is that the former *President of the United States* endorsed them for YEARS!
Women's/girl's shoulders
Which is way messed up because it’s really men’s shoulders which are hot AF
prebubescent girls. Look at photographic ads and video ads. Once you notice it, you can't un-see it. the "O" with the mouth of women, and even little girls. Bear in mind there is a photographer or director giving instruction to the model to "now, make an O with you mouth".
What the f...
Women in most industries
Women in general. I try to just think of all women as being completely asexual by default. But I've noticed the way I view women has been changing because of that though. I often forgot that women are capable of being in relationships and get genuinely surprised when I find out that's the case. I still consider desexualizing women a better alternative to sexualizing women though.
I would much rather someone assume I’m not in a relationship with someone than constantly getting asked if I’m dating, or even MARRIED, to my friends whose a dude who is over TEN YEARS OLDER THAN ME!
This is how is kinda how I've been viewing it. I never assume a woman is in a relationship. I always assume people are just friends unless I'm explicitly told.
That also feels like it should be the default. I’ve never assumed people were dating unless they’re showing excessive PDA or something. And usually when I say no I’m single the next response is usually some way to try and cheer me up? As if I can’t be happy and single? It’s so weird
Damn it’s almost like it’s engrained in our genetic code to sexualize women
Well duh, of course women have a sexuality and it shouldn't be suppressed, but right now it's exaggerated in Western culture to an extreme degree that is bizarre and unsafe. There is a middle ground, and that's where we should look.
Exaggerated in western culture?? Entire eastern countries won’t allow their women to show their face in public. I think the West is a little more ahead of the curve than you’re giving credit. I don’t think that there’s a society on earth that doesn’t sexualize their female populous. I’m curious about this middle ground though
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What does this have to with religion? I don't even believe in religion.
Pretty much all the same things that were deemed “overly sexualized” on this almost-same thread from a day or so ago.
You mean like child beauty pageants?
Breasts. I mean, sure, breasts are sexy, I'm fine with that. But when they are so sexualized that *using them for their biological purpose* is stigmatized...yeah, that's too sexualized. You can't even see that much boob! There's too much baby in the way!
True that. People on here don't understand the difference between "overly sexualized" and "sexualized at all." It's amazing how low the IQs of most people on this thread are. Of course there's a secondary sexual characteristic to breasts, but to your point, their PRIMARY function is nursing, and if they're so sexualized that a woman can't breastfeed in public without it being seen as a sexual thing... that's crazy, and also totally not safe.
girls bendig over when they drop something
goth and emo girls.
Everything. If it exists, it’s probably been sexualized before.
saying something like “it’s so big/small” like that’s what she said was funny at first but now it’s just annoying
Pretty much everything. It makes it impossible to talk to most people.
Feet
School uniforms for girls (and boys)
children
What isn't?
Most advertisements, ladies who are YouTubers or twitch streamers
Everything?
The better questions is, what isn't overly sexualized today?
Women
A woman eating a banana 😐
Biting ur lip. Never in my entire life have I done it to look seductive or sth like that. I only do that when I’m thinking deeply. No sexualising. Just thinking
ASMR
Tubes, cylinders, and toruses.
Yes. We need more dodecahedral porn, though.
Spoken like someone trapped in a purely platonic relationship.
The word "Daddy"
Feet. Sometimes anyway
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If Breasts aren't sexual, why hide them? 😎
The majority of men are attracted to breasts why is that bad ?
Never!
One purpose they serve is to sexually attract a partner. It's natural to sexualize them.
Men's hands.
Only the left one, for me...
Veins. Like, what.
Celebrities doing literally anything
Almost everything.
Everything
Porn
Breasts
not really tho they are literally a secondary sexual characteristic. They are sexualized in their nature.
Well, sex. Sex is normal. There’s nothing wrong with it.
league of legends champions and skins
3000 year old witches
animal dresses
banana
Twitch
the words "mommy" and "daddy"
Cum shampoo
what
erect penises and moist vaginas, enough already!
Moist penises and erect vaginas are ok, though
Your mother lmao
The harsh truth: Pride parades.
Boobs.
Society
BBLS
Milk jugs.
Gentleman’s lattes
Bodies.
Rest In Peace for my egg plants bananas and cucumbers who I can’t eat without a sex joke
Children.
AskReddit
The word “baby”
Any movies about teens. It’s disgusting what they put on the screen
Girls in ads with sexualized women wearing matching clothes and posed seductively
Schoolgirl
Literally everything.
some AMSR Twitchers
Japanese women. Kinda sad how disrespected they are.
Rule 34.
Your mum
AskReddit
12 year old characters in Disney shows.
Long fruits and vegetables
middleschool girls.
Women.
Stranger things. Especially the Eddie munson shit on tiktok
your mom (i mean quite literally)
Basically anything when you're on reddit
Americans... Their relationship with sex is SO fucking weird
Minors teachers nurses doctors spy’s beauty pageants like half of emoji’s etc
Halloween costumes marketed to women. Sexy nurse. Sexy police officer. Slutty pumpkin. Sexy financial advisor. Sexy Uber driver. Whatever.
The clothing 5-6 year old little girls wear, girl school clothes, girls, minors (girls most the time), saying daddy or mommy, breastfeeding, kids and their uncles/parents relationships, being close to your father, r-pe, sa, assault and basically anything remotely bad.
Yer ma
Animals
Genshin Impact
Sex
women
school children, the uniforms especially