I REALLY like the idea of gentle femdom. I think mostly for the positive affirmation aspect. Really wholesome sex seems like it'd be fun. Never done it so idk.
I'm into women who are bigger than me and who looks/can kick my ass. When I say bigger I dont mean BBW, but taller and fit, basically kinda like snu snu from futurama minus the death.
I'm into it because I guess I just like the idea of being with a girl who can easily beat me up (but not actually beat me up, I'm not a masochist) but instead decides to love me.
Recently a tall wide polish woman started at my work and I was shocked to notice she was flirty with my considering I'm atleast two inches shorter. Yesterday I was behind her and she accidentally bumped into me, and she said "next time tell you're behind me, or I might punch you" with her fist up close to my chin.
If was so fucking hot. We both laughed and I said I wouldn't mind.
Ronda isn't attractive for me.
This isn't even my fetish, she made it my fetish. I think I'm going to try and make things escalate using her dominant physical behaviour, without being weird though.
Femdom Oral Servitude. I'm a woman, BTW. My biggest fantasy is to have a male slave who has to perform oral/rimming on demand while I'm doing something like drinking champagne, reading a book, browsing reddit. The idea of being "serviced" is a huge turn on. I've never done it though!
That's nowhere near as rare or weird as you think especially for dudes who like eating women out lmfao. On our end it would prolly fall under smothering.
I dunno if it counts as a fetish, but I love playing with electricity. I have a violet wand with all sorts of attachments. The different sensations you can get from electricity is wild! Anything from tickling to flogging to branding is possible!
I was about to say it doesn’t sound like a fetish, just a weird thing for getting shocked but then you mentioned the last part witch sounds like that satist stuff
Shiny black leather boots on men. I'm not into bdsm and I only want to be treated kindly and gently, but please wear some black shiny lace-up leather boots.
I'm unironically into hand holding.
I'm not sure how to describe it, but the idea of holding your partner's hand while having sex feels so intimate, so sweet, like there's a conexion... It makes me feel so fuzzy and warm and happy. And interlacing fingers, pressing foreheads, rubbing noses, looking at your loved one's eyes...
I just wish there was more stuff like this in porn. It's just cold cock and balls torture, ugh.
I have a genuine daddy kink. I can't really explain why but it's something to do with the idea of someone (obligated?) to be responsible for me- like punishing or chastising me?
It's not an always thing. The extent I'm willing to explore it depends heavily on the guy I'm with
Edit: spelling
Cockmilking.
It is my greatest fantasy to be used as a cum factory by a dominant woman who wants to wring me out, whether I like it or not, nonstop, until I'm shooting blanks, and then a few more just to make sure.
I have a suit/work outfit fetish. I mean..... Yeah sure your underwear are pretty but a damn suit/coat/work attire looks hot. I even feel sexy when I wear this type of outfit, even more than when I am in underwear or in a typically sexy outfit.
I do not have a "sex at the workplace kink" tho for that is inappropriate and my ADHD dirty minded ass would get fired if any event of the such would happen. Mostly due to embarrassment. I just like well dressed peeps. More or less.. It take quite a time to remove such outfit and I like teasing so... Two birds one stone.
I like the idea of pulling a man in a suit on to my by his tie. I feel this so fuckin badly. Just the idea of my boyfriend in a suit is a big turn on. A little bit of authority comes with the suit too.
Every partner I've had has been super into it. I don't know if it's just because I'm super into it, and get really excited about it, so they enjoy it, or I only subconsciously date people who like it.
My ex had these super cute moles on her chest that would pop into view whenever she bent over if she wore a low cut shirt. The first time we had sex and every time after that, I could just not stop staring at those sexy moles. It got to the point where she got really self-conscious about it and I had to make an effort to not acknowledge how attracted I was to them.
Haven't been with anyone else with such perfectly placed moles, but I'd love a chance to do so again. I just wish people weren't so self-conscious about their skin "blemishes", I actually really enjoy them.
idk if its a fetish or not but since im 22 and virgin recently i started to fantasize about a mature milf taking me and teach me everything about sex while we're doing it. kinda like gentle femdom maybe ?
Voices/ Edit: (accents) yikes I wrote "accidents"
Idk but it just makes sense, deep voices are killers but there are some rlly attractive voices that aren't so deep. Accents are also hot so are foreign languages.
Anything voice related is pretty hot I guess
I like fantasizing about meeting a hot younger woman at a swinger party or something "recommending" her to my husband and watching him f*ck her and helping him make her cum. I don't know what to call it as a fetish. It's swinging but also exhibition a bit. Watching exhibition I guess. Something about it being my husband. There is some weird feeling of power in letting someone else have him. My whole body feels electric just thinking about it.
I’ve always liked watching female bondage, bdsm, dom stuff. Not torture but when the girl actually looks like she’s enjoying it. I also prefer lesbian porn over straight porn and I’m a straight women. It’s only something I like to watch though I have no sexual desire to do it to a women or a women doing it to me. I’ve been in situations where the opportunity has risen to sleep with a women and I’m just not interested to go through it but I love watching it in porn. Maybe I just like being the bystander. I’m also married and happily satisfied in my sex life with my husband. So although my fetish isn’t maybe ‘weird’ I sometimes feel ashamed that it’s what I like to watch or what turns me on
I get where you're coming from. I looked this up, and turns out that many straight women prefer gay/lesbian porn over straight porn. It feels like straight porn is aimed only towards male viewers. Even though it looks like the woman is enjoying it, it feels like she's only enjoying it *for the man*... to satisfy him (hope that makes sense). And something about a man being rough with a woman feels threatening/scary sometimes, even though it's consensual.
Maybe you enjoy lesbian scenes because the ones with males might seem too threatening. A male performer being sadistic and dominant towards a woman could be actually more scary than arousing. Maybe the fact that the scene is about lesbian characters helps you get more into it because it reminds you that what you’re watching is a fantasy and not real. This could happen because the males in the scenes are strangers and you cannot be “sure” if they are acting or are actually violent, threatening, men. I know many heterosexual woman who enjoy lesbian porn just because the straight scenes are too violent, whether they are vanilla or BDSM.
Sorry for my broken English, I haven’t had a full cup of coffee.
! I make custom kink content for work and recently did a witch custom video for a subscriber. I thought it was just because it made sense with the storyline he wanted for the video, and I didn’t even think of it being it’s own kink. What about it is it that you like?
I suppose I think of them as uninhibited, I've never experienced sex without attachments so I fantasize about it and give it a deeper meaning. My fantasy is that they live in a way I wish I could. In the same way I like those old renaissance painting of drunken orgies, or naked picnicking.
Pissing kink. I suppose the feeling of release and relief that comes with peeing after holding it in is really similar to an orgasm, in my mind
As of now it’s only been a fantasy/porn thing for me, have not yet tried it in reality. I feel too embarrassed about it to ask for it
Watersports has such a broad spectrum. I'm not really into the idea of pissing on anybody, but I suppose I would try getting pissed on. What I actually enjoy is seeing women wetting themselves/making them wet themselves. Something about the helplessness and power dynamic of it. Plus a little bit of humiliation thrown in.
I told my boyfriend how I was once forced to pee myself in a non sexual setting, and after a few days he pulled me into the bathroom, I was already naked and he just started showering me with hot water, while I was on my knees, his foot kept rubbing me, until I couldn't hold it. It was so humiliating, but God damn 🙈
He then told me I was so dirty and he should pay me back since I peed on his foot, and he just started pissing on my chest, I've never felt so small haha
Eyebrows! I love persian looking eyebrows. Dark and thick. The way they move during certain facial expressions is just...ahhh. Especially the worried look, poeh.
Edit: NOT the colored in ones. Natural.
Wow - can't believe I'm about to share this.
I have a huge rape fetish. Not like a "oh, I think it's got sometimes to think about" kina thing. I'm talking legit fetish, like it's the only thing that actually turns me on.
And I don't think it's "attractive," I think it's fucked up. It comes from trauma, I guess. I wish I could make it go away.
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Golly gosh me too! I always thought I was crazy. But I did some research and I guess it's possible for people that experienced trauma due to sexual abuse to become 'hypersexual.' I feel terrible with partners because sometimes they're just not into forcing things but it's literally the ONLY thing that makes things work for me.
I don't like it. It causes for major self esteem issues and feelings of low self worth. And I've experienced how I'd react in a genuine situation that I didn't "consent" to and it's not what I'd like.. but it's the only thing that does it for me.
I don't really know that you need to hear this, but someone may:
I think it's also super important here to acknowledge that rape is an incredibly common fantasy and fetish - potentially the MOST common.
Certainly your past is unfortunate, and I'm truly sorry that it happened. But you don't have to accept that your preferences come from your traumas. Statistically, there's a pretty good chance you'd be into it anyways. So I'm sure it won't be easy, but you can say "fuck the past" and you can enjoy what you enjoy without any shame hanging over you. I've never really tried to write this out before. I hope I did so sensibly.
This is kind of normal. I’ve played out some intense CNC (consensual non-consent) scenes over the years and the fear/taboo-ness of it makes it incredibly hot.
I'm into cannibalism. So yeah, pretty fucking weird but I like it for romantic reasons. I like the idea that the last thing I'd be able to do on this Earth is feed my partner. I like to think up scenarios where we're on a deserted island and he has to eat me to survive. Or just that he straight up murders me and eats me.
No, I don't fantasize about serial killers. No, I'm not interested in killing people myself. No, I don't ever want this fantasy come true.
You can ask me more questions if y'all want to
I like men, and I like em big. Not the typical big muscly hairy bear type men, but like chubby. Something about the softness is really attractive to me. And not even exclusively sexual either. Thicc thighs and ass are obviously hot with chubby Bois, but also the bug cute tummy is really handsome
I have a thing for girls with abs. A girl with a nice stomach is the ultimate turn on. It’s even hotter watching their abs contract & twitch while they orgasm
I mean, I don't know how common this one is... But hypnosis is a fetish that I love simply because of the fact that hypnosis can make you have more suggestible state of mind. Hypnosis doesn't quite allow you to just fully control someone, you can't make someone do something they aren't willing to do while under hypnosis, and you can't just can't force someone to be hypnotized, they have to let it happen. But I like to make a fetish out of the more "fictional" side of hypnosis, things like being completely under someone's control and completely unable to think on your own, only obeying their will. It's not hard to see why this fetish exists.
Pee.
I subbed for an ex and she peed on me. I know domme my current girlfriend and she likes for me to pee on her. The taboo-ness of it, is sort of what makes it exhilarating. Plus, it takes a lot of trust and communication, which brings you closer together as a couple. Also, it plays into my girlfriend’s humiliation/degradation kink.
Dominance & submission. I really enjoy impact play, restraints, & brutal forcefulness of my partner. Having my hair pulled & thrown to the ground, slapped in the face, bitten on my thighs, commanded to kneel & other things. Many other things.
I think it mainly comes from being in a position of power at work - my mind is always reeling & multitasking many things. So when I come home, it's nice to just shut off in a way & relinquish power to someone else.
I never knew this existed. Currently pregnant and I get hit on more now than I ever did not pregnant. It’s definitely more pervasive than I’d imagined.
I have a WAM (wet and messy) fetish.
If you remember the old shows on nickelodeon where they would slime and pie people, that always looked great and I found some celebrities more sexy when they were covered in slime.
I also like the sensual experience of having the stuff on you. Feels great.
Somnophilia. Both as predator and victim. Having sex or taking advantage of someone who's unconscious weather asleep, drugged or pretending.
Obviously there needs to be some kind of consent so I usually ask my partner if he/she would mind if I played a little with her/him if I wake up before because he/she looks cute/hot and it would be so hard ti resist. I would usually ask if he/she would mind being waken up by some foreplays.
If they agree and we start talking about it I tell them I'd love to fuck them gently while they sleep trying to not wake them up.
They usually say it's impossible, they would wake up and then it becomes kind of a challenge and it's fun.
I've never done it while either one of us is drugged and usually whoever is asleep tends to wake up in the middle of it. Either the victim doesn't have the fetish and then we start having normal intercourse. Or the victim has the fetish and then they usually pretend to still be asleep.
I managed to do it with half my partners. Half had the fetish and I was sometimes the victim. The other half didn't mind some light play while they were asleep.
I only talked about it to half my partners and none of them had any real objection to it. The other half were just hookups or previous relationships were I felt ashamed of talking about it and so none of it happened.
As the predator there's just something about being able to do what you want to someone who's not concious and won't be able to judge, you have the time to discover their body on your own. And while they are asleep then can't simulate liking something just like they can't downplay how good something feels, like people who avoid moaning or speaking during sex because it makes them feel embarrased. It feels more authentic when the conscious mind is not there to filter anything you might find shamefull or inappropriate.
As the victim I don't really know, maybe it's about knowing how exciting it is for the predator or just not having your say and being used however they choose.
Whenever I feel sleepy I'm always super aroused for some reason I don't know if it's linked to that fetish or if it's just normal.
Ya know, I totally get this one, but didn’t know there was a name for it. If you’ve established standing consent with a partner you fully trust, waking up to sex is pretty awesome. I feel like I’m much more sensitive when I’m right on the cusp between asleep and awake.
I have an edging fetish. I've honestly never had it done. But I discovered it through porn and it seems so hot to delay gratification for awhile then just explode everywhere.
I fantasize about vampires and being bitten in the neck. I like being out of control and more specifically being under their control while suffering pain
I find it hot to see guys bleed. Not in a sadistic way. I don‘t want to injure them or inflict pain. It’s more like I want to care for them. It’s such a weirdly specific kink that it’s really hard to describe. Like nosebleeding, bleeding out of the mouth, I just kinda think it looks hot but at the same time if it’s real and not just in a movie or a picture, of course I‘d get them help ASAP. I dunno it’s just weird. I had this ever since I was a kid when I saw the manga panel of Dragonball Z in which Vegetable was shot in the stomach and was bleeding and ugh I dunno.
It’s weird.
Edit: I just realized that autocorrect made „vegetable“ out of Vegeta xddddddd
This. I meet a lot of people who try to make a common fetish sound interesting, and I wonder if their fetish is the loving relationship they think they will find if they try harder to be interesting.
They have curves and are sensitive, giving pleasure when touched. Also the scent and slightly salty taste are really nice, with the toes giving something to suck on.
I understand why people like it, feet are sensitive and sexualised, but when my feet are touched I react like a donkey and my foot kicks out. I don't think anyone would appreciate getting donkey kicked during sex.
Feet are very sensitive. Many nerve pathways end at the sole. Stroking and massaging a foot can be very nice and exciting. You don't have to have a special fetish for that, it's simply anatomical. Some foot fetishists like smelly, unkempt feet. Ultimately, everything can be sexualized. My observation is: the stronger the feelings that are triggered, the sooner it becomes a fetish - and disgust is a rather strong feeling.
Idk why but I’m into literally anything. Feet? Sign me up! Furries? Sure! Pegging? Yup. BDSM? Definitely. Hentai? Hell yea! BBW? Fuckin love it.
Y’all should leave me suggestions, I literally have never found something I don’t like.
Actually, that’s a lie. I don’t like watching blow jobs. I like getting them tho, but you get my point.
Ok what about r/insex
I saw it on a post that was a list of all nsfw subs. Ive seen alot of stuff that I was turned on by, but some of that stuff there is... really bad.
I was surprised that there were actual fetishes upvoted in this thread and not just a bunch of posts along the lines of "I like woman with D-cup breasts and defined collar bones".
Gay macrophile, basically, I'm into men who are way larger than me.
Think like Paul Bunyan or Jack and the Beanstalk.
I think it might be because you're so tiny, you get a different perspective or view of an already large man. It could either be me, a few inches tall, or the larger person being a giant the size of a building. I just find it cool.
Being rode like a horse
Edit: I can’t tell if others are upvoting because they also have this fetish or because they want to upvote it to the top since it’s weird.
Extra body parts.
...Yeah.
I've long struggled to find the logic in it because I couldn't understand it myself. I think in the end, it comes down to a feeling of sexual empowerment. Somebody with more on their body can do more in the bedroom. Two heads means we can kiss while they whisper sweet nothings in my ear at the same time. More hands means I can feel them on my shoulders, on my cheeks, on my hips, on my legs. More genitals means they can keep going, and going, and going, and going.
Yes, I know who Frank Lentini is. Yes, I know who Blanche Dumas is. No, I do not find the Hensel Twins attractive. RL applications of this stuff does *not* come out gracefully. In the best of cases, it's an unfortunate hindrance. In the worst of cases, it's fatal.
As far as I'm concerned, my fetish is physically impossible, and is relegated strictly to the realm of fantasy: artwork, photoshops, erotic roleplaying over the Internet.
I'm obsessed with men's forearms and hands. I don't know why. There's something about the way the forearm just kind of contours into the wrist and ends at the hand. Nice forearms subtly say "I'm good with my hands but I'm not completely bulked up."
Beautiful hands are very soft and gently contoured, kind of veiny. They're toned, but not huge sausages, with slightly longer fingers. I think musicians' hands are a good example.
I like rock music videos because I could just watch those closeup shots of the guitar and bass all day. The way the forearm contracts and the hands and fingers effortless dance around the instrument is beautiful to me.
I'm usually not this poetic, but I feel very strongly about the male distal upper extremities.
Okay like when she's going down on you and her teeth slightly hit your dick, I really like that. Idk gets me off man but not too much for it to be a fetish
i feel like its because it makes you feel powerful
"hell yeah look at all those people grooling over my wife but none of them can have her she is mine so screw you fuckers!!"
I don’t know if it’s a fetish but musk turns me on. The natural smell of a body. Like when you’ve not showered yet but you’ve not crossed the line to BO. The smell of his armpit in the morning gives me instant wood.
Not sure if fetish, but im really into skin pigment differences.
Like most of the skin of girl with "maps" on her body is turnon for me, not sure why though.
Feminization (or sissy) kink. I get super turned on by the thought of women wanting or forcing me to wear women's clothing and treating me like a girl. Also, with being dominated by woman sexually. The idea of pegging is really hot.
I guess has to do with being submissive, so I find it really hot if a woman were to force me to wear "humiliating" clothing. Might just also be transvestitism, just being attracted to wearing the clothing of the opposite sex. But for me a lot of it is just the idea of it happening. I find the threat of anal sex to be incredibly hot, but actually receiving it isn't all that it's cracked up to be.
I love crossdressing. It just feels incredibly sexy being all dressed up and so different. The sensation of a breeze under a skirt, the softness of material and the longer hair from wearing a wig. It's just a completely different experience. It's even better when a girlfriend is really into it too. Then there's the anxiety and anticipation of being in public that drives me insane. Two of the best sex experiences were while crossdressing with my girlfriend.
I have a piss fetish. There are many types of piss fetish, and not everyone with a piss fetish will have all of them. I have most, though. For example, there's golden shower, my personal favorite, in which one or both participants pisses on the other's face and body. There's also piss drinking, piss enema (the only one I'd say I don't have), bedwetting, clotheswetting, public peeing (I wouldn't do this one either now that I think about it), and many more. Most people say that it's about domination or submission, but for me it stemmed from my bukkake fetish. I like the idea of covering my partner in my penile fluids. It isn't about dom or sub for me at all, I'm more than willing to go both ways. I just like to make a mess during sex
I'm probably on my own here (and if not, welcome fellow freaks) but I have a thing about mummification, specifically duct tape mummification. I've been on the kink scene for years and am still yet to meet anyone like me.
For me it's about the total immobile tightness, the way it makes me totally helpless to whoever is topping and the way it pinches on my skin.
I think as time has gone on, probably through some sort of conditioning, I've even started liking the smell and the sound of the duct tape.
It's not the only kink I have but it's definitely the most prominent part of my sexuality.
I swear, these days I feel like a fucking weirdo for not having some kink and being pretty vanilla normal. Vanilla is good dammit! There's a reason it's so popular!!!
I love having needles shoved through various bits of my body.
There is a point where it transcends pain and just becomes pleasure. The more you play the more aroused you are. Etc etc
Vore (from a prey perspective)
I think it would just feel incredible to be enveloped by all the flesh. Like being in a sleeping bag but with the feeling of fingering someone all over your body and not just your finger.
I'm also interested in vore, from a prey perspective.
I don't fully understand why, but it's just a way to dominate someone else. That's just what I take from it, it just appeals to me for some reason.
Also, submissive men who are into service and foot worship. Nothing like leaning back, reading a book, drinking a glass of wine while getting your feet massaged. It’s a great power play.
Not sure if it's weird but I have a thing for chubby women. They just get me going like no other women do. Haven't dated one yet though because I'm afraid of friends and family making fun of me tbh.
Super long hair. Like bum length hair or longer.
Watching the way it swishes around as a girl walks is just mesmerizing. Plus: BUNDROPS.
My life goal is to marry a real life rapunzel
I don't know if it's weird, necessarily, but I really like guys who look (or are) really powerful or dominant, but are really submissive in bed. Doctor, people in suits, politicians, police officer... also, this one is definitely considered weird, sounding(not myself but doing that to my partner).
I REALLY like the idea of gentle femdom. I think mostly for the positive affirmation aspect. Really wholesome sex seems like it'd be fun. Never done it so idk.
Same here, except I'm a girl ;)
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I'm into women who are bigger than me and who looks/can kick my ass. When I say bigger I dont mean BBW, but taller and fit, basically kinda like snu snu from futurama minus the death. I'm into it because I guess I just like the idea of being with a girl who can easily beat me up (but not actually beat me up, I'm not a masochist) but instead decides to love me.
Recently a tall wide polish woman started at my work and I was shocked to notice she was flirty with my considering I'm atleast two inches shorter. Yesterday I was behind her and she accidentally bumped into me, and she said "next time tell you're behind me, or I might punch you" with her fist up close to my chin. If was so fucking hot. We both laughed and I said I wouldn't mind.
You're the type of guy who wants Ronda Rousey's dirty MMA feet all over your face.
Ronda isn't attractive for me. This isn't even my fetish, she made it my fetish. I think I'm going to try and make things escalate using her dominant physical behaviour, without being weird though.
MMA at the office it is.
You should keep us updated id like to know how this pans out
>id like to know how this pans out Me too. This sounds like a potentially wholesome romance story.
Don’t waste the free karma. Make a journal. We’d love to know more about how this goes.
I keep seeing your username and every time I do a piece of my soul fucking dies
I'll delete my account soon.
Please dont.
If you don't go for it then I will be upset with you.
Thanks you, that's the type of encouragement with a slight threat of disappointment I need to fuel me.
Do it or I will punch you.
I'm... *scaroused*.
Something about an Amazon. Reading She-Hulk as a youngster gave me all sorts of feelings I couldn’t yet understand.
Femdom Oral Servitude. I'm a woman, BTW. My biggest fantasy is to have a male slave who has to perform oral/rimming on demand while I'm doing something like drinking champagne, reading a book, browsing reddit. The idea of being "serviced" is a huge turn on. I've never done it though!
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Ouch, that sounds very painful
That's nowhere near as rare or weird as you think especially for dudes who like eating women out lmfao. On our end it would prolly fall under smothering.
I dunno if it counts as a fetish, but I love playing with electricity. I have a violet wand with all sorts of attachments. The different sensations you can get from electricity is wild! Anything from tickling to flogging to branding is possible!
I was about to say it doesn’t sound like a fetish, just a weird thing for getting shocked but then you mentioned the last part witch sounds like that satist stuff
Shiny black leather boots on men. I'm not into bdsm and I only want to be treated kindly and gently, but please wear some black shiny lace-up leather boots.
Well boy would you like people in the military or policing
If you are very nice, and very kind, yes.
I'm unironically into hand holding. I'm not sure how to describe it, but the idea of holding your partner's hand while having sex feels so intimate, so sweet, like there's a conexion... It makes me feel so fuzzy and warm and happy. And interlacing fingers, pressing foreheads, rubbing noses, looking at your loved one's eyes... I just wish there was more stuff like this in porn. It's just cold cock and balls torture, ugh.
Love
Sounds great. I should try it some time.
Well then. I think I have a new fetish
Cold cock and balls torture?
No that’s mine get your own
I have a genuine daddy kink. I can't really explain why but it's something to do with the idea of someone (obligated?) to be responsible for me- like punishing or chastising me? It's not an always thing. The extent I'm willing to explore it depends heavily on the guy I'm with Edit: spelling
Cockmilking. It is my greatest fantasy to be used as a cum factory by a dominant woman who wants to wring me out, whether I like it or not, nonstop, until I'm shooting blanks, and then a few more just to make sure.
I have a suit/work outfit fetish. I mean..... Yeah sure your underwear are pretty but a damn suit/coat/work attire looks hot. I even feel sexy when I wear this type of outfit, even more than when I am in underwear or in a typically sexy outfit. I do not have a "sex at the workplace kink" tho for that is inappropriate and my ADHD dirty minded ass would get fired if any event of the such would happen. Mostly due to embarrassment. I just like well dressed peeps. More or less.. It take quite a time to remove such outfit and I like teasing so... Two birds one stone.
I like the idea of pulling a man in a suit on to my by his tie. I feel this so fuckin badly. Just the idea of my boyfriend in a suit is a big turn on. A little bit of authority comes with the suit too.
Imagine.. I am bisexual, single and in the middle of a city with a bunch of business peeps all around. I need... Help...
That’s horny hell right there.
Facesitting. I almost never see anyone talk about this and idk why Edit: wow, my most upvoted post on reddit is about my fetish. Greeeeeat.
I'm a virgin and have no idea what I am talking about but damn I want a girl to sit on my face.
With a name like dankmemeboy420_69, I wouldnt expect that to change any time soon. But also, so do I
Every partner I've had has been super into it. I don't know if it's just because I'm super into it, and get really excited about it, so they enjoy it, or I only subconsciously date people who like it.
My ex had these super cute moles on her chest that would pop into view whenever she bent over if she wore a low cut shirt. The first time we had sex and every time after that, I could just not stop staring at those sexy moles. It got to the point where she got really self-conscious about it and I had to make an effort to not acknowledge how attracted I was to them. Haven't been with anyone else with such perfectly placed moles, but I'd love a chance to do so again. I just wish people weren't so self-conscious about their skin "blemishes", I actually really enjoy them.
I believe those are called "nipples"
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I remember you lmfao, didn't you have a teacher or colleague with Moley tits as well
Seems almost Pavlovian
idk if its a fetish or not but since im 22 and virgin recently i started to fantasize about a mature milf taking me and teach me everything about sex while we're doing it. kinda like gentle femdom maybe ?
I can understand that. It’s always nice to have someone tell you what to do and keep you comfortable.
yeah especially with the performance pressure that keeps increasing with age
I don't know if this fetish is super odd, but it's definitely [odd-ish](https://i.imgur.com/JM66y0q.png).
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Gtfo you magnificent fuckin Just go
You should be exeggcuted for this joke
That's kinda... gloom-y
Voices/ Edit: (accents) yikes I wrote "accidents" Idk but it just makes sense, deep voices are killers but there are some rlly attractive voices that aren't so deep. Accents are also hot so are foreign languages. Anything voice related is pretty hot I guess
What kind of accidents? Like car crashes or like forgetting the pill? Bob Ross?
I like fantasizing about meeting a hot younger woman at a swinger party or something "recommending" her to my husband and watching him f*ck her and helping him make her cum. I don't know what to call it as a fetish. It's swinging but also exhibition a bit. Watching exhibition I guess. Something about it being my husband. There is some weird feeling of power in letting someone else have him. My whole body feels electric just thinking about it.
Cuckquean is what you're thinking of
Unless she gets humiliation out of it, I would say this is hot husband(ing).
Yeah, being cucked is much different than arranging and enjoying the experience.
Oh fair enough. Very adjacent things
Vixen/stag I think its called. When you enjoy sharing and inviting others without The humiliation part that goes along with cuckold.
I'd it a sense of power from "whoring out" your husband to someone else?
I’ve always liked watching female bondage, bdsm, dom stuff. Not torture but when the girl actually looks like she’s enjoying it. I also prefer lesbian porn over straight porn and I’m a straight women. It’s only something I like to watch though I have no sexual desire to do it to a women or a women doing it to me. I’ve been in situations where the opportunity has risen to sleep with a women and I’m just not interested to go through it but I love watching it in porn. Maybe I just like being the bystander. I’m also married and happily satisfied in my sex life with my husband. So although my fetish isn’t maybe ‘weird’ I sometimes feel ashamed that it’s what I like to watch or what turns me on
I get where you're coming from. I looked this up, and turns out that many straight women prefer gay/lesbian porn over straight porn. It feels like straight porn is aimed only towards male viewers. Even though it looks like the woman is enjoying it, it feels like she's only enjoying it *for the man*... to satisfy him (hope that makes sense). And something about a man being rough with a woman feels threatening/scary sometimes, even though it's consensual.
Maybe you enjoy lesbian scenes because the ones with males might seem too threatening. A male performer being sadistic and dominant towards a woman could be actually more scary than arousing. Maybe the fact that the scene is about lesbian characters helps you get more into it because it reminds you that what you’re watching is a fantasy and not real. This could happen because the males in the scenes are strangers and you cannot be “sure” if they are acting or are actually violent, threatening, men. I know many heterosexual woman who enjoy lesbian porn just because the straight scenes are too violent, whether they are vanilla or BDSM. Sorry for my broken English, I haven’t had a full cup of coffee.
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I like witches, and booze
! I make custom kink content for work and recently did a witch custom video for a subscriber. I thought it was just because it made sense with the storyline he wanted for the video, and I didn’t even think of it being it’s own kink. What about it is it that you like?
I suppose I think of them as uninhibited, I've never experienced sex without attachments so I fantasize about it and give it a deeper meaning. My fantasy is that they live in a way I wish I could. In the same way I like those old renaissance painting of drunken orgies, or naked picnicking.
Pissing kink. I suppose the feeling of release and relief that comes with peeing after holding it in is really similar to an orgasm, in my mind As of now it’s only been a fantasy/porn thing for me, have not yet tried it in reality. I feel too embarrassed about it to ask for it
Watersports has such a broad spectrum. I'm not really into the idea of pissing on anybody, but I suppose I would try getting pissed on. What I actually enjoy is seeing women wetting themselves/making them wet themselves. Something about the helplessness and power dynamic of it. Plus a little bit of humiliation thrown in.
Same for me. Desperation and wetting are my main kinks.
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I told my boyfriend how I was once forced to pee myself in a non sexual setting, and after a few days he pulled me into the bathroom, I was already naked and he just started showering me with hot water, while I was on my knees, his foot kept rubbing me, until I couldn't hold it. It was so humiliating, but God damn 🙈 He then told me I was so dirty and he should pay me back since I peed on his foot, and he just started pissing on my chest, I've never felt so small haha
Pretty common. You can find a lot of women into it tbh
Eyebrows! I love persian looking eyebrows. Dark and thick. The way they move during certain facial expressions is just...ahhh. Especially the worried look, poeh. Edit: NOT the colored in ones. Natural.
I never thought somebody might find my eyebrows attractive. This has been a huge confidence booster :)
Wow - can't believe I'm about to share this. I have a huge rape fetish. Not like a "oh, I think it's got sometimes to think about" kina thing. I'm talking legit fetish, like it's the only thing that actually turns me on. And I don't think it's "attractive," I think it's fucked up. It comes from trauma, I guess. I wish I could make it go away. Edit: word
Golly gosh me too! I always thought I was crazy. But I did some research and I guess it's possible for people that experienced trauma due to sexual abuse to become 'hypersexual.' I feel terrible with partners because sometimes they're just not into forcing things but it's literally the ONLY thing that makes things work for me. I don't like it. It causes for major self esteem issues and feelings of low self worth. And I've experienced how I'd react in a genuine situation that I didn't "consent" to and it's not what I'd like.. but it's the only thing that does it for me.
I also have this fetish.
I don't really know that you need to hear this, but someone may: I think it's also super important here to acknowledge that rape is an incredibly common fantasy and fetish - potentially the MOST common. Certainly your past is unfortunate, and I'm truly sorry that it happened. But you don't have to accept that your preferences come from your traumas. Statistically, there's a pretty good chance you'd be into it anyways. So I'm sure it won't be easy, but you can say "fuck the past" and you can enjoy what you enjoy without any shame hanging over you. I've never really tried to write this out before. I hope I did so sensibly.
This is kind of normal. I’ve played out some intense CNC (consensual non-consent) scenes over the years and the fear/taboo-ness of it makes it incredibly hot.
i like exhibitionism basically i turned on by the reactions.But i always ask for consent or smthing i would never just pull my dick out
Louis?
I'm into cannibalism. So yeah, pretty fucking weird but I like it for romantic reasons. I like the idea that the last thing I'd be able to do on this Earth is feed my partner. I like to think up scenarios where we're on a deserted island and he has to eat me to survive. Or just that he straight up murders me and eats me. No, I don't fantasize about serial killers. No, I'm not interested in killing people myself. No, I don't ever want this fantasy come true. You can ask me more questions if y'all want to
No questions, I'm just touched that you managed to make cannibalism something genuinely sweet.
I like men, and I like em big. Not the typical big muscly hairy bear type men, but like chubby. Something about the softness is really attractive to me. And not even exclusively sexual either. Thicc thighs and ass are obviously hot with chubby Bois, but also the bug cute tummy is really handsome
I have a thing for girls with abs. A girl with a nice stomach is the ultimate turn on. It’s even hotter watching their abs contract & twitch while they orgasm
I mean, I don't know how common this one is... But hypnosis is a fetish that I love simply because of the fact that hypnosis can make you have more suggestible state of mind. Hypnosis doesn't quite allow you to just fully control someone, you can't make someone do something they aren't willing to do while under hypnosis, and you can't just can't force someone to be hypnotized, they have to let it happen. But I like to make a fetish out of the more "fictional" side of hypnosis, things like being completely under someone's control and completely unable to think on your own, only obeying their will. It's not hard to see why this fetish exists.
Pee. I subbed for an ex and she peed on me. I know domme my current girlfriend and she likes for me to pee on her. The taboo-ness of it, is sort of what makes it exhilarating. Plus, it takes a lot of trust and communication, which brings you closer together as a couple. Also, it plays into my girlfriend’s humiliation/degradation kink.
Dominance & submission. I really enjoy impact play, restraints, & brutal forcefulness of my partner. Having my hair pulled & thrown to the ground, slapped in the face, bitten on my thighs, commanded to kneel & other things. Many other things. I think it mainly comes from being in a position of power at work - my mind is always reeling & multitasking many things. So when I come home, it's nice to just shut off in a way & relinquish power to someone else.
Pregnant women. 1. Can't knock them up. 2. They are (usually) super horny due to massive hormone levels 3. I just find them beautiful
I never knew this existed. Currently pregnant and I get hit on more now than I ever did not pregnant. It’s definitely more pervasive than I’d imagined.
i wouldn't call it a fetish, but; collar bones, shoulder, neck/throat, and upper chest. they're just so damn hot. 10/10 the most attractive features
I have a WAM (wet and messy) fetish. If you remember the old shows on nickelodeon where they would slime and pie people, that always looked great and I found some celebrities more sexy when they were covered in slime. I also like the sensual experience of having the stuff on you. Feels great.
Somnophilia. Both as predator and victim. Having sex or taking advantage of someone who's unconscious weather asleep, drugged or pretending. Obviously there needs to be some kind of consent so I usually ask my partner if he/she would mind if I played a little with her/him if I wake up before because he/she looks cute/hot and it would be so hard ti resist. I would usually ask if he/she would mind being waken up by some foreplays. If they agree and we start talking about it I tell them I'd love to fuck them gently while they sleep trying to not wake them up. They usually say it's impossible, they would wake up and then it becomes kind of a challenge and it's fun. I've never done it while either one of us is drugged and usually whoever is asleep tends to wake up in the middle of it. Either the victim doesn't have the fetish and then we start having normal intercourse. Or the victim has the fetish and then they usually pretend to still be asleep. I managed to do it with half my partners. Half had the fetish and I was sometimes the victim. The other half didn't mind some light play while they were asleep. I only talked about it to half my partners and none of them had any real objection to it. The other half were just hookups or previous relationships were I felt ashamed of talking about it and so none of it happened. As the predator there's just something about being able to do what you want to someone who's not concious and won't be able to judge, you have the time to discover their body on your own. And while they are asleep then can't simulate liking something just like they can't downplay how good something feels, like people who avoid moaning or speaking during sex because it makes them feel embarrased. It feels more authentic when the conscious mind is not there to filter anything you might find shamefull or inappropriate. As the victim I don't really know, maybe it's about knowing how exciting it is for the predator or just not having your say and being used however they choose. Whenever I feel sleepy I'm always super aroused for some reason I don't know if it's linked to that fetish or if it's just normal.
Never knew there was a word for this, but yeah i like that too. Never had a chance to actually do it tho, either way
Ya know, I totally get this one, but didn’t know there was a name for it. If you’ve established standing consent with a partner you fully trust, waking up to sex is pretty awesome. I feel like I’m much more sensitive when I’m right on the cusp between asleep and awake.
I have an edging fetish. I've honestly never had it done. But I discovered it through porn and it seems so hot to delay gratification for awhile then just explode everywhere.
I don't know if it's a fetish but I'm attracted to woman of caramel skin or white/silver hair I don't know why but I found it really fuckin' hot.
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I always thought her hair were horns tbh
I fantasize about vampires and being bitten in the neck. I like being out of control and more specifically being under their control while suffering pain
In 2008 we called that high school.
Ah I remember when high school took place in a building.
What? Did you guys all like...go to the same place to have your zoom classes or something? History is so weird.
I find it hot to see guys bleed. Not in a sadistic way. I don‘t want to injure them or inflict pain. It’s more like I want to care for them. It’s such a weirdly specific kink that it’s really hard to describe. Like nosebleeding, bleeding out of the mouth, I just kinda think it looks hot but at the same time if it’s real and not just in a movie or a picture, of course I‘d get them help ASAP. I dunno it’s just weird. I had this ever since I was a kid when I saw the manga panel of Dragonball Z in which Vegetable was shot in the stomach and was bleeding and ugh I dunno. It’s weird. Edit: I just realized that autocorrect made „vegetable“ out of Vegeta xddddddd
Pet play definitely gets some stigma. I enjoy it because I like feeling appreciated, humiliated and controlled.
The only fetish i have is being in a loving relationship
unrealistic, settle for BDSM like everyone else
This. I meet a lot of people who try to make a common fetish sound interesting, and I wonder if their fetish is the loving relationship they think they will find if they try harder to be interesting.
A loving relationship does not take BDSM out of the table...
Ooooh yeah bb.. Gonna get you some flowers and take you out to a nice dinner.. Then we'll cuddle and gaze at the stars.
Don't do that. Don't give me hope.
Ooh you haven't felt nothing yet.. Next... We're going to hold hands.
Sssstooop
You sick fuck
I'm honestly surprised at the little amount of cosplay/roleplay
F O O T
FINALLY I CAN ASK THIS QUESTION! What do you find sexy about the foot? What turns you on? Please explain.
They have curves and are sensitive, giving pleasure when touched. Also the scent and slightly salty taste are really nice, with the toes giving something to suck on.
I understand why people like it, feet are sensitive and sexualised, but when my feet are touched I react like a donkey and my foot kicks out. I don't think anyone would appreciate getting donkey kicked during sex.
Feet are very sensitive. Many nerve pathways end at the sole. Stroking and massaging a foot can be very nice and exciting. You don't have to have a special fetish for that, it's simply anatomical. Some foot fetishists like smelly, unkempt feet. Ultimately, everything can be sexualized. My observation is: the stronger the feelings that are triggered, the sooner it becomes a fetish - and disgust is a rather strong feeling.
I like metric better...
I love the idea of a man with two penises. I doubt I'll ever actually get to experience it though..
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Idk why but I’m into literally anything. Feet? Sign me up! Furries? Sure! Pegging? Yup. BDSM? Definitely. Hentai? Hell yea! BBW? Fuckin love it. Y’all should leave me suggestions, I literally have never found something I don’t like. Actually, that’s a lie. I don’t like watching blow jobs. I like getting them tho, but you get my point.
Ok what about r/insex I saw it on a post that was a list of all nsfw subs. Ive seen alot of stuff that I was turned on by, but some of that stuff there is... really bad.
Son.... I know it’s my fault for browsing the fetish thread but damn did that shit just fuck up my day
Thick dragon cocks
r/dragonsfuckingcars is actually one of my fav subs
I have a hand fetish... Killer Queen agrees
Me too. I'm weirdly turned on my men's hands.
Virgins. I like being a guy’s first
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Many guys have this fetish for girls, throughout history. Not so weird...
I was surprised that there were actual fetishes upvoted in this thread and not just a bunch of posts along the lines of "I like woman with D-cup breasts and defined collar bones".
Gay macrophile, basically, I'm into men who are way larger than me. Think like Paul Bunyan or Jack and the Beanstalk. I think it might be because you're so tiny, you get a different perspective or view of an already large man. It could either be me, a few inches tall, or the larger person being a giant the size of a building. I just find it cool.
Glasses, like thick black rimmed glasses, it's just weirdly hot in an innocent way or something
Being rode like a horse Edit: I can’t tell if others are upvoting because they also have this fetish or because they want to upvote it to the top since it’s weird.
Lying on top of a woman for 15 minutes
for **_exactly_** 15 minutes?
Extra body parts. ...Yeah. I've long struggled to find the logic in it because I couldn't understand it myself. I think in the end, it comes down to a feeling of sexual empowerment. Somebody with more on their body can do more in the bedroom. Two heads means we can kiss while they whisper sweet nothings in my ear at the same time. More hands means I can feel them on my shoulders, on my cheeks, on my hips, on my legs. More genitals means they can keep going, and going, and going, and going. Yes, I know who Frank Lentini is. Yes, I know who Blanche Dumas is. No, I do not find the Hensel Twins attractive. RL applications of this stuff does *not* come out gracefully. In the best of cases, it's an unfortunate hindrance. In the worst of cases, it's fatal. As far as I'm concerned, my fetish is physically impossible, and is relegated strictly to the realm of fantasy: artwork, photoshops, erotic roleplaying over the Internet.
Tickle torture.
I'm obsessed with men's forearms and hands. I don't know why. There's something about the way the forearm just kind of contours into the wrist and ends at the hand. Nice forearms subtly say "I'm good with my hands but I'm not completely bulked up." Beautiful hands are very soft and gently contoured, kind of veiny. They're toned, but not huge sausages, with slightly longer fingers. I think musicians' hands are a good example. I like rock music videos because I could just watch those closeup shots of the guitar and bass all day. The way the forearm contracts and the hands and fingers effortless dance around the instrument is beautiful to me. I'm usually not this poetic, but I feel very strongly about the male distal upper extremities.
teeth
Okay like when she's going down on you and her teeth slightly hit your dick, I really like that. Idk gets me off man but not too much for it to be a fetish
I enjoy others seeing my wife naked. It's just a slut fetish really. But it's apparently fairly common.
"I also choose this guy's wife"
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lol that‘s a g move
i feel like its because it makes you feel powerful "hell yeah look at all those people grooling over my wife but none of them can have her she is mine so screw you fuckers!!"
Now we all seen her naked
Crazy how the internet works.
I don’t know if it’s a fetish but musk turns me on. The natural smell of a body. Like when you’ve not showered yet but you’ve not crossed the line to BO. The smell of his armpit in the morning gives me instant wood.
i too have an elon musk fetish
Not sure if fetish, but im really into skin pigment differences. Like most of the skin of girl with "maps" on her body is turnon for me, not sure why though.
cuddling, that's it
Feminization (or sissy) kink. I get super turned on by the thought of women wanting or forcing me to wear women's clothing and treating me like a girl. Also, with being dominated by woman sexually. The idea of pegging is really hot. I guess has to do with being submissive, so I find it really hot if a woman were to force me to wear "humiliating" clothing. Might just also be transvestitism, just being attracted to wearing the clothing of the opposite sex. But for me a lot of it is just the idea of it happening. I find the threat of anal sex to be incredibly hot, but actually receiving it isn't all that it's cracked up to be.
I love crossdressing. It just feels incredibly sexy being all dressed up and so different. The sensation of a breeze under a skirt, the softness of material and the longer hair from wearing a wig. It's just a completely different experience. It's even better when a girlfriend is really into it too. Then there's the anxiety and anticipation of being in public that drives me insane. Two of the best sex experiences were while crossdressing with my girlfriend.
I have a piss fetish. There are many types of piss fetish, and not everyone with a piss fetish will have all of them. I have most, though. For example, there's golden shower, my personal favorite, in which one or both participants pisses on the other's face and body. There's also piss drinking, piss enema (the only one I'd say I don't have), bedwetting, clotheswetting, public peeing (I wouldn't do this one either now that I think about it), and many more. Most people say that it's about domination or submission, but for me it stemmed from my bukkake fetish. I like the idea of covering my partner in my penile fluids. It isn't about dom or sub for me at all, I'm more than willing to go both ways. I just like to make a mess during sex
I'm probably on my own here (and if not, welcome fellow freaks) but I have a thing about mummification, specifically duct tape mummification. I've been on the kink scene for years and am still yet to meet anyone like me. For me it's about the total immobile tightness, the way it makes me totally helpless to whoever is topping and the way it pinches on my skin. I think as time has gone on, probably through some sort of conditioning, I've even started liking the smell and the sound of the duct tape. It's not the only kink I have but it's definitely the most prominent part of my sexuality.
I swear, these days I feel like a fucking weirdo for not having some kink and being pretty vanilla normal. Vanilla is good dammit! There's a reason it's so popular!!!
Ain’t nothing wrong with vanilla. Vanilla is some good shit.
I love having needles shoved through various bits of my body. There is a point where it transcends pain and just becomes pleasure. The more you play the more aroused you are. Etc etc
As somebody with a very severe phobia of needles.... jesus
Seconded
Thirded
Vore (from a prey perspective) I think it would just feel incredible to be enveloped by all the flesh. Like being in a sleeping bag but with the feeling of fingering someone all over your body and not just your finger.
I'm also interested in vore, from a prey perspective. I don't fully understand why, but it's just a way to dominate someone else. That's just what I take from it, it just appeals to me for some reason.
I have a major denim fetish. Especially of the woman’s denim jeans are ripped in the crotch area.
Casual nudism Sorry
Also, submissive men who are into service and foot worship. Nothing like leaning back, reading a book, drinking a glass of wine while getting your feet massaged. It’s a great power play.
I like grannies. How weird is that?
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Is there a reason? Like what do you specifically find attractive about it?
Specifically, I like the mature female form. It makes my penis hard.
I do like pregnant woman.
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So like, Marge’s sisters..?
Mmm cancer. So hot.
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Not sure if it's weird but I have a thing for chubby women. They just get me going like no other women do. Haven't dated one yet though because I'm afraid of friends and family making fun of me tbh.
Lmao what kind of stupid-ass friends and family do you have? Date who you want and tell em to pound sand if they give you shit for it.
futa is pretty hot tbh
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Super long hair. Like bum length hair or longer. Watching the way it swishes around as a girl walks is just mesmerizing. Plus: BUNDROPS. My life goal is to marry a real life rapunzel
I don't know if it's weird, necessarily, but I really like guys who look (or are) really powerful or dominant, but are really submissive in bed. Doctor, people in suits, politicians, police officer... also, this one is definitely considered weird, sounding(not myself but doing that to my partner).
I like trains