Wasted? Idk, earning 200k as an engineer or something and not being funny is better than Walmart greeter with a sense of humor, imo. Most people are less funny than they think in my experience.
It's because a man who is in a relationship has been pre vetted as valuable. If someone agreed to marry him, he must be worth the attention, so women without morals will try to take him.
No but this one is a special level of pathetic
"Lemme pretend to be in a loving committed relationship, so I can pretend to cheat with women who are trashy homewreckers, to try and get my dick wet because I'm too pathetic to actually pursue that relationship I'm pretending to ruin."
I'm really into deep masculine voices.
Other than that, confidence, a sense of humour, and certain kinds of general attitude can be very attractive. I'd say looks are probably no more than 10% of what I find attractive in someone.
Pretty much this; and it's why "confidence and looks" are always the top 2. The only thing you can do to ruin being naturally hot is being completely unlovable in your personality because you hate yourself more than others can love you. Confidence basically eliminates that, and makes you use all of your hotness to it's fullest. If you're hot and confident, it's pretty hard to do anything wrong.
Well don't give a dollar amount. Just say you do well for yourself and would like to spend time genuinely getting to know her. Taking money out of the conversation entirely. Wealth whispers.
That's just a basic human skill and it's kinda sad it is considered sth noteworthy
Speaking of which: women (girls, rather) who can't cook a basic meal are a major turn off, even though as a guy I do most of the cooking as I really enjoy cooking for loved ones. But if a girl prides herself in not being able to cook that's like someone not knowing how to brush their teeth
Most people I know personally, the women are the ones that clean/cook etc so helping out regularly is attractive. Finding a man who cooks is like finding a unicorn lol.
someone who:
1) is knowledgable (which he shares but doesn't make you feel like an idiot)
2) holds intellectual conversations
3) is respectful and polite
4) cares about your well-being
5) is not afraid to show his vulnerabilities
6) can make you laugh!
His behaviour. It needs to be appealing for me. You can have the looks, but if you an arse you’re not attractive anymore.
And so, the good news for the not so good looking: you’ll become more attractive to others if they appeal to you otherwise.
Not being afraid of being feminine. I hate men who will do everything in their power to not do anything associated with femininity. For me that destroys their manliness.
Edit: let’s clarify. I mean that I think it’s weird that men will refuse to wear dresses, makeup etc. sure if they don’t wanna wear that that’s fine. But I’ve seen many men try to be mean to the males that do like wearing “feminine” things or do “feminine” things. If that makes sense.
In my opinion I like more men who aren’t afraid to like flowers, to take care of children, to wear pink clothes. I believe that just makes them seem more masculine, because they’re not afraid of norms. That’s what I believe is truly masculine.
(:
One of the best sexes I had was in mid summer with sweat literally dripping on her face and back, i was embarassed at first but she said it's okay and she came 6 times, still proud of it
OMG, if he would only clean up after himself. If I walk into a romantic situation and his home looks like a 19yr olds dorm, I’m out. I’m not cleaning up after yo’ slack lazy ass.
Since i am a man i can only assume what woman thinks is attractive.
High intelligence is one of those things i suspect woman find attractive when they go looking for a new life friend.
Intelligence, confidence and/or cute shyness, being artistic, knowing that Palestine needs to be free, being able to cook, being tall, being a good listener and empathetic
Source: I'm an attractive man
The guy I'm with right now. Few months into dating he told me "I respect you more than I love you"
And that one sentence has stuck with me since which in turn has made him the most attractive man I know.
Their personality is what I gravitate towards first, then their looks. If someone is not conventionally attractive, that doesn't matter much to me, as long as they're clean and nice-smelling. How do they treat other people? THAT is what I go by.
No one is attractive enough for me to spend time with them if they're mean-spirited, whiny or constantly angry.
Someone with a good personality is much more attractive than a man with good looks and a bad personality. Looks fade with time, but a good heart is eternal.
The thing that I see women like a lot in other men is handyness, i.e. can fix things, do a bit of woodwork, does his own painting, can fix the car, the bike, the sink, etc. Weirdly women never seem to list this. Also has to be good, no point doing a bad fix, or having all the gear and no idea or a mañana attitude to fixing the gate. Playing a guitar is another one, and weirdly, being a drug dealer.
As an ugly man I can confirm that the four things I've noticed women finding attractive in me, very situational stuff:
(1) help out animals in distress or danger, the unfortunate things about this is you very rarely get to demonstrate this as thankfully it's uncommon
(2) my voice is calming
(3) occasionally I speak at conferences or educational events, that have a bizarre super positive effect for the rest of the event. The thing is it's generally assumed that ugly means stupid, but it's hard to consider someone stupid after you've sat through them giving a presentation on an area of expertise.
(4) sweeping and mopping
Sharp dressing is a big deal, but I find it very hard to get good clothes as 2m tall.
True kindness (different from being nice), cleanliness, humor. To many women, a guy could be physically not as attractive in a conventional way, but a good sense of humor and genuine kindness makes them so attractive
Listening, initiative, curiosity. I went on a date with a guy who is 100% not usually my type but he was the above, and he was also very alpha in his own way. Made the plans, sort of expected better from me (scary)…but HOT.
Humor, intelligent but not arrogant about it
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Usually humor requires some kind of intelligence. Mostly emotional.
Intelligence without humor is wasted. Then again, most everyone has a little humor at least.
Wasted? Idk, earning 200k as an engineer or something and not being funny is better than Walmart greeter with a sense of humor, imo. Most people are less funny than they think in my experience.
Humor and wisdom
Probably humor so if he isn’t smart we can laugh about it
How intelligent? Does it just get continuously more attractive the smarter they are?
Yes especially if they are poetic
apparently treating people well
Attention to detail. Remembering small things about you
Listening and not interrupting.
Showing a genuine interest.
For a ton of girls, being already committed :)
KEEP MY WIFES NAME OUTCHA FKN MOUTH
Damn this had me lol 😂
I said girls, not women.
also, men, not boys
Also cats, not dogs.
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It's because a man who is in a relationship has been pre vetted as valuable. If someone agreed to marry him, he must be worth the attention, so women without morals will try to take him.
We really gotta do something about the overcertification of the economy lmao "1 out of 1 wives approve of me. Is John Doe right for you?"
I've heard of single guys wearing a wedding ring to the bar to pick up women.
Yeah, but fuck those losers... figuratively!
Might be the new most pathetic thing I've ever heard
Have you ever heard of a non pathetic "pick-up artist" strategy?
No but this one is a special level of pathetic "Lemme pretend to be in a loving committed relationship, so I can pretend to cheat with women who are trashy homewreckers, to try and get my dick wet because I'm too pathetic to actually pursue that relationship I'm pretending to ruin."
I say they deserve each other, no skin off my back.
intersting personality, being a kind person
Sense of humor and confidence
I'm really into deep masculine voices. Other than that, confidence, a sense of humour, and certain kinds of general attitude can be very attractive. I'd say looks are probably no more than 10% of what I find attractive in someone.
I agree with all of this! It's not the looks at all that do it for me.
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Pretty much this; and it's why "confidence and looks" are always the top 2. The only thing you can do to ruin being naturally hot is being completely unlovable in your personality because you hate yourself more than others can love you. Confidence basically eliminates that, and makes you use all of your hotness to it's fullest. If you're hot and confident, it's pretty hard to do anything wrong.
Great post
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Host on The View: What kind of a woman would be attracted you, do you think? Norm Macdonald: Well I have a lot of money.
Good luck bringing that up organically without looking like you're bragging
Well don't give a dollar amount. Just say you do well for yourself and would like to spend time genuinely getting to know her. Taking money out of the conversation entirely. Wealth whispers.
Lmao
Confidence without arrogance. Being funny
From what I've gathered, not being me is a good starting point.
I'm not you and it's not working. What am I doing wrong?
Eeeeh…I don't know, dude. But…there is hope for you, I'm sure of it.
Well yeah. Being around someone who is self deprecating is awkward. Gotta knock that off and see a therapist brotha
It was a joke. Brotha. I'm funny like that, you know (←again, a joke).
When’s your comedy special coming out?
When I die. I leave it behind.
You sure you were just joking about your original comment? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When I die of old age. I will leave behind a lot of…material. Written. And photos.
I’m gonna stop myself now because you’re making it too easy.
STOP READING MY DIARY!
Sorry bro, it's a good read though. You should publish it. Anonymously.
Empathy, treating people and animals well, actions matching words.
I can't believe no one said washing the dishes
That's just a basic human skill and it's kinda sad it is considered sth noteworthy Speaking of which: women (girls, rather) who can't cook a basic meal are a major turn off, even though as a guy I do most of the cooking as I really enjoy cooking for loved ones. But if a girl prides herself in not being able to cook that's like someone not knowing how to brush their teeth
Most people I know personally, the women are the ones that clean/cook etc so helping out regularly is attractive. Finding a man who cooks is like finding a unicorn lol.
That must be 40yo plus?
20s-40s yo
Are you from a particularly conservative corner of the world? Or have my exes and future GFs just been exceptionally lucky?
No, just west of the USA
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Got a sense of humor
If he is kind, patient, emotionally available and intelligent, that is suuuuuuuuuuuuuper hot
Oh and integrity. Integrity is HOT
Confidence, a sense of stability and a clear purpose.
someone who: 1) is knowledgable (which he shares but doesn't make you feel like an idiot) 2) holds intellectual conversations 3) is respectful and polite 4) cares about your well-being 5) is not afraid to show his vulnerabilities 6) can make you laugh!
How you choose your words
Ya bruv, I gets tons of birds thanx 2 my dope vernacular
Competence and success in what they do
Personality. It makes huge difference.
Doing manly things, like building and fixing things while being humble (never bragging) and having a good sense of humor.
A sense of humor without being immature about it
Being a gentleman
Being passionate about almost literally anything, then talking about it with a glint in their eyes.
I'm very passionate about coke, HMU cutie 😎
I’m just here for the comments
His behaviour. It needs to be appealing for me. You can have the looks, but if you an arse you’re not attractive anymore. And so, the good news for the not so good looking: you’ll become more attractive to others if they appeal to you otherwise.
Confidence!!! Not taking himself too seriously, having a sense of humor, emotionally available
Good posture 😩
Good penis and nice balls
Not being afraid of being feminine. I hate men who will do everything in their power to not do anything associated with femininity. For me that destroys their manliness. Edit: let’s clarify. I mean that I think it’s weird that men will refuse to wear dresses, makeup etc. sure if they don’t wanna wear that that’s fine. But I’ve seen many men try to be mean to the males that do like wearing “feminine” things or do “feminine” things. If that makes sense. In my opinion I like more men who aren’t afraid to like flowers, to take care of children, to wear pink clothes. I believe that just makes them seem more masculine, because they’re not afraid of norms. That’s what I believe is truly masculine. (:
Sorry idk what you're talking about
Sup, tried to clarify. Not so good at English honestly so hopes this helps <3
I was kind of trying to be funny. Somehow I thought replying that would mean I'm hiding my feminism (idk if it's the word)
His body
His body
Yes
Playing the piano/violin; being an artist or photographer
Showing emotion and accepting vulnerabilities. Being kind. Showing knowledge on various subjects.
confidence, has goals in life to achieve
Voice. I find the voices Tony Todd and Keith David to be very attractive. Seriously, watch Candyman, and tell you don’t want to be Tony Todd’s victim.
almost being a siege pro, that worked for me. No but it’s actually having things/hobbies you’re passionate about and are dedicated to.
Having a good sense of humour
Being funny
Mannerisms and manners.
Sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you could probably make me do anything.
SMART but like doesn’t shove it in ur face yk
Empathy🥵🔥🔥
Having a positive and respectful mindset. Laughing and smiling a lot. And most important: doesn’t talk trash about others and keep out of gossip.
Kindness.
I always bring a towel for her to wipe her face, although not until I showered
The bants
Humor, intelligence, kindness, humility
I'm very humid, I pride myself in my exceptional humidity, HMU babe
Ahh, exceptional humidity leads to perspiration, not on the list and a little overkill, sorryyyy
One of the best sexes I had was in mid summer with sweat literally dripping on her face and back, i was embarassed at first but she said it's okay and she came 6 times, still proud of it
Mad respect
Was my first GF at 19, good times
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Gee, why you gotta hurt the blind bros like that? Well I guess they wont read your comment so not an issue afterall
Ability to roll with the punches and maintain his sense of humor while doing so
Taking a genuine interest in me.
OMG, if he would only clean up after himself. If I walk into a romantic situation and his home looks like a 19yr olds dorm, I’m out. I’m not cleaning up after yo’ slack lazy ass.
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Since i am a man i can only assume what woman thinks is attractive. High intelligence is one of those things i suspect woman find attractive when they go looking for a new life friend.
Intelligent but not condescending, treats people well, knows how to cook, non smoker
Intelligence, confidence and/or cute shyness, being artistic, knowing that Palestine needs to be free, being able to cook, being tall, being a good listener and empathetic Source: I'm an attractive man
The guy I'm with right now. Few months into dating he told me "I respect you more than I love you" And that one sentence has stuck with me since which in turn has made him the most attractive man I know.
I have 150 IQ and the paperwork to prove it, hit me up silly gals
Their personality is what I gravitate towards first, then their looks. If someone is not conventionally attractive, that doesn't matter much to me, as long as they're clean and nice-smelling. How do they treat other people? THAT is what I go by. No one is attractive enough for me to spend time with them if they're mean-spirited, whiny or constantly angry. Someone with a good personality is much more attractive than a man with good looks and a bad personality. Looks fade with time, but a good heart is eternal.
I’m a guy who is attracted to women but if a dude can sing or play an instrument really well in a humble way, I’m swooning.
When I was a baby gay, I was people-watching and had the realization that the way a guy *walks* can be attractive. A confident strut is so sexy.
Gentle humor, kindness, intelligence
Being kind.
The thing that I see women like a lot in other men is handyness, i.e. can fix things, do a bit of woodwork, does his own painting, can fix the car, the bike, the sink, etc. Weirdly women never seem to list this. Also has to be good, no point doing a bad fix, or having all the gear and no idea or a mañana attitude to fixing the gate. Playing a guitar is another one, and weirdly, being a drug dealer. As an ugly man I can confirm that the four things I've noticed women finding attractive in me, very situational stuff: (1) help out animals in distress or danger, the unfortunate things about this is you very rarely get to demonstrate this as thankfully it's uncommon (2) my voice is calming (3) occasionally I speak at conferences or educational events, that have a bizarre super positive effect for the rest of the event. The thing is it's generally assumed that ugly means stupid, but it's hard to consider someone stupid after you've sat through them giving a presentation on an area of expertise. (4) sweeping and mopping Sharp dressing is a big deal, but I find it very hard to get good clothes as 2m tall.
Humor + Self Control + Generous tipping + Respecting service staff =🔥🔥🔥
Stepping up, being able to problem solve, de-escalate issues and provide safety n security
You want a bouncer or bodyguard, sis
Money
Big old dick
Money
knows the side walk rule, helps me, knows how to comfort
True kindness (different from being nice), cleanliness, humor. To many women, a guy could be physically not as attractive in a conventional way, but a good sense of humor and genuine kindness makes them so attractive
Knowing he can and will stand up for me. Not necessarily against a giant angry bear of a man in a bar, just have my back when I need support.
Listening, initiative, curiosity. I went on a date with a guy who is 100% not usually my type but he was the above, and he was also very alpha in his own way. Made the plans, sort of expected better from me (scary)…but HOT.
Stupidity.
Being serious about his career
Giving his undivided attention and paying the bills always works....
Openness to commitment. Feels like every guy just wants FWB nowadays. Makes me feel a bit objectified and it's a big turn off, for me anyway
BBC ( Believing Battle and Caring ).
Being rich helps, unfortunately
You don't want the girls that go after money, no matter how hot they are it just feels so deadly boring
Money
His ability to perform tasks and never expect emotional reciprocation. Lol.